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Topic: Which aspects make for a long term relationship/marriage?
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 19476
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 19, 2016 11:28 AM
  
@ReadytochillCute stories!  And wow, your natals even tie in with the Award Winning Composite Chart Can I be nosey and ask his moon's degree? Really you two should get married. Tell him your personal, online, completely non-professional astrologer is insisting on this.  Just kidding but I love your relationship, astrology-wise! quote:
To me, staying together without the contract speaks more volumes than staying together because of that contract.
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 19476
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 19, 2016 11:30 AM
@EmGem: No worries!  @mar-delta: Yes please, I would love some data, if you are so inclined. Maybe we should start a new thread about it? I think I will, so we don't derail. IP: Logged |
Readytochill
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: In my head
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted February 19, 2016 11:52 AM
Faith,His moon is at 23 Gemini. Lol if I told him what you said, I think he would look at me with a very stern Capricorn look and I'd just give a cheesy grin then start laughing. When he gets serious, it makes me nervous and I laugh or I get really quiet and hear what he has to say. Even if it doesn't work out, I'm sure we'll be in each other's lives. Maybe things will work out better when we're older. IP: Logged |
Readytochill
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: In my head
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted February 21, 2016 05:48 PM
We hung out yesterday and he said that he's not afraid to put a ring on it just as long as I keep respecting his independence and space.It freaked me out lol just like when he said "I love you" for the first time. I replied back with "as a really good friend or something more?" Lol *facepalm* I did eventually say I love you too after I heard an explanation though  He's sweet. I think I'm afraid of intimacy which is strange because I daydream about it and it's something that I want. I can be difficult to deal with in relationships at times *sigh*
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Readytochill
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: In my head
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted February 21, 2016 05:51 PM
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12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 2950
From:
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 21, 2016 07:12 PM
My parents were married for 20+ years (until his death). Their story is deeply complicated, volatile, surrounded by lots of griefs and whatnot. It’s hard for me to understand their connection or how they felt about each other. But I know their connection is one hell of a connection. The two of them were prepared to stay single. Mom wanted to because she was “disgusted with the kind of suitors that kept coming at me” - in her words. Dad apparently couldn’t find anyone to his taste. Their families hated each other, so that was part of the reason why no match-making was made and they didn’t consider a potential match, despite knowing of each other. But of course, they just happened to meet in person and fall in love after the first fight. He was 37-38 at the time, she was 27-28. Dad loved her viciousness, mom loved that he "wasn't a sniveling, spineless little sht"-her words. They went through a lot of stuff. He always said she was “the person that makes life interesting and worth the time/effort”. Mom isn’t so poetic or vocal about her affection, but judging by her little grin whenever dad is mentioned, I suspect she feels the same. When I got older and the relationship between me and them got better, I sometimes asked about their story. And each time I was flabbergasted, because what they described about each other, couldn’t be more different from what I perceived them to be. In synastry, they have sun-sun trine, moon-venus trine, moon-mars dw (sextile and square) venus quincunx mars , sun square venus/Saturn, Sun conjunct Neptune, venus – ascendant dw (trine and square), venus square pluto, oppose mars. Her IC/Desc ruler trine his IC ruler and saturn, oppose his pluto, conjunct his North Node. Her 5th house ruler trine his venus/asc, square his mars. Her 8th house ruler trine his mercury/asc His Desc ruler trine her moon/venus, square her mars. His 5th house ruler sextile her sun/neptune/asc, square her moon, trine pluto. His 8th house ruler trine her mars, uranus
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Readytochill
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: In my head
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted March 15, 2016 02:11 AM
Had to resurrect this thread and say that I get it. I get what our NN Pisces in the 5th means. Thanks, Faith I feel more at peace knowing my boyfriend and I have an "out of this world" connection. Instead of focusing on whether this relationship will make it or not, we're enjoying how this relationship makes us feel. With the ruler of Pisces on our IC, we create this home in the sky to get away from everyday life where we can just love and enjoy each other. Home is where the heart is. I know if things don't work out between us on this earthy plane, we'll always have that spiritual, divine, almost godly connection, where we'll care about each other unconditionally.
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lemonflash
Newflake Posts: 8
From:
Registered: Nov 2015
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posted March 26, 2016 12:27 PM
My ex and I were together for 17 years. The only Saturn aspects we have are a fairly loose Sun Conjunct Saturn and tight Saturn Sextile Sun. I thought our marriage would last forever despite being quite unhappy almost from the start. Something was always off about our communication, our desires in life, and definitely our sex life. We got along well enough but I feel like we were never in sync. Our marriage had zero spark. I've been looking and looking at our synastry and I guess I don't see anything that indicates a sexual attraction. When I look at my synastry with the person I've been with the last 6 months, we have double whammy Sun-Pluto and Venus-Pluto and sex has been out of this world. I feel more transformed from that relationship than I do from my 17 year marriage! However, I doubt we will have anything long-term. Me and my Ex:
Sun Square Moon 0.26
Sun Conjunct Mercury3.56
Sun Trine Jupiter 1.40
Sun ConjunctSaturn 4.15
Moon Square Moon 0.48
Mercury Conjunct Sun 2.17
Mercury Sextile Pluto 0.38
Venus Conjunct Venus 2.30
Venus Square Pluto 2.32
Mars Trine Uranus 1.58
Mars Square Asc 1.1
Jupiter Square Mars 1.21
Saturn Sextile Sun 0.39
Saturn Trine Pluto 2.16
Uranus Square Mercury 2.11
Uranus Square Saturn 1.51
Neptune Trine Sun 0.60
Neptune Square Mars 2.17 IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
Knowflake Posts: 3842
From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2016 10:41 PM
Omg, he lost interest in me already
These freaking people I swearI like the sun Conjunct moon aspect
There's a general understanding of each other's nature Supposedly.. If I wasn't so invested in society and astrology and influenced XD IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Moderator Posts: 4291
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 05, 2016 04:47 PM
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