posted April 15, 2014 12:37 AM            

If she is an interesting and intelligent person that can offer me a different prespective on things and is a joy to have a conversation with and to be around, then sure. I'll be friends with her. It sure as hell won't be good for my career advacement opportunities , but meh!

Also, I am not sure if we are entirely clear on how we are defining the term "prostitution." Now with prostitution, are you defining the term as an action that trades sex for cash? Or does this term also encompasses the idea of Hosts and Hostesses? (i.e. paying a person to keep you company for a given duration of time; Sex doesn't necessarily has to be involved.)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Host_and_hostess_clubs#Hostess_clubs

With Hosts and Hostesses, things are a bit different. You pay for the company of the person (usually involving a Dinner Date or a Party) but in MOST cases, sex is off limits. Most Hosts and Hostesses work for Clubs and are independent proprietors.

posted April 15, 2014 01:08 AM            

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Originally posted by rajji:
Everlasting Friendship/Unconditionallove is about trust or faith...not about judgement or circumstances.

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posted April 15, 2014 01:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Ayelet:
I think essentially it is exactly that... You cannot have unconditional love and judge at the same time.

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Wouldn't that make the core teachings of most religions quite contradictory ?

posted April 15, 2014 01:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Sibyl:
What??? Do you mean at once? I don't get it. The people I know in RL who have had sex with 3 or fewer people are in a clear minority. I can only really think of a few who are in longterm relationships... And a couple of religious people.

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posted April 15, 2014 01:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
Wouldn't that make the core teachings of most religions quite contradictory ?

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posted April 15, 2014 01:38 AM            

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Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-20081: 6.1

Percent of men 15-44 years of age who have had 15 or more female sexual partners, 2006-20102: 21.6%

Median number of male sexual partners in lifetime, for women 25-44 years of age, 2006-20081: 3.6

Percent of women 15-44 years of age who have had 15 or more male sexual partners, 2006-20102: 9.0%

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From - http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm

You can look up several studies... but the results are in the same ballpark.

Since a majority of posters on LL are young women (teens - 30s) - I chose 3 as a potential number of sexual partners... but as I said 3 is stretching it, because for many girls in their 20s the number would be 2 or 1.

posted April 15, 2014 06:20 AM            

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No thanks, will not read. But looks like ISC is getting really good at this.

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This one's for you Cappy.
(It's a compliment.)

She's Craaafftay! http://youtu.be/CFFS3ndWSJ4

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Thanks for the song.

It's time for me to answer the question (I know you couldn't wait). I think I'd be open to being friends with a prosititute if we clicked, unless she's was too much of a mess. But I admit I'd at least feel tempted to persuade her to look for another job.

posted April 15, 2014 06:51 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:

Thanks for the song.

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posted April 15, 2014 07:03 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Yeah, I figured it out.

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posted April 15, 2014 09:51 AM            

What's a difference between that and...

(a) a dentist who says you have five cavities when you have one.

(b) an auto mechanic who says that you need a new transmisison when you just need more transmission fluid.

(c) a scummy stockbroker who tries to sell you another piece of garbage with fleas just to make more commissions.

(d) a traffic cop who says you exceeded the speed limit by 10 mph just to make his monthly ticket quota?

(e) the school teacher who wouldn't teach the kid but focuses on giving the kid a C to maintain minimum statistics.

(f) the chef who willingly uses last month's frozen seafood at a restauarant that touts fresh food.

(g) the corrupt dirtbag politician.

(h) the banker or auto executive who takes the huge government bailout and then pays himself a huge cash bonus and declares large stock option awards.

At least the lady in "the profession" supposedly leaves her clientele satiated. That's far more tnan I can say about most employees in most professions, and most legitimate businesses.

posted April 15, 2014 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:

Thanks for the song.

It's time for me to answer the question (I know you couldn't wait). I think I'd be open to being friends with a prosititute if we clicked, unless she's was too much of a mess. But I admit I'd at least feel tempted to persuade her to look for another job.

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posted April 15, 2014 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Sibyl:
[b] That wasn't my question. If she is making such a great living out of prostitution, how come she didn't have a place to stay or the means to get an education herself?

And, how come she wanted an education and not just continue doing her job if it was so awesome?

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This is why I said I dont trust prostitutes.