posted July 12, 2019 04:26 AM            

Anyway, I'm glad you're feeling more optimistic. I hope that you both work out the issues within you and be reunited one day. 🙏

I agree that you should let him work out his own karma and leave the rest to the higher power. If you're meant to be you'll surely be together again. And I think the both of you have a good chance.

This is precisely the reason why I've also decided to lay off my ex(guy). I miss him and it's been really hard for me but I'm trying to be strong. He's the one who initiated the breakup so I'm not gonna beg him back. I'm always instinctively going near him so I'm taking a huge step back. It's not about playing games but about respecting his decision. Besides, he has his own issues to go through. He's also going through a Personal Year 9 and with tUranus over his Chiron and tSaturn squaring his Moon, I'm sure he ain't having a good time either.

Oh, his progressed Moon is coming to a close conjunction with my natal Sun. Any significance? 😜

posted July 15, 2019 02:09 PM            

In terms of his progressed moon conjunct your natal sun, that is definitely significant and usually signifies the beginning of a connection. But I did read it COULD signify the completion of it too. But don’t quote me! There’s an old thread here somewhere where Nine mentions it. Don’t know if it’s similar but when I split with my ex husband we had a progressed to natal sun Venus conjunction, which usually denotes the beginning of a relationship but in our case it was the end. I’ll see if I can find that thread for you 🤔

posted July 16, 2019 07:28 AM            

Anyway, so the Horary was right; it's not over between us. To ascertain if I'm making a mistake to reconcile, I casted another Horary asking if he loves me or just wants sex. It says he does love me (his significator in my domicile) but he's hiding his feelings (his sig in my 12H). But his sig will soon conjunct my sig in 1H which I believe will bring his feelings to light, so we shall see again.

I read the thread you posted. Interesting... although we didn't have any p-nSun/Moon/Asc conjunctions when we got together. We only had my pMoon conjunct his nMars. I don't know his exact ToB so can't check aspects to his Asc. In the middle of this, my pMoon perfected a conjunction with my ex-bf's nSun a few months ago but nothing happened. I did wonder if we would patch back but we didn't (but we're still friendly), so I think context is very important. With my ex, our feelings were over and dead so nothing happened despite the progressed-natal conjunction. With my guy we still have feelings so it may bring about something. I believe if our r/s become stronger in the next few months pMoon conjunct nSun will bring a deepening. But if we continue to have strife then it'll spell the end of our r/s. 🤷‍♀️

I checked my friend's progression when she met her boyfriend and they had pMoon conjunct each other's nDsc instead. Now his pMoon is coming close to a conjunction with her nMoon. I shall see what happens with them as well.

Anyway, my guy's pMoon is in Full Moon phase now (0-3°). I read that it's a time people take stock of what they have achieved (or not) and they will start making changes. He just quit his job to go into biz. Also told me he's not happy with some things but he didn't give me details.

There're other planetary aspects happening... tNN is travelling through our comp Cancer stellium now to Sep. I was told love should be strong during this period, but tPluto will square Nodes in Nov and that will either bring deepening of feelings or closing off and it's hard to tell as it's a subconscious energy. This coincides with the time his pMoon will perfect a conjunction with my nSun, yiaks! 😱

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Mine contacted me yesterday as soon as I started to loosen the reigns (typical lol) and I could tell he wanted to express his feelings to me, but couldn’t. I didn’t like his recent post where he went to her home town. He must’ve felt something was up. I also took a day to get back to him. It would’ve freaked him out. I asked him to talk to me and tell me what’s up, but he couldn’t. I can’t force it from him.. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I can feel him missing me and maybe things with her aren’t all they’re cracked up to be. It’s the same pattern for him, just a different face. And he knows it, he must.

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Yes, continue to loosen the reins... I'm not sure what he's doing with that gal but it sounds like he's feeling conflicted. And I still believe that if he's feeling so blissful with that gal he wouldn't still be contacting you. So I'm sure he'll talk to you soon when he has figured himself out.

posted July 16, 2019 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Hey, I was gonna update you... we reconciled last week. I believe Mercury retrograde is the cause. He suddenly appeared at my regular joint and initiated contact + his buddy pulled strings so we got to talk. I knew he missed me from the way he kept looking at me and was affectionate + the things he said. And I melted and we jumped back into each others' arms. URGH, useless me! 😫

Anyway, so the Horary was right; it's not over between us. To ascertain if I'm making a mistake to reconcile, I casted another Horary asking if he loves me or just wants sex. It says he does love me (his significator in my domicile) but he's hiding his feelings (his sig in my 12H). But his sig will soon conjunct my sig in 1H which I believe will bring his feelings to light, so we shall see again.

I read the thread you posted. Interesting... although we didn't have any p-nSun/Moon/Asc conjunctions when we got together. We only had my pMoon conjunct his nMars. I don't know his exact ToB so can't check aspects to his Asc. In the middle of this, my pMoon perfected a conjunction with my ex-bf's nSun a few months ago but nothing happened. I did wonder if we would patch back but we didn't (but we're still friendly), so I think context is very important. With my ex, our feelings were over and dead so nothing happened despite the progressed-natal conjunction. With my guy we still have feelings so it may bring about something. I believe if our r/s become stronger in the next few months pMoon conjunct nSun will bring a deepening. But if we continue to have strife then it'll spell the end of our r/s. 🤷‍♀️

I checked my friend's progression when she met her boyfriend and they had pMoon conjunct each other's nDsc instead. Now his pMoon is coming close to a conjunction with her nMoon. I shall see what happens with them as well.

Anyway, my guy's pMoon is in Full Moon phase now (0-3°). I read that it's a time people take stock of what they have achieved (or not) and they will start making changes. He just quit his job to go into biz. Also told me he's not happy with some things but he didn't give me details.

There're other planetary aspects happening... tNN is travelling through our comp Cancer stellium now to Sep. I was told love should be strong during this period, but tPluto will square Nodes in Nov and that will either bring deepening of feelings or closing off and it's hard to tell as it's a subconscious energy. This coincides with the time his pMoon will perfect a conjunction with my nSun, yiaks! 😱

Yes, continue to loosen the reins... I'm not sure what he's doing with that gal but it sounds like he's feeling conflicted. And I still believe that if he's feeling so blissful with that gal he wouldn't still be contacting you. So I'm sure he'll talk to you soon when he has figured himself out.

I'm also thinking... why don't you cast a Horary about this? If you don't feel comfortable letting others read your Horary, trying reading it yourself. Go read up John Frawley's Horary Textbook. He makes it very easy to understand.

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OMG yasssssss!!! I'm so happy for you! I knew you were going to reconcile. Can I suggest something now? Don't go looking and analysing about how long it might last lol! That will only attract more anxiety. JUST ENJOY IT!! Live in the moment. This is such good news so revel in that and be at peace without expecting things to turn sour haha. So happy for you girl

posted July 17, 2019 04:27 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
OMG yasssssss!!! I'm so happy for you! I knew you were going to reconcile. Can I suggest something now? Don't go looking and analysing about how long it might last lol! That will only attract more anxiety. JUST ENJOY IT!! Live in the moment. This is such good news so revel in that and be at peace without expecting things to turn sour haha. So happy for you girl

He messaged me again this morning when I was thinking about him HARD. I wanted to message him so badly and then boom he does it instead. We're feeling each other like crazy. He used the excuse of asking advice about visas etc. lol.
I'm kinda intrigued about the Horary. I might ask whether we will see each other soon. What exact question should it be you think? I know that's essential. "Will I see *** soon?" What do you think?
What if I email it to you rather than put it on LL? lol

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Yes, I'm trying not to think too much and just relish the moments for as long as it lasts. Also, me staying cool (even though I miss him!). I know he's vexed over his work etc so I'm giving him space to sort out his life.

As for the Horary, what is the qn you really really wanna know? How about "Will he come back to me?" 😏 instead of "Will we meet soon?". Are you happy with just a meeting? This type of qn is usually judged by an applying aspect between L1 & L7 significators and their co-sigs, and conditions of the Moon.

LL's horary section is unfortunately a little quiet 😛 so I usually post mine on astrologyweekly as well which tends to get better response.

posted July 18, 2019 02:43 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
I tried sending you a pm but not sure it worked 🤔

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