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Topic: Can the men give me tips on how to get a man?
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jwhop
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posted May 30, 2004 04:31 PM
 
You ever been catfishing Pixel?  IP: Logged |
angelica
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posted May 31, 2004 12:24 AM
Jwhop, fishing that's exactly what it is. Actually the real reason that I created this post is because I was at a club and I was sitting talking to a man. Beside us there was a couple making out. Now she was on top of him in front of everyone practically having s** and the guy was literally on cloud nine and he was not aware of anyone (you know that look when men are like that one with what is happening) and she didn't care what anyone thought. She
was not at all pretty. Now I thought back in my life and I was much prettier and the guys I liked didn't go after me. So lets say he just wanted her for sex why didn't these guys just at least try for sex. Do you know what I mean I'm sure all the women went through this. Or they look at women with a minnie skirt or anything revealing but a beautiful women that's dressed normally they won't notice. So confusing. So that's what made me ask.
This women really had him hooked, I'm sure he would call her back. She turned everyone else on watching.So what do I want to catch I already lost my fishes. Can't say I'm looking. Catfishing what do you mean? IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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From: Ontario, Canada
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posted May 31, 2004 12:57 AM
That woman was hardly the norm.. and maybe they are in a relationship, or maybe just exhibitionistic.
I wouldn't worry terribly about having to be so open about your sexuality in order to be approached. I like watching others enjoy themselves ( in the right situation) it is animalistic and sexy. But, with maybe some slight teasing, and slight PDA, I don't think I could hike my skirt up and take it to that level....... It is a matter of class. (Although a quick jaunt to a private room/bathroom would add spice, not sleaze)Sexiness is how you carry yourself. You can show next to no skin, and be incredibly sexy. It is the way you speak, the way you eat, the way you carry yourself, your posture, the internal belief of your worth, and that any man in the room would be crazy not to notice you. Natural grace. Some women just have it, others have to work at it.. and one need not be gorgeous to have it. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted May 31, 2004 01:08 AM
Jwhop~
How do you bait a Cat-fish with a kitty???
Unless they prefer their own kind, that is.....
Just a-wondering.
I don't usually have to think much about my bait, if you don't mind me saying....
You understand that statement, being a Leo....IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted May 31, 2004 08:51 AM
I think I understand what Angelica is saying here. For example, how you "wrap" yourself vs. being yourself and being liked for yourself.Since not living in the city, I've found it more effective to not look too provocative around guys, especially upon first meeting. This is in terms of being comfortable with yourself first and foremost. Relax, take deep breaths, own your space, be mellow. That's cool and attractive. If it's only going to be play time, then you better put out the right bait, like catfish. I bet that couple was so drunk or buzzed or whatever. I say, if they were married it WAS appropriate though. After you see a guy you like, just do something flirty to let him know you're interested. Guys are really nervous having to go up to girls all the time, with the chance of getting turned down. So just bring him in towards you gradually. Maybe bring attention to your wrist by saying something about your bracelet. IP: Logged |
jwhop
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posted May 31, 2004 10:54 AM
angelica  I asked what you were fishing for because it matters. I've had this same conversation with a Leo woman friend who essentially has the same reaction from men. She's beautiful, intelligent, poised, well spoken, confident and in fact, she's everything that scares the hell out of weak insecure men. Most of them won't approach her and it's just as well because they've already passed judgment on themselves---that they don't measure up----to her standards. The three who did approach her, a Cancer, a Libra and a Pisces wanted her for a trophy but quickly found out they couldn't control her which was their way of competing with her since they couldn't compete in force of personality, intelligence or wills. There's a lot more than the Sun sign that goes into the personality and overall makeup of an individual but where the personality is the prototype of the Sun sign, you're going to have trouble with water signs in general, you'll fight with Scorpio who will attempt to control the relationship and have to be very careful not to hurt the feelings of Cancers and Pisces. Libra will engage you in endless and pointless argument, on a very genteel plain but still designed to control you, your actions and every single element of your relationship. Everything considered, Aquarius, Aries, Sagittarius and Leo who have prototype personalities will appreciate you for who you really are. When they step over the line, they won't be offended when you tell them off in the way only a Leo woman can. They will probably laugh and find it charming but trust me, they will get your point. They don't have any need to control you because they have equally powerful personalities and are generally content to treat with you as an equal. So, you have the right bait, at least for those types. The next thing to consider is whether you're fishing in the right waters for those particular fish.  The reference to catfishing came up when Pixel mentioned clean bait is important. But not with catfish where the smelliest bait is best. IP: Logged |
jwhop
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posted May 31, 2004 11:40 AM
Pixel, I'm sure you don't have to think too much about your bait---kind of like catnip that you sprinkle around unconsciously as you work the room. IP: Logged |
angelica
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posted May 31, 2004 01:09 PM
I just know these two making out had just met, and they weren't showing skin she was just on top of him... maybe they were drinking that makes sense!! I never drank I hear it brings out the animal in you.I guess that's where my emotional comes from it hurts and makes you feel lonely. And you wonder are you too beautiful or to ugly. But I know I'm beautiful and almost every time I go to a club the men tell me I'm the most beautiful girl there. My last boyfriend was a scorp and it's very possible he tried to control me and felt discouraged. So I would think as he's controling that maybe he doesn't like me. He also tried to hide me. So again I think is he ashamed of me??? or just jealous. And just recently a guy at work who is a pisces, he flirts with all the women but he wanted to be with me first, he chose me and all the women hated me after. But I told him I wasn't interested in a relationship but we did have an attraction. So he knows when he flirts it hurts me. But I'm a tough cookie and when I want to use my power and intimidate and dress the part (don't mess with me) he feels it, and all the guys too.
So since you all know about men and astrology so much I'll tell you what I want and you tell me the bait: I want a passionate beast uumm man, gorgeous, dark hair, someone who is strong in character to stand up for me, be proud of me, controling, jealous--yes I'm serious, wise, class, who could heal me since I've been hurt, possessive, positive optimistic, has power with other men and the people around him and respect. I don't care if he has money we can build that together. Okay I'm describing my
ex. The signs I'm not attracted to are aries, libra, virgo, aquarius nice people just no attraction.
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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario, Canada
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posted May 31, 2004 02:48 PM
Well, you described a Scorpio pretty well. Maybe a Scorp with a Sag ascendant to temper his possessiveness a little, but still have that sexy possessiveness, not the obsessive one.
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angelica
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posted May 31, 2004 04:14 PM
Yes my ex had ascendant sag, it was just what I needed, it's hard to beat what I already had.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted May 31, 2004 04:40 PM
Cool.. did you say that, and I subconsciously picked it up? Or maybe it was one of those thangs.......
Well, maybe your time with your ex isn't up yet.. maybe he was the springboard for new experiences, and deciding what you want in a mate, or maybe you will actually have a chance to perfect it later on with him, instead of 'about him'... who knows.. I suppose it is up to you what you wish in this life.
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angelica
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posted May 31, 2004 04:46 PM
Acctually I'm not sure if he was scorpio with sagittarius ascendant or sagittarius with scorpio ascendant. You were so accurate with astrology I have to ask what would he want in signs or need? Really curious what you would all think.IP: Logged |
angelica
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posted May 31, 2004 04:49 PM
I didn't say, so amazing, you're just very good at this. I LOVE what you said. Tell me about your guy  IP: Logged |
angelica
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posted May 31, 2004 07:32 PM
JWHOP YOU'RE A MAN --catfishing uhum 
now I get it! You're not leaving so fast, spill out your deep dark secrets. We're waiting taking notes  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted May 31, 2004 08:36 PM
Angelica~ Did I get your signs? What is your Sun, Moon, Asc. Signs? Where's your Mars... which sign/house.. give me a breakdown, please, and I'll tell you what I think about your needs and what you look for in a man. Or how you love. Might clarify things some? (Off the top of my head, but if it is difficult, you're getting a cut and pasted version....which is probably better executed anyway .)IP: Logged |
angelica
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posted May 31, 2004 10:04 PM
Thanks my birthday is July 19, 1982, I'm a Cancer or Leo not sure and I was born at 4:00am in Ottawa. ThanksIP: Logged |
bewitched
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posted May 31, 2004 10:21 PM
Hi Pixelpixie, can you do the same for me I would so much appreciate it 
January 13, 1962 at 5:05 PM Montreal, Canada
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jwhop
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posted June 01, 2004 11:43 AM
Hmmm, now where did I get the idea you're a Leo angelica? I show your sun at 26* Cancer. In fact your chart is loaded with Cancer, Sun, Moon, Mercury and Asc. IP: Logged |
angelica
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posted June 01, 2004 12:38 PM
Maybe I'm trying to trick you Jwhop? No acctually my mistake sorry, wasn't sure which sign. It's not fair now you know everything about me and this post is to know about you men. What sign are you? IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted June 01, 2004 06:46 PM
*hint, hint*RRRRRRROOOOOOWWWWWWRRRRRR!!!!!!! *purrrrrr* IP: Logged |
jwhop
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posted June 01, 2004 08:01 PM
Well, I guess Pixel let the cat out of the bag. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted June 01, 2004 08:30 PM
Oh, sorry, was that you in there?
I heard all this racket and thought I'd get that poor kitty out of there, before it scratched itself. Any boo boos?Next time I'll let you 'out' yourself.
But I thought at least a bit of attention, and to let you see that others were paying attention, would shine some light your way.
*click* *click* *switch* switch* SSSCCCCCCHHHHHOOOOOMMMMM ****SHINE***** Here, spotlight's all yours... do a tap dance, would ya? IP: Logged |
jwhop
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posted June 01, 2004 11:51 PM
Yeah, thanks Pixel but please don't back rub my fur  Nah, no tap dancing. Set my shoes on fire last time.How about a little song?  and a 1 and a 2............
SWAN-EEEE, HOW I LOVES YOU,
HOW I LOVES YOU,
MY DEAR OLD SWAN...... Stop the damned music...... You can hit that spotlight any time now! Now's a good time! Hello! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted June 02, 2004 12:26 AM
Hey!!!!You aren't tone-deaf!! Who'd have thunk it?
I am impressed!
Bravo!!!!
Encore!!!! I'll only come out after you've warmed up he audience and stole them away from me with your charisma. What can I say, I like a challenge.
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jwhop
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posted June 02, 2004 11:51 AM
How nice! You want me to be your opener and get the audience "warmed up" for you? That's not normally my thing Pixel besides, when you come out in those white chaps and silver star you're going to need fire hoses to cool them off.  IP: Logged |
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