posted April 25, 2006 08:40 AM              

Yea, [oh shoot, I forgot your name] AriesPink?!

posted April 25, 2006 10:42 AM              

So, all in all, you probably didn't do too bad! Restraint is such a wonderful thing in hindsight.

Good luck.

posted April 25, 2006 10:59 AM            

And yes that is the flip side of us we can be very aggressive towards ppl we really care about and want. Pisces men I have known to be almost obsessive when they fall for you...

posted April 25, 2006 03:07 PM              

Kamilla, CapGirl, Swerve,

Lovely replies. Delighted that you all listened to me and were so very concerned. It really got me through I must say.

Mama Mia,

posted April 25, 2006 03:07 PM              

Kamilla, CapGirl, Swerve,

Lovely replies. Delighted that you all listened to me and were so very concerned. It really got me through I must say.

Mama Mia,

posted April 25, 2006 03:07 PM              

Kamilla, CapGirl, Swerve,

Lovely replies. Delighted that you all listened to me and were so very concerned. It really got me through I must say.

Mama Mia,

posted April 26, 2006 07:36 AM              

"Sorry I haven't been in touch the past couple (actually it's more like 6)of days...I have been in another one of my introspective melancholy states. Even P. has been complaining telling me that I don't have much to say"

posted April 27, 2006 04:56 PM              

Aquamarine,

posted April 30, 2006 03:15 PM              

I thought this was amusing and sweet. His words:

"Well you know you're mom was a city girl. I had come up from the country after a year of college, and my sister invited me to live with her. My sister was friends with your mother, and she lived directly across the street. I could see her reading her books and pushing her mother's lawn mower. Boy she could really push that hand mower (hahha You have to understand my father studied horticulture in school, grew up on a farm and today has the most exquisite flower garden this side of the East Coast).. I was very shy, you know. And your mother she was so happy, so outgoing. I mean she was really optimistic and bubbly... I didn't ask her out for a long time. Well you know because I was pretty quiet and I knew where she lived. I knew I would be lucky. I knew I would get to see her most days."

Anyway there you have it, the classic Pisces romance. It was a different place and time of course. I have a beautiful black and white photo of them dressed to go to the Saturday matinee. She is wearing a black sweater, skirt and pearls. He is dressed up and sporting a hat. As he says, everyone got dressed for dates then.

posted April 30, 2006 03:19 PM              

You write well...they look beutiful..and i think venus in pisces bhaves like that...i can feel from eyes..shining..but just little scared....nice...

posted May 03, 2006 01:28 PM              

Frankly, till now I had not felt myself … whats so special about Pisces gaze . However, recently I felt something myself about my own gaze causing feelings in myself. Some time ago when I was looking straight into Sagi female’s eyes while listening to her, I felt like I was getting lost or drowned. It was a nice feeling to me, though for a short instance (as I couldn’t go on with it). This happened again yesterday (though I had been avoiding interaction with her). However this time there were no words and something which occurred out of way. Oh my dear the inner feeling was good … dunno how she would have felt anything. I guess the other person also needs to have similar kind of feeling (liking/affection/love) to feel the same by looking into Pisces eyes.

Lillygirl,
Yeah, the sagi female is also so outgoing and me a quiet person. However I think we might get bit jealous and hurt with very outgoing ppl like Sagi, where they mingle with everyone, unless we feel the security is in place.
Not sure if we like only effervescent ones (I know you didn’t mean that), as the one I loved (Gemini) is bit of quiet gal. However I liked all her lively talks. I guess once in love, you love everything - effervescent or non-effervescent or maybe everything becomes effervescent

posted May 04, 2006 01:50 PM              

LOL. No I am not a doctor but have done my share of writing on developmental issues. Actually, we are hoping to write a book together and he assured me last week that he still wants to make a go at that creative project.

I have been his patient actually for over 10 years I guess. I really did not have the same feelings for him in the beginning. Not close. I thought he was much too quiet to be empathetic. (GEMINI sun/mercury really neeeds to be told VOCALLY that everything is going to be all right--not through telepathy, sex or body language...LOL)

I was referred to his care by my obstetrician following a miscarriage (He specializes in endocrine diseases). The first meeting I left weeping saying I wanted someone else because when I mentioned the miscarriage he did not say, "Oh I'm sorry for your loss." He just kept staring at me and taking notes. He seemed too quiet and wayyyy too detached (aqua venus and mars though he does have a cancer ascendant and libra moon). Now he gets really funny and goofy and nurturing on my behalf so I guess he decided he could show his cancer and libra sides plus that pisces sun and mercury. He acts very annoyed if anyone bothers me---and vice versa (if another doctor is rude to him, I think it my role to agree that we need to slug him/her). It's very funny to witness.

What's outrageous about that first meeting is when I had the event chart drawn up, it was identical to my natal birth chart and thus had our vertexes and ascendants sitting on each others--- sort of fated.

I just got an email from him today after not hearing from him for 5 or 6 days. Yes I am certain he feels a pull and tug because the relationship even in this pure relatively lovely innocent form violates societal strictures. I don't mind. I'm not going anywhere. It's so nice to find a new friend at this point in my life . I write him a few times a week; he laughs. I think he thinks I'm a bit nuts but I'm not nothing if not loyal in my sentiments (hello Taurus Venus) thus I have had the same dentist for 12 years, the same hair cutter....etc...

posted May 05, 2006 01:02 PM              

You know I too am involved in some sort of community work. And the Sage fem is also involved in the same organization for which we are doing something. There is some sort of mini-project involved which requires some sort of coordination which she is doing. And I try to avoid getting involved more, with her being around.
Maybe same for your Doc’s dilemma (maybe besides the confidence factor) of working together on same project ..as you two would then get more close and more involved ....or this causing him to show his REAL self of goodness and making u feel more for him OR he might think he would get more involved with more interactions with u

Dunno why, however I am (maybe other Pisceans too) really shy of ppl coming to know of our inner goodness feelings…maybe reason is that if ppl come to know, its like me bragging about it. You know we feel good when someone appreciates us; if we open out about our inner goodness then it might result in some sort of appreciation. This might make us feel that we are being proud of our own goodness.
It’s like we think we should be un-selfish of things. Happy feelings due to some appreciation for doing good is like being selfish – that we do good, get laurels and feel happy about it. I guess some sort of extreme humbleness at play

Quote from aspenwall in http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/009030.html
** I am worried about the way people will percieve me if they know I think about others so much. Well it sure does sound nobel and caring when I say it like that! Hahah. **

posted May 05, 2006 01:03 PM              

My Gem love also has sun/mercury, and I used to be so vocal and communicative with her that everything would be right n all. Still in the end it turned out bitter

Oh yeah, it sure would be funny and nice when each of you take sides and care for each other
Yes, we do smile/laugh when we feel good - that someone has something (appreciation/love) for us… that someone is nuts for us

One query for ALL, who are attracted to Piscean eyes, do all your Pisceans keep the gaze steady and not the first ones to drop off the eye contact. I find myself not keeping the eye contact long as if I do so, I think I get somehow lost and then can’t listen/think to what other person is saying

posted May 08, 2006 12:11 PM              

This is what a Pisces in love feels when he doesn't know what other person's feelings are for him. It’s an internal push-pull for him.
If he doesn't see or feel other person has feelings for him, he feels emotionally to go away from that person's surroundings, though he might have feelings for other person. He thinks that if the other person doesn’t have anything for him, better to go away (disappear) rather than communicating what he feels. His rationale is like, if other person wants him (based on his feelings) then he is available, if not he would keep his feelings/hurt inside with thoughts that other person doesn't want him so better go away.

Even if he sees some or bit more, light of feelings from other person, he wouldn’t go away; at the same time he wouldn't also move 2 or more steps forward. He wants the other person to take initiative. If not full initiative, at least first step followed by him taking a step and then again expects other person takes next step and so on. And once he becomes sure that other person really loves him (feeling of security that he won’t get hurt by denial) or he can't sustain all this separation, I think, at that point he would stride forward. Then there is no running away unless the response is negative (in most cases the negative response is not possible, as both were taking steps forward to each other).

And if you have no intention of getting involved, better give such strong signals that he runs away. Also you too run away. Because it becomes difficult for a Pisces (attracted to a person) when he feels subtly that other person has some affection for him (even if friendly). As he has already crossed the lines of friendship to being attracted, his romantic dreamy mind would make him take the subtle affection of other person seriously (though he is not sure of other person’s real depth of affection). And it is a torrid time for a Pisces to go through this inner fight of opposite thoughts that - other person has feelings or other person doesn't have. Even after getting negative response, the earlier subtle affection of other person keeps playing in his mind to keep the havoc running in his mind.

posted May 08, 2006 03:42 PM              

so the main thing is, yeah we withdraw into our own worlds, because it's easy to feel misunderstood when you pick up so much psychicness from whats going on around and when you are sensitive and deep. and sometimes you dont mind just going and being just with yourself for a while. i think one of the awesomest things about pisces and neptune is feeling complete with the universe and being okay on your own...even though i have my sun and venus in libra, i can be cool in my own company.

i'm going off on a tangent now! the main point is withdrawing doesnt mean we dont like you its just sensitivity is high with neptuney folks. shyness even. or at least laid backness.

ive also know more than one venus in pisces boy to feel the connection between him and the person he loves is so strong he doesnt have to connect with words all the time.

they like to wait for you to pour out your soul onto them. venus in pisces especially. its great if you are extrovereted and the reward is lots of love and devotion.