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Topic: Leo & Scorpio...crazy???
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Lost Leo unregistered
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posted May 29, 2003 07:01 PM
"or at least buck you off a few times to get my point across"  I don't understand dudes that get all mushy so quick??? There's a saying amongst my friends that the more emotion you show a girl the less attracted she'll be to you. Most of my homies' girlfriends have to literally drag an "I Love You" outta their man... and my homies fight it with all they can... I don't really understand why if they really mean it. But I guess I would get sick of saying too if I was called upon to say it at the end of every damn phone conversation!!! I only like to say it during special moments... But ya, str8 up I couldn't handle the "girlfriend" request within the first week, and the fact we fought over it, although mildly, just set the tone for destruction... oh well, I didn't lose any sleep over it  I can't BELIEVE you went out with other men "as friends" that your Leo man knows, without them knowing about your relationship with him... You know how big of a lump of pride your Leo must have had to swallow??? Sounds to me like you got this guy tamed!!!  IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 29, 2003 07:40 PM
Nooooo, never tame the Leooooo. Well, he knows that I am not interested in the other men. I work with mostly men anyway, being in big business and in the agriculture market. Most of the men are very polite and yes, it does bother Mr. Leo somewhat, but he trusts me. See, it's that Sag - Leo thing. He knows that to box me in or to tell me I am not allowed to will make me indignant, but give me some rope...and well. He also know that there is no man that can make me feel the way that he does...emotionally or sexually. I told him last week, it is said that maybe only a Leo can teach the Sagittarian girl to really fall in love.......well, falling is not so bad, not even for this clumsy girl. I also know, NEVER - EVER flirt with another man while with my Leo. I can be charming, but if I let the eye contact linger too long... I have seen him stalk off and he has ignored me for a couple of days. The longest standoff we had was about 30 days, but we were both totally miserable. To be totally honest Lost Leo....I have no intention of being close to anohter dude. My Leo is more than enough and he knows it. This Sag never lets him forget just how much I appreciate him, even while I am shooting a few arrows at him now and then. And another thing....Leo's need to know that there is a hint of competition around their woman. Let's them know that the one they are with is wanted and that they have the best. So a little challenge keeps my Leo on his toes. Just look at the Lions in the wild! IP: Logged |
1scorp unregistered
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posted May 30, 2003 08:46 AM
Hi Aphrodite... I don't really know what a peragrine (spelling?) planet is..  I don't have any planets in my 5th. I sort of have to test a guy. IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted May 30, 2003 02:43 PM
Hellooooooo, 1scorp! What's going on in Kentucky today???Yeah, I asked the same question a little while ago because I have 2 Peregrine planets. They're planet placements that are a "one only", like your only water sign placement, or your only mutable placement, or your only "personal house" placement (houses 1 to 4) ETC. These planets tend to take on more than their fair share of influence, because they stand alone, undiluted and unaffected. I think it's also considered peregrine if no other planets or angles are aspecting it. Look for the thread called "What is a Peregrine planet?", there's some very informative links in there from Cat, the moderator. IP: Logged |
1scorp unregistered
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posted May 30, 2003 03:00 PM
Hey Lion. Nothing exciting as until this Saturday! What about up there?Well... the only earth I have is saturn in virgo? IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 30, 2003 05:40 PM
1Scorp, Then you have an Earth Singleton and if Virgo is the only mutable sign you have in your chart (meaning no Sag, Pisces or Gemini) then you will have twice the Singleton. Other famous Leo's and Scorps:
Bill Clinton (leo) Hillary (Scorp) Ex Leo and Scorp: Jennifer Lopez (Leo) Puffy / P-Diddy / Sean Combs (Scorp). Now she is will another Leo (Her ex- Chris Judd was also a Leo). Sandra Bullock (Leo) and Matthew McConaughey (Scorp)
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lioneye68 unregistered
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posted May 30, 2003 06:56 PM
I thought Matthew McConaughey was a Sagittarius... no? (whatever, he's a hottie, naked bongo's and all)Yeah, I guess I was mixing peregrine and singletons up. Sorry, 1scorp, I'm just a beginer too. But peregrine is when nothing is aspecting it, right? IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 30, 2003 07:00 PM
Nope, he is a total Scorpio. November 4, 1969. He has his moon in Virgo. There is a great site called www.metamaze.com It has all the celeb and other b-days. I dig it. IP: Logged |
Tommy_Cat unregistered
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posted May 30, 2003 08:18 PM
Well, it's official. She doesn't share the interest in me as I do in her. I asked her if she wanted to do something, just hang out and stuff, and she said. "Like what?" I said "Doesn't matter. Catch a flick. Get some dinner...whatever" She said "Like a date kind of thing?" I said "Yeah, I guess" she looked at me like I just stole her prize horse and said "Do you realize how complicate that coud get?" (like I was a retard) and I said "yeah, but I don't think it would" She said (again, like I was a retard) "and how would YOU know that???" I said, "well I don't. If you're worried about that, then I don't want to pressure you. I think it might be the best thing we ever did, but like you said, how do I know. Maybe you're right, and we should just play it safe" (bating her, waiting for her to say, "no, it'll probably be ok", but she DIDN'T)She said " DUH". (I don't think THAT was necessary.) She may have been in a bad mood, but I had to do it then and there, because I was leaving for the day, and I was trying to set something up for this weekend. Fell Flat obviously. I was misreading her. Or she was toying with me. Whatever. I'm not going to cry about it. Maybe she'll think it over and change her mind. Maybe? IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 31, 2003 02:09 AM
Because Tommy...I have found that a Leo always knows. Deep in a Leo man's heart, he just feels that it will or won't work. I know that now. My Leo said to me two years ago "I will always want you and every time we are together it will always be better". Today, ( Really today I said this to him) how did you know that I would love you more today than two years ago. How did you know that we would be this close, no matter how complicated (we work together too Louisana Boy)? Every Leo knows...... just be careful, she is your square... I talked about this in another thread. My Leo has an Ex that he left, she was Taurus with a Cappy moon, so wrong for him just like my Virgo with a Gemini moon was so wrong for me. IP: Logged |
1scorp unregistered
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posted June 01, 2003 03:14 PM
Ms. Pidaua: I have neptune in Sag. Tommy: I'm not for sure about that. (??) I've actually did the same thing before. It was more of a test. However, if you're not sure, than I say forget about her. I mean, there are tons of women out there. Again, that's just "my" opinion. IP: Logged |
Tommy_Cat unregistered
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posted June 01, 2003 03:20 PM
She's putting me through a battery of tests. I reckon this is what some people call the famous Scorpio "mind games"Not sure how I feel about that. 
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1scorp unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 08:43 AM
Mind games? Is she giving you any sort of body language? I mean, I may say no yet I'm really saying yes... if you ya know what I mean? Sad that she's pulling this on you really. IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 12:57 PM
TomCat, Dude don't stress on it... sounds to me like she's being a bi*tch, so fu*ck it.When I get attitude from a woman in the form you just described I give it back at 3x the force. Usually simply ignoring works the best, but since she's a Scorp she'd probably be cool with that, so I dunno... Since you've made the move I'd limit your interaction to "one-worders"... Just the simple "Hi, Bye, Good Morning" blah blah blah... Not to be harsh but she's definently putting the "not-interested" mask on right now so YOU HAVE to MAKE her interested. Do this by being elusive, make vague statements around her that make her want to ask questions, and definently no longer should you be the conversation starter... Only speak to her when she speaks to you, and keep it short & elusive, when they think you're being vague on purpose, they will pry even more because their curiosity kills them... And if she doesn't take the bait... MOVE ON...and date another coworker, perhaps one she respects or is friendly with so ALL your good traits will be mentioned to her... But FYI - I would only try this with a Scorp, it won't apply to other women... Good Luck!  IP: Logged |
1scorp unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 01:18 PM
Leo, Really? I would never date someone a friend or coworker has dated. Oh, unless you're suggesting doing this to stir a jealous reaction? Well, have we decided yet if "Leo & Scorpio .. crazy"? IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 01:28 PM
You would date him if he's become one of the most respected and desired men in the office I bet ...or maybe not  PS- Did I mention that I have ran into my beautiful lil' Scorp TWICE this month downtown  She asked me out the first time, but I was too busy to follow through... The second she hauled ass down the block to catch me as I tried to make it past her work unseen...but she caught me...  Once again, she was most friendly... ahhh, I love her so much still  Too bad there's all this baggage we have that keeps us apart... I have to play this stupid game... I've honestly turned my effort down to a lower level until she reveals more of herSELF to me...  It takes two to tango, I'm down to lead the dance, but if your partner can't follow along then the music stops  IP: Logged |
1scorp unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 03:08 PM
Not if he's had the whole office. What would be the fun in that? I don't want anyone that others I know have already had. I want to keep them guessing So they can walk around and say "I bet he's good" IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 03:18 PM
 You're comedy 1Scorp, that's SO Scorp!  I would have to agree. TommyCat, you could date the others in the office but you can't sleep with them, it will kill your chances... that is, saying you are able to pimp another female within your office  IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 04:25 PM
1scorp, I'm with you on that. It's always been an unwritten rule of mine that a guy is off limits if he's dated, liked, or been liked by any one of my friends. Who the heck wants sloppy seconds anyway? No, I would never jump on the "Me Too" wagon eithor. IP: Logged |
1scorp unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 04:48 PM
Yes Lion... I've never much cared for left overs. Unless, it's pizza When I was in high school I dated a guy ... very briefly. When I was finished 2 of my friends hit him! Bluh! I just looked at them like... "what the ****"?! I've never been big on mixing business with pleasure. Can be difficult afterwards. Tommy, here's what you do... meet her out (away from others). Tell her "look, I'm not asking again... do you want to go out or not"! "No sex just drinks"... "I'll behave myself promise". Then wink .... So.... what do you think?! IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 04:53 PM
You know what, you girls are putting the biggest load of BS out there...I don't know how many times I've been seduced a friend, roommate, or even bestfriend of my girlfriend... Not to mention all the women I see pimping hardcore on a guy once his girlfriend has stepped out the room. Women want what they cannot have... ESPECIALLY someone else's man. Hence the reason it is MUCH easier to get girls when you have a girlfriend. For you all to act all innocent and like you wouldn't dare tread where your girlfriend has been, seems like a bunch of smoke being blown up our collective a*sses IP: Logged |
1scorp unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 05:02 PM
That's where you're wrong Leo (oops) I don't want what my g/f's have, as I've heard enough about the dudes I might as well have had sex with them myself I do know what you're saying regarding that, and I can honestly say I'm not like that. I mean, look at all the men out there! Why would I need someone else's?
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lioneye68 unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 05:09 PM
Easy, there, big fella!!I KNOW that's true of most girls/women. I observed that myself many moons ago. I found it repulsive then, and I still do. I do have some stubborn opinions about some things, and this just happens to be one of them, because I learned it the hard way. When I was a teenager, I was always being accused of being a sl*ut, even though I was the 2nd last one in my group to lose my virginity. Often times, freinds boyfriends or crushes would "stare" at me, when their girlfriends were right there, and so the girl would naturally turn on me immediately and starting calling me rude sh*it, and tell the other girls that I was "flirting" with their man, etc. It was NEVER true, but when it comes to stuff like that with teenage girls, your pretty much guilty until proven innocent. So, I realized very early on in life that most girls are very insecure, and VERY VERY catty. There's enough guys out there that we don't need to fight over the same one. I've never been into competing for a guy eithor. However, some of my closest friends DO NOT have this same principle, because they've gone after a couple of MY exes. I really didn't mind, but I didn't respect them for doing it eithor, but whatever, I'm a Leo - I've got big enough shoulders to bare it IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 05:20 PM
Cool, you both make good points  1Scorp, you're not the type to do that, I can tell, plus it's just not really a Scorp thing to do... lioneye, So you throw your girlfriends a bone when your done with a man? How kind of you  ALOT of Lionesses I know are accused of being sl*uts too... whether they deserve it or not. Usually because of jealousy and the fact that they tend to have a large amount of "guy" friends. I can think of three right off the top of my head that used to get shafted like this... IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted June 02, 2003 05:32 PM
Hey, that's what you said about Scorp girls too! Another thing Leos & Scorps have in common. cool.In my case, I didn't have lot's of guy friends. Sheesh, I was afraid to look up or talk or draw attention to myself half the time, lest I be called a sl*ut! I'm telling you, I grew up and hung out with some VERY catty girls. I was a very repressed Leo girl when I was younger. Hiding my light all the time, afraid to get too much attention, because I'd be outcasted by my group. It was really lame. You would have never guessed me to be a Leo. Oh, but things are very different now, boy. VERY different. IP: Logged | |