posted July 29, 2012 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Yes it is, dear dear person who sort of has no one to talk to about her problems b/c everyone that is around her wants money, or sex, or what have you.

So I thought the best thing I could do for her is to just listen to her problems, offer consolation and support etc, mostly just be there so to speak.

My goodness do we catch static tho, lots of mean looks at etc as it is just assumed a man would not be listening to a woman unless there was a romance involved.

We both laugh at that as they base that on what they see and have no idea she is very lesbian...

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posted July 29, 2012 05:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
It's shredded already Hera, I used one of those heavy duty file shredder deals on it.

I happen to have photoshop on this computer so did some research on it and you could probably do it yourself if you are of a mind.

Sorry to hear about a stalker, WTF is wrong with people today? Just basic manners and common sense seem to have died. When I noticed how seriously you took that (no quoting it, deleting the pic etc) I thought it best to ask and just delete it.

Sign o' the times I'm afraid.

My ex fiance's BDay was 8/31/64 or 65 BTW she was 5 yrs older then I but her Bday came before mine so I'm not 100%.

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Okay, it is forgotten. Most people here delete their pics after posting them, it's kinda scary what some people could do with them. We like to share them with friends but not leave them hanging in here for too long. Though I think they remain in the cache memory, not sure since I'm not so good at this stuff

posted July 29, 2012 05:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Aww, and this why the weirdness has me stumped, I have a hard time even fishing let alone hurting anyone

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posted July 29, 2012 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

Hera
How would you square Moon sq Mars with closeness with the mother?

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Hmm.. well I agree that seems to indicate some problems with the mother.. Moon sq Mars could indicate a fiery type of mother, always active, impatient, perhaps a bit aggressive in some regards, or with a quick and hot temper. The Saturn square has me more puzzled, though.

posted July 29, 2012 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Hmm.. well I agree that seems to indicate some problems with the mother.. Moon sq Mars could indicate a fiery type of mother, always active, impatient, perhaps a bit aggressive in some regards, or with a quick and hot temper. The Saturn square has me more puzzled, though.

Are your parents divorced or was there any domestic violence?

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Divorced and she was very impetuous and restless which ironically enough made me the opposite in terms of responsibilities etc.

posted July 29, 2012 05:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Okay, it is forgotten. Most people here delete their pics after posting them, it's kinda scary what some people could do with them. We like to share them with friends but not leave them hanging in here for too long. Though I think they remain in the cache memory, not sure since I'm not so good at this stuff

No sign of Aries for your fiance for either of those years.

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Suspect if you delete them from the photohosting site then the only way they could still exist is if a webcrawler happened to capture them before they were deleted.

Virgos are great women but not my cup of tea so to speak

posted July 29, 2012 05:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Yeah.. I pinned you as a player until seeing your pics. Weird that I fell in the same trap as the rest of the women you talked about. Ami's psychic powers were spot on though!

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Player..now that is funny..

At college and knew this really sweet young girl who was with a player type, she loaned him a bunch of money, he broke up with her and she happened to run into me and mention it so I asked him about it and his reply was:

"I'm a player, that ***** ain't going to slow me down" ie, chalk that up as a loss.

Cannot stand those dudes ever since then, the fact they exist is one of the mysteries of life for me..cannot grasp why a women would put up with it.

I mentioned my mother being a phone psychic and listening in, to me it seemed like people who called just wanted someone who would listen to them and I've sort of tried to do that in my own life.

posted July 29, 2012 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Divorced and she was very impetuous and restless which ironically enough made me the opposite in terms of responsibilities etc.

Interestingly enough, she used to be a phone psychic and I used to set and listen to her give readings, fascinating actually.

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posted July 29, 2012 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Suspect if you delete them from the photohosting site then the only way they could still exist is if a webcrawler happened to capture them before they were deleted.

Virgos are great women but not my cup of tea so to speak

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Thank you for the suggestion!

posted July 29, 2012 06:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Hmm, yes, that would be Moon trine Neptune for mother being psychic.
So you took up Saturn in 1st characteristics and was the responsible one.. Interesting. I have a very fiery chart, 7 fire planets but my Cap Asc overpowers them somehow. Or hopefully *used to*
Was your mother against you dating?
That means father is Sun whose only aspect is the square to Pluto.. He wasn't a very nice man, I imagine. Manipulative, possibly violent, secretive and ruthless.
At what age did they divorce? Age 10-11 by any chance?

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Not at all did not particularly like whom I dated, ditto from my brother.

posted July 29, 2012 06:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Player..now that is funny..

At college and knew this really sweet young girl who was with a player type, she loaned him a bunch of money, he broke up with her and she happened to run into me and mention it so I asked him about it and his reply was:

"I'm a player, that ***** ain't going to slow me down" ie, chalk that up as a loss.

Cannot stand those dudes ever since then, the fact they exist is one of the mysteries of life for me..cannot grasp why a women would put up with it.

I mentioned my mother being a phone psychic and listening in, to me it seemed like people who called just wanted someone who would listen to them and I've sort of tried to do that in my own life.

Which can be good and bad so to speak.

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posted July 29, 2012 06:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Thank you for the suggestion!

I think from your chart you'd be quite hard to please lol. What is your cup of tea if I may ask?

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Hmm, really depends on the person, attraction for me is a case by case thing.

How about:

posted July 29, 2012 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
I meant like someone who might not respect women much. I seem to have been mistaken, my apologies.
The funny thing about astrology is that it describes the energy present in a person's life but doesn't specify if the person is the recipient or the receiver. Victims and abusers have similar aspects, both suggesting violence/cruelty but they are at different ends of the situation.
What I perceived as disrespect towards women could have been disrespect from women (like in the situation you described in the OP.. sounds like she was using you)

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Apology accepted!

I live in a very masculine world, lift weights, study, bike commute rain or shine etc, and love the feminine energy.

Meaning the sort of different ways of looking at things and appreciation of things that maybe I'd never notice etc. That different perspective on life is so interesting to me that the idea of disrespecting women is just not how I think.

What has shocked me lately is just the level of, for lack of a better term, depravity that I seem to be a drawing to me.

posted July 29, 2012 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Not at all did not particularly like whom I dated, ditto from my brother.

Father was a numerologist, he was a quiet, odd man really, very quirky sense of humor, he was very Taurus in that he was very possessive and materialistic but not a nasty mean man though. They divorced when I was about 7 but reconciled when I was 19.

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posted July 29, 2012 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Hmm, really depends on the person, attraction for me is a case by case thing.

How about:

-Not a *****
-No STD's
-Doesn't require a lot of money?

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posted July 29, 2012 06:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Interesting!! So the father WAS Saturn, not Sun (general opinion is mixed on who the father is in the natal chart). The divorce happened when Solar Arc Moon made an exact square to Saturn - both ruling the MC and IC, the parental houses. Makes a lot of sense. At the same time Uranus was opp Asc by SA, creating a lot of disruption. I said 10-11 because that is when Pluto squared MC/IC. Did smth happen at that age at all or am I just hung up on your Pluto for no good reason lol?

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Not particularly, we were living with my maternal grandmother on a sort of small orange farm in the Florida hinterboonies.

posted July 29, 2012 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Interesting.. The first 2 are criticism against Venus in Scorpio (the typology it embodies), the 3rd against Moon in Leo which can be high maintenance. I also find it interesting that I asked what is your cup of tea and you answered who isn't . Come on, we all have things that we appreciate/want in a partner. What are they?

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Heh! Jupiter in Scorpio gets a bad rap! :P

Depends on the person as I'm Sagi optimistic and see attractive qualities in almost everyone.

posted July 29, 2012 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Apology accepted!

I live in a very masculine world, lift weights, study, bike commute rain or shine etc, and love the feminine energy.

Meaning the sort of different ways of looking at things and appreciation of things that maybe I'd never notice etc. That different perspective on life is so interesting to me that the idea of disrespecting women is just not how I think.

What has shocked me lately is just the level of, for lack of a better term, depravity that I seem to be a drawing to me.

It's as if the crazy train let it's passengers off at the front door of my romantic life, such as it is.

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posted July 29, 2012 06:34 PM            

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Interesting! When did this start? I was thinking it might be T-Uranus trine Moon or T-Pluto conj MC.. but could be wrong ofc..

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I think when I first went to College, I used to change schools every couple of years so I never really knew anyone during the classic time when people make friends.

But when I went to College you have such an exposure to different women and men with such diverse views and appearance I learned to appreciate them all.

posted July 29, 2012 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
Heh! Jupiter in Scorpio gets a bad rap! :P

Depends on the person as I'm Sagi optimistic and see attractive qualities in almost everyone.

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posted July 29, 2012 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
If I may ask, how you you get yourself in these situations? And more importantly, why don't you say no to these women?? Is it smth like the fact that they so openly show you they desire you, make them irresistible to you? I know Leo Mooners kind of struggle with that..

And also, what exactly do you mean by S&M? If it's not too intimate. My Mercury is conj your Asc, I apologize if my curiosity crosses the line

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-Just literally be being there and talking and being me. And I don't flat out say no because I think it will hurt their feelings/self esteem, never engage in that stuff of course.

posted July 29, 2012 06:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
I think when I first went to College, I used to change schools every couple of years so I never really knew anyone during the classic time when people make friends.

But when I went to College you have such an exposure to different women and men with such diverse views and appearance I learned to appreciate them all.

If this keeps up I'll wind up posting the mullet pics..don't ask me go there...please?

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Hahaha, only if you want to, Leo Mooner!

posted July 29, 2012 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Just out of curiosity, how long has this been going on?

And what does your belt look like?

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