posted July 21, 2015 11:33 AM            

You mean me?? I'm here one year only. Are you aware how many sexist posts by Aquaguy I had to read trying to read or take part in relationship/gender threads? I can't imagine the other people here! And the reason for his posts is the one I mentioned. He will find a girl, get married and disappear altogether from this site. That's my prediction, I'm a psychic But those posts stay here forever.

posted July 21, 2015 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by the7thsphere:
Word. And I'm off to those greener pastures where people don't pretend they're better than the people they just equally traded insults with.

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posted July 21, 2015 11:36 AM            

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Ami Anne said:
I will!

People act all high brow but they are really low brow

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How true, Ami Anne. It's been something that I've observed and been disappointed by for 14 years at this site.

I watch "Knowflakes" hurl juvenile insults at each other and wonder what they're doing at a "spiritual discussion forum". I watch them walk right past a dozen meaningful posts in their hurry to get to the Jerry Springer green room and join the Great Toilet Seat Debate.

posted July 21, 2015 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I disagree with the idea that sex is a stronger need for men vs women. Or that sex is a basic need altogether; the physical part regularizes during sleep time for both genders. You can live a perfectly healthy life without ever having sex. The emotional/psychological part is more important, Eros is a powerful force, so is touching and human interaction, rather than the physical release itself, which, as I said, happens naturally. Believing that men (or women) go bonkers without sex is a silly old concept part of yuck patriarchal views. Both patriarchal and matriarchal views (one gender supremacy) are yuck and sexist. This idea, that sex is compulsory to stay healthy enables sexual objectification, one of the most hideous thingies that has been happening on this planet.

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I agree with you. Both sexes need to feel loved (usually). In the book I mentioned elsewhere, it was said that married people tend to be healthier in general, and live longer, because there's the knowledge that someone has your back - they've pledged to always be there for you. That loyalty is what I used to experience in other relationships, but losing that, plus feeling unattractive, really hasn't been nice.

posted July 21, 2015 11:43 AM            

*grabs parachute*

Excuse me now while I bail out of this perfectly good airplane!

posted July 21, 2015 11:44 AM            

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How true, Ami Anne. It's been something that I've observed and been disappointed by for 14 years at this site.

I watch "Knowflakes" hurl juvenile insults at each other and wonder what they're doing at a "spiritual discussion forum". I watch them walk right past a dozen meaningful posts in their hurry to get to the Jerry Springer green room and join the Great Toilet Seat Debate.

Perhaps silliest of all is that they hijack my "random rambles" thread to do it, a thread that was meant to be semi-serious at its heaviest.

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I once heard about fights breaking out on a forum for Buddhist monks. I think that was a Mars-Uranus opposition in the sky.

posted July 21, 2015 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by the7thsphere:
How true, Ami Anne. It's been something that I've observed and been disappointed by for 14 years at this site.

I watch "Knowflakes" hurl juvenile insults at each other and wonder what they're doing at a "spiritual discussion forum". I watch them walk right past a dozen meaningful posts in their hurry to get to the Jerry Springer green room and join the Great Toilet Seat Debate.

Perhaps silliest of all is that they hijack my "random rambles" thread to do it, a thread that was meant to be semi-serious at its heaviest.

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That just sounds so weird. It's as if you're not happy people are commenting on your thread. It also makes me feel unwelcome, for my opinion was serious, not semi-serious

posted July 21, 2015 11:48 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
"I disagree with the idea that sex is a stronger need for men vs women. Or that sex is a basic need altogether; the physical part regularizes during sleep time for both genders. You can live a perfectly healthy life without ever having sex."

You say that because you are a woman and not a man.

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posted July 21, 2015 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

No, I say it because it's a medical fact.

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posted July 21, 2015 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Sad indeed. Whatever.

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Hey Lee.

posted July 21, 2015 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
You can add one Canadian woman to the list. Don't forget that when I joined in 2012-2013 I was an ag fan and supporter.

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Honestly I think all us Pisces moons adopted him at some point, thinking we could just make it all better with kindness and tolerance.

Nope. Can't.

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

I thought all men leave it down. All 3 of my exes have, and my boyfriend. There are men who don't? Who are these a-holes?
I don't think it's a uniquely Virgo-type thing.

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posted July 21, 2015 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I love AG and I am all W-O-M-A-N

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Real women don't put up with misogyny.

posted July 21, 2015 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
You are ******* hilarious my friend.

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Thanks so much, that was a strange comment I made...LOL

My progressed Mercury is rightttt on the brink of switching back to its native Aquarius, after a very long sojourn in Capricorn.

posted July 21, 2015 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Whatever. You are not a man and do not live in a man's body. Men need sex to be truly healthy and happy. The only exceptions are guys that are asexual. Your "medical facts" prove nothing. Lack of sex first affects men on a mental/emotional level and after a time starts to affect their physical health too because they neglect their physical health in their depression as people who are severely depressed almost always do. To deny that men need sex is asinine. Anyone who has the most basic understanding of men knows that men need sex. It's sad that I even have to explain this.

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It's sad that you don't bother to try to understand women. I'm depressed, I've never really been loved. Where's my man? The one who was supposed to love me, and be there for me for my whole life?

posted July 21, 2015 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

Thanks so much, that was a strange comment I made...LOL

My progressed Mercury is rightttt on the brink of switching back to its native Aquarius, after a very long sojourn in Capricorn.

The craziest cr*p keeps coming to mind...I have to re-learn Aquarius!!

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posted July 21, 2015 12:41 PM            

ETA: Men our age seem very young to me, for the most part.

posted July 21, 2015 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

Hey Lee.

For a lot of these conversations, "whatever" is the best ending you can possibly get.

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posted July 21, 2015 12:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Oh thanks!

ETA: Men our age seem very young to me, for the most part.

It's strange, though, I've never spent much time around 30-something men, so I can't say anything for sure. My closest friends are either older than me and/or in relationships with much older men. My one friend's boyfriend is 30 years older !!!

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posted July 21, 2015 12:57 PM            

There's hope. You're pretty and nice, and who wouldn't like you?

posted July 21, 2015 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Whatever. You are not a man and do not live in a man's body. Men need sex to be truly healthy and happy. The only exceptions are guys that are asexual. Your "medical facts" prove nothing. Lack of sex first affects men on a mental/emotional level and after a time starts to affect their physical health too because they neglect their physical health in their depression as people who are severely depressed almost always do. To deny that men need sex is asinine. Anyone who has the most basic understanding of men knows that men need sex. It's sad that I even have to explain this.

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I wonder how you would reconcile this with the fact that you've just described exactly what I have gone through every single time I've attempted to remain celibate, with the fact that I am a woman. I've literally never succeeded at being celibate because sex is an emotional need for me and without it I quickly become very depressed.