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Topic: Please help - What do you see in this synastry and composite? Am I crazy?
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted February 05, 2020 08:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by cultstatus: How long have you been with your boyfriend now? That's cool, congrats on getting there. We are still long distance atm, I've decided to move back to the city we met in. It's crazy how many things are still challenging us though. Like literally the week I left his ex, the one who moved overseas to be with someone else and destroyed him is returning home for TWO MONTHS. And he might have to see her at a work related thing. So that's been a bit of a challenge to navigate. There is definitely a lot of insane sexual attraction, we've both stated we have never felt so sexually attracted to another. Can definitely relate to feeling the uranus neptune squaring my node. Though now we have committed I am feeling a lot more secure in the connection.
We've been together for almost 2yrs now. First year was unstable on/off but now we're sure we wanna be together, just that we're still facing some external influences which may rock the boat but at least I know we love each other sincerely. The sexual attraction between us is also off the chart (haha). I see... The "ex" factor (lol). The way I see it, it's a good opportunity to test his love for you 😉 and for him to gauge if he still has remnant feelings for his ex. Sometimes we need this to totally erase someone from our hearts and be focused on our new love. I reconnected with my ex after I met my guy and now I'm sure my guy is the only one I love. IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 503 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 09, 2020 02:08 AM
Well, here we go again.He just ended it because he’s been on edge and not himself since I left, and is in a bad place mentally apparently. He said he can’t be in a relationship. We were having to do long distance until I moved back. The full moon is conjunct his descendant in the 7th too. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted February 09, 2020 03:53 AM
Argh, so suddenly? I'm thinking this could be the result of your DW Mars square Uranus which can be rather unstable.IP: Logged |
anska5 Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Registered: Jun 2018
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posted February 09, 2020 03:55 PM
mmhh, sounds more than a little volatile. Anything to do with the ex? Not necessarily as in him transferring his affections to her, but him being reminded of the heartache relationships have caused him in the past (moon in scorpio tend to cling to that) and with you being gone, him maybe being extra vulnerable to such negative thoughts at the moment.IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 503 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 13, 2020 06:33 AM
I always knew he had some mental health issues and our actually being in a relationship seemed to amplify them.I just had a reading from the same person who predicted every detail of him a few years back, and he says it’s happening because he needs internal healing and I am a healer so I’m triggering this transformation in him. The reading confirmed it wasn’t to do with the ex and that he’s going to get worse before he gets better. But eventually will try to reunite with me in a few months. I’ve chosen to let it go now. Completely block him on everything and let him do what he needs to do. He said if I love him that I would let him be alone to go through this, then a day later is dming me on Instagram after I block his number. It’s just excruciatingly painful because I’m finally seeing that we’re never going to be able to be together. There’s too much in the way. I don’t think I could go back to it now after how he’s acted either. A week ago he was telling his family he was going to marry me. He’s all over the place. I’m ready for stability. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 122972 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 19, 2020 09:15 AM
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