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Topic: In Love with a Scorpio Man
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GeminiAries
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posted September 02, 2003 03:37 PM
 
This is my first time writing in. I am in love with a Scorpio man born on Nov.5, 1969.
I know that he knows that I love him. Makes no time to see me and work is his number one thing.
I feel like i'm chasing him. I'm an Aries. I love the chase, but now I want him to chase me. I'm always calling, asking him out, email ect......A few months ago to make him jealous I told him that I went back to my ex while he was away. He made it clear before he left that he were not together. Now he tells me that I cheated. When I revealed that I lied to make him jealous, he made me call my ex to show him that I was indeed faithful and now he is sooooo cold with me and wont give our relationship a second try. What can I do get this Complicated Scorpio to trust me again? I know he likes me, but I want him as my man! I know that he dates other girls- He wont admited but my instincts tell me other wise. I love this man
Should I keep calling or wait for his call. Everytime I call , he tells me that he is too busy with work to see me.
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lioneye68
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posted September 02, 2003 03:49 PM
Hi, GA!
I replied to you in the "do scorpios play the dating game?" thread.IP: Logged |
lllog
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posted September 02, 2003 03:52 PM
Either forget about this guy, or stick a hot poker in your eye. Each is about as useful.Come on, wake up and smell the roses. Sorry to sound so mean, but you can't possibly be this masochistic. Lanny IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted September 02, 2003 04:10 PM
Thanks Lanny,
No i am not Masochistic- I wanted an honest opinion from people who knew a little about Scorpio Man.The fact the he doesnt call me or date me doesn't make me blind.
I am in Love. I will move on.
I think.. IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted September 02, 2003 04:28 PM
dang girl, you are just whipped.IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted September 02, 2003 05:23 PM
I met him on December 4, 2002. It was great he was all over me.It was nice. He is such a deep and wonderful person. I love this guy, I want to call him now, but I wont. I haven't called since August 29,2003-We went out last week. On Aug 13,2004 till 5 Am
We went to the place we met at. It was nice a lot of women hit on him. As a Scorpio male he is sued to it. He told me not to let those girls intimidate me.
I need for him to want me, want to spend more time with me without me making him do it, or begging. I use to call him 3 times a day!
I am so pathetic now. Oh well...... And it kills me that I have no control over this.
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pidaua
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posted September 02, 2003 05:39 PM
GeminiAries, When a Scorpio man wants you, you will know it. He will tell you and there will be no question about the parameters of dating. He will want to know where you are at all times, but he will still be somewhat evasive. Betray him once, act to "needy" and he will shut you out. Just like what he is doing now. I had a Scorpio man (well a few) but one recently that was almost relentless. That is how they are, but not in a stalker kind of way. They like mystery, but they also like to possess the one they care about. You are making yourself to openly accessible. I would recommend reading up on Scorpio men and the interaction with an Aries woman. Lanny was being brutally honest, but what he said was truth. Pidaua IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted September 02, 2003 06:07 PM
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GeminiAries
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posted September 02, 2003 06:10 PM
The thing is that I didn't betray him. I caught him with a girl and made up the fact that i went back to my ex. When he told me that he was so hurt, I fessed up and told him that I was never with the guy.He is Crazy, I'am crazzy
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pidaua
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posted September 02, 2003 06:19 PM
Hey, the guy is playing you hard core! Pretend you are reading someone else's posts, what would you say to the person writing what you have written?I am looking at this from the outside. What I am seeing is a man playing with a woman like she was a little toy. He is pushing you to the extremes, playing with your heart and mind and doing what he can to break your spirit. Save your heart for someone that wants to treat it like gold, not someone that wants to shatter it. 1Scorp gave you the inside track on what's up with Scorpio's on the other thread. So many people will play the game of "Oh, you broke my heart....I was so hurt" just to keep you coming. Do you think that he is really sitting there remembering every time you both went out or when he first met you? I have dated a lot of men and I know the games, I used to play those kind of guys for the hell of it. They get off on the control and watching you wait on them like you are a little scullery maid. You are worth so much more than that. Aries people are so passionate and have so much to offer, just find the right one to offer it to. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted September 02, 2003 06:53 PM
God, some scorp men are shameless about the double standards they adhere to in their relationships. I know a sweet, beautiful Pisces girl, who got a crush on this Scorpio guy, who preceded to treat her like crap, and basically traumatised her during the 2 short weeks that they spend together. Then, she told him she didn't like certain things that he did/said, and he said, "too bad, your done". Then, one night, they both ended up at the same after-club party, and he was necking with a skanky ho in the corner, then putting moves on someone else there, and eventually ended up in a bedroom with someone else. Well, she was bothered by it, but just ignored him and tried to enjoy herself, and she ended up spending the majority of her time talking to this guy all night. Then it got back to her that he had commented to various people there that he was "really disappointed in her". He was disappointed and shocked and hurt and blah blah blah...because she was talking to that guy all night!! Can you believe that? What a f*ck#@ pile of horse shyte!IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted September 02, 2003 07:19 PM
Let me be honest here in saying that I think that you two (Pidaus and Lioneye68) have both opened my very closed eyes. The thing is that this is my second relationship and I wanted this man to be my husband.I will move on. But to tell you the truth if he calls and wants to see me I will gladly GO. Right now he is laughing that I haven't called since friday.... I won't call Don't worry. Also, I read all the books from Linda G. and She LOVES Scorpio men. They are like God to her. My brother is a scorpio Nov.7. So I really wanted to give it a try with this guy. God my Heart Hurts-
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lioneye68
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posted September 02, 2003 07:40 PM
Uhg, we all know THAT feeling. 
I really need to stress that not all Scorpio men are like this...just the unevolved ones. It's a sign that ranges between very very good and very very bad, with a very very wide in-between.
BUT every man, woman and child NEEDS to be aware that the very very bad type is out there, circulating in society and passing themselves off as ordinary folk. Oh, but don't fall prey. You'll be forever empty inside if you do. They can completely and permanently bind and gag your spirit if you let them.IP: Logged |
pidaua
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posted September 03, 2003 11:04 AM
Gem Aries, I never got the impression that Linda G felt that Scorpio men were Gods. Look at what she says concerning the Sag woman and Scorp man. She calls it as she sees it and in some cases every sign can be god like and every sign can be demon-like. There are so many wonderful Scorpio men and women out there, but like all of us, they have a darker form of the sign. I look at my own sign - Sagittarius, and I can see times when I was unevolved and I have seen many of my signs selfcentered types as well. I understand that your heart is breaking. You invested time and emotions into this person. Realize that you have so much to offer and wasting it on a man that has no respect for you (or for women it seems like) is just not worth it. I know a Scorpio couple. His opening line to her was "Wow, you don't seem as stupid as most blondes". How she found that endearing is beyond me. They went on to get married, with him mistreating her, calling her names, draining their bank account and acting as though her only purpose was to service his needs. He would even grab her private areas harshly and say "Hey, let's Fu**" WOW - As a Sag with an Aries moon, my big ass hoof would have been planted squarely into his fat ass! He even had the nerve to say to me, I should have married you, you keep a clean house. I smiled and said "Yes, but then I would be in jail for murdering my spouse".  He is the unevolved Scorpio, but there are many great ones out there and I have had the pleasure of their friendship. I am truely sorry for your heartbreak. You will find another person that is more able to treat your heart the way it should be treated! IP: Logged |
zoka
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posted September 03, 2003 12:51 PM
Dear God!GeminiAries, please give me his full birth info. I have done his chart like he were born in Miami, but PLEASE give me his info!!!!!! He has a very odd chart (as far as I could tell) and I just would like to know more about him. zoka IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted September 03, 2003 12:52 PM
Wow that's unevolved. I think all the signs can be scary except for maybe Pisces-no even Pisces can scare themselves and then scare you. Out of all the signs that least intimidate me I would have to say Aries, the fire is a cover for a soft heart. Earth signs Capricorn, and Virgo are pretty sweet too unless they feel they are being punished.Libras, Geminis and Aquas, and Aries have to be the easiest men to get along with. Pisces are so sweet. Again, Scorps are great but only for the mature. A Scorp is not a first love kind of deal. I would leave that to the Leos or Aries. Natasha IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted September 04, 2003 06:10 PM
Scorps are relentless, true. But you all have to admit that Scorpio men tend to controdict themselves.I was on the phone with my ex-Virgo, and for some reason I found him to be so open. Could it be that it's not so much sun-sign , but also background experiences? Being an Aries, I see that I tend to love to love. I am not desperate for a man, but I love this challenging guy (scorpio)
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lioneye68
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posted September 04, 2003 06:18 PM
Scorpios like a challenge too. Don't be so cooperative for him. I know it's hard for an Aries to be indifferent in romance, but you have to become at least good at pretending to be indifferent. If he sees that you're moving on, and you're like " Hey, no hard feelings", that'll bother him... the indifference. It'll also turn him on to think that another guy wants you, but at the same time, the thought of you falling for another will not sit well with him.
If he has any desire to "keep you", this will throw him into full fledged pursuit, and he'll set out to completely annihilate the competition, which means intense courting and wooing.
Just be sure you actually WANT to put him in this mode...You may regret it.IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted September 04, 2003 06:36 PM
LionEye68 you give the best advise. I honestly beleive in what your saying. I haven't called him. That's the thing I want him to COME/CHASE me. I want this man. Trust me I won't regret it.I am never this nice. But with this man who happens to be a scorpio, I am so nice to the point that I feel that I was having an out of body experience. I wanted to make things perfect for him. He hated the fact that Iam so bossy and aggressive. I just dont want to be taken for granted. He always, tells me that I have the biggest heart. I don't give him any money nor sex. Yet, he was still there, coming over going out, spending the night. NO SEX- I know how to handle his D**K, but for me it's all about a commitment first.I need to have that control, that I am the only woman in his life. I DON'T SHARE MY MAN
I NEED THE CONTROL
IT WAS SO EASY WITH A VIRGO IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted September 04, 2003 07:01 PM
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sthenri
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posted September 04, 2003 07:31 PM
Honey, it's a game, didn't you read my post with the song? Of course there is no sex yet, because when there is, he will be in control, until then you are a nonperson. He wants the control, that's the only way it's going to be because it's what he can't have. His emotions are not genuine,Don't waste your evenings, get cable, buy a pet monkey, go on a cruise, meet more men. You will regret it later if you do give in to the Scorp, you will never control him, and he will never let you decide whether or not you are the only one. That's his choice. He is not a doll that you can dress and undress, Men can and do anything they want, the choice is yours too. Don't take it lightly. Don't waste time. And Gemini, you can't control a man's body. Natasha IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted September 04, 2003 08:03 PM
A non-person? No Genuin feelings for me? Whatever. Let me tell you. First, I am an Aries. Yes I love this man, but dont think for a single second that I am home waiting for his ass. I want him, but I know that I dont need him to fufill my life. If I cant control him fine. All I know is that when it came to matters of his work, life ect...... I was there to listen and he treasures that of me. If I don't end up with him. Oh well..... I AM NOT A WEAK ASS FEMALE IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted September 05, 2003 12:45 AM
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lioneyes
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posted September 05, 2003 01:23 AM
Oh My!!! being a Leo I thought I would share a thought or ten. hehehe! Anyway, the first is that we all know that you are an Aries woman ruled by Mars and are not weak. All the same- things seem to be getting a bit defensive. . . you might try convincing yourself of this fact before getting upset with others who are only giving you what you asked for- their honest opinion. Secondly, the Scorp your trying to engage (literally)seemingly has no respect for you. Any relationship worthwhile has respect in the equation (even your best enemies undoubtedly deserve a grudging respect. . . do they not?) Thirdly, it is true that we can not help whom we love, but we can control how we react to others and how they treat us. From what you have said you've allowed him to treat you this way for some time and knows he can and therefore will. My advise here is to call bull___ and if he keeps on treating you this way and not taking you seriously or respecting you leave and don't look back. Fourthly, I am a double Leo married to a Scorp. I am completely and totally aware of their magnetism. Beware! Their are many types of Scorps- The Eagle, The Gray Lizard, and The Scorpion- this doesn't include those who waiver between these depending on their mood, and trust me they have their moods. It sounds like you might have found yourself one who might waiver between the the Gray Lizard (one who stings himself) and the Scorpion (one who stings others). If it is a Scorp you want. . . try finding yourself an Eagle. . . it's quite a trip flying on their wings!!! I guess the bottom line is Respect Yourself and Love (the right kind for marriage) is reciprical and will find you. light and laughter,
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GeminiAries
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posted September 05, 2003 02:31 AM
Lioneyes,Thanks... My heart hurts so bad that's why I tend to be very defensive. I last spoke to him a week ago. I am tired of chasing him. Everyone's opinion and advise are right on the money. I'm hurting and I'm in Love.
It's now been a week since we spoke and he hasnt called ... I won't chase him..... It kills me to and kills me that he doesnt care enought to call to see if i'm alive.... I sure he has a new girl.. i wish him the best , but as far chasing his ass... I've Had it
I love him and I want to know if his alright, but I cant continue playing myself...... Thanks a million for your wise words. It's funny my closest friends have always been Leo females.
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