posted May 21, 2003 02:44 PM              

Go for the Scorpio chick! She knows you like her anyway She probably likes you back and is testing your jealousy factor to shame. Hehehe, a source of pain-pleasure infliction, are you game? How much of a sexy, passionate, jealous lover can you be?

If she didn't like you, she'd ignore you.

Scorpios don't waste time.

Believe me on that

posted May 21, 2003 02:45 PM              

When it's my significant other I don't allow myself to speak ANY opinion on what she wears... lol, if it's a female friend I'll be brutally honest either positively or negatively...

But with my OWN significant other I can't make comments on how something looks or what she should wear (positive or negative), eventually one time a "negative" will come around, & an honest opinion will just cause problems

posted May 21, 2003 03:10 PM              

He'd give a disgruntled grimace, but not say a word out of preserving his own dignity and sparing someone else's feelings.

Or if he knew someone really tried and was having a bad day, he'd can it because he appreciates the sentiment and effort someone went through.

posted May 21, 2003 03:28 PM              

You're so right with "if we're not interested we'll just ignore". I sort of hope it will go away (???)

Leo: The being over dramatic. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing that. Although, "if" I am, it is completely unintentional. This is going to sound silly as I know scorpios are suppose to be the "quiet" type. Do we seem over dramatic to you guys??

I do know what you're saying. I've become quite angry at a Leo friend of mine for doing that before. Sort of took a slight and blew it into a drama show in front of everyone!!

Well, he didn't hear from me for a while afterwards. I stayed pretty ticked over that one. He apologized of course, but just couldn't see what the "big deal" was.

posted May 22, 2003 08:52 AM              

That is one of the reasons I have decided that I'm going to start asking B-days from now on! I've been involved with far to many Gems to know that it doesn't work romantically for me.

posted May 22, 2003 09:32 AM              

gemini placements are there is rarely a dull moment with these pixies!

there is one gemini i know who is like as you describe, magnified by 1,000x. (you're probably thinking, oou . . . who is this guy?) he has mars and pluto tightly conjunct in virgo, methinks in the 8th house. sexy.

posted May 22, 2003 09:57 AM              

So you like them as well?

posted May 22, 2003 12:51 PM              

There's just something about them. It's not an obsession. I mean, I can move on.

I've had my share of the gems. I believe that figuring out thing works like this:
I'll figure him out and once they realize it... they change !! I mean, if they want to have an attitude, that's fine! But please, still have it 10 minutes later

Silver: I'm Scorpio sun with Libra moon and Asc. My feelings seem to intensify "if" they're sparked on anything. If I don't care about a situation or person, than as Aphrodite said... I'll ignore it. It's like whatever it is just doesn't exist.

The more I think about the episode, the madder I get. I rehash every little detail in my mind Yes. I do feel if I don't do something in return that I'm losing a piece of myself.

NOTE: Please read all other posts regarding this issue as I'm really not some wild vindictive person.

Aphrodite: Have you noticed that you can be discussing something of importance with them and they'll have a smirk on their face?!

No offense to the Gems. I do like you guys... but why O' why?!!!

I always get this from them "you're too quiet... you're too serious". Well someone has to be!

posted May 22, 2003 02:59 PM              

I know I've got weaknesses & flaws...BELIEVE ME, I have several.
I was just too busy to comtemplate on it yesterday (crazy day), but I have thought of some that cause me some grief...

IMPATIENCE...I'm terribly impatient and I get angry when things don't go as quickly as I'd like them too. Especially when I'm driving...I'm a speed demon, and it costs me $$$. I'm working on that.

ALOOFNESS...I'm not one to engage in small talk alot. I'll do it when I've got nothing else on my mind, but that's not typical. I just don't like to waste time & energy on something that yeilds no results. Gosh that sounds so "type A" doesn't it?
(However, I'm always into talking about Astrology and mystical type stuff - must be my 8th house Mercury)

I guess I seem "judgy" and "arrogant" sometimes. I don't do this on purpose, but I guess I tend to stare at people with a "dead pan" look when I'm digesting what they just said, or when I'm forming my own thoughts. I guess it can be a little unnerving to the recipiant.

DETAILS I'm not good with. I'm a big picture person, and I prefer to just hear the bottem line, rather than how it was arrived at. I really admire people who have the patience for details. I guess this flaw falls into the IMPATIENT catagory as well.

Well, now that I'm on this train of thought, I could go on for hours, but I think I'll stop now and go eat my lunch. Sheesh, is there no end to my flaws?? AAk! I just thought of another one!! I ask too many rhetorical questions. People get annoyed sometimes because they think I'm actually expecting them to answer, and of course there IS no answer to a rhetorical question...or is there??

posted May 22, 2003 03:12 PM              

Also, your asking rhetoric questions... ALL of my Leo friends do this... and yes. I think they want an answer! Well, when I give them one, they just look at me like "huh"??

posted May 22, 2003 06:18 PM              

"The more I think about the episode, the madder I get. I rehash every little detail in my mind Yes. I do feel if I don't do something in return that I'm losing a piece of myself"

I had to laugh when I read this because you nailed it!! My Scorpio freind does this to herself all the time. She stews over things that, at first didn't seem to phase her, or she may have even laughed at the time. Then she slowly starts to see it as a personal attack, and replays it over and over in her head, and then LOOK OUT - she's on the war path about it. She can't be at peace with herself (or that person) until she's cleared the air. That usually means reeming them out until they feel about the size of a peanut.

posted May 23, 2003 12:47 PM              

Actually, I'm realizing that when I'm out with a Scorp homie I spend a lot of time keeping their comments flowing positively throughtout the group conversation.

posted May 23, 2003 12:49 PM              

Lion, I do the same thing with my Leo buds!

posted May 23, 2003 02:11 PM              

If we have a mutual enemy, may God have mercy on their soul

And hopefully they don't have the misfortune of being in both of our presences at the same time, for they will not only "feel" the anger without words, but all we need is the tinyest trigger, and BAM! We overwhlemingly, methodically, & completely tear them apart like we're pealing an orange... by the time we're done they've either ran off to their car to leave or are just a quivering silent puddle of mess.

And for some reason we get a perverse joy from this... probably cause we exercised the power we know we have yet try never to use

posted May 24, 2003 01:27 PM              

I'm sitting there looking at her like "WHAT"?! I haven't even met this guy before! She says "Oh, he'll love you". I ask her "How do you know"? She says "You're so laid back"! Don't know... Her response to me being "laid back" doesn't really mesh with what some of you guys say about Scorps.

Any pointers on that?

Also, I have a Sag. friend, and well, that's as close as I've came really. Don't know what to expect.