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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 04:32 PM
Your NN semisquare his NNYour Node = Saturn/PLuto (1°02)= Jupiter/Neptune = Saturn/Node = Node/Pluto = Venus/MC = Venus/Juno (the wife as romantic partner) = CeresVenus = Sun/Uranus (1°07) NODE TO MIDPOINT SATURN/PLUTO The misery of the masses, common suffering shared with many people together. - yeah, well, NO. lol Not agreeing with that, except in event charts. not a light midpoint at all, I agree with that, but it is a connection fated to bring kathartic, transformative processes into your life. Of course that mgiht feel exhausting, painful, even traumatic at times. But what I see in it is the cleansing and burning away of everything you donīt really need in your life (and boy, that sometimes can suck, I know). NODE TO MIDPOINT SATURN/NODE Meetings of a serious nature; a lonely position.
NODE TO MIDPOINT PLUTO/NODE New associations of significance and importance. (Understatement of the century, this is freaking intense. Significant? *shaking head* Lifechanging connection that is what it is about)
NODE TO MIDPOINT JUPITER/NEPTUNE Placing false hopes upon one's associations, dealing with others na媣ely and/or simplistically; company of swindlers and/or speculators. (yeah well Ebertin`s dislike of the planet Jupiter strikes again - scratch that one, and take my interpreation instead; this one here is more about grand dreams, a strong strong strong idealism in terms of connections; and sure yes, you could get deluded, but that is not the neccessary inevitable effect, sometimes if things look and feel fantastic, they simply ARE magic! Yes magic CAN exist, Mr Ebertin. And yes i take the dislike of Neptune personally, after all I have that natally as well Node= Jupiter/Neptune that is.
If at all it means that we sometimes have too high expectations placed onto associations and THEREFORE can sometimes get disappointed, if people can`t simply meet our expectations. But sometimes they do, you know? ) NODE TO MIDPOINT VENUS/M.C. An affectionate attitude; deep bonds of love. As you can see a very intense spot in the chart for you. While the Saturn/Node and Saturn/Pluto *can* speak of feelings of isolation, withdrawel, and losses, I donīt think this is always the case. In your chart yuo have a very close alignment of Saturn, Pluto and the nodes, and yes, a lot demand and pressure is being put onto connections and relationships. They wonīt ever be easy for you. But show me the person with saturn-Pluto who even WANTS easy, who would feel fulfilled with an easygoing superficial noncommittal relationship? What this rather shows is the All-or-nothing that comes with it. Yes, it will be exhausting and painful at times, but the depth of the emotional experiences is incomparable as well! Since these midpoints in your chart are connected to Venus/MC and Jupiter/Neptune and not to forget Venus/Juno, I think rather than losses neccessarily it shows of the sincerity, seriousness and deeply fatedness (or karmic implications) in terms of your love relationships. That is deep stuff here! And deep rarely comes easy, that is true. Well for him this is
Node = Mars/Lilith = LILITH / JUNO = Mercury/Mars = Mercury/JUNO So, as we see very clearly here, his Lilith is connected to Juno (through the nodes, meaning he wants both the true soul relationship and the marriage. why not with the same woman though?). Anyway all in all it seems a bit of a mental placement here, except for the intense passion that Llith represents, but we will not find interpretations for that. NODE TO MIDPOINT MERCURY/MARS Discussions with others; easily argumentative. Seems that this position is more important - romantically- for you than for him (unless of course his Mercury or Mars would ruler the ASC, DESC, IC, MC, 5th or 8th house)
I promise though there are other aspects that trigger some really nice romantic and especially sexual midpoints for him.
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 04:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Septembergirl: So, I'm more smitten then him at this point? And splitting what/who up? The archetypes?I was feeling brave, brave enough to communicate with him seriously......now I'm becoming a chicken again after reading this.
Don`t you dare chickening out! For all we know I might be doing astrology the wrong way. Tell me about the communication, and how the reacted. please? IP: Logged |
Septembergirl Knowflake Posts: 350 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted February 15, 2015 04:46 PM
He's soft spoken, courteous, positive, complementary, Never been real forward to me until he's been drinking. We communicate be texts and in person. I'm much more guarded than him and I have blown off his advances by rolling my eyes and not taking him serious. There is a lot of non verbal communication which gets on my nerves. I'm not good at reading people. I have a friend who has observed us together and says that she can even feel the pull we have to each other. I looked at her chart data today and it was interesting. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 04:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Septembergirl: You are right, Faith...Ceri knows her stuff!! So do you!! I'm learning quickly from the best!
Ceri is an expert...I've just been tagging along, trying to learn stuff! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 04:51 PM
Okay, I am getting tired so just a selection of the remaining onesyour Jupiter sesisquare his Mars 0°08 this one is nice on its own, Mr Ebertin relates it to the possibility of marriage and especially having children Anyway for you Jupiter = Mercury/Neptune = MOon/MC = Moon/Juno UPITER TO MIDPOINT MERCURY/NEPTUNE A rich imagination and great powers of fantasy; the large picture becomes personalised. The inclination to harbour great hopes. JUPITER TO MIDPOINT MOON/M.C. The rich and deep soul-life, optimism and confidence. Enthusiasm, the joy of hope or expectation, high aims or noble aspirations in life, a deeply religious or social outlook. A happy relationship as a mother or wife, a satisfied longing for children. for him Mars = Jupiter/Node = Sun/Venus MARS TO MIDPOINT JUPITER/NODE Successful teamwork. A happy physical union, engagement, procreation. MARS TO MIDPOINT SUN/VENUS The urge to love and posses. Pursuing the object of love, sexual feelings, the application of creativity. and then you also have
your Sun = your Lilith= his Uranus for you:
your Sun = Venus/Mars = Saturn/Neptune = Neptune/Pluto = Mercury/MC = Neptune/Node = Mars/Jupiter = Sun/Moon SUN TO MIDPOINT SUN/MOON Re-affirmation of desire to establish partnership.
SUN TO MIDPOINT MERCURY/M.C. A harmonious relationship between body, soul and spirit; SUN TO MIDPOINT SATURN/NEPTUNE Painstaking attention to hard work to fulfil plans; feeling alone in the effort. Physical reaction to stressful situation, lack of vitality, . SUN TO MIDPOINT MARS/JUPITER A healthy sex-life, creative power, the love of enterprise, organising talent, pride, a sense of honour, leadership. The day of happiness, the bridegroom. SUN TO MIDPOINT VENUS/MARS A strong physical love; artistic power of creation; marriage, conception. for him Uranus = Venus/Pluto = Node/Lilith = Pluto/Ceres= Venus/Jupiter URANUS TO MIDPOINT VENUS/JUPITER The capacity to express joy whole-heatedly, the ability to become popular quickly. Sudden happiness in love, quick fulfilment of wishes, joyous excitement. URANUS TO MIDPOINT VENUS/PLUTO Love at first sight, fanatic (compulsive, passionate) love. Experiences off-the-beaten-track. There you have it, your match!
But since you have the double whammy Your Uranus = his LILITH for you your Uranus = Mars/Saturn = Mars/Pluto = Mars/Node (please do take the following with a grain of salt again, those interpretaions are a little too gloomy, ) URANUS TO MIDPOINT MARS/SATURN Extraordinary and unusual powers of resistance, the ability to give as well as to take under provocation, the inclination to apply brute force. A test of nervous strength, intervention by a higher force or providence. URANUS TO MIDPOINT MARS/PLUTO Tremendous energy; dangerous sense of attack; a chip on one's shoulder; fight first, talk later attitude. Sudden disaster or calamity of great consequence. URANUS TO MIDPOINT MARS/NODE Organising others; getting people stirred up; sharing excitement; sudden events that affect lots of people. for him LILITH (I will substitute her with Pluto, as this planet seems to be the closest in nature of Lilith) = Saturn/Pluto = Sun/Uranus = Venus/Mars PLUTO TO MIDPOINT SATURN/PLUTO The threat of loss in any area of life; potential self-destruction; hard, hard work. (well like in your case, you can also apply the words: fate, kathartic transformation, karma, deep lifechanging developments and relationships) PLUTO TO MIDPOINT SUN/URANUS The demand for new perspectives, a new individual reality. A radical reformer, the urge to rearrange things. Reforms. A strong drive for power. Twists of fate. PLUTO TO MIDPOINT VENUS/MARS Powerful sexual drive; the conquest.
(of course Lilith is Lilithe and not exactly like Pluto, however I find it interesting that his Venus/Mars-mp is connected to Lilith. So his passion is the other woman, the one who is truely his equal and matches his raw soul).
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 04:57 PM
I had a glimpse at his wife`s chart in relation to his, and found this one here especially interestinghis Neptune = her Node triggering Mercury/Saturn in him NEPTUNE TO MIDPOINT MERCURY/SATURN A state of depression, distrust, emotional confusion. the longing for far and distant places, home-sickness, Not what I would want to trigger in anyone! IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 04:59 PM
I wonder, if I read all these midpoint facts 10 times, if it will all form a cohesive picture in my head? It's kinda taking shape after two readings...Here I go for #3.... IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:04 PM
quote: and then you also haveyour Sun = your Lilith= his Uranus
*thinking* Her sun semisquare his Uranus? Does it matter very much what the aspect is...or are you mainly looking at contacts, plain and simple? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:05 PM
Sorry, if I expressed myself hastily or confusingly. It`s just about identifying certain "hot spots" between charts. of course everything else stays valid and important, too, in synastric analysis.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:07 PM
So the hot spots will be where A's planet, which aspects a bunch of A's midpoints, aspects B's planet, which aspects a bunch of B's midpoints? IP: Logged |
Septembergirl Knowflake Posts: 350 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted February 15, 2015 05:17 PM
Hmmm. Interesting. I'm speechless actually. And still reading....again for the 4th time. Sounds like I'm fighting a losing battle (depending on how you look at it) Expending a lot of my energy pushing him away and it's futile. But I have to be careful not to set my expectations too high? IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Your Node = Saturn/PLuto (1°02)= Jupiter/Neptune = Saturn/Node = Node/Pluto = Venus/MC = Venus/Juno (the wife as romantic partner) = CeresVenus = Sun/Uranus (1°07)-- As you can see a very intense spot in the chart for you. While the Saturn/Node and Saturn/Pluto *can* speak of feelings of isolation, withdrawel, and losses, I donīt think this is always the case. -- What this rather shows is the All-or-nothing that comes with it. Yes, it will be exhausting and painful at times, but the depth of the emotional experiences is incomparable as well! -- Since these midpoints in your chart are connected to Venus/MC and Jupiter/Neptune and not to forget Venus/Juno, I think rather than losses neccessarily it shows of the sincerity, seriousness and deeply fatedness (or karmic implications) in terms of your love relationships. That is deep stuff here! And deep rarely comes easy, that is true.
That is all so cool...and understandable. quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: I promise though there are other aspects that trigger some really nice romantic and especially sexual midpoints for him.
Yeah there has to be a reason he's drawn to her like moth to flame. And I just want to comment on... quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: NODE TO MIDPOINT PLUTO/NODE New associations of significance and importance. (Understatement of the century, this is freaking intense. Significant? *shaking head* Lifechanging connection that is what it is about)
Let's see, my node/Pluto MP is at 0.19 Scorpio. Darn I can't think of anyone I know with that NN. Elvis' NN was at 1.08 Aquarius though IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Septembergirl: Sounds like I'm fighting a losing battle...
I'm not getting that impression. For example, all of this is basically positive, your Jupiter midpoints and his Mars midpoints: quote: your Jupiter sesisquare his Mars 0°08 this one is nice on its own, Mr Ebertin relates it to the possibility of marriage and especially having children
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: *thinking*Her sun semisquare his Uranus? Does it matter very much what the aspect is...or are you mainly looking at contacts, plain and simple?
For now just looking at contacts plain and simple. I do think though that the semisquare miht be a little more subtle, however not subtle enough to leave it out. At least personally I feel they have at least a moderately strong effect. Funny enough Mr Sag`s Pluto is semisquare my ASC just as Mr Cap is September girl`s. I find that intriguing. lol IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:35 PM
I believe in semisquares. My Saturn is semisquare Mars...so squelching!IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: So the hot spots will be where A's planet, which aspects a bunch of A's midpoints, aspects B's planet, which aspects a bunch of B's midpoints?
Yes, those are the dominant areas. When we are finished with that analysis, of course, it will be interesting to see what midpoints are being triggered in each other`s chart, that are not connected to planets. For example I do not have any planet connected to my Venus/Mars-mp, and Mr Sag`s Neptune is conjunct that one (Neptune being his chartruler). Interesting Mr Law`s Mercury-Karma-conjunction falls into the same space (Mercury ruling his 7th house). Someone I had a MAJOR crush on in teenage years had his Mars exactly square this. Too many coincidences to just ignore it. But that would be the second step. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:41 PM
Also Septembergirl, notice that all of this is positive: quote: your Sun = Venus/Mars = Saturn/Neptune = Neptune/Pluto = Mercury/MC = Neptune/Node = Mars/Jupiter = Sun/Moonfor him Uranus = Venus/Pluto = Node/Lilith = Pluto/Ceres= Venus/Jupiter
I mean, just put any two readings together from that set, and imagine those midpoint energies blending together: YOU: "SUN TO MIDPOINT VENUS/MARS A strong physical love; artistic power of creation; marriage, conception." HIM: "URANUS TO MIDPOINT VENUS/JUPITER The capacity to express joy whole-heatedly, the ability to become popular quickly. Sudden happiness in love, quick fulfilment of wishes, joyous excitement." Basically all the combinations of your sun midpoints and his Uranus midpoints are pretty lovely, which is probably why Ceri said, "There you have it, your match!" IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:42 PM
"That is all so cool...and understandable." Yay. I think the trick is to first understand the isolated meanings, but then read them in combination with each other. A Saturn/Pluto-mp in combination with Sun/Venus and Venus/MC certainly will have different meaning than a Saturn/Pluto-mp in combination with mercury/Uranus or Uranus/Neptune. "Let's see, my node/Pluto MP is at 0.19 Scorpio. Darn I can't think of anyone I know with that NN. Elvis' NN was at 1.08 Aquarius though " That suffices. it is not THAT important if it is a conjunction or a square, both will have the trigger-effect (well maybe the conjunction would be a little stronger, but square is still strong enough). BTW my own Pluto/Node is on 9°37 Scorpio (I suppose Ian Somerhalder`s Venus on 9°07 Scorpio would be a terrific match for that ).
Seriously though, it`s just opposing Mr Sag`s Chiron on 9°35 Taurus, though THAT one is a tight relation, isnīt it? But nothing in my own chart, except PALLAS on about 9 of the fixed signs. However, the semisquare/ sesisquare to this one would be on 24°37 of the mutable signs (so, Sag, Gemini, Pisces, Virgo). with the semisquare and sesisquare in terms of midpoints I am strict, so I would not count anything over 1 degree orb, which means my Sun is out of orb; however my Mercury on 25°02 Sag is clearly semisquare this midpoint, and mr Sag`s ASC on 25°38 Pisces, is definitely square my Mercury, and through that connection, triggering the whole picture of Mercury=Node/Pluto for me. His Node/Pluto is on 26°23 Virgo; it is connected to a whole lot in his chart, much more evident than in my own. as he has: Saturn 26°42 Virgo Sun 26°57 Sagittarius which is squaring my Sun on 25°56 Sagittarius, so in this case it is my Sun triggering the Pluto/Node for him or rather triggering Saturn=Pluto/Node and Sun= Pluto/Node for him. How interesting, there is an interrconnection of Saturn, Pluto and Node again. Hm. But this is what he would experience. Nevertheless even though I said I am strict with semisquares, I can`t help but noticing how close my own Sun is to a semisquare to my Pluto/Node as well. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:45 PM
Have you already developed a sense of what each midpoint is about, after looking at so many midpoints for so long?So the pictures come together almost instinctively for you now? IP: Logged |
Septembergirl Knowflake Posts: 350 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted February 15, 2015 05:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Also Septembergirl, notice that all of this is positive: I mean, just put any two readings together from that set, and imagine those midpoint energies blending together: YOU: "SUN TO MIDPOINT VENUS/MARS A strong physical love; artistic power of creation; marriage, conception." HIM: "URANUS TO MIDPOINT VENUS/JUPITER The capacity to express joy whole-heatedly, the ability to become popular quickly. Sudden happiness in love, quick fulfilment of wishes, joyous excitement." Basically all the combinations of your sun midpoints and his Uranus midpoints are pretty lovely, which is probably why Ceri said, "There you have it, your match!"
Wow....that's amazing...what I meant was that I'm fighting a losing battle to RESIST him. Doesn't seem like he's going anywhere. And between us, we have 5 children. I can still have more, but I'm getting older..time is running out. And it doesn't matter because my presence alone is affecting his marriage. Sigh.... I am forever indebited to you both for sharing this with me.
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: I believe in semisquares. My Saturn is semisquare Mars...so squelching!
I am glad you do. personally I do not have any semisquares in my natal chart, but they seem to crop up in synastry for me. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Also Septembergirl, notice that all of this is positive: I mean, just put any two readings together from that set, and imagine those midpoint energies blending together: YOU: "SUN TO MIDPOINT VENUS/MARS A strong physical love; artistic power of creation; marriage, conception." HIM: "URANUS TO MIDPOINT VENUS/JUPITER The capacity to express joy whole-heatedly, the ability to become popular quickly. Sudden happiness in love, quick fulfilment of wishes, joyous excitement." Basically all the combinations of your sun midpoints and his Uranus midpoints are pretty lovely, which is probably why Ceri said, "There you have it, your match!"
Yes, exactly. that is why.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen:
When we are finished with that analysis, of course, it will be interesting to see what midpoints are being triggered in each other`s chart, that are not connected to planets.
Just basic, planet to midpoint pictures? Would you see, these are not as loaded" and therefore not as powerful? Or are they more powerful because they are just straightforward? quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: For example I do not have any planet connected to my Venus/Mars-mp, and Mr Sag`s Neptune is conjunct that one (Neptune being his chartruler). Interesting Mr Law`s Mercury-Karma-conjunction falls into the same space (Mercury ruling his 7th house). Someone I had a MAJOR crush on in teenage years had his Mars exactly square this. Too many coincidences to just ignore it. But that would be the second step.
That's neat. My Mars/Venus MP is at 11 Virgo, matching my sun/Uranus MP at 11 Sag (0.08 orb.) My friend has an 11 Virgo moon and 11 Sag sun. Well that is high resonance...or whatever you call it!
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 22182 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 05:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Have you already developed a sense of what each midpoint is about, after looking at so many midpoints for so long?So the pictures come together almost instinctively for you now?
yes, most of the time. It is just bringing the symbols into combination and context. like the planets would conjunct each other almost, just that it happens in only one person, not two. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13385 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 06:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Septembergirl: Wow....that's amazing...what I meant was that I'm fighting a losing battle to RESIST him.
Oh yeah...that's probably a losing battle. quote: Originally posted by Septembergirl: And between us, we have 5 children.
I have 5 children. Are you telling me that if I get divorced or widowed, remarriage will be a problem??? Oh yeah...it might! LOL Just be comforted that it'd trickier for me than you... And some people merge families quite well. (Case in point: Brady Bunch.) quote: Originally posted by Septembergirl: I can still have more, but I'm getting older..time is running out.
Aw...you never know... quote: Originally posted by Septembergirl: I am forever indebited to you both for sharing this with me.
You are more than welcome but it's mostly just Ceri. Thanks Ceri!! We are learning so much here. IP: Logged | |