posted September 05, 2003 08:48 AM              

Leo: Cracking me up with those pop ins

Aries Chick: Again this is only opinions regarding "myself". I always seem to go after the ones that aren't as easy to get. I've ruined a many of a relationship with ones that I should have stuck with. I'm learning on that one.

posted September 05, 2003 12:36 PM              

Excuse me... I have to step outside and savor my afternoon cig. Accompanied with my mocha smoothie and a piece of dentyne for afterwards.

posted September 05, 2003 03:34 PM              

I'm to the point that I'm done biting my tongue and I'm ready to inflict pain. (not physical) but hurting his feeling.

One thing I know how to do is to belittle a person.

Would I be wasting my time?

Or maybe ignoring him and moving on, showing him that he didnt get the best of me?

I hate walking away without a fight, without having the last word......

The thing is that I am not dealing with any kind of human ,I'am dealing with a scorp that won't show that he cares even if its taring him apart inside.

posted September 05, 2003 03:54 PM              

Be the bigger one. Walk away. See if he cares. Let him be the one to initiate the next contact (and it could take a month or more). If he doesn't come around then you have your answer. Don't put your life on hold. If it's meant to work out, believe me, it will. If not, WHEW!! You dodged a bullet IMHO.

I'm sorry if I sound jaded, but I know the grey lizard/scorpion variety of Scorp man, and I've seen too many of them psychologically torture the spirit out of a (use to be) confident, beautiful lady, leaving nothing but a tormented, hollow shell of a person with zero self esteem.

posted September 05, 2003 04:21 PM              

Well, going on intuition and chart estimation . . . it appears Papa Saturn is tightening up the valves for a while, then you have your Saturn Return . . . a double whammy.

Hmm, if you think you are frustrated now . . . it is going to intensify for the next several years.

Best of luck to you.

Bye.

posted September 05, 2003 04:48 PM              

He already dumped you -- and this doesn't sound remotely like love -- this is addiction.

Get over it before you wind up on Jerry Springer!!!

I responded to you in Nebel's thread too -- hadn't seen this one.

Good luck to you,
Lunargirl

posted September 05, 2003 05:05 PM              

That's my response to you wanting to call this guy up.

Just leave him alone. Karma has a way of setting in on people like that. (trust me) What they dish out they tend to get back 10 times over eventually. Just do what I do... lay back like a spider and watch

posted September 05, 2003 09:37 PM              

Heard you loud and clear. I wish that I went through this crap at 16 yrs old, but with three brothers I started dating at 24yrs old and this being a second relationship with a man this is way to painful. Should of been a Catholic Nun.

No more MEN........Not that I'm going to the other Side. LoL LoL

This addiction/love/hurt/pain/obsession that I'm going through is something that I wouldn't wish on an enemy.

posted September 09, 2003 03:25 PM              

weeklyhoroscope.com

If you are the Eagle-type Scorpio (eg, no square aspects to Sun, Moon, and/or Venus by Mars, Saturn, and/or Uranus)

posted September 12, 2003 06:45 PM              

1SCORP I DIDNT LIKE THAT SITE-

WHAT IS AN SCORPIO EAGLE? SCORPIO'S COME IN DIFFERENT FORMS?
AS YOU SEE I KNOW LITTLE ABOUT THE SUN AND MOON OF A SCORPIO MAN.

ALL IN KNOW IS THAT THEY ARE REAL STINGERS.

LOL
LOL

posted September 12, 2003 10:37 PM              

You said earlier you could handle the sex?? How can you do that if it's your second???
Don't let your pride run you around, pride is there to serve you, do not serve pride.
It will bring you down. Screw your pride.

Pride is not self respect or self esteem. Don't let your pride think you can handle something you can't. Pray to God to take away that pride that makes you think you can handle anything. Poor You right? NO SELF PITY.

At 27 you are thinking long term, marriage kids the whole thing. That's the age where you get the pressure from EVERYONE. procreate, Procreate.
It's your decision. Don't make a NON Decision by letting your pride decide for you. You are letting this Scorpio decide what to do for the rest of your life because you can't handle another relationship. You can handle 300 relationships, hundreds of friendships, companions, dogs, lovers, husbands, get started! Don't let other people run your life and get caught up in the emotion of watching other people live.

It's beautiful but so is suffering, pathos, obsessive love, unreciprocated love, love with married men, loving gay men who can't love back. All just a kick to keep you from facing yourself!

Stop running away from yourself!

Get another man, don't whine about how other PEOPLE destroyed your life! It's not over yet.

Being an Aries I am hard on you because you CAN take it. Plus your life gets much better after 30 unlike other signs so that's the way nature made it. This is normal for you. You are picky for a reason, after you are 30 more opportunities will present themself because you will be past your Saturn Return which is wonderful for Aries women. I know.

Think seriously about looking for love everywhere, not just what presents itself. Make your own dates, make your own opportunities, go to events, alone or with couples. Talk to couples not other single people! Get a hobby that you do well so you can share with others, paint, write poetry, go to art exhibitions, find some culture even in Miami it can be found. Make yourself known to the world. Inspire others, make other people feel good about being themselves by being near your own love of life. That is the gift of Aries. Illuminate yourself like a Beacon of Light.

Men from the Miami area and living there are usually looking to play around simply because it's Miami I know it well. You need to look outside the box, EXPAND the playing field to include any available single man you meet, even if they live out of town, because the bigger field the more you pick and choose. It doesn't mean you are not picky it means you are worth more possibilites. Finding good men is work but once they know you the rest is easy because of your confidence.

Don't look back and say I didn't have enough options. Look around at your possibilities now.
Think Positive VERY Important for Aries.

posted September 12, 2003 10:41 PM              

Did you ever read Too Dumb To Love?
In Truer than True Romance?
It's a great comic strip book about how women fall in love with men. It's right on the money and hysterically true. I saw a lot of myself in that and in Libras since they are such romantics. http://www.suite101.com/article.cfm/caring_soul/90166
Really good for those IN LOVE!

There is even a modern columnist for “The Male Point of View.” "Hank Hanson" (a self-proclaimed hunk) advises women that want to "get over" with men to "dress like you love them, but act like you hate them. . .So show your cleavage and your claws, kitten.”
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She: "I can't help it, doctor! He's the only man who really likes me --- the only man who doesn't think I'm fat."
He: "You're being self-destructive, Can't you see what a wonderful woman you are? Sick, but wonderful."

Charlie was the boss at my restaurant. I could tell he wanted to sleep with me, and even though he was married, I was flattered.

Next panel. She: "So what's your wife doing tonight."

He: "Look, she doesn't understand me. Okay? So let's not talk about the old bag."

Oh, no-NO! It's Allen and Marsha! Jesus! He can't actually LIKE that bimbo!

A letter comes. She gives it to him. Caption: "Paul ripped up the letter into little pieces." And he says, "For some reason, I can't read this thingie. But I don' care. You are so pretty. I think I love you." http://www.dccomics.com/features/romance/ http://www.dccomics.com/features/romance/page2.html http://www.dccomics.com/features/romance/page3.html http://www.dccomics.com/features/romance/page1.html http://www.ralphmag.org/AY/true-romance.html

posted September 12, 2003 10:50 PM              

This will take you to the book used, it's $3.70 for shipping, total is around $8.50, well worth it!

posted September 12, 2003 11:40 PM              

TOO DUMB TO LOVE. Silly me called him for a recap. Was I expecting honesty? Everyone in my life looked at me as if to say why are you bothering with this creep? Even my Cancer friends?? I was told to consider being a Lesbian. I called him at work. TOO DUMB FOR LOVE.

Well that's my Cancer story. Well I guess I will have to go out and find another dependent clinging man to verbally abuse me and not make love to me, WAIT I will work on those thighs instead. Yeah that's the answer and then Cancer man will leave his much older girlfriend who is supporting him and move in with me so I can support him! When he's in town!

Moral of this story is that if a man has nice eyes, a nice butt and is around and you like it, he will be difficult to put down, a lot like a root beer float. No matter what he says you will have selective hearing because he mumbles.
Aries type women need MUCH MUCH better and can get it. Aries women attract men who like the confidence, so don't undermine your natural abilities. There are other ones out there who have better jobs, better butts and Confidence.

Take Care and Goodnight

posted September 13, 2003 03:01 AM              

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Don't let your pride run you around, pride is there to serve you, do not serve pride

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