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Topic: Leo & Scorpio...crazy???
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Tommy_Cat
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posted May 13, 2003 12:13 AM
 
I'm intrigued with a cutie of a Scorpio, but everthing I've read about Leo/Scorpio sounds so ... it's just not advisable.Should I step away from the Scorpio? I know there's alot more to consider than Sun sign, but in general, how do the two relate? Anyone have any Leo/Scorpio couple friends? Or are you part of a Leo/Scorpio duo? Lay it on me - I can take it. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted May 13, 2003 12:19 AM
One of my very best freinds in the whole world is a Scorp. I love her to pieces, but I wouldn't want to date her. She's way to hyper-sensitive, takes EVERYTHING personally.I dunno, Tommy Cat, I never could seem to get anything off the ground with a Scorpio. I don't appreciate the mind games they tend to play in love. (I'm sure they don't ALL do that, but they are good at it) IP: Logged |
hrj777
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posted May 13, 2003 03:08 AM
Hi Tommy_Cat,If you get a chance, check out a copy of Linda Goodman's Love Signs. Linda has a wonderful perspective on compatibility between all the signs. Welcome to Lindaland! Heidi  IP: Logged |
aquamoon
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posted May 13, 2003 03:21 AM
Hiya Tommy!I was part of a Leo/Scorpio duo for 6 years. His Sun, Moon, Merc, Venus and Mars were all in Scorpio. Our suns and moons were in square signs, my Saturn squared his Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars and Vertex. Need I say more?  Don't be discouraged - who knows, the rest of your planets may have been in the right place at the right time, ha?
And if she's set her sights on you, there's not much you'll be able to do about it, trust me. They're smouldering, these darn Scorps!  IP: Logged |
morgana
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posted May 13, 2003 09:17 AM
Hi Aquamoon! That's a whole lotta squares there 
I just wanted to ask you this: how did you feel in this relationship? Re. all those squares, I mean, and since you were together for 6 years in spite of a lot of friction, I imagine P.S. I thought you were a Cancer, btw   , morgana IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted May 13, 2003 09:17 AM
I do believe this is a cue for LL ...as it's really one of his favorite topics!  He's a Leo and adores Scorpios. IP: Logged |
morgana
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posted May 13, 2003 09:21 AM
Hey that's right Hi, 1scorp! So, LL, did you come to any new conclusions now that you're dating a Lioness? Any comparisons? P.S: And what about you, 1scorp? No experience with Leos? IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted May 13, 2003 09:54 AM
Hey Morgana No. I haven't had any sort of romantic relationship with a Leo. A gemini with Leo Asc. is as close as I've got. Now, I do have a couple of Leo guys and one Leo woman as friends. Also know a couple of others that have Leo moons or Asc. I enjoy them! I think lioneye said once that we were spazzes Well, I feel that I'm allowed to be and almost required to be spazz"ish" around them. Once I get to know them I can sort of sit back and roll with it. If that makes any sense at all. Also, Sister has dated a few Leos I think. IP: Logged |
N_wEvil
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posted May 13, 2003 02:24 PM
My sister and brother-in-law are Leo (sister) and Scorp (bro in law), and their marriage is successful.IP: Logged |
Tommy_Cat
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posted May 14, 2003 12:17 AM
Yeah, I've seen how she can be "hyper sensitive", like Lioneye said.
She's a customer service/technical adviser at our work, and she recently had to learn to do order-entry for her division. Well WHOLLY CRAP she resented that SOOOOOO much. She's sure the only reason they're making HER do it is because she's the only female.
That may be, and I suppose it would tick me off too, but she definately took it too personally.
Most of the time she seems so confident and in control, but at the same time there's something so vulnerable and almost agonizingly feminine about her. I just can't describe it. She makes me feel so...hmmmmm.... oh... sorry. so (struggling for the words) other-worldly? She scares the doo doo out of me. I don't know why. And I like it!! Maybe I'M nuts.
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1scorp
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posted May 14, 2003 08:40 AM
Tommy: If the type of job she was positioned at was easier than the others than that "may" be why she got offended. Sort of took it as an insult (perhaps??) as maybe it being implied she couldn't handle the other work?? Just my thoughts. That feeling you're describing... "I" think it may be that it's due to a Leo loving a challenge. ??? Good luck... and if LL will get his tail in here than he'll give you a run-down. As I said... he has a fetish with scorps or something? IP: Logged |
aquamoon
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posted May 14, 2003 08:53 AM
Hi Morgana Yup, yup, lots of friction. Most of it not so fun. Seriously,it was very frustrating for both of us. Chalk and cheese. His complaint was that I wanted to talk everything to death, and mine was that he wanted to brush everything under the carpet. Strange how crazy we were about each other, but we would both have had to be put away in an insane asylum if we'd stayed together three minutes longer than we did. I've come to the conclusion that nothing is worth your peace of mind. I thought that I was supposed to have it easy, being the one with the Saturn doing all the squaring. BOY, was I wrong!
Still, somehow I know we share this unbelievable bond and we'll always be special to each other, but its just too difficult for us to be together. WOW! I can't believe I said that! Actually, I can't believe I can handle talking about any of this on a public forum. Hmmmmm.....Thanks Morgana. By the way, I'm really curious - why did you think I was Cancer? Tommy, nah, you're just human! Told you they're smouldering! IP: Logged |
sisterchasingmoon
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posted May 14, 2003 12:15 PM
Oh you all know I have to have my 2 cents on this one but I am off to do that work thing 
I will post on this topic [b]very soon[b] !1scorp  ------------------
Love & Light,
Melissa IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted May 14, 2003 12:47 PM
TomCat,Totally worth it, go for it!
Not like there's really much to go for, all you have to be is yourself, and if they like it, they'll come get you, and there's nothing you'll be able to do about it! I'm always chasing them, I think it has to do with the descendant in Scorpio=attraction thing.... But they always present an exciting challenge to me, and the more you get to know them, the more and more exciting and unique they show they truly are!!! IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted May 14, 2003 12:51 PM
In the Foreward of Love Signs Linda writes that no other Sun Sign combinations are as richly rewarded when harmony can be achieved between the Ram & the Crab, the Water Bearer and the Bull,
and of course, the Lion and the Scorpion IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted May 14, 2003 12:51 PM
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1scorp
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posted May 14, 2003 01:03 PM
Sister: Hey! I knew this would reel you in.
The hyper sensitive thing. Well, really the Leos may be a bit shocked by this... however, I find a few (not all) to be a bit hyper sensitive
Lion: I know what you mean actually with the scorpio friend. Sometimes I feel that I can only tolerate myself at times Alright, let's try this. "Maybe" (??) this is what Tom is enquiring. Leos what is the most difficult things you find about a Scorpio. Scorpios what is the most difficult things you find about a Leo. To even it out... throw in a couple of good things as well. This "could" (again, "??") help us understand each other a bit better. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted May 14, 2003 01:51 PM
Ok, as a Leo, the one thing that I don't get about Scorpios is... WHY do they take things so very personally, and allow themselves to be so deeply wounded by people?An example of this ...My friend (girl Scorp.) got a homemade satin quilt for her birthday from her Grandma (it's beautiful), but her sister got $300 for HER birthday. She has now decided that Grandma loves her sister more than her, so she doesn't even want to speak to her (Grandma) anymore. That's a bit harsh, don't you think? What do I love about them?... The singlemindedness they have when they've got their sights set on a goal. AND their WICKED sense of humor. (which is fueled by their razor sharp insights) IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted May 14, 2003 02:04 PM
Lion: That's good. I find it interesting to see what is aggravating or likeable about each sign to other signs. Can you give me an example of something that's taken personally? That why I'd be more capable of giving a correct reasoning. Give me a little time to think on my Leo response and I'll get back with you guys. IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted May 14, 2003 04:58 PM
Scorps-(female): Inability to acknowledge I'm right, when I really am right. I mean I don't just say sh*it to talk out my a*ss  Scorps+(female): Other than sharing my liberal open-minded outlook of bedroom behavior... probably their unique style presented to the world, "Kinda rockin' I don't give a f**k" style Scorps+(male): after putting in your time, and proving your trust, I have developed my closest friendships with two, as bestfriends. Doesn't matter how long its been since I spoke with them,our friendship never changes... Or no matter what is being said or done by everyone... we're always thinking as one or as a team... I dunno, hard to explain... Scorps-(male&female):I see Scorps lie, cheat, & steal when dealing with friends or people to get what they want... eventhough they've never done this to ME (at least to my knowing) it makes me wonder when they will... PS - All Scorps seem to like being "Sneaky"... I just don't know about that IP: Logged |
Tommy_Cat
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posted May 14, 2003 11:48 PM
Sneaky? I can see that. Diabolically sneaky, especially when plotting revenge on someone! I've learned one thing about Scorpios, and that's to stay on their good side at all costs! Shouldn't be a problem with my little cutie Scorp. She seems to "get" me, so I can get away with saying almost anything to her and she doesn't take it personally. But I know where to draw the line too. I'm no dummy!One thing that impressed me big time about Scorpio's is how they'll defend you and/or go to bat for you when the chips are down. I mean, they'll put themselves right out there in the line of fire if necessary (if you're worthy that is) I appreciate that because I'll do that too IP: Logged |
Tommy_Cat
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posted May 14, 2003 11:57 PM
Lost Leo, what the h*** went wrong with you and that girl Scorpio? WHAT THE H*** WENT WRONG???
You gotta tell me so I can avoid the rabbit holes (assuming something develops for us - I may be getting ahead of myself, but hey what the f***) Thanks IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted May 15, 2003 02:00 AM
The neverending struggle for dominance TomCat,
I've discussed this with everyone already and for their sake I'm not gonna mention it again, but check out the responses to my posts on the "Calling All Lunar Scorps Part 1 & 2" and "Question regarding Scorpios", that's where I learned the most thanx to some insightful ladies I have no GOOD advice, I've tried to write about 20 responses already... if I come up with something tomorrow I'll post it. IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted May 15, 2003 02:04 AM
Let her think she's won...that's somthing I wish I would have done more often IP: Logged |
morgana
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posted May 15, 2003 06:56 AM
Leo, those are wise words I agree. I was very good friends with a Scorpio and for the sake of peace I always kept her believing she's "in command". But I do have a Leo Ascendant and I guess it couldn't bare to be kept down for long, so I ended the friendship, I got sick and tired of accomodating to her wishes. But she's really not to blame, I am, because I let her do that. But then again, I wonder if we'd stay friends for such a long time if I hadn't. I guess it's a matter of balance. Let Scorpio win, but not too often Aquamoon,
thanks for sharing I'm glad you opened up, I guess this is still difficult for you to talk about, no? About that Cancer Sun thing - I guess I've mistaken you for Moonshadow (there are so many names with "Moon" in them ) who I think also has Moon in Aqua. What you're all talking about rings a bell - my sister is a double Leo and when she was single she just couldn't stay away from Scorps although they were all very bad for her. I came to the conclusion that she can't resist a challenge which is logical for a Leo, right Leos and Scorps are so fundamentally different, I can see the attraction: Leos are open and direct and sincere, while Scorps are secretive and deep and mysterious, so they are both attracted to what they lack I guess. But it all depends on mutual aspects as well of course. Does anyone know any Leo-Scorp couples who stayed together? IP: Logged | |
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