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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 26, 2016 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With a significant person, preferably a relationship that lasted a while and meant a lot to both of you! Possibly for those of you who are married/committed - that would be great!

I've been trying to come up with a good FMC for the Scorpio and me and it drove me down a rabbit hole looking at ALL the FMCs I have stored in my database.

I'm interested in the chart itself, the synastry with both parties and the composite with both partners! A bit much to ask, but I feel especially the composites and the chart itself have a great story to tell! Please post in a friendly format like astro.com so I can distinguish them better.

Thank you for participating in this survey!

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posted January 26, 2016 10:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
just go with your guts, DM.

Look at when is the most auspicious time for you or for him, based on the transits. Like when Jupiter or Venus trines your Moons or tr Moon trines your or his Venus or Jupiter, so that you will feel great emotionally, or if it happens that Chiron trines your Venus or Jupiter.
When tr Moon trines my Venus or Jupiter, I usually feel very amorous and I feel loved and cared for and it's just a good time to be around loved ones.

on our first meeting chart, which was not planned, it just happened that there was a Transiting conjunction in the sky of Venus , Jupiter and Valentine, and the trio was exactly trinning my natal Chiron. A Cindarella time when according to Magi, people fall in love. I certainly did.

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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 26, 2016 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's not about that Orange, I want to study FMCs better. This one is sort of decided for Sunday - well, if he accepts that is. However it awakened a thirst to know more about FMCs. I've been looking at the ones I stored and the happy ones usually show some sort of aspect formation and generally good aspects. The best one is with my cat! lmao Crazy to do a fmc for your cat, I know, but he's been my constant bedmate for 3 years, while men have come and gone. Anyone would be jealous of our Venus-Mercury-Jupiter stellium in the 7th forming a GT. Also unplanned. Obviously. I'm crazy but not batsht crazy! lol

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posted January 26, 2016 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol @ your cat.. hahaha...yes, the universe works like that

have you read the cafeastrology lessons on FM or event charts?

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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 26, 2016 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did. There's still something I'm missing. I can't put my finger on it, but I feel it. A piece of information I'm blinded to.

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posted January 26, 2016 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Transits are my birth chart. My moon @ 18 Pisces though.

Obviously, the FMC moon on my sun is big. Venus-Uranus matches our synastry, we have tight, positive contacts both ways (trine and sextile) and we are just a weird couple.

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posted January 27, 2016 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starry~*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to go off course to the topic but..

Faith: How did the composite Moon Sq. Mars/Saturn/Merc play out for your relationship? I have this with a guy I'm currently seeing. More specifically, I heard that Moon Sq. Saturn in the composite is a total killer.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted January 27, 2016 04:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My parents First date


My parents Wedding

The analysis of the impact/relationship prediction (plus many FMC comparisons of many posters) here:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000221.html

The multicomposite with the FMC, another valid method I use to evaluate the outcome of a meeting:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/001042.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/226274.html

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LeeLoo2014
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posted January 27, 2016 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BUT...my view on this is that it's not the FM that determines the extent/quality of a relationship. It is always the synastry/composite combo for that. Always. No FMs, no progressions, no transits can change the relational prediction shown by the synastry. They only show how that structure is triggered.

When you look at the synastry of people who are in a long term committed relationship, they always look like charts fit for that or not, from the beginning. When you look at the event charts, you see the same story told with a screenplay method, you see how it happened. You see another layer of the same story.

In the meeting/event charts (the transits), what you see mostly is how the event triggered the synastry/composite/natal configuration; you can see how each one felt, their expectations and plans about the relationship at the time, and how things evolved towards a relationship and throughout it.

The same when you look at progressions. In both progressions and transits, you can see reflected the moment when they got together, married, broke up or had fights, made up, had children and became parents, and all the various stages of a relationship.

All predictive astrology (transits and progressions) show the triggers for each stage and help you describe it, they cannot replace the quality of the original charts.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted January 27, 2016 05:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Another idea, discovery I made. You don't need to choose, astrologically, the day of a meeting. You use the external clock (the opportunity) and your own internal clock. The universe takes care of that because the opportunities are always aligned with what is meant to happen. And this is because the events in your life are written all over your natal chart from the beginning. It's a hidden structure waiting for the triggers to manifest, and the triggers (the moment when it will happen) are already predicted and written in there. For example, you are born in 1980 with a structure, and that structure exists because in 2016 it will be triggered by a sky alignment that happens only in 2016, only then it becomes perfectly aligned with your natal chart configuration. The natal chart is the print of the events to come, and it encompasses all your future.
My parents wedding angles and their Davison are identical, both of them. Perfectly aligned. And this is just one example. I have two FMC myself when the FM angles are aligned with the Composite or Davison, or a natal. If the wedding had taken place one hour sooner or later, the angles wouldn't have been aligned, but they are, and they clearly only partially planned that moment, it was scheduled by the city hall the city hall knew better

In the year, month, day, hour, location of their birth, for both of them, their wedding was already written.

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posted January 27, 2016 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know i agree with you, sister Lee.

I, personally, only use transits when i need to pick a day. Transits influence our current moods and perceptions.

I never use event charts unless the time and date has already been picked up outside of my control. Then i will look at the event chart to see what the message of the Universe was. Good or bad, i think this how it was meant to be, and if it was bad, then i assume its a blessing in disguise.

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Faith
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posted January 27, 2016 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for those brilliant comments, Lee.

You've given us a lot to think about, and some tools for analysis.

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Ceridwen
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posted January 27, 2016 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Orange:

I never use event charts unless the time and date has already been picked up outside of my control. Then i will look at the event chart to see what the message of the Universe was. Good or bad, i think this how it was meant to be, and if it was bad, then i assume its a blessing in disguise.


That is how I do it, too.
I never plan first meeting charts.

However they ARE interesting and telling. And I found it interesting how they reflect the composite or synastry anyway. At least mine does. lol

Well, not a relationship, but a relation of some kind, and while it certainly is not a "dream-first-meeting-chart", it`s complicated, it`s messy, and yet strangely structured, it`s up in the air and still somehow to the ground, it`s intriguing and frustrating and fulfilling all at the same time.

But even though no, not a dream-chart, I feel it resonates such a lot. It`s just "us", as far as there is an "us". lol
You know the limits, you all!

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posted January 27, 2016 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mar1982delta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
With a significant person, preferably a relationship that lasted a while and meant a lot to both of you! Possibly for those of you who are married/committed - that would be great!

I've been trying to come up with a good FMC for the Scorpio and me and it drove me down a rabbit hole looking at ALL the FMCs I have stored in my database.

I'm interested in the chart itself, the synastry with both parties and the composite with both partners! A bit much to ask, but I feel especially the composites and the chart itself have a great story to tell! Please post in a friendly format like astro.com so I can distinguish them better.

Thank you for participating in this survey!


Oh how lovely! I am absolutely clueless about Fmcs and I still have no idea how on earth the future of the relationship can be predetermined by this day! Its absolutely intriguing, so I ll post my charts, really looking forward to any insights! Really helps to my learning process!!! Thank you!


FMC

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SYNASTRY FMC WITH HIM

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SYNASTRY FMC WITH ME

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COMPOSITE FMC WITH HIM

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COMPOSITE FMC WITH ME

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:-)

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posted January 27, 2016 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mar1982delta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
With a significant person, preferably a relationship that lasted a while and meant a lot to both of you! Possibly for those of you who are married/committed - that would be great!

I've been trying to come up with a good FMC for the Scorpio and me and it drove me down a rabbit hole looking at ALL the FMCs I have stored in my database.

I'm interested in the chart itself, the synastry with both parties and the composite with both partners! A bit much to ask, but I feel especially the composites and the chart itself have a great story to tell! Please post in a friendly format like astro.com so I can distinguish them better.

Thank you for participating in this survey!


I have another one as well, if it helps the survey!!!
Can you tell if only the difference between the fmcs determine the different outcome of the relationships? I ll be totally amazed if it does!

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SYNASTRY FMC WITH ME

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SYNASTRY FMC WITH HIM

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COMPOSITE FMC WITH ME

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COMPOSITE FMC WITH HIM

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Ceridwen
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posted January 27, 2016 11:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hope it will not be too much for you (i mean too many charts, but you asked so )
Probably not the kind of first meeting chart you WANT to see, but couldn`t resist posting it anyway


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posted January 27, 2016 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my synastry with the fmc
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my composite with the fmc
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posted January 27, 2016 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 27, 2016 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
his synastry with the fmc
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his composite with the fmc
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posted January 27, 2016 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ceridwen
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posted January 27, 2016 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DM,

maybe you noticed the Sun-Venus-conjunction in the first meeting chart?
It`s what I call an "awkward looking" Sun-Venus-conjunction, for it is out of sign and in 6th house. So a bit bleh.

Anyway what just struck me is if we treat that as a birth chart, we can progress it.
and I did that to the moment/ encounter when he would come down his stage, come over to me and tease/ torment me throughout the whole rest of the evening. Like he as glued to my chair (he was doing more songs from standing or squatting right beside me than ON stage actually. lol)


Anyway for that particular moment, the progressed first meeting chart has pr Venus on 1°29 Gemini, just half a degree applying to the conjunction to first meeting chart`s Sun (as foretold by the awkward Pythagorean triangle including Saturn in square to that Sun, I was not at all able to deal with that attention and certianly not with the energy generated. lol).


Interestingly on that other concert in 2014, when he was seemingly a little "out of it" (as others remarked to me. lol) which escalated finally in his blurting out that I was driving him completely crazy the pr fmc Sun had come onto 7 Gemini - I find that remarkable, because not only is my natal DESC on 7 Gemini, but that week I was having a New Moon in tertiary progressions on - 7 Gemini! LOL

It really is like following a script.


Anyway until today i did not even know you can progress first meeting charts, but why not?
After all they are "birth charts" of the tangible manifestation of a connection, in what way ever

(our own birthchart is actually the first meeting chart with the world )

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posted January 27, 2016 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for posting, guys! It's a lot of material to study, but the more the better! The main purpose was for me to learn from them, I don't know if I'll be able to give a competent reading but I'll try. I could use the practice, if I have the time.

@LeeLoo - thank you for sharing your thoughts and for the links. I will need to go through all of them before I can fully reply.

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posted January 27, 2016 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, guys I'm in love with event charts, they make you feel you're snooping and I love to discover how each one felt and thought and the potential chain of events depicted in there.

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posted January 27, 2016 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I love event charts, too. I am obsessed with them! And me personally I also nearly always check the midpoints, at least the direct midpoints, and should they be on the basis of an actual aspect SOOOO interesting.

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posted January 27, 2016 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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