posted March 25, 2014 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It's called being h*rny.

You never get h*rny?

Doesn't anything turn you on? Is this an Aquarius thing?

People are animals. People want to fu*ck. Women want to fu*ck. It is not rocket science

Of course.. contraception is very important - when you do not have the maturity or the means to raise children.
And it is unfortunate that people (both men and women) are not more precautious.

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posted March 25, 2014 05:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
The societal mores did not allow for this in times past. People were shunned. Now, it is accepted and so people do it imo.

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'Contemporaries appreciate the man rather than the merit; but posterity will regard the merit rather than the man.' –Charles Caleb Colton

posted March 25, 2014 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It's called being h*rny.

You never get h*rny?

Doesn't anything turn you on? Is this an Aquarius thing?

People are animals. People want to fu*ck. Women want to fu*ck. It is not rocket science

Of course.. contraception is very important - when you do not have the maturity or the means to raise children.
And it is unfortunate that people (both men and women) are not more precautious.

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posted March 25, 2014 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It's called being h*rny.

You never get h*rny?

People are animals. People want to fu*ck. Women want to fu*ck. It is not rocket science

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Sense and Sensibility.

We're talking about perpetual baby mamas. You would think getting burnt once by a deadbeat asswipe would be enough for one to learn her lessons.

And for the guys who can't keep their pants zipped up, don't whip out the dick and take a **** unless you want to also clean said toilet bowl and settle in that residence. Spraying genetics is pricey.

posted March 25, 2014 09:42 AM            

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We're talking about perpetual baby mamas. You would think getting burnt once by a deadbeat asswipe would be enough for one to learn her lessons.

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Her lesson in using protection - yes.

Her lesson in keeping her legs closed - no.. because that's not the most relevant lesson in today's world.
Earlier, I was replying to AG's comment about women keeping their legs closed.

posted March 25, 2014 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Yes, of course. You turn me on lmao

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posted March 25, 2014 09:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I know

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posted March 25, 2014 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Her lesson in using protection - yes.

Her lesson in keeping her legs closed - no.. because that's not the most relevant lesson in today's world.
Earlier, I was replying to AG's comment about women keeping their legs closed.

And deadbeats have their own lessons to learn that are equally important on a karmic level. I agree with what you said.

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Her lesson in not liking nitwit f@ckheads.

The solution is not to wear a condom. The solution is to bed a proper man with a proper brain if there's this overwhelming desire to get stuffed.

posted March 25, 2014 12:28 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

Her lesson in not liking nitwit f@ckheads.

The solution is not to wear a condom. The solution is to bed a proper man with a proper brain if there's this overwhelming desire to get stuffed.

Illustration. I like intelligent women of outstanding character and moral judgment. I'm not going to stuff mine down a sinkhole even if it's a willing party and even wearing five condoms on top of each other.

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Yes but that's you. There are many different people in the world.

Any two adults who are attracted can have consensual sex. This would not normally have negative consequences on the world around them or themselves - unless they were unwise re: protection.

posted March 25, 2014 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Because of your intuition lol.

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hahaha

posted March 25, 2014 12:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
hahaha

My Pisces Merc is totally ESPing your Merc/Neptune.

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posted March 25, 2014 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

I disagree that their lesson is not to 'like' certain people.
It's completely irrelevant.
What's relevant to this discussion that they prevent unwanted pregnancies.

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Well then I disagree and I think your point is completely irrelevant. The solution is to not have sex willy nilly. The root cause isn't a lack of condoms: it's non-marital sex and sex on a dime because of an itch. It's a breakdown of core moral values.

I've enough problem with my kid's school. I routinely take the condoms handed out in health class and hand it back to the Principal at the most embarrassing moment for him.

posted March 25, 2014 01:36 PM            

Me= got married at age 18 to get away from my mother...married a guy aged 19, that I had dated while in high school. We thought we would be Ken and Barbie, bought a house, decorated it, picket fence, dog, etc. All we needed was a baby. So, we married in Feb of 89, in October of 89 I went off of birth control and by my bday 12/16, I had conceived. Now, at the time did I know that we as a husband/wife unit would NOT LAST? NO. SO, I went forward into motherhood, thinking we would survive.

And we didn't. After 3 years of marriage he walked out on me and our daughter for another woman. I can say that although he and I did divorce, he DID keep up with his responsibilities as far as seeing our child as the court deemed, and paid child support. And I raised her, NOT my mother or anyone else.

After divorcing, I met another man, whom I fell in love with and we married. We wanted to have a child together, so after about 2-3 yrs of marriage, we decided to try. This resulted in 2 miscarriages which were quite painful. We decided to give up trying. Then, about a year later, I discovered I was pregnant again. And 9 months later I gave birth to my second daughter.

Her father and I were married for almost 20 years before he ended our marriage and once again, I was left for another woman.

Do I feel bad that my 2 daughters have 2 dads? Not at all, because they are my flesh and blood and who cares if they have 2 fathers? Neither one are deadbeat dads. They are good men, we just weren't compatible anymore.

Now, as far as having children out of wedlock, I am a Christian, born and raised that way but have always remained very open minded about a lot of things in faith and spirit. My oldest daughter Emily, did give birth to a BEAUTIFUL baby girl who is an ANGEL. In more ways than one...for, if Emily had NOT had Betheny, at the time she did, she may not be alive today. For, at Emily's year checkup after having the baby, her ob/gyn discovered massive amounts of pre-cancerous cells on her cervix. They had to go in and do a procedure in his office, that I was present for, to freeze and remove them as well as some of her cervix.

Had it not been for her having a baby, she probably NEVER would have gone for a checkup. The doctor told me if she was 30 yrs old, he would have done a complete hysterectomy on her, given my family history for cancer...but since she was only 20 and wanted more children, this was the option for her. And as of today, she has NO precancerous cells, praise God.

The second reason I call Betheny my angel, is that she has provided a love and light for me to run to when I cannot bear the thoughts anymore of losing my beautiful nephew Anthony. He was murdered in 2012 at the age of 27 and the grief of his murder is a heavy burden to bear. Betheny makes me forget all negative things and focuses on the positives of life.

So, in closing...in MY life, there has been no problems, as I am not a deadbeat mother who wants to live off the system by popping babies out for someone else to feed and cloth and medicate etc...I take care of my own children, I work, have a great job, I have a car, I rent a house, I take care of it all. My oldest daughter and her fiance have their own house, they both work, they take care of each other and Betheny. My youngest daughter is 16 and a straight A student, already getting letters from colleges...

posted March 25, 2014 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Having control over yourself is a serious success factor. Where my son will be going to college, 72% of the Class of 2013 entered college as virgins and more than 50% of the Class of 2013 *graduated* as virgins. We aren't talking about only females. Those are gender blended statistics. You can't argue that there's a negative correlation between sexual indiscretion and success. You just don't have sex with everyone you like.

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posted March 25, 2014 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

You turned out alright didn't you?

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posted March 25, 2014 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Not as well as I could have if parents had paid attention to social behavior as much as they were concerned about academic achievement.

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posted March 25, 2014 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Social skills don't matter when you have lots of Benjamin's.

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posted March 25, 2014 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I think you are misled. Sure, lots and lots will flock to you, but all the wrong types. Like I said, having an itch in the pants doesn't mean you really need to sink your ball upon seeing every hole on each putting green.

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posted March 25, 2014 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Well yes, that goes without saying. But women are ultimately responsible for themselves and their children because they are the ones who get pregnant. It is their responsibility to make sure a man is a suitable father figure before going to bed with him. And if a woman simply must hook-up with men of questionable character there are condoms, birth control,and the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy. Thus women have know one to blame but themselves when they get pregnant by deadbeats.

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posted March 25, 2014 05:24 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b] Well yes, that goes without saying. But women are ultimately responsible for themselves and their children because they are the ones who get pregnant. It is their responsibility to make sure a man is a suitable father figure before going to bed with him. And if a woman simply must hook-up with men of questionable character there are condoms, birth control,and the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy. Thus women have know one to blame but themselves when they get pregnant by deadbeats.

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posted March 25, 2014 05:30 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

Yes but a deadbeat isn't going to have the forethought to get a vasectomy.. His only goal is to get more a** and alot of women seem to have no problem with that. That's why its up to the woman to make sure that #1 she is on birth control and the guy is wearing a condom -or- #2 that the guy she is going to bed with would be a suitable father should she get pregnant. The reality is most women refuse to get abortions or put their kids up for adoption and they also refuse to be responsible and take birth control. On top of all of that they refuse to give up going to bed with irresponsible bad boys, so something has to give....

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posted March 25, 2014 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
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Yes but a deadbeat isn't going to have the forethought to get a vasectomy.. His only goal is to get more a** and alot of women seem to have no problem with that. That's why its up to the woman to make sure that #1 she is on birth control and the guy is wearing a condom -or- #2 that the guy she is going to bed with would be a suitable father should she get pregnant. The reality is most women refuse to get abortions or put their kids up for adoption and they also refuse to be responsible and take birth control. On top of all of that they refuse to give up going to bed with irresponsible bad boys, so something has to give....

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posted March 25, 2014 05:38 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

Or a woman could just take birth control and/or be more discriminating about who she sleeps with. But that wouldn't work would it?

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