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aquaguy91
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posted December 29, 2013 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I am most attracted to instinctual people who go with their instincts and don't over-think the process of any physical thing that happens between us

It bothers me when people either over-idealise sex or over think about sex or over-talk about sex and generally seem very *fixated*, when to me sex is like eating pizza.

If someone who was a cook started telling me that there was a process to eating a pizza.. that I should start with the crust and work my way in - or God knows what else... my reaction would be: IT'S JUUUST PIZZA!!!
It doesn't matter.

AG - As always different women are different. From my perspective whatever in the world you did - would be OK as long as it was genuine and not in any way pre-planned.
I can sniff out "pre-planned" from a mile away, and I don't like it.



But Odette there's always a plan lol

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posted December 29, 2013 08:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
I am most attracted to instinctual people who go with their instincts and don't over-think the process of any physical thing that happens between us

It bothers me when people either over-idealise sex or over think about sex or over-talk about sex and generally seem very *fixated*, when to me sex is like eating pizza.


Exactly, and that is what is so difficult to describe, it's not something one comes out and just says per se.

It's a bit like eating chocolate,tastes good to most,it's enjoyable, the problems come in when ALL it's about is chocolate.


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If someone who was a cook started telling me that there was a process to eating a pizza.. that I should start with the crust and work my way in - or God knows what else... my reaction would be: IT'S JUUUST PIZZA!!!
It doesn't matter.

Sort of, there is a process to having sex though. Attraction/Trust/Emotion

Men tend to go crazy with that tho, flowers and candles and bubble baths (which actually is not a good idea) and the whole "I'm peter perfect romantic" stuff

To be blunt, when a woman is into someone its more like "let's go down to business!!!!"

Thing is, and to Faith's point, emotional cheating is the first step.

I'm indifferent on "cheating", just know how this works


Difference is the "nice guy' becomes the emotional tampon, the ******* becomes a lover for a time.

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AG - As always different women are different. From my perspective whatever in the world you did - would be OK as long as it was genuine and not in any way pre-planned.
I can sniff out "pre-planned" from a mile away, and I don't like it.

I bet..thus the whole romance stuff should be saved for long term things

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posted December 29, 2013 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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But Odette there's always a plan

What's the point?

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Exactly, and that is what is so difficult to describe, it's not something one comes out and just says per se.

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posted December 29, 2013 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The point is AG91 always has a plan

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posted December 29, 2013 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
The point is AG91 always has a plan

B/c there is a difference between tactics and strategy perhaps?

Nah..

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posted December 29, 2013 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ But of course ..

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posted December 29, 2013 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
^ But of course ..

Indeed Sir, would love to chat with you 10 yrs from now when you are eating bologna sammies and being crushed with child support payments

Then hear what you have to say

Will say this, you were not warned this could happen

Eventus stulturum magistere

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posted December 29, 2013 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alrighty then..

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posted December 29, 2013 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Alrighty then..

Become wise AG, stop being mediocre

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posted December 29, 2013 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Show me the way master

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posted December 29, 2013 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Simple formula: "No means no."

I brutalized one man who pushed it, I think I broke his finger among damage I inflicted, and he should be grateful he's still alive at all. Strangely enough it was his sister who threatened to come after me with a gun. I guess she was a fan of the "forcible seduction" philosophy who thinks all women are that sick, not just her, so how dare I "forcibly dissuade" her brother when he sexually assaulted me on the first night I met him?

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posted December 29, 2013 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Show me the way master

ROLFL

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posted December 29, 2013 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Eventus stulturum magistere

That would be Eventus Stultorum Magister

Latin: "Events are the educator of the ignorant."

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posted December 29, 2013 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
That would be [b]Eventus Stultorum Magister

Latin: "Events are the educator of the ignorant."[/B]


Events are the teachers of fools

IE, fools have to learn by hard experience

Credat Judea Appela Non Ego

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posted December 29, 2013 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Simple formula: "No means no."

I brutalized one man who pushed it, I think I broke his finger among damage I inflicted, and he should be grateful he's still alive at all. Strangely enough it was his sister who threatened to come after me with a gun. I guess she was a fan of the "forcible seduction" philosophy who thinks all women are that sick, not just her, so how dare I "forcibly dissuade" her brother when he sexually assaulted me on the first night I met him?


Now THAT is doing it wrong on his part

There should never never be any force to seduction..or even good times

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posted December 29, 2013 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Show me the way master

A tool cannot change it's nature

Good luck with that boy

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posted December 29, 2013 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Events are the teachers of fools

IE, fools have to learn by hard experience

Credat Judea Appela Non Ego



And under what premises do you call AQ a "fool?"

Once again, spell properly!

Credat Judea Apella Non Ego

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posted December 29, 2013 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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And under what premises do you call AQ a "fool?"

Oh I'll answer your question, first answer mine, what is a fool to you, what do they do?

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posted December 29, 2013 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Events are the teachers of fools

IE, fools have to learn by hard experience

Credat Judea Appela Non Ego



quote:
Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

And under what premises do you call AQ a "fool?"

Once again, spell properly!

[b]Credat Judea Apella Non Ego[/B]



And WHERE DO YOU GET THE GALL TO INSULT JEWS???!!!

Are you an Anti-Semite???!!!

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posted December 29, 2013 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

And under what premises do you call AQ a "fool?"

Once again, spell properly!

[b]Credat Judea Apella Non Ego[/B]


Uhm, yeah, spell Latin free hand on the 'Net and then get back to me

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posted December 29, 2013 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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And WHERE DO YOU GET THE GALL TO INSULT JEWS???!!!

Are you an Anti-Semite???!!!


I won't insult my Hebaru Brothers and Sisters, would point out that phrase came from the Greek practice of believing "God" was in a fountain that would bubble at a certain time a day and the author did not buy into it..however Appella the Jew..did

Via Negativa I suppose YTA

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posted December 29, 2013 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
A tool cannot change it's nature

Good luck with that boy


A little joke from the little man

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posted December 29, 2013 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
A little joke from the little man

Well, fair enough, one will choose the hard way.

By choice

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posted December 30, 2013 12:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Thought so

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posted December 30, 2013 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I remember when I had my first beer.

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