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Topic: I'm so horny!
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ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 23, 2007 04:54 PM
 
Well why not combine the two? 
That's what I believe in.  IMO
"messy and sloppy and rough and free"
equals
"mystical light bursting through,
from the lower to higher chakras,
erupting like a geyser out the top of my head" There is nothing "reverent" about it, nor is there anything "mystical" about the light erupting like a "geyser".....we are just simply talking about an orgasm.  Why not combine the two? Deep love and "dirty" lust. LOL@ "reverant" 
I'm finding that pretty amusing right now....I'm imaging a vicar trying to be "reverent" with his wife....for some reason the word "reverent" always reminds me of vicars and such......
For me, I can't achieve "mystical light" if I am being reverent....
And nor can I achieve it in a shallow situation.....
I believe in Truly, madly, deeply (That's quite a good film too). IP: Logged |
ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 23, 2007 04:59 PM
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ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 23, 2007 05:01 PM
By the way, I have Mars in my 8th house.....in Virgo. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross
Knowflake Posts: 7178
From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted December 23, 2007 06:38 PM
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26taurus
Knowflake Posts: 13411
From: *
Registered: Jun 2004
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posted December 23, 2007 06:49 PM
Judging from your posts it seems that you are in love with yourself, LTT. So why not masturbate? It can be some of the best lovemaking you'll ever experience. IP: Logged |
26taurus
Knowflake Posts: 13411
From: *
Registered: Jun 2004
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posted December 23, 2007 06:51 PM
*deleted picture* "The Hitachi Magic Wand" might be perfect for you. IP: Logged |
Battle of Evermore
Knowflake Posts: 1145
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posted December 23, 2007 07:03 PM
I have Mars in Libra in the 8th house, and I can relate to your horniness! lol I'm horny... like all of the time, honestly! lol Matsurbation holds you off, but it can never compare to having crazy animal planet sex with someone you love.
I read your post LTT about only being really turned on by someone you love. I'm the same way, and I also have someone like that, but he's far away right now. I feel your pain. We'll both just have to try and control ourselves for now, I guess! haha
Tryly, Madly, Deeply... awesome movie.
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ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 23, 2007 09:09 PM
26T,
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Judging from your posts it seems that you are in love with yourself, LTT
Really? How did you draw this conclusion? Just curious.BattleOfEvermore, We understand each other, yes.  26T, I am not in love with myself, but I am in love with expressing myself. Life is short....why not share our thoughts- whatever they may be? If you never do, then you never know. I like being honest and open. If I never was honest and open then I would never get to discover some of the things many people do have in common. IP: Logged |
ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 23, 2007 09:10 PM
By the way, masturbation is crap compared to the real thing. Talking dirty does the trick. Life has never been the same siince. I'm sorry, knowflakes..... I've had a few drinks tonight.....I'm probably saying more than I should. IP: Logged |
Bipolun
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: ....................
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted December 23, 2007 09:33 PM
that is ok I get horny all the time~!!IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 9809
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat. fayte1954@hotmail.com
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted December 23, 2007 09:38 PM
Maybe its the full moon?IP: Logged |
Dervish
Knowflake Posts: 328
From: California
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted December 23, 2007 09:42 PM
If you think it's crap, you should go get some toys. You like butterflies? Ask about those and use it with something more conventional.I've always considered masturbation and "the real thing" to be completely different experiences, sexual in nature but otherwise not comparable. (I'm especially baffled by the concept that masturbation is "cheating" on someone, including--I kid you not, I heard this before--a hypothetical & unknown future husband!) IP: Logged |
ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 23, 2007 09:46 PM
Masturbation can be useful in a way because the most powerful sexual organ happens to be the MIND. I discovered, one day, when I once felt that fantasy was better than reality......that reality can be way, WAY better than fantasy once we learn to open up to each other and truly share/ explore our desire and our love as one. Sex is only bad when we are not open enough with our partner, or when one person is being too selfish. Fayte, the Moon definitely does have an influence! IP: Logged |
26taurus
Knowflake Posts: 13411
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Registered: Jun 2004
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posted December 23, 2007 09:56 PM
Hi LTT, i drew the conclusion from reading your posts. As for the rest of what you said....eh...no comment.  Merry Christmas Sweets!  IP: Logged |
26taurus
Knowflake Posts: 13411
From: *
Registered: Jun 2004
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posted December 23, 2007 09:59 PM
Dervish, LTT:
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once we learn to open up to each other and truly share/ explore our desire and our love as one. Sex is only bad when we are not open enough with our partner, or when one person is being too selfish.
Who said sex was bad? As Dervish put it; "completely different experiences". Both fantastic.  IP: Logged |
26taurus
Knowflake Posts: 13411
From: *
Registered: Jun 2004
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posted December 23, 2007 10:03 PM
Oh and: quote:
sex is such a strange idea when you think about it.
I've said this before too, writesomething. Though I'm not going to get into it here.
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ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 23, 2007 10:13 PM
If I was in love with myself, I would only be concerned about satisfying my own needs, but it goes so far beyond that..........
It's about the desire of two people becoming ONE.
True fusion is an incredible experience......I suppose it's a bit like Pandora's box in some ways.  IP: Logged |
braveheart
Knowflake Posts: 235
From: sydney, nsw, oz
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted December 24, 2007 06:04 AM
That is a really sexy photo of Jim. Now I'm in the "I'm so horny" club as well. LOL.
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ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 24, 2007 08:32 AM
In case anyone wonders, the purpose of this thread was to enjoy being open and sharing the openness of views. I am not looking for attention- I have a boyfriend (though miles apart) and I am monogamous by nature. (My obsession/ interest in sex though in a chaste way is probably because of my Mars being in Virgo in the 8th). The reason I love to make love is because it is one of the few times in life when I feel I am truly whole. Nothing compares to that feeling of being totally fused with another and immersed in their love. The feeling I get from singing is the only other thing I feel can come close....that feeling of blissful oneness in the music....though I am not very good....still, I enjoy it. Sex is beautiful when it is given for the purpose of mutual intimacy and pleasure. It's nothing to be ashamed of.....however, I find pornography extremely fake.....I feel Linda may have a point when she wrote that
pornography short-circuits the soul & puts up mental images that can stop you finding your Twin S-elf...... It's good to think of the face of a person who you truly love, not just a person or an actor who is just regarded as a piece of "meat".  Everybody deserves to find true love.
http://www.consciousone.com/wisdomflash/WFProduct/wisdomflashes/journey.swf IP: Logged |
Xena
Moderator Posts: 398
From: UK
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted December 27, 2007 07:43 AM
Celibacy is not the worst thing, LTT. I am 33, and most of the time my libido plays *disappeared into the ether*. Yeah, I saw galaxies of stars, and flower-carpets once...when I was truly, madly, deeply in love. That was my time, and I accept I won't love again. I'm too old, I don't want kids, so I presume the associated subconscious (involuntary?) desire to procreate is not as strong in me as it is in others. I never had many partners anyway; some say I'm too independent. I find solace in books, music and career-building; occupations of the mind. However, I can understand burning desire - having been there myself once. I can't understand the unmitigated lack of its control that drives some people to screw anything in sight; that's bestial. For someone in their 20s, your desire is probably normal. IP: Logged |
Dervish
Knowflake Posts: 328
From: California
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted December 27, 2007 08:34 PM
Actually, my sex drive is kinda low, or so it seems compared to others. (It's like a "chicken or egg" thing--do I use up my energy on other things so that I don't have as much as others do for sexual passions, or is it I don't have as many sexual passions and so have energy for other things?) If the relationship I'm in ever ends, I could see going solo, becoming something of a hermit. I doubt I'd truly be asexual, but I might get that way. I bring this up because I'm told that when I reach 30 that my sex drive will get hyper. Plenty of women told me that's what happened to them. I'm kinda scared of it actually. I enjoy sex, but I don't NEED sex. I'd hate for that to change. And someone I know who has been asexual her entire life (she had one moment in her life where she flirted with heterosexuality) said that as she got close to menopause that she panicked about having a baby and almost did something really desperate and stupid (and breathes a sigh of relief that she didn't). But I won't really know if any of that will happen to me or not until I'm older. IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake Posts: 894
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 28, 2007 11:51 PM
Listen to Trees. Im pretty sure I could help you with your problem   lol! IP: Logged |
Mirandee
Knowflake Posts: 4812
From: South of the Thumb - Taurus, Pisces, Cancer
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 29, 2007 02:09 AM
Xena, 33 is too old? *GASP* Women usually hit their sexual peak during their 30's and people, barring any health issues that intervene, enjoy sex well into their 90's if they live that long. Sex is an important part of life. I am 61 and I don't feel I am too old to enjoy sex. I just don't want it. Celibacy is fine too. It's a matter of choice. At my age I am semi-celibate anyway. Most times I just want to be left alone. I prefer sleep to sex these days. I have been hit on by men in their 40's. I think they are demented.  IP: Logged |
Xena
Moderator Posts: 398
From: UK
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted December 29, 2007 02:42 PM
Well, Mirandee, I've been divorced for 1 1/2 years and though I had partners since then, relationships became too much of a chore and I feel I need a break whilst I get my career sorted. Most men in London only want one thing anyway; if you won't give it to them, there are plenty of prettier and younger girls who will, and they're gone like a flash. What actually bugs me is that everything hangs on the sexual relationship side of things, and nothing, apparently, on friendship. I hate dating. Ideally, for me, a relationship would come about as a result of long-term friendship (NOT dating, which is false). Somehow, I think that would be much sexier anyway... Dervish, what sign are you? IP: Logged |
ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 3844
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 29, 2007 03:42 PM
I agree that being truly in love is the only real turn on- to be able to share true intimacy through honesty, trust and complete openness.Unless the spiritual dimension of love is added to the mix, the whole act seems much more empty. What is really mind-blowing and wonderful is to share all of those things at once. Having Mars in Virgo in the 8th house is nice. I can be fascinated by sex but not to the point where I forget what is truly important. I didn't know this thread would be at the top again after the days I've been away. I hope nobody is offended by openness. But you see.....being open about sex doesn't have to be offensive. The point I wanted to make was that sex can be sacred. The world is in turmoil over so many issues. Perhaps true and deeper understanding could bring about harmony? IP: Logged |
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