posted March 10, 2014 08:54 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Yeah I understand, my mom is a Pisces and my dad is a Virgo, both of my parents cheated on each other when I was younger.. It was a really dysfunctional situation. Now it's hard for me to trust people, I'm 23 but idk if I'll ever get married. I don't want to repeat any of those patterns but so far in relationships I've been cheated on, and honestly have also been wrapped up in love triangles I shouldn't have been involved in. Sooo I do understand it's difficult when we are basically taught by our parents to lie and raised to think it's ok. But I also think that's why it's so important to not repeat the cycle all over again now that you have a kid of your own. Don't let your guilt prevent you from doing the right thing...

I think it's a good idea not to contact her (and I'd say to ignore her if she does contact you, but that's your decision). Idk your circumstances but again I think it's honestly sometimes better to get a divorce than drag on an unhealthy situation that has no hope of improving. But if you think your marriage is worth saving then maybe just put all your energy into re-connecting and fixing things. Marriages aren't always the fun and exciting adventure dating starts out as, but if you have some lasting foundation with your wife I think it's possible to work through the hard times...

About the transit, it really is unfortunately long lol. Neptune reaches 7 degrees Pisces in June, and then goes retrograde until November (meaning it will back off a little) but after that there's still over a year I believe before it passes over that point for good. So good luck and just try to look at things objectively and stay honest with yourself most of all...

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Thanks again... So it will take me more than a year to get over the Scorpio your saying?

posted March 10, 2014 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by usc277:

Thanks again... So it will take me more than a year to get over the Scorpio your saying?

Unless I find a new woman...lool just kidding

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Lol no no, things will just be confusing for a while... But the worst thing you can do during this transit is get involved in deceptive or addictive relationships/situations... It could leave you with a huge mess to clean up later on. Neptune is notorious for seeing things with "rose colored glasses" but once the transit is over reality might not be what you were expecting. It's easier to lie and be lied to, or be sucked into addictions and escapism of an any kind so just be careful is all I'm saying...

posted March 10, 2014 12:25 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Lol no no, things will just be confusing for a while... But the worst thing you can do during this transit is get involved in deceptive or addictive relationships/situations... It could leave you with a huge mess to clean up later on. Neptune is notorious for seeing things with "rose colored glasses" but once the transit is over reality might not be what you were expecting. It's easier to lie and be lied to, or be sucked into addictions and escapism of an any kind so just be careful is all I'm saying...

Also, I swear I'm not trying to hit on you or anything lol but we have some crazy synastry... Sun square moon DW, my Sun conjunct your Dsc exact, your Venus conjunct my NN exact, Lilith conjunct Lilith. Among other things lol sorry couldn't help but notice I think that's cool...

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Hey.. am really new to astrology.. So the only thing I understood in the last paragraph is that your not hitting on me maybe you can explain or send a link so I can look it up....I used to live in MN, st Paul..are you a woman ?

posted March 10, 2014 05:21 PM            

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Originally posted by usc277:

Hey.. am really new to astrology.. So the only thing I understood in the last paragraph is that your not hitting on me maybe you can explain or send a link so I can look it up....I used to live in MN, st Paul..are you a woman ?

Also, hows the transit for the Scorpio girl ? I mean is it foggy for her as well or what's the deal..

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No worries, it's not really important I was just rambling... But that's cool that you used to live in St. Paul, are you from MN? I go to the U so I live in Minneapolis but as soon as I'm financially able to I'm getting the f*ck out of here lol. Anyway yeah I'm a woman.

posted March 10, 2014 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
No worries, it's not really important I was just rambling... But that's cool that you used to live in St. Paul, are you from MN? I go to the U so I live in Minneapolis but as soon as I'm financially able to I'm getting the f*ck out of here lol. Anyway yeah I'm a woman.

About the Scorpio, from what I can see she's not actually going through many harsh transits right now (although that's hard to tell without seeing the chart and knowing her time of birth since there could be transits to the angles...) so maybe this is a time where she's kind of living care free and isn't worried about the consequences. Only thing that really stands out at the moment is your Sun is widely conjunct her NN in Pisces, so Neptune will conjunct that too. She might be more comfortable taking a cold, analytical approach to things, but you embody the Pisces traits of compassion, caring, etc. that she needs to develop. But being that she's 25 she probably still has some growing up to do, don't think you can "help" her if she's not ready on her own...

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It is important..to me at least..and what does "my Sun is widely conjunct her NN in Pisces" mean ?

She does not care about concequences at all...

posted March 10, 2014 07:08 PM            

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Originally posted by usc277:

It is important..to me at least..and what does "my Sun is widely conjunct her NN in Pisces" mean ?

She does not care about concequences at all...

I am not from MN. Are you a scorpio ?

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I'm a Capricorn. People sometimes ask if I'm a Scorpio for some reason though lol. I'm also a Cancer ASC, and a Sagittarius moon, so those energies are pretty conflicting too. And sorry I think I misread things, what degree is your ASC? Mine is 16.24 Cancer and my Sun is 21.12 Cap. My Lilith is 18 Sagittarius (conjunct yours) so idk what that means but it's interesting lol

Anyway, NN means "North Node" which is the same thing as your ASC Node. Basically, the NN represents the traits we're supposed to develop as we mature, but they might not necessarily be in our comfort zone... when someone's planets come in contact with your NN or SN (south node, opposite of your NN) it can prompt us to realize areas we need to outgrow, or things that we still need to work on..

Sun conjunct NN sounds nice, but it can also come with a lot of challenges if the NN person isn't ready to embrace those lessons yet. Here are a couple links:

http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!sun-conjunct-north-node-in-synastry/cp0t

posted March 10, 2014 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
I'm a Capricorn. People sometimes ask if I'm a Scorpio for some reason though lol. I'm also a Cancer ASC, and a Sagittarius moon, so those energies are pretty conflicting too. And sorry I think I misread things, what degree is your ASC? Mine is 16.24 Cancer and my Sun is 21.12 Cap. My Lilith is 18 Sagittarius (conjunct yours) so idk what that means but it's interesting lol

Anyway, NN means "North Node" which is the same thing as your ASC Node. Basically, the NN represents the traits we're supposed to develop as we mature, but they might not necessarily be in our comfort zone... when someone's planets come in contact with your NN or SN (south node, opposite of your NN) it can prompt us to realize areas we need to outgrow, or things that we still need to work on..

Sun conjunct NN sounds nice, but it can also come with a lot of challenges if the NN person isn't ready to embrace those lessons yet. Here are a couple links:

http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!sun-conjunct-north-node-in-synastry/cp0t

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/017641.html

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posted March 10, 2014 07:26 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
I'm a Capricorn. People sometimes ask if I'm a Scorpio for some reason though lol. I'm also a Cancer ASC, and a Sagittarius moon, so those energies are pretty conflicting too. And sorry I think I misread things, what degree is your ASC? Mine is 16.24 Cancer and my Sun is 21.12 Cap. My Lilith is 18 Sagittarius (conjunct yours) so idk what that means but it's interesting lol

Anyway, NN means "North Node" which is the same thing as your ASC Node. Basically, the NN represents the traits we're supposed to develop as we mature, but they might not necessarily be in our comfort zone... when someone's planets come in contact with your NN or SN (south node, opposite of your NN) it can prompt us to realize areas we need to outgrow, or things that we still need to work on..

Sun conjunct NN sounds nice, but it can also come with a lot of challenges if the NN person isn't ready to embrace those lessons yet. Here are a couple links:

http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!sun-conjunct-north-node-in-synastry/cp0t

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/017641.html

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posted March 10, 2014 09:45 PM            

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Originally posted by usc277:

Unfortunately because of astrology my mind as a Pisces only wants a Scorpio because I think they are the best match to my personality

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Lol ok well again if you know you're not compatible with your wife and you want a Scorpio... maybe it's best to bite the bullet and let her know things aren't working out

posted March 11, 2014 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
^Is that your Asc or North Node? The ASC is based on the time of day you were born, it's the beginning of your 1st house...

Btw, those links are about the synastry you have with the Scorpio. Which is why I was asking if that's actually your Asc or NN

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I don't know, this thing is complicated and needs sometime to figure it out
Here is my info:
Sun Pisces 8.30
Moon Aries 22.45
Mercury Aquarius 11.38
Venus Capricorn 28.15
Mars Libra 18.54 R
Jupiter Scorpio 10.19 R
Saturn Libra 21.37 R
Uranus Sagittarius 4.35
Neptune Sagittarius 26.48
Pluto Libra 26.42 R
Lilith Sagittarius 17.20
Asc node Cancer 21.40

My asc node is 21.4 ...where is my NN?

And am i the sun person or NN person whith regards to the Scorpio hoe that I like

posted March 11, 2014 02:47 AM            

And that's a little narcissistic, must be really rough to have one person on the planet not respect you lol... (sounds more like a self-esteem issue to me which she can probably sense a mile away)

posted March 11, 2014 05:27 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
^It's hard to see unless you actually post the chart...

And that's a little narcissistic, must be really rough to have one person on the planet not respect you lol... (sounds more like a self-esteem issue to me which she can probably sense a mile away)

Anyway, idk what else to say about it really, hopefully someone else can help you out

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here are our charts...not sure about her time of birth...hope the link works..thanks fireMoon Capricorn,,you have said alot and i appreciate the time you took...am not a narcissist..i dont think a Pisces can be a narcissist even if they try...am just in a state i have never been before..felt like a soul mate thing..not sure how soulmate thing feels anyway..this is all new and i have never been like this with any human being

posted March 13, 2014 01:39 PM            

You say you're in a loveless marriage, and you can't leave cause of your baby. So you cheat on your wife. How do you think she feels? How do you think she'll feel if she found out what you did?

Nothing can be hidden from the universe. It saw what you did and said, "I'll bring someone into your life who will do the same thing to do".

Notice how the situations are the same? You don't care how your actions affect your wife, and cheat behind her back. This scorpio girl doesn't care how you feel and does other stuff with other men, regardless of how you feel. Notice the correlation.

So why are you complaining? What she's doing to you is exactly what you're doing to your wife. If you can't take it, then why dish it out?

You also said you wanted to ruin her marriage and "save". The universe will also turn that around, and she will ruin your marriage as well. So go ahead and "save" her, but be prepared for divorce. I can guarantee it.

posted March 13, 2014 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by SoujiroSeta:
I think this is a simple case of karma.

You say you're in a loveless marriage, and you can't leave cause of your baby. So you cheat on your wife. How do you think she feels? How do you think she'll feel if she found out what you did?

Nothing can be hidden from the universe. It saw what you did and said, "I'll bring someone into your life who will do the same thing to do".

Notice how the situations are the same? You don't care how your actions affect your wife, and cheat behind her back. This scorpio girl doesn't care how you feel and does other stuff with other men, regardless of how you feel. Notice the correlation.

So why are you complaining? What she's doing to you is exactly what you're doing to your wife. If you can't take it, then why dish it out?

You also said you wanted to ruin her marriage and "save". The universe will also turn that around, and she will ruin your marriage as well. So go ahead and "save" her, but be prepared for divorce. I can guarantee it.

I've come to learn that the universe has a very unique sense of humor. Isn't it funny how things we do to voluntarily cause pain to others always seem to someone bounce back around to us?

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Damn you just hit me into a brick wall. Your right.

But one thing, she is the one who initiated all the flirt and kisses...sends me almost nude pics of herself...she even hinted at having sex but I didn't push hard enough for it..and that's when she started to change..etc..so she started the cheating...and she also cheated on her husband..she is a newly wed..5 months ago..the first 3 yrs of my marriage I never thought of cheating..

posted March 13, 2014 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by usc277:
Me:
Sun Pisces 8.30
Moon Aries 22.45
Mercury Aquarius 11.38
Venus Capricorn 28.15
Mars Libra 18.54 R
Jupiter Scorpio 10.19 R
Saturn Libra 21.37 R
Uranus Sagittarius 4.35
Neptune Sagittarius 26.48
Pluto Libra 26.42 R
Lilith Sagittarius 17.20
Asc node Cancer 21.40

Her:
Sun Scorpio 9.12
Moon Leo 9.06
Mercury Libra 22.11
Venus Libra 2.57
Mars Pisces 29.59 R
Jupiter Gemini 3.50 R
Saturn Sagittarius 28.58
Uranus Sagittarius 28.23
Neptune Capricorn 7.57
Pluto Scorpio 12.24
Lilith Virgo 19.02
Asc node Pisces 12.19

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From the way that you typed, one can tell that you are indeed extremely excited about this prospect.(Moon in Aries)

As an Asc in Cancer person, you tend to view the world as very cold and austere(Capricorn Dsc). So, when you meet up with these amazing experiences of beautiful affection, the Cancer nature clings instinctively(I speak from my own Cancer perspective).

Her nature, as a Pisces Asc is similar. Though the difference is here is that she tends to not like to feel pressured, boxed or have people making demands on her.

She views other people as trying to control or micro-manage her (Virgo Dsc), when her innate expression is just to "flow"(Pisces Asc).

Now you Mars in Libra quickly recognizes her point of view(i.e her economic situation differing from yours) as well as the possible reasons for her blowing hot/cold.

She, however, has her Mars in Pisces which to me indicates someone who rarely voices out what they want as they are hardly ever sure. The path of least resistance is the one that is chosen; to be set free to do as one feels.

You have the hard nosed Venus in Capricorn and , for you when you feel romantic emotion ,it is not something "light" or "fluffy". Its the real deal.

The fact that you said that you don't love your wife, but married her anyway suggests to me the very nature of the Capricorn Venus- making practical decisions that are devoid of sentiment but borne out of necessity.

But you also have Saturn in Libra which, in my view, is the indicator of social/ relationships isolation or loneliness.

It is either the relationships that one forms are not satisfying or there is a difficulty in connecting as the two partners may be on two "uneven" footings.

Her Venus is in Libra and so her love style is a lot more passive. The fact that she admitted that she also did not love her husband suggest to me that her marriage may have been borne out of being unable to say "no" to her partner, her fearing being alone, not wanting to hurt the others feelings or perhaps thinking that her feelings for the person will grow.

Venus in Libra seldom starts a relationship based on their own feelings. They may prefer the reciprocation of another in order to mirror how they feel.

It happens, however, that upon sealing the love union, the Venus in Libra discovers that they were basking on the feelings of their mate and were not sincerely in love with them. Perhaps they loved the "idea" of being together , but not the reality.

So the relationship they start, they often feel heavily trapped in because, as much as they would like to end it, they empathize greatly with the others feelings and don't want to hurt them at all.

So the relationship can drag on whilst they passively "clock out"-hoping the other notices their absence and nullifies the union without them assuming responsibility for its demise.

I have some bad news. It is unlikely that she will make any definitive decision with regards to you and I don't believe that you should bank on this.

When she said that you shouldn't get your hopes up as she doesn't love you, I think she meant it. Your Saturn in Libra conjuncts her Mercury and this is a very austere/sober connection.

Her Mercury forms a conjunction with Mars. Completing each others sentences can happen as well as heated discussions and enthusiastic exchanges. You can even be verbally aggressive with each other.

Also, your Pluto in Libra forms a conjunction with her Mercury and so, I can see why this connection felt so heartfelt and intense.

When Pluto hits Mercury, we can reveal private and hidden things to the person we are conversing with. The conversation can feel deep, intense and very involving.

She may think of you as dependable and understanding but not as a romantic partner-only someone to listen, have intellectual banter with and offer support.

Also, your Moon in Aries forms an opposition to her Mercury in Libra and so, she could feel that your approach to things is a little too "gung ho" and impulsive.

She may appreciate the connection she has with you but you won't be satisfied with her weighing the pros and cons of whether or not you two should be together because, according to her, she doesn't love you.

I know it'll be challenging but you have done your part and have told her where you stand. Step back and see.

posted March 14, 2014 03:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
From the way that you typed, one can tell that you are indeed extremely excited about this prospect.(Moon in Aries)

As an Asc in Cancer person, you tend to view the world as very cold and austere(Capricorn Dsc). So, when you meet up with these amazing experiences of beautiful affection, the Cancer nature clings instinctively(I speak from my own Cancer perspective).

Her nature, as a Pisces Asc is similar. Though the difference is here is that she tends to not like to feel pressured, boxed or have people making demands on her.

She views other people as trying to control or micro-manage her (Virgo Dsc), when her innate expression is just to "flow"(Pisces Asc).

Now you Mars in Libra quickly recognizes her point of view(i.e her economic situation differing from yours) as well as the possible reasons for her blowing hot/cold.

She, however, has her Mars in Pisces which to me indicates someone who rarely voices out what they want as they are hardly ever sure. The path of least resistance is the one that is chosen; to be set free to do as one feels.

You have the hard nosed Venus in Capricorn and , for you when you feel romantic emotion ,it is not something "light" or "fluffy". Its the real deal.

The fact that you said that you don't love your wife, but married her anyway suggests to me the very nature of the Capricorn Venus- making practical decisions that are devoid of sentiment but borne out of necessity.

But you also have Saturn in Libra which, in my view, is the indicator of social/ relationships isolation or loneliness.

It is either the relationships that one forms are not satisfying or there is a difficulty in connecting as the two partners may be on two "uneven" footings.

Her Venus is in Libra and so her love style is a lot more passive. The fact that she admitted that she also did not love her husband suggest to me that her marriage may have been borne out of being unable to say "no" to her partner, her fearing being alone, not wanting to hurt the others feelings or perhaps thinking that her feelings for the person will grow.

Venus in Libra seldom starts a relationship based on their own feelings. They may prefer the reciprocation of another in order to mirror how they feel.

It happens, however, that upon sealing the love union, the Venus in Libra discovers that they were basking on the feelings of their mate and were not sincerely in love with them. Perhaps they loved the "idea" of being together , but not the reality.

So the relationship they start, they often feel heavily trapped in because, as much as they would like to end it, they empathize greatly with the others feelings and don't want to hurt them at all.

So the relationship can drag on whilst they passively "clock out"-hoping the other notices their absence and nullifies the union without them assuming responsibility for its demise.

I have some bad news. It is unlikely that she will make any definitive decision with regards to you and I don't believe that you should bank on this.

When she said that you shouldn't get your hopes up as she doesn't love you, I think she meant it. Your Saturn in Libra conjuncts her Mercury and this is a very austere/sober connection.

Her Mercury forms a conjunction with Mars. Completing each others sentences can happen as well as heated discussions and enthusiastic exchanges. You can even be verbally aggressive with each other.

Also, your Pluto in Libra forms a conjunction with her Mercury and so, I can see why this connection felt so heartfelt and intense.

When Pluto hits Mercury, we can reveal private and hidden things to the person we are conversing with. The conversation can feel deep, intense and very involving.

She may think of you as dependable and understanding but not as a romantic partner-only someone to listen, have intellectual banter with and offer support.

Also, your Moon in Aries forms an opposition to her Mercury in Libra and so, she could feel that your approach to things is a little too "gung ho" and impulsive.

She may appreciate the connection she has with you but you won't be satisfied with her weighing the pros and cons of whether or not you two should be together because, according to her, she doesn't love you.

I know it'll be challenging but you have done your part and have told her where you stand. Step back and see.

Meanwhile, see if you can't resolve the situation with your wife to a better place.

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posted March 28, 2014 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by SoujiroSeta:
I think this is a simple case of karma.

You say you're in a loveless marriage, and you can't leave cause of your baby. So you cheat on your wife. How do you think she feels? How do you think she'll feel if she found out what you did?

Nothing can be hidden from the universe. It saw what you did and said, "I'll bring someone into your life who will do the same thing to do".

Notice how the situations are the same? You don't care how your actions affect your wife, and cheat behind her back. This scorpio girl doesn't care how you feel and does other stuff with other men, regardless of how you feel. Notice the correlation.

So why are you complaining? What she's doing to you is exactly what you're doing to your wife. If you can't take it, then why dish it out?

You also said you wanted to ruin her marriage and "save". The universe will also turn that around, and she will ruin your marriage as well. So go ahead and "save" her, but be prepared for divorce. I can guarantee it.

I've come to learn that the universe has a very unique sense of humor. Isn't it funny how things we do to voluntarily cause pain to others always seem to someone bounce back around to us?

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Excellent post.

Yep, karma can be a b*tch!

usc277, having known a woman like the one you were involved with myself (she was a friend btw, I'm female), she is being self-centred, attention-seeking, more than likely isn't get the attention or affection she craves from her hubby, or she may just enjoy sex games as a sport to boost her ego.

posted March 28, 2014 11:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
Excellent post.

Yep, karma can be a b*tch!

usc277, having known a woman like the one you were involved with myself (she was a friend btw, I'm female), she is being self-centred, attention-seeking, more than likely isn't get the attention or affection she craves from her hubby, or she may just enjoy sex games as a sport to boost her ego.

She let you put her hand on her vagina after 30 minutes of meeting you and sent sexy photos after a few days. Doesn't say much about her character really, does it? Highly sexed perhaps. lol. She's also angered you to the point where you are already calling her abusive names, it doesn't bode too well for a long-term relationship really.

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Thanks Jo b

Yea i know what you mean about character...but am the same..no regrets.

posted March 28, 2014 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by usc277:

She told me a few days ago that she would have married me had she not been married...and yesterday she told me I will never fall in love with you...she is confusing me...wants me to be her best friend..ignores me often..it doesn't help that am being clingy...and yes she recently got pregnant...

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She sounds mixed up and a potential heartbreaker to be honest. Forget trying to save someone who clearly has made her bed and now has to lie in it (with her marrage and pregnancy). There are plenty of equally sexy women out there who don't enjoy playing games with men's affections to feel good about themselves.

I know it's easy to say that because only YOU are experiencing these emotions, but to prolong contact will just delay getting over her. Then you'll look back and smile while she is probably still looking for outlets with guy after guy. Or she might settle down to motherhood and grow up, who knows?

posted March 28, 2014 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
She sounds mixed up and a potential heartbreaker to be honest. Forget trying to save someone who clearly has made her bed and now has to lie in it (with her marrage and pregnancy). There are plenty of equally sexy women out there who don't enjoy playing games with men's affections to feel good about themselves.

I know it's easy to say that because only YOU are experiencing these emotions, but to prolong contact will just delay getting over her. Then you'll look back and smile while she is probably still looking for outlets with guy after guy. Or she might settle down to motherhood and grow up, who knows?

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She married an Aires..and its the worst astrological combo for a scorp.

posted March 28, 2014 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by usc277:

She married an Aires..and its the worst astrological combo for a scorp.

I have a feeling this marriage won't last..especially when she's wrinkly and cellulite is all over the place.

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Well it depends on her and his other planets too, however the fact she is flirting and semi-cheating on him with other men pretty soon after getting married suggests insecurity on her part. Perhaps he's the controlling type or she's sexually frustrated. Either way would you really want to be a with a woman who might later do this to YOU, and the fact you're married with a new baby yourself could be putting warning signs in HER mind too. Seems potentially catastrophic to me, you're much better out of it and dealing with your own issues and responsibilities as a new parent.

posted March 29, 2014 01:13 AM            

And the dog and dragon are opposite signs which is the most combatant combination in chinese astrology. The dog is loyal (yup! just like the animal) while the dragon is much less so...and always makes the dog feel terribly insecure (often with good reason). The dragon is a showman and thinks mostly of him/herself....the dog wants equality fairness and a perfect world, and is extremely generous, also is rather dry and critical which would rain on dragon's parade. Opposites are very intense...strong sexual attraction, but always combatant, not able to understand each other, always hurt each other.
http://witcheslore.com/astrology/chinese-astrology/soul-mates-destiny-chinese-astrology/2858/

posted April 04, 2014 10:49 AM            

Sorry, Pisces, I know this is a tough one to deal with. I'm a Dog, too. I'm in a really wonderful relationship with a Scorpio/Tiger at the moment, but I wanted to say:

This girl has a Moon in Leo, and she's 25. I'm a Leo, and when I was 25, I was a total player. Hate to say it, and it's embarrassing, but whatever, it was true. She may be a Scorpio and want extreme intimacy someday, but her emotional world is that of a Leo woman, and Leo women can be fickle in their youth. NO DOUBT she was extremely attracted to you, but when I was her age I had 3-4 sexual partners revolving and I didn't love any of them. Perhaps it's also my Sagittarius ASC but I've seen a lot of Leo women pretend to be innocent and dainty but have a secret sex life.

I feel like she wasn't happy with her new husband, and like someone said, maybe her Venus in Libra made it hard for her to refuse the proposal? Either way, her Scorpio Sun and Leo Moon probably makes for a combination that wants attention and is relishing her sexual power over men. Both signs rule the only two astrological houses of sex. The 5th is more sex for fun, the 8th, sex for transformation, but either way, both signs enjoy attention and power over the opposite sex and hey, AT LEAST she was honest with you about not loving you! I'm sorry that sounds mean, but when someone tells you something important, it's more than a red flag, it's a BURNING STOP SIGN.

Scorpios are known to be hot and cold. When they're like that, it's usually an indicator that they know you're not suitable for them in the long run. They KNOW. Leos also can be hot and cold. Usually that means they're not in love and probably never will be. Both signs will give up everything to be with the one they truly love, even cheat and destroy a relationship they had spent years building, IF it doesn't compare to the Real Deal. It's no wonder she's not responding anymore. It's a shame you fell in love, but unfortunately you may just have to let her go. Hopefully you'll regain your desire for your wife, but if not, it is OK to separate and raise the child with split custody. My parents broke up when I was a baby and I'm glad, because things worked out for me in the long run (I have a WONDERFUL step-dad) and I would have suffered greatly if they had stayed together and fought and been miserable. I'm LUCKY they didn't.

posted April 04, 2014 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Leolady82:
This is fascinating!

Sorry, Pisces, I know this is a tough one to deal with. I'm a Dog, too. I'm in a really wonderful relationship with a Scorpio/Tiger at the moment, but I wanted to say:

This girl has a Moon in Leo, and she's 25. I'm a Leo, and when I was 25, I was a total player. Hate to say it, and it's embarrassing, but whatever, it was true. She may be a Scorpio and want extreme intimacy someday, but her emotional world is that of a Leo woman, and Leo women can be fickle in their youth. NO DOUBT she was extremely attracted to you, but when I was her age I had 3-4 sexual partners revolving and I didn't love any of them. Perhaps it's also my Sagittarius ASC but I've seen a lot of Leo women pretend to be innocent and dainty but have a secret sex life.

I feel like she wasn't happy with her new husband, and like someone said, maybe her Venus in Libra made it hard for her to refuse the proposal? Either way, her Scorpio Sun and Leo Moon probably makes for a combination that wants attention and is relishing her sexual power over men. Both signs rule the only two astrological houses of sex. The 5th is more sex for fun, the 8th, sex for transformation, but either way, both signs enjoy attention and power over the opposite sex and hey, AT LEAST she was honest with you about not loving you! I'm sorry that sounds mean, but when someone tells you something important, it's more than a red flag, it's a BURNING STOP SIGN.

Scorpios are known to be hot and cold. When they're like that, it's usually an indicator that they know you're not suitable for them in the long run. They KNOW. Leos also can be hot and cold. Usually that means they're not in love and probably never will be. Both signs will give up everything to be with the one they truly love, even cheat and destroy a relationship they had spent years building, IF it doesn't compare to the Real Deal. It's no wonder she's not responding anymore. It's a shame you fell in love, but unfortunately you may just have to let her go. Hopefully you'll regain your desire for your wife, but if not, it is OK to separate and raise the child with split custody. My parents broke up when I was a baby and I'm glad, because things worked out for me in the long run (I have a WONDERFUL step-dad) and I would have suffered greatly if they had stayed together and fought and been miserable. I'm LUCKY they didn't.

Good luck to you

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Thanks for the reply..
I too think she's not a good match on the long run, she's not very well educated...(unlike my Harvard grad wife)

We still talk, she told me the other day " life is not fair, I would have married you had we both been single" that means she has feelings, right ?
Then she immediately said "I will never love you"...made me think she's really unstable.....several days later she blocked me on all social medias...loool

For some reason, I started to lose interest in her...we recently spoke for hours on the phone day after day for about a week....then am blocked...I too am a player but I have never felt like this with a woman before and didn't know how to act..I learned

I was hurt for a while, but I do have a good feeling about the whole situation, I never really gave her what she really wanted at the beginning (sex) and by saying she would have married me had I been single boosted my ego, that she considers me better than her husband...

So in my mind I have lost some battles with her but won the war ultimately...

Last time i texted her was around 10 days ago..I said hi she said she was busy and that was it....I didn't care why she was busy or if she would text back,,,I haven't contacted her since and I feel great about it

So this is the end, I really don't want her anymore