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Hera
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posted July 29, 2012 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oh sure, I mostly said that b/c I simply did not know how to and I have no good current photos, in fact those are literally the only 3 photos I have of myself as an adult.

I do have some when I had a mullet graduating High School...they shall make it to the net anytime soon, they are locked in a vault..and safe..


Grrrrrrrr, why did you have to go and say that?? I was fine believing it was my irresistible charm that made you post them!

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posted July 29, 2012 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Grrrrrrrr, why did you have to go and say that?? I was fine believing it was my irresistible charm that made you post them!

My Leo pride prevents from fully submitting to such clear irresistibility as one posses.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hera
Could you read that little chart. I couldn't

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posted July 29, 2012 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
My Leo pride prevents from fully submitting to such clear irresistibility as one posses.

Ahhhh much better! My luminaries are both in Leo decanate so you're not the only one with an ego!

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posted July 29, 2012 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Hera
Could you read that little chart. I couldn't


Lol, nope but then he posted this:

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http://i1072.photobucket.com/albums/w368/padre35/2456136100028-1.gif
Har har..

Can you just hit the "+" key to enlarge it?


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posted July 29, 2012 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Ahhhh much better! My luminaries are both in Leo decanate so you're not the only one with an ego!


I understand , that was a great pic of you with your friend.

Had time on my hands so I had been trying to polish that B&W pic you posted earlier and was going to email it to you or whatever, if you are not interested I'll delete it.

Just felt like everyone had been so nice to look at my charts when I had no idea what they meant that I should give something back to the community so to speak.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami,

There. I confess. I am sneaky. His chart with 'steroids. Have fun!

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posted July 29, 2012 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Man Ceres conj the ASC
I could feel that sweetness in him!

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posted July 29, 2012 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:

I understand , that was a great pic of you with your friend.

Had time on my hands so I had been trying to polish that B&W pic you posted earlier and was going to email it to you or whatever, if you are not interested I'll delete it.

Just felt like everyone had been so nice to look at my charts when I had no idea what they meant that I should give something back to the community so to speak.


Ugh, I appreciate the gesture, I really do. Yeah, you can email it to me, click on my name in Astrology for Beginners and it's a link to my email addy. Just.. don't save my pics in the future, that is creeping me out a little bit, flattering as it might be.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Juno conj Saturn. That is the reluctance to marriage. Did you say you had that. Saturn makes obsessive what it touches. I have an article on it. What Saturn touches, we feel compelled to keep digging at until we take it up from it's buried state.
I have echo there. I have struggled for my voice, so much. People here know that

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posted July 29, 2012 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Hera reminds me a bit of my friend as well, but Angie does most of the talking, I do most of the listening.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
chiron conjunct Cupido
Did you have a lot of pain from someone/people acting like they cared about you, but really wanting to play you

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posted July 29, 2012 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Ugh, I appreciate the gesture, I really do. Yeah, you can email it to me, click on my name in Astrology for Beginners and it's a link to my email addy. Just.. don't save my pics in the future, that is creeping me out a little bit, flattering as it might be.


I'll just delete it, I thought it would be a good idea, then I noticed you deleted it in your so I thought "uhm, better get permission to do that"

My apologies.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hera reminds me a bit of my friend as well, but Angie does most of the talking, I do most of the listening.


Heehee! Is this your lesbian friend you mentioned earlier?

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posted July 29, 2012 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Juno conj Saturn. That is the reluctance to marriage. Did you say you had that. Saturn makes obsessive what it touches. I have an article on it. What Saturn touches, we feel compelled to keep digging at until we take it up from it's buried state.
I have echo there. I have struggled for my voice, so much. People here know that


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posted July 29, 2012 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'll just delete it, I thought it would be a good idea, then I noticed you deleted it in your so I thought "uhm, better get permission to do that"

My apologies.


It is okay, and thank you for telling me, I didn't mean to ruin the fiery enthusiasm, I guess you had no way of knowing. I don't usually leave pics of me on the net, I used to have a stalker a while back, perhaps still do but decided to not live my life with that in mind. Still, I would appreciate if you wouldn't copy my pics in the future. You can send that pic, I am curious what you managed to get out of it.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Heehee! Is this your lesbian friend you mentioned earlier?

Yes it is, dear dear person who sort of has no one to talk to about her problems b/c everyone that is around her wants money, or sex, or what have you.

So I thought the best thing I could do for her is to just listen to her problems, offer consolation and support etc, mostly just be there so to speak.

My goodness do we catch static tho, lots of mean looks at etc as it is just assumed a man would not be listening to a woman unless there was a romance involved.

We both laugh at that as they base that on what they see and have no idea she is very lesbian...

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posted July 29, 2012 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon square Mars
Do you have a hard time with your deepest emotions? Will you get angry, sometimes, instead of feeling?

Did you have a hard time with your mother? Do you feel mistrustful of woman?

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posted July 29, 2012 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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It is okay, and thank you for telling me, I didn't mean to ruin the fiery enthusiasm, I guess you had no way of knowing. I don't usually leave pics of me on the net, I used to have a stalker a while back, perhaps still do but decided to not live my life with that in mind. Still, I would appreciate if you wouldn't copy my pics in the future. You can send that pic, I am curious what you managed to get out of it.

It's shredded already Hera, I used one of those heavy duty file shredder deals on it.

I happen to have photoshop on this computer so did some research on it and you could probably do it yourself if you are of a mind.

Sorry to hear about a stalker, WTF is wrong with people today? Just basic manners and common sense seem to have died. When I noticed how seriously you took that (no quoting it, deleting the pic etc) I thought it best to ask and just delete it.

Sign o' the times I'm afraid.

My ex fiance's BDay was 8/31/64 or 65 BTW she was 5 yrs older then I but her Bday came before mine so I'm not 100%.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Moon square Mars
Do you have a hard time with your deepest emotions? Will you get angry, sometimes, instead of feeling?

Did you have a hard time with your mother? Do you feel mistrustful of woman?


At one time I'd just internalize emotions but then studied Eastern philosophies and yoga etc and learned to deal with them honestly.

As for my mother, we were always very close.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Man Ceres conj the ASC
I could feel that sweetness in him!


Aww, and this why the weirdness has me stumped, I have a hard time even fishing let alone hurting anyone

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posted July 29, 2012 04:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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chiron conjunct Cupido
Did you have a lot of pain from someone/people acting like they cared about you, but really wanting to play you


Mostly that has been the case in my post engagement relationships, they love the physical part of things, but then leave when I think things are going in the right direction.

Bascially what happens is they will have a relationship, won't tell me, or lie to me, we have a fling, they go back to the BF and I'm left looking rather stupid.

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posted July 29, 2012 05:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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At one time I'd just internalize emotions but then studied Eastern philosophies and yoga etc and learned to deal with them honestly.

As for my mother, we were always very close.



Hera
How would you square Moon sq Mars with closeness with the mother?

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posted July 29, 2012 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Chiron in the 12th would make it such that you would have a hard time even seeing your own woundedness. It would be hidden from you. Cupido is when a person acts like they care for you but really want to use you. They know what they are doing, too. IT is not unconscious.

So, your pain will be around Cupido wounds and it will be hard to see them. Does this all fit?

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posted July 29, 2012 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Chiron in the 12th would make it such that you would have a hard time even seeing your own woundedness. It would be hidden from you. Cupido is when a person acts like they care for you but really want to use you. They know what they are doing, too. IT is not unconscious.

So, your pain will be around Cupido wounds and it will be hard to see them. Does this all fit?


In romantic relationships it does, I'm normally very perceptive, when it comes to that I'm completely blind.

So in response I just decided to be straight up and honest in things dealing with romance, that can make me seem blunt but it is the only way I know to deal with that issue.

In the creeper thread I mentioned I'd have women talk to me and mention they noticed me for a long time and I'd have no idea that was going on and found it offputting.

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