posted May 23, 2019 12:13 AM            

But I need to check this relocation thing.

posted May 24, 2019 04:49 AM            

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I honestly think the jupiter being in retro is having the not so positive effect on you.

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The funny thing is Jupiter started to conjunct my Dsc some time last Nov but I don't remember things being positive. Two months later in Jan we had a mini reconciliation (but things were still uncertain between us e.g. not sure of each others' intentions and we were constantly either bickering or in silent mode). Then when Jupiter turned Rx in April we patched back. o_O So I'm wondering... what will happen when it goes direct again in Aug?

Anyway, I'm beginning to feel that SR Mars conjunct nVenus is bringing a lot of sexual interest.

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Moon in aqua I loooooooved, when i had that in my progressed chart. I honestly did not give a f**k about ANYTHING.

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I LOVE THAT! 🤣 But my progressed Moon is in Cancer now. Which affects more? SR or progressed Moon?

I had SR Libra Moon in SR 12th falling in my natal 5th last year, aspecting Moon/Venus/Jupiter/Chiron etc. My SR Venus in SR 8th conjunct natal Asc/SN, trine Pluto/Vertex, sextile Jupiter, square Mars/Lilith/Eros/Vesta. My SR Sun conjunct SR Dsc. I fell so in love... but even though the emotions were intense they were also repressed (Moon in 12th) so it's torturing. It felt like a roller-coaster ride with a tape over my mouth.

He was having SR Venus return conjunct SR NN in 5th house, both conjunct his natal Venus/Saturn. His SR Moon conjunct his natal Asc and his SR Sun/Vesta on SR Dsc.

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I relocated my chart and BOOM i have jupiter conjunct my ascendant, opposite sun conjunct descendant with mercury (its ruler) in the 7th conjunct mars and NN. IC conjunct chiron and SN LMAO.

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posted May 26, 2019 11:12 PM            

Maybe in August when Jupiter goes direct, it will be a time when you will finally come to a decision (maybe both of you) about whether this relationship is moving forward or not.I guess we'll just have to wait and see what happens.

I was wondering that too about whether the SR or progressed moon has more influence hmmm. I honestly can't say.
Do you feel your cancer moon or your SR moon these days?
ohhhh your SR sun conjunct SR DSC made you fall in love? Was it a new person that entered your life? Or this current one? Sounds like both SR's matched up nicely for that to happen. He had SR sun conjunct SR DSC too wowww

posted May 27, 2019 06:28 AM            

When we (the current one) met more than 1 yr ago, we both had SR Suns on SR Dsc. SR Venus & Nodes also featured strongly in both charts.

Now we both have SR Suns on IC with my SR Mars in 5th conjunct natal Venus (and like I said my Dsc ruler is heavily aspected as well incl. a conjunction to SR Venus/Mercury (my Asc ruler)). His SR Venus is in 5th square SR NN, conjunct natal Ceres/Uranus, trine Mars/Jupiter.

In Sep he will enter a new SR with full Moon/Chiron/Vertex in 7th and his SR Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars all conjunct SR Asc. SR NN conjunct natal Asc with SR SN/Saturn (his Dsc ruler) conjunct natal Dsc.

And I will be having my Venus return next April accompanied by SR Vesta. 😮 SR Vertex conjunct natal Vertex, SR Moon conjunct SR NN, SR Sun/Mercury/Uranus/Psyche in 1H. SR Pluto/Jupiter/Saturn on MC.

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My SR venus is sitting in my 6th house this year. Not that many aspects to be honest lol. It sextiles SR chiron and trines SR MC.
Also my SR moon in Libra will be conjunct natal pluto. fun lol.

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posted May 27, 2019 07:45 AM            

Yeah Venus in 6th might be focused on health and healing, which has already happened. But I think the main influence is where the sun is located and if mine is conjunct the DSC I think relationships will be huge this year. Especially because my moon is in libra too.

posted May 27, 2019 09:33 AM            

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If his SR Venus is in 5th squaring the NN conjunct natal Uranus that’s a big shift in the way he relates in love I’d say. Sounds like it’s playing out now and he’s really being tested by your relationship.

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I agree. He's now torn between seeking excitement/variety and a relationship with me. Not sure if he'll eventually break away... His new SR will begin in Sep which seems to tie in with my Jupiter turning direct in Aug.

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But I think the main influence is where the sun is located and if mine is conjunct the DSC I think relationships will be huge this year. Especially because my moon is in libra too.

Time will tell

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Ah, you're right! Sun on Dsc brings a focus to partnerships + Juno/Venus. Check your Vertex too. I also noticed SR angles being illuminated during a significant year and it may not necessarily be the Dsc, e.g. when my parents got married, my dad had SR Sun/Venus/Mercury/Vesta/Jupiter conjunct SR MC falling in natal 7th house, SR Moon on SR Asc, SR Saturn/Juno on SR IC, SR NN square natal Venus/Mars.

I checked other SR charts and noticed multiple strong aspects between planets/angles, Vertex, Nodes during their significant years. Sometimes I see SR Venus conjunct nVenus or SR Vertex conjunct nVertex/Venus, or SR Venus/Nodes/Vertex to angles... etc, sometimes I even see Uranus on an angle.

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Ah, you're right! Sun on Dsc brings a focus to partnerships + Juno/Venus. Check your Vertex too. I also noticed SR angles being illuminated during a significant year and it may not necessarily be the Dsc, e.g. when my parents got married, my dad had SR Sun/Venus/Mercury/Vesta/Jupiter conjunct SR MC falling in natal 7th house, SR Moon on SR Asc, SR Saturn/Juno on SR IC, SR NN square natal Venus/Mars.

I checked other SR charts and noticed multiple strong aspects between planets/angles, Vertex, Nodes during their significant years. Sometimes I see SR Venus conjunct nVenus or SR Vertex conjunct nVertex/Venus, or SR Venus/Nodes/Vertex to angles... etc, sometimes I even see Uranus on an angle.

Not sure how significant asteroids are.

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Let me know how it pans out with you guys when Jupiter turns direct! Will be interesting to see how it goes ❤️

posted June 03, 2019 07:09 AM            

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Hey EmGem,
I just wanna say that I think my SR Aqua Moon is taking effect with the "I don't give a F about anything" feel. Lol.

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posted June 15, 2019 03:41 PM            

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Update:

I found out he’s been seeing that young 25 year old. Went to San Diego with her, took her to the theme park he and I went to.
I’m devastated. I don’t know how to deal with this because I was doing well until now. And I leave to move back over to the U.S on Monday.
I don’t think they have substance but it still hurts like nothing else I’ve experienced (besides dad’s death).
Please tell me things will get better. Experiencing transiting Pluto and Saturn opposing my natal Venus and applying. Help 😢

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posted June 15, 2019 09:50 PM            

When do you think things will feel a bit better for me?

posted June 19, 2019 02:07 PM            

My guy and I also broke up suddenly last week. 😭
I guess the frequent arguments we had recently took its toll. He felt that I hurt him and he eventually hurt me back. We haven't been speaking and I intend to avoid him.

I'm surprised with this breakup because tNorth Node is currently conjunct our Composite Venus, and on the day we broke up, tSun was conjunct my Venus, tVenus conjunct my Asc/SN, tJupiter conjunct my Moon, tMoon conjunct Vertex.

This all doesn't make sense...

I guess all these couldn't beat the power of tUranus on my Sun, oppose my Uranus.

He's also having tUranus exactly conjunct his Chiron and oppose his Uranus. I'm sure he's hurting too. And I hope it hurts as hell for him too !

As for your guy... since he's now galavanting with that SYT, he probably isn't feeling the pain right now, I'm afraid... but give it time and he will... I'm sure. Some people have delayed response to pain (esp men). Make sure you serve him a heavy dose if he comes back for you. Don't make it too easy for him. Let him feel the loss.

posted June 21, 2019 02:48 AM            

He had been behaving this way over the last few months... saying one thing, doing another. I called him a liar and he got very upset... said I'd only been accusing/blaming him lately. On my end, I felt that he had been very insensitive to my feelings.

The breakup still felt sudden because just a few days before this, we had a very sweet and loving night where he admitted that he still felt strongly attracted to me.

At the end of our "breakup" conversation, he asked if I would remember him fondly (is he joking?!), I said no... that I just wanna forget him and this whole r/s because it hurts. I think he was hurt by my reply as he said he would avoid the place I frequent because he doesn't wanna face my silent treatment, so perhaps I won't see him anymore.

posted June 21, 2019 03:19 AM            

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Also, I’ve discovered now that my addiction to astrology is taking away from my faith and ability to surrender to the unknown. Unfortunately last night I looked up young girl’s placements and it’s f’d up because they gave Venus/moon conjunct her pluto. Also he has natal mars conjunct Uranus (5th house) opposite Chiron squaring Jupiter. Her Jupiter is conjunct his mars so it’s only exacerbating his erratic need to be rebellious. At least that’s what I’m assuming. I was to down on myself that I looked it up. I feel like I’ve been replaced. I read today that it’s been scientifically proven that breakups where the other person has met someone else is the worst of them because it triggers deep feelings of rejection and that’s exactly what’s happening with me. I’m fighting to not feel that I’ve been replaced and then I’m unworthy. I have to fight this every second of my days because if I don’t I’ll only full deep into that dark hole. I just found out today that he tried to message one of my friends who’s ig bikini photos he liked after they met 2 years ago. This happened when we first got together in L.A. then when I left he messaged her. I couldn’t believe it.

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Yes, I think her Jupiter on his Mars will definitely exacerbate his rebellious tendency and Mars square Jupiter individuals can be overly confident with their pursuits. Maybe that's why he's hanging out with her because she "encourages" his ways!

But DON'T EVER think you are replaced because you are uniquely you, and the experiences he shared with you are uniquely yours.

I don't believe anyone can be replaced anyway. You've been through a few relationships yourself... do you feel that any of the guys you were with manage to replace another? IME, every relationship I had was different and irreplaceable as they all brought me different feelings/experiences.

I know how sad you must be feeling... 💕 but don't overanalyse their chart because you may hurt yourself unnecessarily.

My own experience...
There was a time my guy was flirting with another gal (she kept throwing herself at him and he seemed to like the attention). I later found out that she was born 1-day after me! (same year). We have very similar planets. I checked their composite and it was almost similar to ours with a love stellium, pluto, Jupiter etc so I got worried. The worse is she might have a Cap Moon (I don't know her ToB) which possibly matches his Dsc or his Venus/Saturn aspect.

However, I soon got outta this rabbit hole because I knew it would drive me crazy. Months have passed and nothing has happened between them. She also seemed to have lost interest in him. 🤷‍♀️

Another case with a guy friend of mine... we share the same Sun/Moon/Mercury signs, my Moon conjunct his NN and we have Mars trine Mars (my favourite). In composite we have a Sun/Venus/Mercury/Mars stellium with Saturn sextile the stellium and Moon conjunct NN. He has romantic feelings for me for a long time but we've never gone past friendship. I like him but not in a romantic way.

posted June 21, 2019 07:03 PM            

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I feel that this breakup is necessary (although painful) as we've been having too much arguments and I was beginning to resent him. The final thing that broke the camel's back was he promised me something but went back on his word.

He had been behaving this way over the last few months... saying one thing, doing another. I called him a liar and he got very upset... said I'd only been accusing/blaming him lately. On my end, I felt that he had been very insensitive to my feelings.

The breakup still felt sudden because just a few days before this, we had a very sweet and loving night where he admitted that he still felt strongly attracted to me.

At the end of our "breakup" conversation, he asked if I would remember him fondly (is he joking?!), I said no... that I just wanna forget him and this whole r/s because it hurts. I think he was hurt by my reply as he said he would avoid the place I frequent because he doesn't wanna face my silent treatment, so perhaps I won't see him anymore.

Since the breakup I've been wavering between missing him and hating him.

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posted June 21, 2019 07:07 PM            

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Yes, I think her Jupiter on his Mars will definitely exacerbate his rebellious tendency and Mars square Jupiter individuals can be overly confident with their pursuits. Maybe that's why he's hanging out with her because she "encourages" his ways!

But DON'T EVER think you are replaced because you are uniquely you, and the experiences he shared with you are uniquely yours.

I don't believe anyone can be replaced anyway. You've been through a few relationships yourself... do you feel that any of the guys you were with manage to replace another? IME, every relationship I had was different and irreplaceable as they all brought me different feelings/experiences.

I know how sad you must be feeling... 💕 but don't overanalyse their chart because you may hurt yourself unnecessarily.

My own experience...
There was a time my guy was flirting with another gal (she kept throwing herself at him and he seemed to like the attention). I later found out that she was born 1-day after me! (same year). We have very similar planets. I checked their composite and it was almost similar to ours with a love stellium, pluto, Jupiter etc so I got worried. The worse is she might have a Cap Moon (I don't know her ToB) which possibly matches his Dsc or his Venus/Saturn aspect.

However, I soon got outta this rabbit hole because I knew it would drive me crazy. Months have passed and nothing has happened between them. She also seemed to have lost interest in him. 🤷‍♀️

Another case with a guy friend of mine... we share the same Sun/Moon/Mercury signs, my Moon conjunct his NN and we have Mars trine Mars (my favourite). In composite we have a Sun/Venus/Mercury/Mars stellium with Saturn sextile the stellium and Moon conjunct NN. He has romantic feelings for me for a long time but we've never gone past friendship. I like him but not in a romantic way.

So what I'm saying is... reality triumphs the chart.

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You're right. Reality does triumph the chart. I need to remember that so thank you for the reminder. It doesn't always play out. Its his moon/venus on her pluto that concerned me the most lol. But he's had that with his ex and she was manipulative so.... let's see how he likes it.
He messaged me today, just as I was starting to feel stronger and better. Asked if I was back in L.A. I havent replied because now my heart hurts all over again. I feel like I need to tell him that I've been trying to heal as I know about the young girl he's been seeing.
So I figure.... if he's messaging me AND seeing her then he's still repeating old patterns. So there you go. Ugh!

posted June 22, 2019 05:20 AM            

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Oh boy. You know what? I think tUranus conjunct natal chiron opposing uranus is not helping things at all. It's probably making him really erratic and bringing up a lot of past hurts for him, which I'm assuming you would know about? Probably unreliable at the moment too. It feels like it may not be completely over though. Just a feeling. But you gotta decide whether this relationships is worth salvaging. Is it in line with your values and what you really want? Or is it like a drug addiction? Take some time to reflect on these things and the answer will become clear to you once youve had some space from him.

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I don't know... he was behaving more and more erratic as tUranus moved closer to his nChiron. It's almost like he was a different person.

Did tUranus on your Chiron also caused you to be erratic?

He said I was too harsh with him... I agree. But I was at my limit... I wanted to hurt him back. This is likely the negative manifestations of Pluto. So I think it's better that we split now before we end up hating each other. But I miss him so much... I haven't seen him for 2 weeks and it felt like a lifetime. I'm trying hard not to cry. 😢

But you're right and I know it in my heart... that I need some space from him to think over this (and maybe also for him to think things over?). I told 2 friends about our breakup and they, just like you, also said it doesn't feel like it's over. I'm curious why you feel this way... is it because of the way we broke up?

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You're right. Reality does triumph the chart. I need to remember that so thank you for the reminder. It doesn't always play out. Its his moon/venus on her pluto that concerned me the most lol. But he's had that with his ex and she was manipulative so.... let's see how he likes it.

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Most people with Pluto in Libra will trine my Venus so... 🤷‍♀️ I really doubt I have intense feelings with them all. I also have Moon conjunct Neptune and Mars square Neptune with lotsa people in my generation.

Another e.g. of reality over chart. My guy actually got to know my friend first. He told me he found her attractive but when he saw me he was smitten. They had Moon trine Moon, Moon conjunct/trine Pluto DW, Venus semi-square Pluto, Mars square Pluto, Sun trine Venus DW. 🤷‍♀️

So we should really take astrology with a pinch of salt.

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He messaged me today, just as I was starting to feel stronger and better. Asked if I was back in L.A. I havent replied because now my heart hurts all over again. I feel like I need to tell him that I've been trying to heal as I know about the young girl he's been seeing.
So I figure.... if he's messaging me AND seeing her then he's still repeating old patterns. So there you go. Ugh!

We'll get there girl!!! Just gotta keep supporting one another! Thank goodness for LL lol.

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Urgh, I hate that! So have you replied him? No, don't tell him you're hurting. That will only satisfy his ego.

If he had 2cts about your feelings he wouldn't be dating this gal and letting you know about it (through social media?). Previously he told you this gal asked him out and he was wondering if he should... this happened when you were still together or after breakup? Offering such info only served to hurt the other party.

So don't let him have the gratification knowing that you're hurt and missing him. Let him believe that you're perfectly fine without him. Reversed psychology.

posted June 23, 2019 01:34 AM            

I don't know, I kinda get that its not over with you two because it's an inner knowing. Like an intuition that comes to me. Im pretty connected spiritually. And if you're hearing it from your friends too then that's confirmation that it isn't quite over yet

Girl don't try not to cry. CRY! Trust me it's better to let yourself release these feelings. Don't bottle it up or it'll come out in explosive ways like a volcano. Let yourself feel whatever you need to feel. Then once youve been through it, it will feel a little lighter each time. I get you. I know how painful it is. Especially if it's a TF like mine it hurts your entire body and soul. Everything aches. But you need to feel it in order to surpass it.

My guy didn't intentionally display it on sm. It was a bit accidental due to another person's comment on a post of his. I've come ridiculously far in the last few days. I'm no longer angry or bitter at him. I've elevated from that. I love him and always will. Deeper than I've loved anyone. And I have no doubt he feels the same, but he's blocking and distracting. And whether we end up together in 10, 20 years or not, it will be whatever it is meant to be. I'm not waiting. But I do wish him well from the most compassion I think I've ever felt. I see past his actions now. And they hurt me and I need to self protect but I will always love him no matter what. God I don't know what's going on with me today but something has shifted lol.