posted September 14, 2011 04:48 AM            

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Originally posted by bellesoul:
Aqua Moon, cried? no never hehe lool. Just jokin, i know they're emotional too thats really sweet tho im glad i've touched u; i feel like im gettin emotional now knowin i've made u like that aww lol. Im glad thats made u feel more comfortable tho, im glad it helped. I do enjoy helping and its good to learn too. So thanku for sharing ur info!

Don't worry bout gettin bk to me on the high-school thing, i weren lookin for an answer really, was just sayin coz thought it was weird lol.

Well, the home situation as far as i was aware was that her upbringing was really bad; chaotic, violent and lacking but also she is now living with her partner of like 9 years and even tho she tries to make it really harmonious he is quite aggressive and violent; he is an Aries. I think he is controlling too. So i don't think shes escaped the difficult home-life environment. Also, shes a mum and doesn't work so she relies on him for financial support so i know when shes thought about leaving him she always backs out bcoz she admits she doesn't want to struggle on her own etc; plus she prob still does have love for him. Its sad, i do miss her sometimes, but u cant behave like that. I keep thinkin to tx her just to say why have u gone on like this? But my Leo pride is holdin me bk. She prob will tx bk or maybe not but i think id still feel like real friendships shouldn't function like that.

I do like helping who i can on ere as much as i can but im no expert and don't always feel i know enuf to comment in detail; although i attempt to lol, plus i don't always get the time. I wanna go bk over our charts soon too and maybe do a natal progression and natal with transits I'll try and get on tomoro morning, im just gettin ready to go gym now; gotta musta up the motivation, barely eaten, gonna have a quick smoothie me thinks.

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Aw I really feel for her. My best friend went through a similar situation also. She's a mother and suffered in an abusive and depressing relationship with the father. Its sad how so many women feel stuck because of thoughts like "my child needs a father- I don't want my child being brought up in a broken home" or "how can I survive with out him?" or the much worse part is the whole "he didn't mean to hurt me, he was just stressed." Its painful watching someone you love go through that while they make excuses. But sometimes you just need to move on, your friend will do whatevers shes doing and not really take.others inyo account until she loses them. As sad and hard as it is.

But if you are worried about her safety or health therea nothing wrong with checking in but don't have any hope that she will come around. I've been sadly mistaken in the same respect a few times in my life.

Well I think you give great advice. I like how you can understand the problem but also give useful advice and insight.

posted September 14, 2011 05:01 AM            

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Originally posted by bellesoul:
Also, i know sometimes we'll both send long posts and sometimes i may not respond to everythin uv sed, not outta ignorance just bcoz there's a lot and i try n focus on main bits etc but if there is anythin i miss out that u do want me to go bk and answer just msg me again reminding me. Like for e.g. u said about the virgo thing, and i remembered today that i hadn't responded to that part of ur msg, coz think i was focusing on another part of the msg... well in response to that lool i agree with u, they do try so hard to be of service to people and are so giving of their energy and time, it is such an endearing trait, my bf with his moon in virgo, really does come across as so very Virgoan at times, he is so efficient; he never stops. He will come in n prepare dinner, if i haven't, or start washing, or go n oil my car (without my askin) or just generally does all the jobs that need doing and will take it upon himself to do. He is very practical, it is definately special to have that Virgo presence near. What i also kinda meant by attention, was the attention in a physical way; like they like to be noticed for their looks or appreciated for their beauty. Off top of my head, i have a Virgo friend who can be like this, my bf can be like this; it is not in ur face but bcoz u can tell their intention it is quite shocking for ppl who are normally so non-attention seeking, if u get my drift.. by the way this aint aimed at u lool, it is the virgos that i know, look at Beyonce (although when i checked her chart she is Scorpio moon, asc and Libra prevails most in her chart; think i see this on astrotheme)i love her but sometimes i think she comes across quite narcissistic.

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Oh I know, and same goes for you if I miss anything you would like a response to.
As for Virgos... I can definitely relate to your bf's efficiency. Thats the one thing people comment on is just how efficient I can be. I always have a.sprt.of.organized plan of how I am going to attack my tasks. For example, my boyfriend and I could cook the same thing but I will have it done in 10-15 minutes earlier with all dishes done and house cleaned lol. As long as I have a strategy, no matter how simple the goal, I get it done well. My Moon in the 6th gives me
that innate need to serve which I think is basically the same idea as your bf. I do little things througout the day to make the lives of my loved ones, and myself, easier.

posted September 14, 2011 05:07 AM            

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Originally posted by bellesoul:
Oh yeah, and u sed bout the look of my room too. Haha. Ur like me, i analyse them kinda details and try n associate it with the signs. yeah i love that clean, fresh glam but au naturale look too, i think Cancer attributes to this too (bein homely, pure etc) but my room before this used to look very sag, with turquoise walls, and more eclectic. I am really interested in interior design tho and once i have my house, i cant wait to start designing, furnishing and generally beautifying. I love natural products; with a small hint of glam. One things for sure it will have to be homely and beautiful

Anyway, i really am off now; i get carried away. Speak to u soon. Bye

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I am with you on the clean and pure look. I absolutely adore white and I also love earth tones. When I have my new home I hope to have some beautiful plants. I am really into classic victorian furniture.

Not to mention I'll HAVE to have a beautiful flower bed in the front, then a veggie garden out back

posted September 14, 2011 05:52 AM            

Yeah thanks for doing that, i didn get the chance to respond to it yest, so im gonna get on it now

posted September 14, 2011 11:04 AM            

My boyfriends grandparents are getting pretty old and neither of them can handle house or yard work so we are just paying rent and bills here and taking care of their home, making sure they eat. They have the most beautiful yard. Their garden has peas, cucumbers, rhubarb, carrots, lettuce, potatoes, radishes, dill, and beans. Plus all of their fruit trees, two cherry, pear, plum, and two apple. Plus they have raspberry and blueberry bushes..and in their green house they grow cherry tomatoes, and blueberrys. They have this gorgeous pond that I showed here (amongst a few other photos)---- http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum9/HTML/000823-2.html

posted September 14, 2011 02:59 PM            

Soz i didn reply earlier had to take my friend to the hospital, its her due date but she had to c midwife for last checkup, cud be anyday now aww.

posted September 14, 2011 08:37 PM            

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Originally posted by bellesoul:
OMG its beautiful and big! I love the view near the house too. U live somewhere so beautiful, im well jealous. My mums house is tiny, and so is the garden and me n my boyf live in a flat which we rent. In London, u have to be rich to afford anywhere big, even a regular 2-3 bed house wi a lil garden is astronimically expensive. I would love to live somewhere like u, ur so lucky.

Soz i didn reply earlier had to take my friend to the hospital, its her due date but she had to c midwife for last checkup, cud be anyday now aww.

yeah, if ur online now we can discuss our houses. Just gonna go sort sumin in kitchen then il be bk to reply to ur post

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Aw well thank you so much. Yes they do have a beautiful home and yard. I love being here. But if we weren't paying rent to live in their basement (lol) we would be living in a tiny place also. We lucked out in a sense. I mean what I am paying toward rent, other bills, and groceries is basically the exact same as we would be having our own home but with the perks of living in a bigger, nicer place with such a beautiful yard. But it does require a lot of work and stress. The house and yard are a lot of work but the grandparents are too. We have to pay close attention to their medical ailments, ensure they are eating and healthy. But we really love them and would never want them put it a old age home so we are here living our lives while caring for them and their lives. We want them to be able to sit and relax, enjoying their nice home that they spent so many years working so hard to create without having to do any of the work.
If we weren't here, other family members would have surely put them in a home and probably not even bothered going to see them and visit them. Oldage homes are nice for the eldery that don't have any loved ones, but we (and other family members) are perfectly capable of taking care of them and that is what family is for.
Anyhoo I am completely babbling here and steering completely away from the topic...

posted September 14, 2011 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by bellesoul:
Whereabouts r u living? if u dont mind my asking. Gosh i wish i was living somewhere like u. Seriously. I can't stand London, its soo expensive and the scenery is estates, buildings, and more estates. Whas work like out there? Lol.

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I live in Northern British Columbia, Canada. Scenery here is beautiful I love it. British Columbia and Alberta are very mountainous and have incredible scenery in general. Saskatchewan and Manitoba are completely flat but the skies are amazing. They get beautiful northern lights and the star scape is incredible. I would almost rather that...since I'm such a stargazer, thus night walker lmao.
Work? That depends on what you're doing. If you're into media you'd probably find something decent in the bigger cities. But if you're someone looking a minimum wage, 9-5 right now is kinda iffy lol the economy is horrible everywhere in the world it seems. I can't think of any country, to be honest, that has an "economy" that actually economizes. To economize means to avoid waste or extravagance... Now name one country, that isn't starving, that does this. Can you? No. That might be a slight exaggeration but only a slight one and that is terrible.
There is this fascinating documentry that I will give you a link for. It is truly mindblowing and disheartening the things they talk about. I don't want to get into details but first here is a link with basically a summary of what the documentary is about-- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zeitgeist:_The_Movie this is just a brief summary though. Keep in mind though, this may not be your cup of tea. I am not saying that everythng in here is a fact, it is all opinion but it definitely makes you wonder and I think it is somethingpeople should keep an open mind about. But it is also extremely long so you might want to wait to watch for a day off or something. Don't worry, if you are not interested it won't hurt my feelings. It just came to mind and since I know we seem to have a similar way of thinking, I may as well give 'er a shot. Besides the conspiracy theories there is a lot of fascinating imformation about the way the mind works and what causes certain behaviors. It's really cool in my books. Anyhoo...I am rambling yet AGAIN! So here is a link to the video. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Z9WVZddH9w&feature=related

posted September 15, 2011 04:05 AM            

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Aw well thank you so much. Yes they do have a beautiful home and yard. I love being here. But if we weren't paying rent to live in their basement (lol) we would be living in a tiny place also. We lucked out in a sense. I mean what I am paying toward rent, other bills, and groceries is basically the exact same as we would be having our own home but with the perks of living in a bigger, nicer place with such a beautiful yard. But it does require a lot of work and stress. The house and yard are a lot of work but the grandparents are too. We have to pay close attention to their medical ailments, ensure they are eating and healthy. But we really love them and would never want them put it a old age home so we are here living our lives while caring for them and their lives. We want them to be able to sit and relax, enjoying their nice home that they spent so many years working so hard to create without having to do any of the work.
If we weren't here, other family members would have surely put them in a home and probably not even bothered going to see them and visit them. Oldage homes are nice for the eldery that don't have any loved ones, but we (and other family members) are perfectly capable of taking care of them and that is what family is for.
Anyhoo I am completely babbling here and steering completely away from the topic...

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I think thats lovely, and i agree with u. That is exactly what family is for.

posted September 15, 2011 10:11 AM            

Lol I guess they we just have weird sounding provinces in Canada.

posted September 16, 2011 08:34 AM            

Ruler of Asc, house; Mercury.
You can or may appear quiet and reserved; and depict a sense of modesty You most likely come across as shy but helpful and efficient with a discriminating and detail-orientated manner. You strive to make everything perfect and in doing so can become highly critical of those you love. This is really a reflection of your deep need to make every little imperfection perfect and your own inner dissatisfaction with your own and lifes inadequacies disappear; you constantly strive toward self-improvement. People may be offended at your criticisms but you are so humble that most realise it comes a good place rather than a malicious one. You seek to make everyones life around you better and will use your practical, utilitarian skills to offer sound advice or often practical physical aid. You are intelligent and quick-witted thanks to Mercury and your observation skills are excellent; you possess an innate talent at communication and articualting your thoughts. Although with Leo being in the 12th house, an unnatural position for such an expressive sign, you powers of expression and power can be felt but you often find it extremely difficult to express yourself. In some this could result in inferiority issues and thus you feel secure in sub-ordinate positions where you are in service to others; however other afflictions could affect this.

posted September 16, 2011 12:50 PM            

What you said about my 6th house, that is something I struggle with daily. I hate confined spaces and I am constantly wanting to change my job. If I am interested in something I work hard and am passionate about it but once I have perfected it,boredom sets in and I get irritated. Aquarius makes so much sense here--it rules ankles and calves, and also the circulatory system...most of the injuries I have had been to my legs and ankles. I couldn't even tell you howmany times I've twisted, sprained, or broke one of my ankles. I'm not sure what causes it (I am seeing the doctor but so far nothing is helping, they don't know what it is)but I get really swollen everywhere, mainly my hands and legs. My legs have swelled up to about 3 times the size before, wearing loose pants that seemingly get tighter and tighter. Right now Neptune is transiting my 6th so that probably is sensitizing my health and making it hard to pin point.