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Topic: "Emotional cheating"
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8076 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 08:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I am most attracted to instinctual people who go with their instincts and don't over-think the process of any physical thing that happens between us  It bothers me when people either over-idealise sex or over think about sex or over-talk about sex and generally seem very *fixated*, when to me sex is like eating pizza. If someone who was a cook started telling me that there was a process to eating a pizza.. that I should start with the crust and work my way in - or God knows what else... my reaction would be: IT'S JUUUST PIZZA!!! It doesn't matter. AG - As always different women are different. From my perspective whatever in the world you did - would be OK as long as it was genuine and not in any way pre-planned. I can sniff out "pre-planned" from a mile away, and I don't like it.
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 08:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I am most attracted to instinctual people who go with their instincts and don't over-think the process of any physical thing that happens between us  It bothers me when people either over-idealise sex or over think about sex or over-talk about sex and generally seem very *fixated*, when to me sex is like eating pizza.
Exactly, and that is what is so difficult to describe, it's not something one comes out and just says per se. It's a bit like eating chocolate,tastes good to most,it's enjoyable, the problems come in when ALL it's about is chocolate.
quote: If someone who was a cook started telling me that there was a process to eating a pizza.. that I should start with the crust and work my way in - or God knows what else... my reaction would be: IT'S JUUUST PIZZA!!! It doesn't matter.
Sort of, there is a process to having sex though. Attraction/Trust/Emotion Men tend to go crazy with that tho, flowers and candles and bubble baths (which actually is not a good idea) and the whole "I'm peter perfect romantic" stuff To be blunt, when a woman is into someone its more like "let's go down to business!!!!" Thing is, and to Faith's point, emotional cheating is the first step. I'm indifferent on "cheating", just know how this works Difference is the "nice guy' becomes the emotional tampon, the ******* becomes a lover for a time.
quote: AG - As always different women are different. From my perspective whatever in the world you did - would be OK as long as it was genuine and not in any way pre-planned. I can sniff out "pre-planned" from a mile away, and I don't like it.
I bet..thus the whole romance stuff should be saved for long term things
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 3138 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 08:52 PM
quote: But Odette there's always a plan
What's the point? quote: Exactly, and that is what is so difficult to describe, it's not something one comes out and just says per se.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8076 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 08:56 PM
The point is AG91 always has a plan  IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 09:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: The point is AG91 always has a plan 
B/c there is a difference between tactics and strategy perhaps? Nah.. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8076 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 09:17 PM
^ But of course .. IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 09:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: ^ But of course ..
Indeed Sir, would love to chat with you 10 yrs from now when you are eating bologna sammies and being crushed with child support payments Then hear what you have to say Will say this, you were not warned this could happen Eventus stulturum magistere IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8076 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 09:33 PM
Alrighty then..IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 09:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Alrighty then..
Become wise AG, stop being mediocre
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8076 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 09:41 PM
Show me the way master  IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3494 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 29, 2013 09:56 PM
Simple formula: "No means no." I brutalized one man who pushed it, I think I broke his finger among damage I inflicted, and he should be grateful he's still alive at all. Strangely enough it was his sister who threatened to come after me with a gun. I guess she was a fan of the "forcible seduction" philosophy who thinks all women are that sick, not just her, so how dare I "forcibly dissuade" her brother when he sexually assaulted me on the first night I met him? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 50739 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2013 10:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Show me the way master 
ROLFL 
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 6554 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 29, 2013 10:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: Eventus stulturum magistere
That would be Eventus Stultorum Magister Latin: "Events are the educator of the ignorant."
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 10:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: That would be [b]Eventus Stultorum MagisterLatin: "Events are the educator of the ignorant."[/B]
Events are the teachers of fools IE, fools have to learn by hard experience Credat Judea Appela Non Ego IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 10:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: Simple formula: "No means no." I brutalized one man who pushed it, I think I broke his finger among damage I inflicted, and he should be grateful he's still alive at all. Strangely enough it was his sister who threatened to come after me with a gun. I guess she was a fan of the "forcible seduction" philosophy who thinks all women are that sick, not just her, so how dare I "forcibly dissuade" her brother when he sexually assaulted me on the first night I met him?
Now THAT is doing it wrong on his part There should never never be any force to seduction..or even good times IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 10:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Show me the way master 
A tool cannot change it's nature Good luck with that boy IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 6554 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 29, 2013 10:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: Events are the teachers of foolsIE, fools have to learn by hard experience Credat Judea Appela Non Ego
And under what premises do you call AQ a "fool?"
Once again, spell properly! Credat Judea Apella Non Ego
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 10:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: And under what premises do you call AQ a "fool?"
Oh I'll answer your question, first answer mine, what is a fool to you, what do they do? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 6554 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 29, 2013 10:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: Events are the teachers of foolsIE, fools have to learn by hard experience Credat Judea Appela Non Ego
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: And under what premises do you call AQ a "fool?"Once again, spell properly! [b]Credat Judea Apella Non Ego[/B]
And WHERE DO YOU GET THE GALL TO INSULT JEWS???!!!
Are you an Anti-Semite???!!! IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 10:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: And under what premises do you call AQ a "fool?"Once again, spell properly! [b]Credat Judea Apella Non Ego[/B]
Uhm, yeah, spell Latin free hand on the 'Net and then get back to me IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 10:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: And WHERE DO YOU GET THE GALL TO INSULT JEWS???!!!Are you an Anti-Semite???!!!
I won't insult my Hebaru Brothers and Sisters, would point out that phrase came from the Greek practice of believing "God" was in a fountain that would bubble at a certain time a day and the author did not buy into it..however Appella the Jew..did Via Negativa I suppose YTA IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8076 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 10:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: A tool cannot change it's natureGood luck with that boy
A little joke from the little man  IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 29, 2013 10:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: A little joke from the little man 
Well, fair enough, one will choose the hard way. By choice IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2952 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 30, 2013 12:26 AM
Thought soIP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8076 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 30, 2013 12:40 AM
I remember when I had my first beer.IP: Logged |