posted August 04, 2015 09:00 AM
This is however the most common statistics for the past years:
http://www.fastcoexist.com/3045425/the-10-happiest-countries-in-the-world Happiness comes from choosing to be happy with whatever you do, strengthening your closest relationships and taking care of yourself physically, financially and emotionally.
Thus revealed a recent survey of Harvards class of 1980 with data likely biased to those feeling good enough about their lives to respond to the survey. I compared responses between those extremely happy and the rest of the respondents.
These revelations are in line with two earlier studies: The Grant Study and a 2010 Survey of the same class.
Grant Study
The 75 year longitudinal Grant Study led by George Vaillant had two main findings:
Happiness is love.
If alcoholism is not the root of all evil, it is closely correlated with it.
2010 Survey
An earlier survey of this same group suggested that happiness is good. Actually, happiness comes from three goods. Everyone is motivated by a blend of 1. Doing good for others, 2. Doing things they are good at, 3. Doing good for me. Given this, Dan Doctoroff and I suggested our classmates (and everyone else) focus on three things:
Good for others:
Cherish your most important relationships.
Be a contribution.
Good at it:
Do more of what youre good at and less of what youre not so good at.
Good for me:
Take care of yourself, your health and well-being, your financial security, and your work/life balance.
2015 Survey
This years survey suggests you can be happier if you: Choose to be happy with whatever you do, strengthen your closest relationships and take care of yourself physically, financially and emotionally.
Choose to be happy with whatever you do
The correlation between happiness and occupation, income or wealth is far less that the correlation between happiness and how people feel about their occupation, income or wealth.
47% of those extremely happy said they thoroughly enjoy what they are currently doing versus
14% of everyone else
62% have not and do not expect to hit a mid-life crisis versus
38% of everyone else
49% of those extremely happy said they are already pursuing their dreams versus
18% of everyone else
67% of those extremely happy said the happiest period of their lives is now versus
20% of everyone else
Strengthen your closest relationships
The most important happiness choice is to invest in your closest relationship whether its a spouse, partner, parent, sibling or friend.
75% of those extremely happy give a top box rating to the importance of success in their intimate relationships versus
49% of everyone else
77% of those extremely happy said the state of their relationship was either the greatest of very good versus
48% of everyone else
Take care of yourself physically, financially and emotionally
We all know that exercising and taking care of yourself correlates with good health. The happiest among us actually do exercise and take care of ourselves.
78% of those extremely happy said they exercise at least three times per week versus
57% of everyone else (and many of them lied)
93% of those extremely happy said they are in excellent or very good health versus
74% of everyone else
68% of those extremely happy think they are set or on track for retirement versus
49% of everyone else
10% of those extremely happy perceive themselves to be under stress versus
42% of everyone else
44% of those extremely happy said they are at peace with their work-life balance versus
13% of everyone else
Implications for you as an individual
Choose happiness in whatever you do.
Strengthen your closest relationships.
Take care of yourself physically, financially and emotionally.
Implications for you as a leader
Focus on how your team members feel about what they are doing even more than what they are doing.
Invest in relationships with your team members.
Invest in your team members physical, financial and emotional well-being.
Bottom line, happiness is a choice.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/georgebradt/2015/05/27/the-secret-of-happines s-revealed-by-harvard-study/
In relation to that, or shall I say the source:
The Grant Study is part of the Study of Adult Development at Harvard Medical School. It is a 75-year longitudinal study of 268 physically- and mentally-healthy Harvard college sophomores from the classes of 19391944. It has run in tandem with a study called "The Glueck Study," which included a second cohort of 456 disadvantaged nondelinquent inner-city youths who grew up in Boston neighborhoods between 1940 and 1945.[1] The subjects were all male, white and of American nationality. The men continue to be studied to this day. The men were evaluated at least every two years by questionnaires, information from their physicians, and in many cases by personal interviews. Information was gathered about their mental and physical health, career enjoyment, retirement experience and marital quality. The goal of the study was to identify predictors of healthy aging.
The study, its methodology and results are described in three books by a principal investigator in the study, George Vaillant. The first book[2] describes the study up to a time when the men were 47 years of age, and the second book[3] to when the inner-city men were 70 years old and the Harvard group were eighty. In 2012, Vaillant and Harvard University Press published Triumphs of Experience, sharing more findings from the Grant Study.[4]
The study is part of The Study of Adult Development, which is now under the direction of Dr. Robert J. Waldinger[5] at Massachusetts General Hospital. The study included four members who ran for the U.S. Senate. One served in a presidential Cabinet, and one was President John F. Kennedy.[6]
The study is unique partly because of the long time span of the cohort, and also partly because of the high social status of some of the study participants.
Contents
1 Main results
2 See also
3 References
4 External links
Main results
George Vaillant, who directed the study for more than three decades, has published[7] a summation of the key insights the study has yielded:
Alcoholism is a disorder of great destructive power.
Alcoholism was the main cause of divorce between the Grant Study men and their wives.
Strongly correlates with neurosis and depression, which tended to follow alcohol abuse, rather than precede it.
Together with associated cigarette smoking, was the single greatest contributor to their early morbidity and death.
Financial success depends on warmth of relationships and, above a certain level, not on intelligence.
Those who scored highest on measurements of warm relationships earned an average of $141,000 a year more at their peak salaries (usually between ages 55 and 60).
No significant difference in maximum income earned by men with IQs in the 110115 range and men with IQs higher than 150.
Political mindedness correlates with intimacy: Ageing liberals have way more sex.
The most-conservative men ceased sexual relations at an average age of 68.
The most-liberal men had active sex lives into their 80s.
The warmth of childhood relationship with mothers matters long into adulthood:
Men who had warm childhood relationships with their mothers earned an average of $87,000 more a year than men whose mothers were uncaring.
Men who had poor childhood relationships with their mothers were much more likely to develop dementia when old.
Late in their professional lives, the mens boyhood relationships with their mothersbut not with their fatherswere associated with effectiveness at work.
The warmth of childhood relationships with mothers had no significant bearing on "life satisfaction" at 75.
The warmth of childhood relationship with fathers correlated with:
Lower rates of adult anxiety.
Greater enjoyment of vacations.
Increased life satisfaction at age 75.
Vaillant's main conclusion is that "warmth of relationships throughout life have the greatest positive impact on 'life satisfaction'". Put differently, Vaillant says the study shows: "Happiness is love. Full stop."
This is a very focused group study (the target group is rather specific - upper class men), but it is still interesting and the longest research on male happiness
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