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T
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posted January 08, 2014 10:18 PM
  
aquaguy, i'm not going to argue w/ you even though you are wrong about what i last quoted you said. i'll refrain from telling you why. #1 i dont feel a strong urge to engage w/ you
#2 my keyboard is being a pita and making it hard to type the replies i otherwise would
#3 i have a cold, so less energy to engage Stay stuck to your guns. I am not looking to change your mind.  IP: Logged |
Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
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posted January 08, 2014 10:18 PM
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Originally posted by 23:
Oh, I just happen to have some interesting synastry with you so maybe that's why I don't have a problem.
I don't really have a problem with AG. I think he's a good person, we just don't agree on everything, but that's okay. IP: Logged |
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From: The Strand
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posted January 08, 2014 10:20 PM
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I don't mind forgiving differences, misunderstandings, or respecting people's rights to develop their own beliefs. I can get a little bit cranky and moderately offended, but I mostly think everyone here is, in essence, doing the best they can as human beings.
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aquaguy91
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posted January 08, 2014 10:28 PM
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Originally posted by 23:
Aqua guy - I've never written a cranky post to you and I'm a woman. I haven't read much on the slag shaming post and so I won't comment on the friction between you, Odette and Padre. I see you as a frank individual that simply expresses their opinions. I accept what you say and like I've said, I think men and women are built differently with different drives. I really don't have a problem with men liking the traditional model either.Oh, I just happen to have some interesting synastry with you so maybe that's why I don't have a problem.
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posted January 08, 2014 10:32 PM
*sigh okay since you asked quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Let me ask you something. Would you agree that there are certain things that most women keep to themselves and dont discuss around men? If you don't you are lying....
Sure, some of them i guess. I can't speak for ALL women.
In my case my guy friends and i were pretty open w/ one another. I've heard it all and then some.  Most of them knew they didnt have to hold back around me! quote:
Well men do the same thing and this is one of those things. If you could be a fly on the wall for man talk you would realize that a lot more guys would agree with me than you think. Just look at the internet.... Men post in forums about it,blog , and make youtube videos about it. It's everywhere![/B]
Dude. i've worked in tattoo shops as a fellow artist, equal, remember?  Been the only female surrounded by all men who don't hold back AT ALL. I also grew up w/ a brother and his friends. Once again, i've heard it all. i want to type more to give you examples, but i'm afraid it would be pointless. And i'm tired of you using that excuse. i don't need to be a fly on a wall in a room of men. Men arent the mysterious, inherently crass creatures you make them out to be - or only able to be aholes around each other when no females are in earshot, k? and don't tell me i don't or could never understand, being a girl, again. IP: Logged |
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posted January 08, 2014 10:33 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
I don't really have a problem with AG. I think he's a good person, we just don't agree on everything, but that's okay.
23 what she said. IP: Logged |
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From: The Strand
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posted January 08, 2014 10:38 PM
Here's my chart, AG. Conjunct Suns but I remember you have Sun conjunct Saturn and I have an opposition between these two, so I know about "keeping it real".
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Ami Anne
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posted January 08, 2014 10:38 PM
I don't really have a problem with AG. I think he's a good person, we just don't agree on everything, but that's okayLovely words. If everyone was this cool, we would have no problems. Felt good to see this tonight!  ------------------
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Violets
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posted January 08, 2014 11:17 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Lovely words. If everyone was this cool, we would have no problems. Felt good to see this tonight!
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posted January 08, 2014 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Lovely words. If everyone was this cool, we would have no problems. Felt good to see this tonight!
Why yes, its great to see there continues to be no problems in the thread. Just people communicating with each other.   Let's continue on with it, shall we? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted January 08, 2014 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by T:
*sigh okay since you asked Dude. i've worked in tattoo shops as a fellow artist, equal, remember? Been the only female surrounded by all men who don't hold back AT ALL. I also grew up w/ a brother and his friends. Once again, i've heard it all. i want to type more to give you examples, but i'm afraid it would be pointless. And i'm tired of you using that excuse. i don't need to be a fly on a wall in a room of men. Men arent the mysterious, inherently crass creatures you make them out to be - or only able to be aholes around each other when no females are in earshot, k? and don't tell me i don't or could never understand, being a girl, again.
Another layer of the issue is the obvious fact that most men just don't discuss their problems and emotions, they hold it all in. As a double aqua with a 3rd house moon and mars I don't have that issue. My aqua placements give me the ability to not care what others think and my 3rd house moon and mars make me very vocal about what I think and feel. My third house moon makes me a therapist in a way because people feel comfortable talking to me. When I get around guys they notice that I'm very vocal and honest about what I feel and think and they in turn feel comfortable doing the same around me. I have seen the sides of guys that nobody ever sees. Guys will be very open and expressive if you actually listen. That's why it's funny to me when women complain about men being cold or emotionless and bad communicators.lol
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posted January 08, 2014 11:29 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
My third house moon makes me a therapist in a way because people feel comfortable talking to me. When I get around guys they notice that I'm very vocal and honest about what I feel and think and they in turn feel comfortable doing the same around me. I have seen the sides of guys that nobody ever sees. Guys will be very open and expressive if you actually listen. That's why it's funny to me when women complain about men being cold or emotionless and bad communicators.lol
Well, that is one thing we have in common. Except i have the psychologist 8th house moon & Pluto. People open up easily and quickly to me too. I'm a better listener than talker. IP: Logged |
Xodian
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posted January 09, 2014 01:13 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
well does xodian even have kids?
He doesn't and he and the missus don't have any immediate plans on being parents either  . Don't get me wrong; Parenthood is a blessing and a fulfilling experience but from me and my wife's prespective, it isn't something we want to jump into right now. I guess its the Libra is us (Me Libra Sun, she being a Libra Asc.) As Linda Goodman herself said it best; "With Libras of both Genders, mate usually comes first." As I see it, this is our time right now. I want to experience the world with her and her alone. Apart from our florishing careers, both of us have other plans to fulfill and experience within our lives. We have gotten a taste for skydiving and are now solo jump qualified , We have trekked across central Europe, Gone dune buggy racing in U.A.E, and the list goes on. And we have bigger plans waiting ahead of us. We recently gotten our M (Motorcycle) Licenses and plan on doing a Inter-Province Road trip across Canada this spring (I'll share pictures of it on this board when we do ,) We wanna travel around the world atleast once in our life time and I personally want to a HALO (High Altitude Low Opening) jump atleast once in my lifetime. I guess what I am trying to say is that, being a parent is a full time job and all our attention will be focused on the kids and kids alone. And as of now, that doesn't settles well with us . Sex is amazing and an addiction and both of us aren't going to be quitting cold turkey till we are atleat 90 , but you can sure bet that we are sticklers when it comes to protection Lol! IP: Logged |
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posted January 09, 2014 02:08 AM
as someone who likes kids but never wants any of my own..
i love the way you two think!i can see the wind blowing through both of your hair now.
yeah, be sure to come back and share stories and photos of your adventures together. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted January 09, 2014 02:13 AM
I just don't understand this forum dominated by women.... And it's the most feminine looking forum too. It's either about feeding on negative energy or passive aggressively venting,IP: Logged |
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posted January 09, 2014 02:24 AM
It wasnt always this way Kero. *faraway look in eyes* lol Yes, it's certainly become weird in that way now, unsafe feeling and people don't want to share like they used to here. Too uncomfortable now. Someone's always waiting in the bushes to attack - either here or behind your back. So most know better and stay on the surface now. It's unfortunate. Used to be so different....ten years or so ago. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted January 09, 2014 02:32 AM
Someone posted! Attack!  IP: Logged |
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posted January 09, 2014 02:36 AM
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posted January 09, 2014 02:41 AM
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Odette
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posted January 09, 2014 03:29 AM
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haven't read much on the slag shaming post and so I won't comment on the friction between you, Odette and Padre.
There's no friction between AG and I. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 09, 2014 03:47 AM
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Originally posted by Xodian:
He doesn't and he and the missus don't have any immediate plans on being parents either .Don't get me wrong; Parenthood is a blessing and a fulfilling experience but from me and my wife's prespective, it isn't something we want to jump into right now. I guess its the Libra is us (Me Libra Sun, she being a Libra Asc.) As Linda Goodman herself said it best; "With Libras of both Genders, mate usually comes first." As I see it, this is our time right now. I want to experience the world with her and her alone. Apart from our florishing careers, both of us have other plans to fulfill and experience within our lives. We have gotten a taste for skydiving and are now solo jump qualified , We have trekked across central Europe, Gone dune buggy racing in U.A.E, and the list goes on. And we have bigger plans waiting ahead of us. We recently gotten our M (Motorcycle) Licenses and plan on doing a Inter-Province Road trip across Canada this spring (I'll share pictures of it on this board when we do ,) We wanna travel around the world atleast once in our life time and I personally want to a HALO (High Altitude Low Opening) jump atleast once in my lifetime. I guess what I am trying to say is that, being a parent is a full time job and all our attention will be focused on the kids and kids alone. And as of now, that doesn't settles well with us . Sex is amazing and an addiction and both of us aren't going to be quitting cold turkey till we are atleat 90 , but you can sure bet that we are sticklers when it comes to protection Lol!
Oh WoW! You sound happier than any married person I know! That gives me hope haha
Although generally I'm pretty down on marriage.
I hope you guys do all those amazing things together and more and have an amazing time! You should post pics of your travels! IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 09, 2014 03:47 AM
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Originally posted by Xodian:
He doesn't and he and the missus don't have any immediate plans on being parents either .Don't get me wrong; Parenthood is a blessing and a fulfilling experience but from me and my wife's prespective, it isn't something we want to jump into right now. I guess its the Libra is us (Me Libra Sun, she being a Libra Asc.) As Linda Goodman herself said it best; "With Libras of both Genders, mate usually comes first." As I see it, this is our time right now. I want to experience the world with her and her alone. Apart from our florishing careers, both of us have other plans to fulfill and experience within our lives. We have gotten a taste for skydiving and are now solo jump qualified , We have trekked across central Europe, Gone dune buggy racing in U.A.E, and the list goes on. And we have bigger plans waiting ahead of us. We recently gotten our M (Motorcycle) Licenses and plan on doing a Inter-Province Road trip across Canada this spring (I'll share pictures of it on this board when we do ,) We wanna travel around the world atleast once in our life time and I personally want to a HALO (High Altitude Low Opening) jump atleast once in my lifetime. I guess what I am trying to say is that, being a parent is a full time job and all our attention will be focused on the kids and kids alone. And as of now, that doesn't settles well with us . Sex is amazing and an addiction and both of us aren't going to be quitting cold turkey till we are atleat 90 , but you can sure bet that we are sticklers when it comes to protection Lol!
Oh WoW! You sound happier than any married person I know! That gives me hope haha
Although generally I'm pretty down on marriage.
I hope you guys do all those amazing things together and more and have an amazing time! You should post pics of your travels! IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 573
From: The Strand
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posted January 09, 2014 04:43 AM
Kerosene - T is right about the assessment of this forum. I was here from 2006-7 and it was very different from 2008-9 and different now. It seems there's more and more fighting going on and I feel I can't bond with people anymore. In 06-7, it was really laid back and friendly and I assume that things just go in cycles.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 09, 2014 09:05 AM
Well that's nice, that it used to be a better forum. I feel like the current crowd just got graded with an F, however, and that makes me feel like some great people who hang out here are being underrated, and not getting acknowledgement for the good that they do. So, just throwing in a rainbow... to help the vibes here this morning. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 09, 2014 09:27 AM
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Originally posted by 23:
YTA - you've seen a lot of things, you're a wise soul.
23, Thank you. I'm not wise. I'm just older. I come from a different era and carry a different perspective not just from those in their 20s-30s, but also different from those my age. I come from a part of the world that places different pressures on men and women, I have been somewhat conditioned to unconsciously fulfilling those expectations. Things are defined differently, as is the evaluation of outcomes. The articles that you posted do hit home, except that the perspective is carried to higher extremes in my case. "The key to keeping a man faithful, it seems, is for him to earn a third more than his wife," quoted from http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1303563/House-husbands- times-likely-cheat-wives.html#ixzz2pucD6xH5. Except that I earned several times my wife when I met her (and she was a company officer), and now would likely earn several times more if she carried on her career. This is controversial to say the least. I stand in opposition to the majority of viewpoints espoused here, but I'll continue on my merry journey.
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