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pixelpixie
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posted December 31, 2003 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nackie's not into the Nookie?
What about the romance part of it?
That is curious...as Aries energy is so vital and active.. I would think that would manifest itself in the bedroom. You have to admit you love it when you are actually engaged in it, right? The vigorous action...al the different sensations...like experiencing things from a new perspective...

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posted December 31, 2003 01:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Is your Mars afflicted to Saturn maybe?
Or is your Sun afflicted to Saturn?


Another question; How do you know when a Scorpio is interested in you?

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pixelpixie
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posted December 31, 2003 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good question.... but how do you know when anyone really is..?
Scorpios are not the out there signs as far as attraction is concerned.. it may take you completely by surprise. Depending on other factors in the chart of course.. Scorpios enjoy a good flirt, but it is really in the eye contact I think. They will hang out a bit more around you than others... body language and actions point toward you. They ask questions about you, with genuine interest. But I guess that can be said of anyone attracted. You just know.

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posted December 31, 2003 02:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I've got Venus in Gemini, and people always think I'm interested in them when I'm not. I play, I flirt. I't's been my experience that Scorpios don't flirt so much, or they have a special way of flirting.
It's so hard to know when people are very attracted to someone.

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posted December 31, 2003 02:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When a Scorpio is attracted to you, they won't have to say a word. You can FEEL it. It's an energy that emanates from them, a tension of sorts. You feel it in the pit of your stomache, and it can be a bit unnerving if you're not sure about them.

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posted December 31, 2003 03:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My aries is squared saturn and opp. pluto. Probably thats why. No, I really don't often get into "it". I can't stand kissing, not a big snuggler and when we're in bed I do "it" just to please my hubby (also an 8th house sun, cappy...so important). I really love back rubs thoough lol (taurus moon)

It's really wierd though...I always wonder why I'm such a wierdo in that regard. I wish I was more open about it...

Happy new years, you guys!
Nackie

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posted December 31, 2003 06:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nackie:

Have you ever been turned out?

.gloria

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posted January 01, 2004 06:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Turned out? Lol what does that mean??

I just find it really hard to let go of myself to be able to enjoy it. The feelings I get from my dh overwhelm me, but I'm still not able to tune out my antennae to the environment, i.e. rain drumming on the window, the sound of breathing, the pain of my leg stuck over my shoulder and wrapped around my neck...no just kidding lol

Maybe I need a psychologist and not an astrologist lol

Nackie

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posted January 01, 2004 06:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Somebody please turn Nackie out --

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trillian
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posted January 01, 2004 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nackie, any chance that your thyroid isn't functioning correctly? If so, whether hypo- or hyper-, it can completely deplete your sexual drive. Thyroid problems are so common, and yet under-diagnosed.

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posted January 04, 2004 04:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone give an interpretation for Mars in Virgo? Thanks.

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posted January 04, 2004 05:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nackie, I doubt there's anything wrong with you, it's just the external data like you said, Geminis get easily distracted and so you need a calm place to make love. A car would be bad.

A silent hotel suite with a plush down featherbed after a hot tub would be good. Lots of quiet and silent cuddling. Your cappy may be too talkative. Geminis need space too, mentally and quiet is good. I have Gemini Mercury Singleton and I really need some mental space during making love, I have to have that quiet and that empty space to start otherwise my mind races.

Capricorns love to talk, along with Aquas, I have had to make an effort to organize and plan the event so that there is minimal talking, that can be a pain to do, but it's the only way. Spontaneous sex works too if you find yourself in a place that seems perfect, don't work so hard at it. Caps like to plan and work at it so that can be a drag.

I know I'm in that position too, but don't let your Cap make it work, force him to lighten up. Mars in Aries likes spontaneous natural affection, Scorpio ascendants need affection too, there is nothing cold about your chart from what you have described here but you need spontaneity.

Natasha
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posted January 04, 2004 05:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm..I've recently had an abundance of Mars in Taurus natives in my life. Think that means something?

As for Mars in Virgo..I knew a Scorpio with that placement-very earthy and passionate. My Leo friend has this placement too. They plan rendevous well-every detail and nuance is covered.

I have Mars in Aquarius.

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posted January 04, 2004 06:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Scorpio/Libra Moon, brother-in-law has Mars in Aqua and he and and my sister have an active sex life, very passionate. She has Mars in Pisces/1st house. They are always looking for private places to make love, and like to plan things out. I think she prefers the spontaneous, he likes candles and the entire mood setting bit. He is always leaving candles burning and I am afraid he will burn down the house but he never does.

She talks about their sex life all the time, she has the Sun in Sag in the 8th, and has had many lovers. I will have to ask her more questions in a round about way when her husband is not around. She loves Cancers and Mars in Cancer.

Mars in Taurus is really honest and straighforward. Mars in Earth makes a great friend too, who is honest and dependable.

Oxychick, maybe you are looking for someone dependable?

Natasha
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posted January 04, 2004 06:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do different mars deal with past lovers and jealousy? Some like Mars in Pisces seem to have no problem discussing past lovers with their mate, others get incredibly jealous and hurt.

I am not hurt but I do not like to talk about other lovers as much and am always surprised when I am asked. Mine is Sag/1st house.

Do you discuss past lovers in groups? with your current lover/mate present?

Natasha

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posted January 04, 2004 06:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That may be more of a Moon thing.
Jase, an Aqua Sun, has his Mars in Pisces and Moon in Taurus (Scorp Rising) & does not at all like talking about (my) past lovers.

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posted January 04, 2004 06:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I LOVE talking about past relationships! And because it seems to be hurting everybody I try to keep it to myself but often some stuff just slips out
Sun Sag/Libra Moon/Pisces or Aqua asc (probably Pisces)

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posted January 04, 2004 06:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Damn, just lost my post.

Hey Natasha! I spent over a year in a relationship with another Aquarius Sun and Mars native, and later dated another. Sexually and intimately, it was always amazing and new. They don't like things to become dull. As for your brother-in-law, I'll bet his Scorpio sun has a lot to do with his passionate side.

I can only think of one Mars in Cancer person off the top of my head-a Virgo Sun/Libra moon. He's very insecure when it comes to women and sex, has had very few relationships and has a very difficult time approaching women. Feelings of sexual inadequacy seem to hurt him deeply.

I think you are right about the dependability point, Natasha.

Mars in Taurus doesn't seem to like to discuss past loves/lovers. I think the Taurus placement adds a bit of possessiveness to the native.

Oh, and as a Mars in Aquarius native myself, I don't mind at all discussing past relationships and lovers.

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posted January 04, 2004 07:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't mind hearing about it, but I do like to hear it direct, not secondhand because that hurts. Also I do NOT like to hear about it from the actual live in person past lover with sexual details. That does make me feel inadequate.
Mars in Libra/7th, does NOT like hear about it, but then also had the moon in Gemini in the 1st and venus in virgo in the 5th, and had the moon conjunct his ascendant. Very posessive Libra.

Mars in Capricorn remembers everything and I would hesitate to bring anything up. I only remember half truths or lies, if it's honest I'm okay with it, but not if it's joking or degrading.

I think my sister's openess comes from her moon, it's in Taurus but in the 3rd house, and she has Venus in the 11th, Saturn in Gemini and a bunch of planets in Libra opp Aries Ascendant. She is very airy. She is posessive and caring but hides it by talking. That would be painful to me to hear so much about it.

It's the same with my ex, he and I will discuss, and discuss and at some point I feel a little worn out.

I like to feel fresh and honest about sex, and do not like that worn out, tired, feeling but I then I hear, oh you are so hung up.

Natasha

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posted January 04, 2004 11:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Novgal:

Mars in Virgo in relation to talking about past loves - they take EVERYTHING really personally, so no, they don't like to hear about it and I'm sure would in turn keep their own "skeletons" to themselves.

The key is to not demand perfection from someone who starts mouthing off about sex. Just simply state your preference.

I've got Mars in Scopio at .51 Degrees (damn, I'm still trying to get a grasp on these borderline orbs)... which might mean my Mars is greatly influenced by Libra, or does it mean Mars never learned it's lesson in Libra. Does anyone know what the hell I'm talking about?

Anyways, if someone I just started dating talks about the past sex stuff, it's a HUGE turn-off. If I start liking the guy without making a huge committment, it might be fun to talk to each other about stuff IF it's done in a kinky-talk kind of way.

But if I'm getting serious with the guy, I think it is TOTALLY tacky to talk about anything having to do with an ex. This may be due to my conservative side (yes, I have a conservative side), from Venus in Virgo and Saturn & Jupiter in Capricorn.

As for hearing it second-hand, I just ignore it, or I'll hold my palms over my ears and go, "LA!!! LA!!! LA! LA! LA! LA!!!!"

.gloria

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posted January 05, 2004 09:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Sthenri

wow! What you said makes a lot of sense, I continually get upset that it always has to be the dreary, "we're in bed for the night now it's time to go at it" thing. It should be a spontaneous action of love and not just because two (usually very tired!) people happen to be lying beside another!

I did not realize that gemini's are quiet lovers! Wow! That's definitely me! Do NOT talk to me during lol...and I especially do not want to hear "dirty talk" (venus in leo).

Thanks for the clarity, I often feel frigid but I think a lot of it results from being misunderstood.

Someone understands me! woohoo!
Nackie

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trillian
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posted January 05, 2004 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ummmmm....my triple Gem, sun, venus and mars all in Gem, is both talkative and loud as a lover!

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posted January 05, 2004 12:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Trillian:

What do you do to deal with being loud as far as the neighbors go? I'm very loud too, and I don't care! Maybe you have some tips for those of us on the fringe.

(when I get it, that is...)

.gloria

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posted January 05, 2004 01:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nackie, I know you are not cold with a Venus in Leo, I have Venus in Aries and it's not likely that you are frigid. Yes it's a pain to be in bed by 6pm, just because it's raining and then have to do "it" since it's too much trouble to do anything else. It makes me want to laugh. I felt with my ex, that I was an amusement park ride, but no fun for me. It has to be spontaneous to be fun.

Once I told him, let's drive the the ocean, let's just go. And we did and it was sexy and wonderful. We couldn't do that all the time but since he said yes I loved him for it. Still his conservative nature, outdoors anyway, bottled me up.

No you are not frigid just spontaneous, warm, and friendly, and more than enough. I found teh right music is a big help for relaxing.

It's much, much better with music,

Natasha

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posted January 05, 2004 01:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natascha, that was a lovely thing to say. You don't know how good that made me feel...I have many problems because of my seeming "refrigerator nature"...

Think I'll show hubby your posts!

Thanks so much for making me feel understood...what a wonderful gift!!
Nackie

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