posted January 07, 2019 10:22 PM            

He and I both agree the we get obsessive with the connection and just talk 24/7 so it’s affecting our normal lives, hence why I want a break until I’m happy and can can actually spend time with him in real life.

posted January 19, 2019 02:07 PM            

Love is always a risk, the best things in life generally are. It is important to be in the right place to feel like you have a lot to give and are able to receive love (the latter being the biggest challenge for many)

I'm wishing you all the happiness and a very happy eclipse weekend!! :-)

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posted August 17, 2019 02:09 AM            

I could go and fly to where he is, but I just can’t go back until I’ve established my business and I’m happy with where I’m at. I had a really rough time In that city during my Saturn return and want to return in a sense victorious. I’ve let relationships derail my career in the past, I cannot allow that to happen again.

He says I feel like home. And it’s painful that the connection can’t go anywhere right now.

I was just studying the synastry again, his Venus and Juno conjunct my NN and amor, karma feels like a lot.

I wonder if we will ever be together. It’s still driving me crazy. I feel like he is meant for me in every way. I know people will say I should just bite the bullet and go and see him, I want to be really happy in my position in life before I reconnect with him otherwise I know it won’t go anywhere.

posted August 18, 2019 03:22 PM            

Thanks for coming back

If you feel like it, you could post a synastry grid. And also, perhaps a composite chart?

posted August 18, 2019 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Hey cultstatus!

Thanks for coming back

If you feel like it, you could post a synastry grid. And also, perhaps a composite chart?

If it doesn't seem worth going over it again though I understand.

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posted August 19, 2019 05:30 AM            

Not until the January new moon in Aqua. Will give me the time to finalise what I need to so that I’m ready to deal with facing this connection again.

Not intentional but I've just checked our charts and for me at this date progressed venus will conj natal juno, and progressed juno with conj natal sun.

For him progressed mars conjunct natal juno. These are all within 1 degree.And progreesed juno within 4 degrees of his natal sun.

posted January 31, 2020 08:36 AM            

We are now in a committed relationship.

Neither of us have loved another person more.

posted January 31, 2020 04:09 PM            

Love reading a thread, getting the story and chart, and then reading the update Happy Ending.

posted January 31, 2020 06:01 PM            

It took four years from the initial meeting to come together.

posted February 03, 2020 04:39 AM            

I was reading your charts and really like how your Moons matched up (yours in 8H and he has a Scorpio Moon falling in your 8H, conjunct your Pluto). Your Venus in Sagittarius, 1H Jupiter and your Moon in his 9th matched the Jupiter vibe he desires in a partner. His DSC ruler in Aries and you have Mars there conjunct his Venus (ruler of his IC). His Mars also conjunct your ASC/Jupiter, his 8th ruler conjunct your Mars and you have Mars-Venus DW... seems like a lot of sexual attraction & chemistry here. *wink*

Can also see why you're so impacted by him as well. His Virgo Jupiter conjunct your DSC with his Mercury in your 1H. His Aquarius ASC matches your 11H Aquarius Sun/Mercury (your 7th ruler) and your Mercury is well aspected by his planets including Saturn which is on his ASC, and this Saturn of his is matching your 10H energies where you also have Venus conj Saturn natally. He also has a 2H Mars just like yours.

posted February 03, 2020 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
I just noticed that you have his moon in your 8th house, can I just ask how you experienced this particular house overlay? I started a thread about a year ago regarding Moon in 8th house in synastry, because I have this overlay with the man (his 8th house my moon) I've felt more attracted to, connected with, well basically obsessed with, than any other man before. He initally seemed to be as deeply affected by me, but then made a 180degree turn, negating e.th. Or maybe there was never much to begin with. Anyway, although in astro literature it's mostly claimed the house person feels overlays more, in our case me as the moon person definitely seemed to have been more affected by it. Judging by the responses in my thread the experiences seem to have been mixed, but often with the moon person seemingly feeling it more deeply. So thought I'd ask you as well and would be very interesting to know how you experienced this overlay. By the way, he was also a moon in scorpio in 9th house (close to his MC together with pluto).

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posted February 03, 2020 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Ohh, I love reading stories like this. My guy and I also took 1yr of on/off to become serious and the fruit was sweet as it felt like we'd "laboured" for it.

I was reading your charts and really like how your Moons matched up (yours in 8H and he has a Scorpio Moon falling in your 8H, conjunct your Pluto). Your Venus in Sagittarius, 1H Jupiter and your Moon in his 9th matched the Jupiter vibe he desires in a partner. His DSC ruler in Aries and you have Mars there conjunct his Venus (ruler of his IC). His Mars also conjunct your ASC/Jupiter, his 8th ruler conjunct your Mars and you have Mars-Venus DW... seems like a lot of sexual attraction & chemistry here. *wink*

Can also see why you're so impacted by him as well. His Virgo Jupiter conjunct your DSC with his Mercury in your 1H. His Aquarius ASC matches your 11H Aquarius Sun/Mercury (your 7th ruler) and your Mercury is well aspected by his planets including Saturn which is on his ASC, and this Saturn of his is matching your 10H energies where you also have Venus conj Saturn natally. He also has a 2H Mars just like yours.

What you need to be watchful of is your Uranus square Mars DW. While this indicates strong sexual attraction, it also shows rebellious tendencies against each other. I'm guessing this is the reason for all the blocking/unblocking in the past. His Uranus/Neptune are also squaring your NN which may make the connection feel erratic and confusing to you at times. As you're the Node person, it's like you that will feel this way.

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posted February 04, 2020 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by cultstatus:
Could you expand on the Jupiter vibe he desires in a partner?

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posted February 04, 2020 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
He has Jupiter in his 7H which means he likes Sagittarius/Jupiter traits in a partner. Your Sag Venus, 1H Jupiter matched that. Your Moon also falls in his 9th (Sag house) which triggers this area of his life (higher learning, wisdom, spirituality etc). I'm thinking this is the reason he's so attracted to you.

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I don't know why I'd never seen this before! But that absolutely makes sense.

I know his longest partner of 5 years was a pisces and so are many of his close friends so I thought maybe I wasn't Pisces enough for him haha :/

posted February 04, 2020 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Ohh, I love reading stories like this. My guy and I also took 1yr of on/off to become serious and the fruit was sweet as it felt like we'd "laboured" for it.

I was reading your charts and really like how your Moons matched up (yours in 8H and he has a Scorpio Moon falling in your 8H, conjunct your Pluto). Your Venus in Sagittarius, 1H Jupiter and your Moon in his 9th matched the Jupiter vibe he desires in a partner. His DSC ruler in Aries and you have Mars there conjunct his Venus (ruler of his IC). His Mars also conjunct your ASC/Jupiter, his 8th ruler conjunct your Mars and you have Mars-Venus DW... seems like a lot of sexual attraction & chemistry here. *wink*

Can also see why you're so impacted by him as well. His Virgo Jupiter conjunct your DSC with his Mercury in your 1H. His Aquarius ASC matches your 11H Aquarius Sun/Mercury (your 7th ruler) and your Mercury is well aspected by his planets including Saturn which is on his ASC, and this Saturn of his is matching your 10H energies where you also have Venus conj Saturn natally. He also has a 2H Mars just like yours.

What you need to be watchful of is your Uranus square Mars DW. While this indicates strong sexual attraction, it also shows rebellious tendencies against each other. I'm guessing this is the reason for all the blocking/unblocking in the past. His Uranus/Neptune are also squaring your NN which may make the connection feel erratic and confusing to you at times. As you're the Node person, it's like you that will feel this way.

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How long have you been with your boyfriend now?
That's cool, congrats on getting there.
We are still long distance atm, I've decided to move back to the city we met in.
It's crazy how many things are still challenging us though. Like literally the week I left his ex, the one who moved overseas to be with someone else and destroyed him is returning home for TWO MONTHS. And he might have to see her at a work related thing. So that's been a bit of a challenge to navigate.

There is definitely a lot of insane sexual attraction, we've both stated we have never felt so sexually attracted to another.

Can definitely relate to feeling the uranus neptune squaring my node. Though now we have committed I am feeling a lot more secure in the connection.