posted June 08, 2003 07:29 PM              

This new scorpio seems to be more "level" or "balanced"...but time will tell. He certainly has a different approach, the way he looks at me....it's like he's looking right through me but then again, I've always returned the gaze...I'll lock eyes with him when he looks at me square in the eyes...most people would look away but I engage it.
I don't know...I think I'd be happy with a scorp. or a sag...Libras tend to give me the creeps and although I get along well with acqurians...there's no "spark", no sexual attraction.

Cappy's are just plain weird.

virgo's are hard to pin down.

Gemini was too forward.

Cancer was just mean.

Leo was just my pal, could not imagine having anything more.

Aries has potential...but they seem boring to me.

Tarus...just FOGET IT!

pices...don't know any male...

posted June 08, 2003 08:29 PM              

I think it may be the differences in each other (Leo and Scorpio) that spark the attraction. I've never been involved with one, so I'm not really sure what it would take to keep it going.

Seems like the power struggle is the ultimate thing to get over.

posted June 09, 2003 12:14 AM              

But when it comes to love relationships, I guess I realize what they require is absolute and complete dedication and commitment to them and ONLY them, and that feels oppressive to me. I'm a bit of a space case, and if I want to run down the street trying to catch a falling star, I'm gonna do it, and I don't appreciate guilt being force-fed to me. I think I'd have to supress too much of who I really am in order to be with a Scorpio, and that is too big of a price.

I'm not saying I have problem with committment or fidelity or any of those very necessary elements of a relationship. It's the other areas that are too restricted as well that bother me. Like, who you're allowed to be freinds with, where you can go, and when and for how long, what you can wear, how you should vote. Stuff like that. And Scorpio men are not the only ones who are bit too controlling in those areas. Virgos can be just as bad, and Taurus men? Hoh, don't even go there. Somehow, it's different with a Scorpio. They don't make you angry when they confront you, they make you feel worthless and aweful. GENUINELY. And you WON'T do it again, because you couldn't stand to feel that way again. But, oh boy, that certainly doesn't go both ways.
I mean, they absolutely will not allow the shoe to be on the other foot.

I think the Leo/Scorpio relationship has better odds if the man is the Leo and the woman is the Scorpio.

Leo woman are too 'type A' to appease a very dominant male for long, unless other factors drastically tone down their sun sign tendacies.

posted June 09, 2003 12:56 PM              

That's truly all these two lovers ever have to watch out for... if they can overcome this obstacle (and it won't be easy) then all else will fall perfectly into line

Lion: I agree that the Leo man/Scorp female has a much better chance... unless the Leo female is hopelessly in love, it weakens her independence. Of course the weakness is only limited if he continues to be abusive, Leo females don't really put up with TOO much sh*it.

To all: DO you notice a difference between the character's of Scorp men & women???

The Scorp males I know COMPLETELY DOMINATE their women, they have to know everything they're doing, with who, when, and where... Their mates aren't allowed to do ANYTHING without their Scorp male...

Some of the things I don't like about the Scorp male is their manipulation... especially for sex...

My bestfriend told this poor little, but gorgeous, Leo female any and every lie in the book to keep her quiet and keep her in the bedroom... He pretty much used her... She still has no clue, but it pi*sses me off to hear all the lies and false promises he told her just to keep her totally in check and dominated, pretty much in the dark.

My other Scorp bestfriend isn't as bad, but he stills womanizes in a most disgusting fashion... if he doesn't see you as "girlfriend" material in the beginning, then he'll lie about everything, and keep it up, just to keep her f****g, then when a "girlfriend material" comes along he ditches her instantly, only to string her along in case he breaks up and needs to get laid again...

I just don't like the fact they have NO MORALS when it comes to lying, cheating stealing for sex...

As for Scorp women, they do it too, but in a different way, for MATERIAL things...
They use & abuse men to get whatever they can, whether it be money, free drugs, drinks at a bar, rides from here to there, or whatever, and it disgusts me to see how they prey on these poor defenseless "dorky" guys who at first think they're are going to "get with" these Scorp females, then soon realize they're being used... BUT the female comes on so strong they are defenseless and cannot stand up for themselves, so they continue on, being used while they know they're being used...

And after the female Scorp is done with them many times I have heard them explode with how much they hated her...

I guess it's their fault for not standing up to them, but Scorp females know who's weak & who's strong, instantly, and for them to prey on the weak for material things is morally digusting...

posted June 09, 2003 01:22 PM              

I do not and have never used anyone for material things. One of my lovely Gems would also buy me gifts. After each gift I'd have to return the favor... finally I just said "look, this has got to stop"!

Also, if someone takes me out to dinner... I'm buying the next time around. It does no good arguing with me over it either If they insist to pay... they just "mysteriously" find cash hidden in their house, car, etc.

I don't like to think someone has got one up on me Like I owe them something

Seriously though... I know what you're saying. I know a guy scorpio and he is basically how you described them

posted June 09, 2003 01:45 PM              

THAT's a loaded question if I ever did see one!

In general there's miles and miles of differences between men and women, but more specifically, with Scorpios...

The males seem to exhibit alot more of the "controlling" characteristics than the woman do, but they also tend to be alot more straight forward than the females.

The females have learned to disguise their controlling tendancies and forcefullness, out of necessity ("it's not NICE for girls to be pushy"), so they're more quietly diabolical.

They can be just as intimidating though, if not more so, because they can give the impression that they're on the verge of breaking into hysterics when they become angry. And EVERYONE is in danger when a woman breaks into hysterics! You don't know if she's going sob uncontrollably, or physically attack you, or throw something at you, or all of the above! The men seem less volitile emotionally.

The woman of this sign also seem better able to draw upon the profound levels of compassion that this sign is capeable of, but woman are just better at that stuff in general.

posted June 09, 2003 01:59 PM              

You're pretty sweet yourself. Also, you have that attitude thing going on

posted June 09, 2003 02:40 PM              

I've even gone thru a phase like that myself, I'll be honest... but hey, at least now I realize promiscuity doesn't really bring happiness.

Sex is far more & fulfilling with one woman whom you've built a crazy-a*ss sex life with, explored freaky-a*ss sh*t with, & grown together sexually, as one

posted June 09, 2003 09:28 PM              

The thing is...I ultimately got the last laugh and was the one who ended up being in control...nothing like seeing a scorpio grovel at your feet on his knees....that was not figurativly...he REALLY DID get down on his knees and grovel...crying and screaming in broad daylight..outdoors near a main road with cars flying by.

It was weird for me, I think I've said it before...that's the only time I've used the leo "power" i loved it but I hated it at the same time...I guess I let it all boil up inside...4 years of his scorpio dominance and "spolied brat" ways.

but I loved him...I just realized he wasn't going to change and I'm not out to change anyone and I wasn't willing to accept him that way...to accept him that way meant breaking up with him...so that's what I did.

posted June 09, 2003 09:43 PM              

I think it varies from scorp to scorp. I know 2 scorpio guys... one reminds me "somewhat" of the guy you're referring to. Minus the crying.

The other, has this I don't give a care attitude.

However, I've NEVER met a scorpio or heard one being talked about, that wasn't a bit jealous. I'll admit it... that's me included. As long as we don't have any reason to suspect anything... no worries.

Example: I tend to give someone all the freedom they want. If they allow the same for me. Although, I'm keeping a silent watchful eye on anything that would be suspicous. Who Doesn't?!! It's nothing major. I just don't want to be in the dark about something like that.

Also, I tend to do others how they do me. If they don't hassle me about those things, than I won't them. I don't like the run-down either "Where you going... etc."

posted June 10, 2003 01:57 AM              

You have the experience and wisdom from your first experience to take to this one, using it to promote harmony and avoid conflict. Not to mention, you also know what you won't stand for this time around.

posted June 12, 2003 10:15 AM              

I got a phone call at work this morning ... one of those solicitors trying to sale stocks.

Also, I just "had" to guess this guys sign... I NEVER do that, as some people don't get it.

Alright, it went like this...

Me- answering phone

him- is so and so in (the owner)

me - no he isn't... could I take a message for him? (of course the owner was really in)

him - yeah he is

me - no. he's not in this morning

him - why you want to lie

me - who said I was

him - just let me talk to him

me - I would if he was in

him - (beginning to chuckle) he's in there

me - how do you know?

him - I just do

me - are you a scorpio

him - why?

me - just curious is all

him - yeah... why?

me - HA! I knew it!

him - what do you mean?

me - Ahh.. nothing

him - how did you know?

me - I just knew

him - really...

me - really

him - what's that accent... where are you from

me - wouldn't you like to know

him - seriously

me - seriously

him - no really

me - am I making you mad yet

him - no

me - yeah I am

him - no you're not

me - (laughing) yes I am

him - no you're not

me - well I got to go

him - why?

me - I got things to do

him - ahhh

posted June 12, 2003 01:29 PM              

He was from a broker in New York.

Reminded me of a pretzel... one would ask a question, then the other...

Still blew me away that he "knew" the owner was in Lucky guess, I'm sure. However, most would just take the answer no and move on

posted June 12, 2003 01:31 PM            

Best line I ever heard in reference to me was between an older Scorpio Male and a young Aquarian male. (Now these are Texans, so read it with the hearty accent)

Scorp: Hey boy, you been sniffing around this little lady all day.

Aquarian: Yes, sir. I know a good woman when I see one.

Scorp: Look here Aggie - you watch out for this one, she can make an old dog run to the end of it's chain.

Aquarian: Yes, sir, I can see that, she can also make a young dog run to the end of his chain as well.

Scorp: Well son, good luck, cuz when you get to be my age and see a woman like this - well it's like a dog chasing a car - wouldn't know what to do if I caught it!!!

posted June 12, 2003 02:30 PM              

He wants it, trust me, he does!!!