posted October 01, 2012 12:50 AM            

Oh and I'm 38.

Also I just looked and my Venus alone is opposed the Aquarius 17 black hole.

I have to say...it's often overwhelming being so sexual. I love it, but don't always know what to do with the energy.

posted October 01, 2012 11:57 AM            

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posted October 01, 2012 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
I am so glad for this post. I have such a high sex drive. And its worse because I am ridiculously attracted to my husband. Its overwhelming. After 8 yrs, its as strong as ever with him! I need to talk with others that are like me so I know Im not alone! My husband is happy with three times a week. I want every day.

Oh and I'm 38.

Also I just looked and my Venus alone is opposed the Aquarius 17 black hole.

I have to say...it's often overwhelming being so sexual. I love it, but don't always know what to do with the energy.

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I think that's awesome!

Mine can lay dormant for quite a while but if i ignite, ut comes with a vengeance... I was involved with someone significantly older than me (guys my age bore the living hell out of me and are more inhibited) and before him, i hadn't had sex in a little over a year but once we went *there* i was expecting it almost like 4 times a day.. He would seriously tell me that he couldn't and that he wasn't used to so much sex (as if i was!)-- i'm not talking just intercourse (though that's what i counted)-- overall!

And now, it's dormant again... Kinda.. Unless i'm by myself, it's dormant. Hehehehehe

I don't plan on laying unless i've spent at least a few months in the gym because in a sense, i've let myself go. :/

I think i do the no-gym thing to keep some at bay.. I tend to project my sex when i'm not getting any and attract some people who are just begging for it.

At the risk of it being seriously taken the wrong way, i've had a few offers by VERY handsome guys (and girls) that have been hard to refuse.. Though in the end, i have..

posted October 01, 2012 12:20 PM            

And I get stopped regularly too, and I'm not some hot female.

posted October 01, 2012 01:37 PM            

C1ND3R - I noticed that my libido went up when I started going to the gym. Going to the gym regularly allowed me to lose 50 lbs which in turn boosted my self confidence and made me feel like I was a sexy b*tch!

posted October 01, 2012 01:48 PM            

I'm pretty sure i might sound like some sex-craved fiend and i wouldn't know how to defend that without it being done through comparison but i haven't even been able to get through one dvd of p90x because of the muscles and distraction..!

posted October 01, 2012 01:50 PM            

She's a perfect mix between a dolphin and a vagina.

posted October 01, 2012 02:03 PM            

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^ are u guys in a d&s relationship? You've used the word "allaowed" twice..

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posted October 01, 2012 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by libragrrrl0923:
So I can definitely see how your sex drive can go up and down depending on your physical activity outside of the bedroom.

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posted October 01, 2012 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
No D&S thing in our household, but you're dealing with two individuals who would snap the head off anybody else. No, neither of us would stand to be dominated. It's two domineering characters co-existing. Even cobras and tigers mate. I woudl use spiders, but then the female eats the male after mating.

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Well, not to diverge the topic much but there is such a thing as dominating by submission..

posted October 01, 2012 03:34 PM            

You are so not alone =) I have been with my husband for nine years, and am still very attracted to him. Sometimes this brings friction, as he has let his energy go ever since the birth of our youngest child a couple years ago.

I want him at least daily, he does as well, but gets overwhelmed with work and caring for our kids. Lol the crazy thing is, I could be tired and exhausted and still want it.

I have been this super sexual forever, was interested in the topic even before having had sex. My poor spouse is sometimes overhwelmed by my desire and feels insecure when he isn't feeling it. Frustrating as his Mars & Pluto conj my Venus and his Moon is on my Sun/Mars/Neptune.

posted October 01, 2012 03:36 PM            

I was recently called a unicorn... but I think I may leave that explanation out of this forum for now.

posted October 01, 2012 03:57 PM            

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Well, not to diverge the topic much but there is such a thing as dominating by submission..

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posted October 01, 2012 04:00 PM            

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@ C1ND3R and yourstrulyalways, going at it alone can only ease so much lol. Anywyas I'm glad you both added to the topic, feels better knowing I'm not a weird sex addict lol.

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^ that's true but let me tell ya, i started going it alone at a very early age and you develop little tips and tricks to spice things up. I am not opposed to visiting sex shops to "enhance" to your experience, even if alone.

posted October 01, 2012 04:13 PM            

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@ C1ND3R and yourstrulyalways, lol you guys I am so in awe of the thought of getting it on that much a week. Lol I have a rough time getting some from my spouse once a week, oh the frustrating. Going at it alone can only ease so much lol. Anywyas I'm glad you both added to the topic, feels better knowing I'm not a weird sex addict lol.

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PhoenixFire,

I'm not exactly proud of my past. I was a very wild bachelor and somehow did not have issues having female companionship.

At times, I wondered what I was doing, going at it again and again and again. Eventually, word got around college and I was now extra "popular." There was stuff happenning that normal people don't partake in. I had fraternal twins, I had multiples, blah blah blah.

I was searching for love, but the shopping process got me derailed a bit on the affection bit.

At the same time, I was *supposed* to behave like a Christian but I didn't. Again, not saying that I am proud of it.

That was a long long time ago. I'm an old man. Understand that I'm from a very different generation.

The irony is that I eventually met this girl who was a 100% certified virgin. I spent three months not laying a hand on her. I didn't even DFK her. We moved in together after a month, we slept on the same bed, she slept almost naked, but I never touched her. She was a fashion model. Imagine how impossible that is. Then we got married. Little did I know she turned out to be a true pr0n0 star who missed her true calling. She is like the Energizer bunny personified. By that time, I had already been with so many women that I had lost count, and my new wife turned out to be a bigger terror than 99% of the supposed freaks and weirdos I had been with.

posted October 01, 2012 04:23 PM            

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Delphina...

Regarding dominating by submission... I think that is also referred to as topping from the bottom.

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posted October 01, 2012 04:40 PM            

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PhoenixFire,

I'm not exa..

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Yikes.

I've had my wild experiences but i was never promiscuous. I grew up with the internet and had safe sex beaten into me very early on. I was never religious and didn't have sex-sex til i was 18... I had done just about everything else throughout grade school and the "novelty" of things didn't arouse my curiosity much.

The first time i'd seen hardcore porn was at about 8 or 9 and i had seen couples going at it firsthand at approx. 5 so i pretty much "got it". My sex life has teetered a bit on the extreme but it hasn't been something i did for numbers. I used to lock myself away and masturbate for HOURS while kids my age would be playing at the park..

If and when i ever get involved in roleplaying or a d&s i make sure it's with someone healthy of body AND mind.. It's a totally different world, though and if you find yourself someone who knows what they're doing and getting involved in, "casual" relationships and sex are a thing of the past. It's more real, honest and intense.

It's taboo to kid yourself or them.. That destroys trust and if there is no trust, you'll get nowhere. Trust is the most important thing in that kind of lifestyle... Whereas you may meet someone at a bar and not know lots about em til about maybe a year in, i don't know of a lot of people that kid around when looking for a dom or sub. You don't put yourself at risk and you don't put them there, either... I met one guy who had sex with over 100 women by the time he entered college and needing to be honest about it when he went to fetish events really worked against him. He tried to lie once and surely lived to regret it; small community.

posted October 01, 2012 04:58 PM            

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YTA - you're a lucky man!

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Not lucky! Questionable past. Poor character. But a lot of happy women.

posted October 01, 2012 05:05 PM            

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You must understand that I'm a child of the 60s. The average teen/20-something back then was like a jack rabbit.

Think of President Clinton.

posted October 01, 2012 05:17 PM            

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Regarding guys who are older and have a conservative upbringing... choke.. BS... those are the ones who are most twisted. I'm one of them.

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Yeesh... :/ the same 4-times a day gentleman was one to invite me with him to church that Sunday after we'd spent a few days together in the bedroom.