posted April 13, 2007 11:58 AM            

You know being in this same situation I can tell you this. Aqua's have to process feelings and emotions and sometimes it can take them a nice lil while before they do. Seems like yours has finally done that. They are not like other men when it comes to matters of the heart. I too have been in a relationship with a Aqua man for quite awhile now and yes I am now convinced more then ever that he is deeply inlove with me and has been for quite some time he has now processed it I guess and can move forward on it..Just continue to move at his pace and things will blossom nicely..Lucky you.. :-)

posted April 14, 2007 06:16 PM            

And what truer expression of "love" than that of "detachment." To let one be free to be who she/he will be....

posted April 18, 2007 04:46 PM            

I would suggest that you have Tim or William over in Astrology do you guys chart and let them explain exactly what is drawing you two together..

posted April 30, 2007 12:42 PM            

He really does love you, enough to tell you verbally, and he will probably persue you if you don't respond. Being a fellow Cancer, being persued will help with the security issue which may help you decide to be with him if you truly love him back.

"Aqua's have to process feelings and emotions and sometimes it can take them a nice lil while before they do."

Almost a year ago I FINALLY saw my Aqua BF again for the first time in almost a year (he'd joined the military and we'd written each other a few times; before that we had never talked, but we had non-verbal eye contact... lol, I don't know if you know what I'm talking about, but it's stronger than words...) and we saw each other for four hours at a mall. We were so quiet and I was really nervous; we didn't talk about anything emotional and after he left again I was ready to accept that we would probably remain "just friends" forever. Then, about three weeks later he sent me a letter telling me that he'd fallen in love with me! They do think long and hard about their feelings; I had had strong feelings for him for almost two years and after such a long time he finally told me that he felt the same way, and it is worth EVERY SECOND! If he's hurt that you don't respond, or if he persues you, or even if he AVOIDS you (it'll be because he's hurt and his pride may be wounded, too. They are the Water Bearers, symbolized typically by a Greek with a Jug of water. The Greek symbolizes human knowledge, the self, etc; AIR symbolism, but Jugs are made of earth (stability) and they have water WITHIN them. Basically I'm trying to say that although they are very intellectually acute and futuristic, they are also very sensitive INWARDLY. You wouldn't believe how deep their emotions run... but you have to open yourself up to them, being vulnerable to being hurt. Like I said, I'm a Cancer, too, Moon in Cap, and I KNOW that he could hurt me at any time without even realizing that what he did had the POTENTIAL to hurt me... but it's all worth it. (Also, I'm only 16 so our relationship is lacking of physical intimacy because we've decided to take things slowly; other Cancer and Aquarius couples however tell that physical intimacy between the two signs is... really good, lol.)

Basically, if you feel that you shouldn't be with him from your HEART, then go with it, but if you came to that conclusion because you thought about it and overanalyzed all the negative possibilities, please rethink because it's amazing being in Love with an Aquarian.

If you post your Asc and Moon, as well as his, I could give you more in-depth info, though, if you'd like me to. Take care, and I truly hope that you've made the right choice and that things work out between you two. ^_^ Be safe,

posted May 02, 2007 09:38 AM            

OH how I know what you are talking about..

posted May 02, 2007 10:10 PM            

Good Luck & Goodnite

posted May 03, 2007 09:31 AM            

I would urge you to contemplate first filling the void of the interpretated lack of love from this individual with filling the void with you...

Love yourself, first~~~

The Aqua is just be-ing an Aqua---detached, aloof---and he is a man, he is focused on one thing at one time, he lacks the ability to emotionally multi-task...

To experience the love of an Aqua is to experience love of the Divine---this is the Age of Aquarius, afterall and we as a society are merging toward more complete love between individuals and not the ego-fulfilling psudo-love of ages old...

To truely love an Aqua, one must first love him/herself...one must never depend on an Aqua for ego-fulfillment because you will never recieve it from an Aqua.

Having said that, Aquas are highly ego-absorbed, highly thinking of themselves, they love themselves like no other sign of the Zodiac! But as I said, one must first love onself....The more shadowy Aquas have a bit of Narcissus in them, forever gazing into their pond of self-delight!!! The higher evolved Aquas appreciate and practice self-love as in loving self, first, then they are able to share themselves with others...

I am a Pisces sun with a HUGE Aqua influence and I attract Aquas to me like no other---I have experienced many, many Aquas in my life and they have taught me many things....

The gifts the Aqua has to offer are precious...and one must love and appreciate them for who they are....

BLessings

posted May 03, 2007 10:10 AM            

Pay close attention to the wisdom of the words of Gemininymph~~~