posted January 05, 2009 09:58 PM         

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I just have to defend the underdog here - porn deserves a fair trail and so do all the men who watch it. I wonder more about why people are not ok with it.

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I know you are defending porn - again! That's cool! But you dont need to do it to me. Really. Youre pov is not new or uncommon. I'm curious as to why you so strongly feel you have to defend it.

And do you really think you are defending the "underdog" here??? Porn and the men who watch is the underdog these days? Come on. I think not. LOTS of females are okay with and enjoy watching porn with their SO.
Cosmo tells them to.

"wonder about people who are not okay with it"?

Why? Is there something wrong with them because pornography doesnt turn them on? Please enlighten me as to why it should.

posted January 05, 2009 11:17 PM         

*makes the gun to head motion and a decent blast sound considering I am a girl... also includes the kick-back motion

-Girls Gone Wild-

Girl Gone Wild
or just a child
with twisted inspiration

Feminine power
Feminine mystique
from the pages of Cosmopolitan

A literary rag unnaturally birthed
from the bulging womb of
masculine agenda

children manipulated
into becoming
cold,
unfeeling

Corporate slaves and prostitutes

Over-used
and
Underpaid

posted January 06, 2009 12:07 AM         

Incidentally, 99.99% of all porn gives me the "ick" feeling, too.

There are some amateur videos, of couples filming themselves, that aren't bad.

posted January 06, 2009 12:18 AM         

I think the issue is with the obsessive-compulsive behaviour of trying to control someone else.

It is one thing to say, "Hey, thanks, but no thanks; not for me."

Its another thing to say, "Stop doing that, or I will stop loving you!"

posted January 06, 2009 12:35 AM         

However, I'm done. You guys seem to think there's something wrong with someone voicing something a bit different on the thread and while it hasn't been overtly stated, there's a slight level of snideness in some of the remarks (i.e. good for you, MVM, etc.)
I consider that icky and it feels inauthentic.

posted January 06, 2009 12:57 AM         

Something that does get me going a little bit is whole "it's normal" thing. And how some people dont see how they are simply sucked into a lot of BS. (*see Melody's poem above ) I could go into a long winded post as to all the resoning behind why I feel the way I do , but you know how I typically don't enjoy doing that. Especially not tonight. People have their opinions and feelings on the subject. This i know, and i'm not trying to change them or go back and forth with someone who I understand has a different view. I said what I thought and wasnt looking for a debate. Or to be told once again about how someone thinks it's the normal, healthy thing to do. But I guess that's part of posting on a message board. So whatever. I was just annoyed because I didnt want to have to get into it with someone; be addressed directly about something I already read.

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Oh, and I dont think anyone is saying that its cool to like porn, or uncool not to like porn.

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I know no one was saying that. I was saying it though. I simply brought that up out of nowhere because it came to mind. It didnt connect to anything anyone said here so far. Just something I've observed and mentioned here.

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It is one thing to say, "Hey, thanks, but no thanks; not for me."

Its another thing to say, "Stop doing that, or I will stop loving you!"

Do you see what we're saying?

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posted January 06, 2009 01:03 AM         

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However, I'm done. You guys seem to think there's something wrong with someone voicing something a bit different on the thread and while it hasn't been overtly stated, there's a slight level of snideness in some of the remarks (i.e. good for you, MVM, etc.)
I consider that icky and it feels inauthentic.

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It doesnt need to be overly stated. We all said what we thought. I just dont know why you had to repeat yourself to me the way you did and directly. And I had a feeling you were going to and there you were.

posted January 06, 2009 01:15 AM         

What karma is this? The Universe says, hey Mel hasn't enough depression and confusion in her miserable lonely life! Let's destroy her little "job" at LL too so that the complete and utter Plutonian destruction to her Capricorn world WILL BE COMPLETE!!!!!!!!! MWAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAAAAAAA

Both of you?
Soul Unions?
Today?
The same thread?

****

Hear Ye
Hear Ye!

I love 26taurus and Heart--Shaped--Cross MORE than the rest of you and if you make them sad at Soul Unions I will have to take their side even if they are totally wrong or even a little wrong. Doesn't matter. Now take my Mod-ship away and one of the joys in life I have left.

Ok, noW where do you two want the bodies hid?
Do I have to dig the holes too?

SWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAR WOOOOOOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRDDDDDDDDDDDDDSSS

posted January 06, 2009 01:31 AM         

I've had a rough day too Mel. Met with a new counselor and had to go through my whole situation and what happened with dad. Not very easy or pleasant and flashbacks or having to remember the scene arent nice either. I'm tired. Why arent I in bed?

And you don't have to take my side even though you love me more! lol Really! If you ever feel the need to slap some sense into me, you are allowed.....but no one else is. hahaha

*have a feeling this is going to be "one of those threads'.
Thread gone wild.
off track

doubt katkins will mind. if she ever comes back.

posted January 06, 2009 01:32 AM         

and we're okay. we're just scrappin. kittens.

speaking of kittens,
another shameless segway:

Kittens, fer Chrissake!

Oh you limpid jealous kittens;
Idle rascals with delicate wrists,
Lost inside of crumpled sweaters;
Head-pokers in hollows,
Necks, and sleeves;
Giant-eyed ambiguities, -
'What do you see?'
Curious creatures;
Adorable mad-geniuses;
Scurriers with purpose;
Mewing fellows and frail combatants;
Cowering monsters, vicious when teased;
Slight presences;
Darting ghosts, the color of smoke;
Brave little gymnasts;
Silly scraping buggers;
Tugging pouncers or pouncing tuggers;
Graceful klutzes;
Trippy wonders, religiously kittens;
Not yet arrogant cats.

posted January 06, 2009 01:35 AM         

I'd take my own advice, but I'm retaahhded.

Get some sleep for me.

I'll sleep vicariously thru you.