posted April 15, 2006 02:27 PM              

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How can you tell if a Pisces guy is in love. What way would he act around someone he is in love with. I know Pisces can be very deep sometimes and it is hard to know. Appreciate feedback. THANK YOU.

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posted April 15, 2006 03:38 PM              

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You will catch him gazing at you when he thinks you're not looking. It will be the softest, most steady, and the most loving gaze you will ever behold. It's like he's trying to figure out what you are and is holding his breath in case you're an angel who will fly away.

My thoughts,
SkyG

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posted April 15, 2006 07:32 PM              

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You will catch him gazing at you when he thinks you're not looking.

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OMG that's so true (at least,in my case).But when you try to approach him or even catch him,he'll slide away,leaving you hurt and helpless.

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posted April 16, 2006 10:59 AM              

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YOU ARE SO CORRECT. THAT happened with me one time. Any more information to hand, do let me know.

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posted April 16, 2006 04:47 PM              

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Ahhh, the Pisces Gaze. How shall I describe thee...

Well, having been on the receiving side of that once last summer--sort of hard to forget. That gaze...it is shy, lingering with a hint of childlike innocence.It is neither nervous nor bold, rather intense with sweet curiosity. If you have the patience not to meet it head on, you will capture it for a few more golden seconds.

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posted April 16, 2006 05:47 PM              

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Would this "look of love" apply to someone with Venus in Pisces? I've had this from one... sweet, intent eyes fixed upon me... and yes, that "curious" part was in the look too. I could not meet the gaze, so he did not break it and just kept staring.

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posted April 16, 2006 06:26 PM              

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CapGirl,

Correct, the person I know has Venus in Pisces. Now it all makes sense. Good reply.

LilyGirl,

Loved your reply, so correct and true.

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posted April 16, 2006 08:26 PM            

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Not been around any fish men, but fish girl here, when falling in love, loves to take care of her man, lots of good food, hugs, cuddles, and I get real mystical and have been told my eyes "shine." I think it is very much in the eyes for Pisces, look deep into the eyes to touch the soul of the fish lover!

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posted April 17, 2006 08:34 AM              

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Hippichick,

Correct, Pisces love their food and will always look after themselves when it comes to food. As for the eyes, correct, you could melt when looking at them. It is like, they have psychic energy. They love cuddles and hugging. Great reply.

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posted April 18, 2006 12:03 AM              

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If Pisces has already disclosed their love to you, then yes they would love you a lot like Hippichick commented. Hugs, cuddles, kisses, lots of care and affection… They would be very romantic with you. You would be his queen.

If not yet disclosed then, yes it might sometimes be hard to tell due to shy nature.
I think they will watch you from lines to make sure on how the other person is interested in him. Whether other person has any feelings for him, or other person has feelings for someone else.
They would show appreciation for you or behaving with you more softly or bit differently than what it was before Pisces getting feelings for you. Like if he has never asked you for lunch or something else, he might ask you the same out of the blue. Like if he has not chatted with you online he might ask you for your online id (yahoo/messenger) – just an example. He might query/comment on certain things in a camouflaged manner (camouflaged because he doesn’t want you to get the idea that he is interested in you, until he thinks you are really interested in him), like “you are wearing a new dress, whats the occasion” (he may not have asked the same before or there would be some difference in the way he would have asked like being more shy).
Searching for you (again it could be in camouflaged manner) if you are not at your usual place.
Doing favors for you. Feeling happy internally when with you or when you appreciate something in him (not sure if you can get to feel his internal joy). Being more communicative with you, before being attracted the communication may not be that level, like it might involve different topics or could have more deeper exchanges and discussions of things.
More you try to build the bond or show that you are interested in him, the more easily he would come out of his shyness (provided he is also interested in you). Its like he trying to check if you are having your bait of interests/feelings for him and he then going for the bait. Yeah, bold ones could confront you upfront and show their love/affection

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posted April 18, 2006 12:15 AM              

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Villy, AriesPink... such interesting observations!

I have a pisces man in my life that I am semi interested in at the moment. I can't tell if he's interested or not... I hear pisces men are such flirtatious types. Here's what I have noticed lately -

Was staring at me intensely whenever I'd look at him
Put an earring in my hand that I thought I lost the week before - he'd been carrying it around letting me think it was gone forever, then made my day when he had it!
Asked me "How did you do your hair like that? It is different than I have ever seen it". Kept complimenting me on my outfit.
Text messaged me a few hours ago telling me what a great time he had over the weekend at my b-day party...

It's a bit of a sticky situation in our circle of friends, so I am not sure how far things can go. I am not sure I even have feelings for him beyond friendship. But he's definitely an interesting, enigmatic man.

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posted April 18, 2006 12:30 AM              

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"he'd been carrying it around letting me think it was gone forever, then made my day when he had it!" .. hmm thats interesting.

Anyways, if you are not interested, dont ever give him a slightest idea that you might have any feelings for him (I understand you haven't got, so it should be fine). As it is very easy for a Pisces to get emotional of things and get wrong impressions (due to dreamy nature) and coming out of that is bit hurting for them.

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posted April 18, 2006 12:55 AM              

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Thanks Villy. That's a good thing to keep in mind. I would never, ever want to hurt him. I am not even sure that he has any feelings for me yet either. But I think we're both intrigued...

I myself get emotionally involved fairly quickly as well. I think that I feel myself starting to care for him, and that's why I am cautiously treading to make sure I don't get hurt first!

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posted April 18, 2006 04:56 AM              

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Villy,
What a lovely reply. I read it over twice and will do so again. Everything you said is true and has made by day so much. You have described Pisces so well. Uncanny.

ScarlettSoul,

Your story was lovely to read. It shows how romantic pisces men are. How they take note of what clothing you wear etc.

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posted April 18, 2006 10:55 AM              

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Villy~ that was a very insightful description. I swear I saw this "internal happiness" escape from him when I surprised him and showed up at his place... we were talking and while I was talking, he was looking down, focused on what I was saying and petting his dog, and this smile turned up out of nowhere; he suppressed it and then immediately a slight grin returned and then gone. It was the strangest thing! Almost like 'the Joker' grin, bc. it was so sudden and then gone, and then back but smaller and gone again. haha

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posted April 18, 2006 02:46 PM              

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Remember one thing about Picses men. This is very important. They want to be pursued. I have been with one for 4 years. They do lots of nice things for you, but in the romance dept. and in the sex dept. you have to be agressive. they love it.

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posted April 18, 2006 03:56 PM              

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Oh, boy, I have experienced that ... "wanting to be pursued"- it's totally role reversal and backwards to me, being a Cap. sun/ Cap. venus, meaning a trad'l woman who wants to be pursued by the man! I've really had to step outside of my comfort zone with this pisces venus guy and do more pursuing than I normally would, the latest of which was that darn love letter that is now 14 days unanswered. Surely, he can't expect that there is more pursuit forthcoming out of me after that kind of gesture??! He's going to be swimming around in circles wearing himself out waiting for that to happen, poor fish! haha

This is an interesting topic. I hope for more insights, because this piscean love is very unique and ethereal- I've had a hard time pinning it AND him down.

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posted April 18, 2006 07:57 PM              

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Pisces men want to be pursued?And how on earth are they supposed to be a Cancer girl's ideal match? *scratches chin*

I've tried to pursue two so far (way out of my comfort zone as well) and while i KNEW they were interested,they rejected me. (the first one was after me,after a while though - his ego was probably shattered because i then had stopped giving a damn about him anymore)

Blech.Bring me a pursuing Scorpio and let me be his "victim"

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posted April 18, 2006 08:38 PM              

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Hey Capgal,

Just wondering the reason for him not replying your letter. What sign is his Sun and Mars in?

Villy

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posted April 18, 2006 08:39 PM              

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posted April 18, 2006 09:00 PM              

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Capgirl: It's not a good sign that he didn't respond to your letter, but sometimes they need time to sort out their feelings because they are not always able to figure them out. They are ruled by Neptune which makes them a little mixed up. Here is a good link to read up about Pisces male's love style. Just scroll down on the opening page. http://www.throughnightsfire.com/PiscesLovehoroscope.html

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posted April 18, 2006 09:03 PM              

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Villy~

You must really want to know! 3 posts?? haha His sun is Cap and so is his mars. He has moon-conjunct-neptune (Sag.) which I've been told adds to his piscean tendencies. I honestly couldn't tell you why no response, except that I asked him NOT to contact me or respond if he didn't feel the same or if he didn't want a serious relationship... For as long as I've known him, 18 months, we've never gone longer than a month or two without contact, so I'll be surprised if this is the end of him but I rather hope so bc. I'd feel disrespected if he lets several weeks go by only to then contact me after receiving that kind of letter.

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posted April 18, 2006 09:07 PM              

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Gulp...

"....except that I asked him NOT to contact me or respond if he didn't feel the same or if he didn't want a serious relationship..."

Pisces tend to take that kind of thing seriously. Perhaps he is following your request to the letter and taking it to heart---thus no contact...

BTW.. A Cap Sun and Mars? With a Sag Moon and Neptune? I'm not convinced that the Pisces Venus is running over his chart to that extent. A Capricorn SUN and Mars are usually fairly straight with what they want. Sagittarius (I have Rising and a Sag Sun child are somewhat optimistic, fiery and blunt...I don't equate them much with Pisces/Neptunian)

As far as the other Pisces inquiry. I have been enraptured by the gentleness of Pisces. And they can be a bit difficult to read because none of the three men I know are traditional aggressive men. What I like is they allow unprecedented permission for me to be exuberant, to be happy and sparkly. They don't always vocally respond to that but they encourage it in a quiet, subtle, sexy protective way (it says I like who you are---who you really are...). I like that. It allows me to be sort of my true self, which God forbid I am not with most people.

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posted April 18, 2006 09:36 PM              

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Thanks Scorpio3x and LilyGirl... I'm pretty okay with knowing that I will never hear from him again; I knew that was a possibility laying things out in a letter like that and accept those consequences.

I would think Cap. mars/sun would propel him forward to take action too. But yet he also has moon trine pluto, and neptune trine pluto, and his sensitivity and self-consciousness have been really apparent alot of the time. ?

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