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posted March 27, 2018 08:30 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I've read that having Mars in the 12th house in synastry can indicate two people having an affair.

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For my longest relationship, I had my mars in his 12th house, and yes, I did have an affair. He found out and was devastated. This happened 4 years into the relationship. We took a year break and got back together for 3 years until we finally broke it off.

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posted March 27, 2018 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
For my longest relationship, I had my mars in his 12th house, and yes, I did have an affair. He found out and was devastated. This happened 4 years into the relationship. We took a year break and got back together for 3 years until we finally broke it off.

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I think you misunderstood what I meant. I'm saying that I've read that 12th house synastry can be an indication of an affair between two people. A secret affair between the 12th house person and the planet person.

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posted January 18, 2020 01:38 PM            

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My aunts moon falls in my 12th house and she tends to be very evil twords me and my sister. My earliest memories of her is she being realy strict and us never being comfortable around her.

She gets even more mad at me if she sees me cry and i am a very emotional person, i respect her so i stop myself from being meab to her back so the only thing i can do is cry and she becomes even more vile the more i am hurt. Sometimes i feel she resents me. When i saw her moon in my 12th i felt like that might be the answer to her being such a ***** .

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posted January 19, 2020 07:42 PM            

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My ex and I had 12th house overlays, and it was a really wonderful relationship that lasted for five years. His sun fell into my 12th, my moon fell into his 12th.

That being said, his moon was in pisces, so he may have been used to that energy, and for some reason I really enjoy when cancer suns fall into my 12th (I'm a leo rising but I don't really enjoy leo suns in my 12th (romantically, at least)).

Also, his moon opposed my sun, and we had a stellium conjunction that consisted of:
my AS (19° leo)+mercury (23° leo)+venus (25° leo)+jupiter (27° leo)
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his mars (22° leo)+SN (26° leo)+venus (27° leo)
which all trined my (23° aries) moon (that falls into his 12th).

But, to me, the 12th house overlays ended up feeling almost like a psychic sense of unconditional acceptance, love, and trust. (Though, again, the 12th house placements received very supportive aspects.)

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posted January 26, 2020 04:21 PM            

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posted August 12, 2022 12:53 AM            

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My husband's moon is in my 12th house but he is ashiest AF.

But I will share my beliefs with him.

His 12th house is in Virgo. I have nothing in Virgo.

I once was with a Taurus moon guy we could talk about ghosts, OBE's, I could also share with him about rocks and astrology.

I got one of my Taurus friends into astrology.

I'm going to see one of my Taurus friends next week. She does witch craft believes in astrology and all that jazz.

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posted August 12, 2022 04:34 AM            

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But if the house person has 12th house placements in their natal chart wouldn't they be used to that energy?

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posted January 22, 2024 11:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
For my longest relationship, I had my mars in his 12th house, and yes, I did have an affair. He found out and was devastated. This happened 4 years into the relationship. We took a year break and got back together for 3 years until we finally broke it off.

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This was a case in my young love life, his 12h mars and my bad rendezvous with someone I shouldn't have trusted. My then guy, the mars man, was ruined. We were ruined.

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posted February 13, 2024 04:27 PM            

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posted February 14, 2024 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
But if the house person has 12th house placements in their natal chart wouldn't they be used to that energy?

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Yes but the 12th house themes in Synastry are still there and might still be hard to deal with. The 12th house can be challenging both Natally and in Synastry but i think that the 12th house is more challenging and Negative in Synastry if their is hard Neptune aspects aswell.

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