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Topic: Sexuality of Mars in the signs
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pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
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posted January 21, 2004 11:32 AM
  
Hmmm, well, my Leo is very much into oral and his is WELL endowed - so at least in his case the theory doesn't hold...but he may be the exception because....Now the Pisces, he was very much into oral and was also very well endowed. My brother has an Aqua Sun / Virgo moon friend (used to be my friend but he is SOOOO negative it killed me). Anyway, he would brag about having a little tiny unit, but that he was great orally. Ewwwwww, that just is not right...to announce it to everyone. LOL Then there was my old Virgo friend. He shared with all of us that he was not well endowed at all, but that he was great with oral. LOL..that was until his ex pulled me aside and said he was HORRIBLE...quick flicks and no fun. I must admit - if a guy tells me he is small, it is a turn off. My First...the Sag dude was waaaaaay big. Too big and he did not like oral at all. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted January 21, 2004 11:48 AM
Interesting concept. I guess if you're not born with the goods, you have to find a way to make your lover happy one way or another.I guess this is true of my Virgo ex, he isn't particularly endowed, but has enough to please, and the right moves to do it with. HOWEVER, he's a big fan of licking the "sweet cake"! LOL and he hates to stop, just wants to give me another one, and another one, and another one, until I'd be pulling him up from there. LOL. Mm-hmmm, then there's something about penetration immediately after oral pleasure that's just un-freekin-believably yummy!!  New guy, Virgo as well, well lets just say the equipment fairies were good to him indeed!! He's not into the "sweet cake" (LOL I LOVE that) as much, but he is good at it. Soft and quick and such, just the right amount of pressure, you girls know what I'm talking about. But he much prefers to be on the recieving end of that kind of treat. (he's kind of a typical MALE that way)
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pidaua
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posted January 21, 2004 11:58 AM
OH MY GOD!!! You are so right. I have to do that with Mr. Leo...he will just keep going and I am like "Hey, I am convulsing HERE...it's time to put it in because that is going to make me reaaaaaaalllly happy!!!"LOL...too much.....(LOL..we're talking dirty over the IM right now...he's telling me what he is going to do to me in Phoenix. LOL)  LOL...yeah, I like the word sweetcake too, because we're sweet and well, it sounds better than some terminology hee hee. 
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Harpyr
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posted January 21, 2004 12:45 PM
OMG you ladies are so NAUGHTY!
That Gemini I mentioned was waaaay into the 'sweetcake' too. So much that I too had to forcefully demand we move on to packaging the goods so to speak.  He was quite well endowed as well.. I'll admit that he was abit unusual in just how much he liked the 'sweetcake'.. At one point in his life he almost got a sex-change. Needless to say, he was confused about his sexuality. Former drag queen and all. He was an unusual sort though.. He wanted to be a woman but also wanted to sleep with women, it wasn't because he was into men so much. He told me that when we were together intimately that I made him feel like a man moreso than he had ever experienced in his life. It's wierd I know, but this guy understood a woman's body more than any other man I had been with, which is saying alot, because I had been with more than a few. He loooved the sweetcake, that's for sure!  IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted January 21, 2004 01:35 PM
Ariesrocks, it's chemistry so it's probably the synastry. It's different for everyone. Some men like chubby women, some don't.Pesonally I am a chubby chaser, I like men a little chubbier than normal. Watch out though that your chubby one doesn't get huge then he can't perform at all, it has to do with nerves and weight. Libra Suns tend to get gout as they get older, and libra moons. Scorpios can put on weight too, espcially Scorpio risings. See if the ruler is Mercury/Gemini Rising and see if Mercury is in Scorpio, then you have a double dose of Scorpio. and he will get chubby as he gets older. If your rising is Sag and Jupiter is in Virgo you will age like a Virgo, chronic snacker but only gains weight when drinking or socializing. The ascendant points to physical problems/challenges. And watch the Scorpio/Libra challenge, weight gain and gout=performance, both for women and men. Natasha IP: Logged |
pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
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posted January 21, 2004 02:18 PM
Harpyr, LOL...you totally amaze me. I love this place - I learn so much about people. So how did you meet the Gemini? I have had only one experience with a gay dude wanting me. I met him at a party about 10 years ago. He saw me and said "I am a gay man, but I would be bi for you" I laughed so hard, but he was serious and he then proceeded to follow me around the whole night. It was weird, but he was very nice. I turned him down and he bugged my friends about me for a while, but then found himself a nice man. Truthfully, I find it hard for someone to be fully commited to both sexes. He was obviously gay, so I would never have been sufficient (at least in my mind). Astro-Junkie, I thought alot about what you said last night. What I don't understand is why you would pursue a relationship with a man only because of security. It seems that you really enjoy and love women, but you may worry about society's thought about it. Is that right? Please don't be put off, it's just the Sag in me loves to inquire Natasha, About the weight thing. I have Jupiter in Scorpio and a Virgo Ascendant (Sun and Venus in Sag and Mercury in Capricorn) I find that I enjoy snacking frequently (cheese, crackers, veges and fruit, rather than a big meal) which keeps me pretty fit, but I will start to gain some weight if I am out socializing too much and I don't keep up with my yoga / workouts. As far as my preference in men. I like them somewhat stocky, but not fat. I can't handle big guys, especially if I have to see them naked or semi naked in a bathing suit. I wonder if that is my Sag nature or Virgo Ascendant. I mean, a nice full butt is great and I can deal with love handles and a broad back, but if the tummy starts to stick out and the person looks out of shape, I kind of feel repulsed. I don't mean it in a bad way, just in a naked way. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted January 21, 2004 02:28 PM
Pidua, your ruler is mercury so your mercury in capricorn shows a lot about you. You are a lot like a Capricorn physically, and your mate must have some capricorn qualities.Yes I do not mean too fat, or sick, but it can get there if he's a Libra or Scorpio, but I do like a full figure, with lots there, not too skinny. Now Zorana says she believes I am a Scorpio rising since it's so close. If that's the case then my Pluto is in Virgo/10th house again, so I'm Virgo either way. Natasha
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pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
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posted January 21, 2004 02:54 PM
LOL...yeah, I had my birthchart rectification done and after reviewing my life events and transits, Leo was my true rising - late at about 28 degrees. I know there is much speculation about this, but when I consider the events as well it does make more sense to me. I can see the Leo rising in the way I act and how I was brought up - yet there are some Virgo qualities as well. I am still working it out, but I lean more towards the Leo rising. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted January 21, 2004 02:56 PM
I wouldn't dispute that, if you asked me, Pid. So your ascendant conjuncts my Venus then. Aw, that's why I'm so fond of you...  IP: Logged |
pidaua
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posted January 21, 2004 03:37 PM
LOL... ahhhhh Lioneye
Right back at ya babe!!!!
It's kind of funny, but when I go through the descriptions of a Leo rising, right from being a semi-weak infant (there was twice when I almost didn't make it because of colic and when I was 4 because of my huge tonsils LOL). But even the description of the father being a major authority figure and quite rigid (Cap Dad in Law Enforcement and former army). I was put on a pedestal and held court for 4 years until my bro came along, but that was a cool addition...another loyal subject hee hee (He has an Aqua rising). But, also the face I show to the world. I walk into a room (and I can be nervous as hell) but no one knows, in fact they think I am totally under control, confident and even a little demanding lol....well..me? LOL..but inside I am like (HOLY CRAP!!). I can identify with the Leo rising more than with the Virgo rising - but I do see both. I don't see the restlessness or nervousness of the Virgo rising, but I can see need to be organized (but that is also a Leo rising trait). I am definitely not shy, unassuming or refined in my conduct, but I do like to take in a situation before I commit myself to it. LOL I guess one of the biggest tip offs is what my mom said when I was out there. She said that she noticed that people would just stop and stare, even when I was a kid. Now men will just gawk and walk into things. She asked me if I noticed that, and I said I try not to - because I don't want it to go to my head. Now, it's not a 'Hey I am so hot' thing, but more of there is some kind of 'thing' about me. Well, that is one of those Leo rising traits - go figure. (and for the record, no - I do not have like 3 heads or wear provocative clothing to get attention LOL) hee hee IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted January 21, 2004 04:04 PM
Then your ruler is the Sun, Pidua, and no wonder you are attracted to Leos.Natasha IP: Logged |
pidaua
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posted January 21, 2004 04:14 PM
Natasha....hee hee..yeah....they are kind of my weakness...at least Mr. Leo is. But I have always felt drawn to them and my grandmother was a Leo that I really got along with as well. IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted January 21, 2004 09:01 PM
Hey...what would you guys/gals say about a guy with Mars conjunct Urinus (conj. by 1 deg.) in the 12 house (Libra)? IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted January 21, 2004 10:26 PM
Sounds good only because Libra is a very sexy sign, and loves commitment, also sexy talk. I love Mars in Libra anyway, so I am biased, in the 12th he would some glamour, and a feminine look."My definition of the perfect lover...a man who can make love to you until four o'clock in the morning--and then turn into a pizza." - Charles Pierce, 1972 Natasha IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted January 21, 2004 10:47 PM
Hi Natasha "A man who can make love to you until four o'clock in the morning" sounds just like a Scorp.  Did I mention he's a Scorp?  The other stuff sounds right on (also has a 0 deg. conj with Venus and Merc in Scorp). This is the part where I ponder how much info is ok to share! I thought maybe the Urinus-Mars conj. might lend a little unpredictability in the lovin' dept. IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted January 21, 2004 10:47 PM
Have any of ya'll had experience w/ men w/ Mars in Pisces?
How 'bout Mars in the 4th?  IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted January 22, 2004 04:17 AM
I was just gonna say, any expereicne with a man with Mars in Pisces, you beat me to it! well anyone? Someone said good oral with this position too. Is it just me or does it appear that men with this position likes women to beat them up? or be sexually controlling?IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted January 22, 2004 08:04 AM
I can say that Jase (w/ his highly aspected Pisces Mars in the 4th) is absolutely the most gentle man in that area.
Gah! Gotta run to an appt. More later.IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted January 22, 2004 09:32 AM
Gentle? Do they like it slow? and slippery..i,e wet sex, in the rain, in the pool ,in the shower?IP: Logged |
icetickle
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posted January 22, 2004 12:34 PM
Ariesrocks! To answer your question he is from Texas and his sun sign is Aries. IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted January 22, 2004 12:46 PM
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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trillian
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posted January 22, 2004 01:20 PM
Goodness! Just peeking back into this thread and realized I missed all the good stuff!lioneye, love the term 'sweet cake!' Thought I'd weigh in with my Gem, 'cause I don't think he fits the Mars/Gem mold. He is Sun, venus and Mars all conjunct in Gemini in the 9th house. He is quite well-endowed, loooOOooves the sweet cake (thank Goddess!), has terrific stamina and is also very creative. OK, a little kinky. Maybe a lot. But that suits me fine. And...though athletic himself, he adores women with curves. Speaking of weight, it's always been a struggle for me. Astrologically, I always attributed it to two things: Mars in Pisces (Mars being the ruler of Aries, and me being triple Aries)...and, Leo rising with Pluto (and Uranus) conjunct. Pluto conjunct Asc., figured things have to appear big, ya know? But like Pid, I can have an effect when entering a room...it's something that can be turned on and off... Ladies, what a great fun thread this has become.  I love hearing about you and your lovers. Uh oh. Does that make me a voyuer? IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted January 22, 2004 01:26 PM
Yeah, re: slow & Piscean Mars, at least w/ my beau. It's once in a blue moon when he's not; also just generally very "mergy" and touchy (and we're talking about an 3rd House Aquarius Sun/Venus here...albeit w/ a Taurean Moon & Scorp Rising).IP: Logged |
trillian
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posted January 22, 2004 01:45 PM
gloria...I just read your earlier thread, about being lonely, ready to settle, not wanting something completely conventional. My thoughts are with you. My Gem does not live near me, and the distance is difficult. I get lonely too...and can sometimes be a hermit. Dunno if it could ever turn into something seriously long term, which I crave, but I can't let him go, either. It's just not the right time, we still have things to do together (like an upcoming long weekend in Ireland, can't wait!). But many of us here value you greatly and are always willing to bend an ear or a shoulder...and if you weren't so far I'd take you out for a drink with some friends at one of our local watering holes up here!
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Ariesrocks!
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posted January 22, 2004 01:45 PM
Is he very much into foreplay? kissing?
does he like to tease?IP: Logged | |
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