posted September 14, 2003 03:00 PM              

Atrid and Pixelpixie thanks for the wonderful advise. As you all could read I love this man, but don't think for one second that I am calling nor sitting at home thinking of ways to get him to love me. My heart still hurts and loves him, but I last called and chased him on Aug.29.
Since then I have no contact with him, nor do I plan on calling.

When I write things on the site it's to let out all my built in fustration without anyone knowing who i am. Just an Aires girl wanting to have some open opinions on a man she never delt with.

I was masochistic- That's not me, so I stoped
The best advise I got (astrid).

"Living well is the best revenge".......

That's my NEW MOTTO

posted September 16, 2003 02:12 PM              

No reason to sit there all forlorn. Though I do understand how those scorp men can get under your skin. Believe me.

Then again, what an ego, huh? I mean, how dare they? The BEST thing is to act like they don't exist. Give them a taste of their own, you know? The evolved ones will cherish their woman. All the rest of them are still infantile, as far as I'm concerned, at least in the intimacy department.

I love what a wise person posted on one of these threads about an involvement w/a scorp should not happen as a first love, or early on. Later in life.

I agree with this. But in my experience with 'my' scorpio man, I wish to postpone an involvement after he gets some more experience under HIS belt (well, ahem, he's gotten plenty THERE!! I mean, experience in LOVE and INTIMACY), then maybe we'll talk.

Until then. . . my life goes on.

Hang in there and go have some fun!
Astrid

posted September 17, 2003 02:25 PM              

Very intuitive. Life is like a box of chocolates you never know what your gonna get.
I give people chances. Sometimes you get those NUTS and sometimes you get one with a Creamy Filling.
I'm a naughty girl I like Nuts with lots of Cream........
LOL,LOL

posted September 17, 2003 02:32 PM              

You sure your husband is giving it to you the way you want?

posted September 18, 2003 04:23 PM              

How can they get pass this?

"Scorpio has proven the ability to hold on. Scorpio's staying power is second to none. Now Scorpio needs to learn to let go. Every day Scorpio needs to find something to sell, give away, throw out or burn."

"If Scorpio wants to get the most out of life, Scorpio needs to let go of old crap, literally, figuratively, and most of all, psychologically."

I found these quotes on the ADZE website. They remind EXactly me of my crush. Everything said in those quotes are things HE does.

posted September 19, 2003 05:24 PM              

Yes my first boyfriend was a Virgo. We dated for a year and a half. I broke up with him and since then we have been best firends. He has a girl-friend, but whenever he wants to talk its me he calls first. Whenever his down its me he comes too. She hates that. He came over a while back for help with his resume and she called him 100 times. LOL

As a JOKE last night I was on the phone with him,(we talk everyday for 4-5hrs) and I told him how horny I was. He showed up 20 minutes later. Nothing happened, but it was weird. I know that he has a girl, but he's always coming and calling me.
His girl-friend wants to get married , but he told her that I was the only woman he would marry right now. He calls me marriage material. I have a Big heart. Just like my Scorp says about me.

He says that he loves me. Told me that he hated me after breaking up with him. We are best friends now. My scorp hates that we are so close. That's why my scorp won't forgive me. When I made up that I was with my Virgo he got mad. When I told him that we were never together and that I made it up, he told me that he didn't understand why I was still so close to him.

I cannot NOT be friends with my Virgo guy. I love him. He is the only guy that I can chat with for 6hrs everyday and still have interesting things to say.

I broke up with him because I wanted a man that is a gogether in his Business Life.
My Virgo is 30 and doesn't know what he wants out of life. I was tired of being a temp agency getting him jobs teaching him how to interview, doing his resume, writing letter's ect......

posted September 20, 2003 01:13 PM            

Many Virgos are late bloomers and should never be underestimated...ever...

My ex-hubby is a Virgo and my best friend. I love him with all my heart, but we just weren't suited as husband and wife. Workwise, he switched careers in his 30's. (He is a bit older than me. ) He went from being a dentist with a degree from Georgetown, to forensic drug chemistry. Most people would think that was totally insane, to give up the money from dentistry, but Virgos (like us Saggies) often do things for the challenge not the money. He is now the commander of forensic services for one of the largest PD's out here. He went from drug chemistry, to DNA to being on of the few experts in 5 diciplines (DNA, serology, drug analysis, blood pattern analysis and forensic odontology). So once they decide, there is no stopping them.

In any case, many think that the Virgos lack of "being a go getter" means they are lazy. In actuality they are weighing up matters and trying to decide, analyzing everything. Sometimes it takes a strong woman to say

"Hey, honey I believe in you and I think it's time for you to show the world what you've got!!".

posted September 20, 2003 03:59 PM              

Right now he has a girlfriend yet still comes to me for emotional comfort. Why, because I believe in him and think that he will succeed in life. I am a true cheerleader to my men.
When we broke up he hated me and moved on to another girl. So I moved on too. We broke up in May 2001, I met my Scorpio in December 2002. Trust me. If my Virgo wanted me back he would tell me. HE knows that I love him, but I'm IN LOVE with my Scorpio.
On his birth-day Sept.5, I asked him what shoud I wish him? He said LOVE. But he has a girl. sex with him was ammmmmmmmazing.
Good,gentle,safe,happy,rough(when I needed it) ect.........

posted September 22, 2003 04:02 PM            

Come on, "Dream Maker of Men". Dude, they are USING YOU. Why is that Virgo coming over making passes at you while he has a woman? Emotionally, you are his mistress. He needs a reality check just as much as you do. In fact, you both need to sit down and ask yourselves"

Virgo Man: "Why do I keep running to this lady when I have a girlfriend?"

You: "Why am I allowing this man to keep using me as his emotional crutch and yet I can't seem to get on in my own life?"

See you are both using each other and you are using the men in your life to build yourself up as a "Dream Maker of Men". Yes, you may be a cheerleader, pushing them on, encouraging them, but come on, you are not doing it selflessly. You want something in return and that is TOTAL CREDIT.

Now, if you want to be a real friend you say to Mr. Virgo "Hey, you have got to stop this crap. You have a woman and running to me is not going to strengthen your relationship with her". Be the bigger person and LET HIM GO!

In the same respect, you really are having a hell of a time letting go of the Scorpio Man. We have all read these posts and can see a woman desparate to be loved by a man that doesn't want her. So what do you do? You immerse yourself in your friendship with a man (Virgo) that wants you but you don't want him, therefore you are acting similar to your Scorpio.

This is one of the most codependent situations I have seen in my life. Who cares when the last time you had sex was. Many of us have gone just as long or longer.

posted September 23, 2003 05:40 PM              

"In the same respect, you really are having a hell of a time letting go of the Scorpio Man. We have all read these posts and can see a woman desparate to be loved by a man that doesn't want her. So what do you do? You immerse yourself in your friendship with a man (Virgo) that wants you but you don't want him, therefore you are acting similar to your Scorpio."

Calm down Pidaua,

I'm neither desperate for love nor looking for attention in the wrong place. I'm slimply writing my fustration in dealing with a broken heart. If you have a problem with that, that's something you will have to deal with. Your Nasty remarks are uncall for. As far as using my Virgo ex, that's totally untrue. He is in a relationship , that may or may not be a happy one. He told me that I broke his heart. Now we are friends.

WOW, I use this site as a way of being anonymous and to let out of my fustrations,not to be belittled for my feelings. I'm not with those guys nor calling the scorp DUDE. The next time you have such nasty comments to write please do so somewhere else.
Bless YOU