posted August 27, 2013 12:04 PM            

I'm not sure if the tarot can even answer that. Probably not, which is probably also why I haven't gotten an answer about that from the tarot ever.

posted August 28, 2013 06:37 AM            

There was a guy I met, my senior year in college, which was only about a year ago. Anyway, we ended up kind of falling for each other pretty quickly/dating, etc. He was my Chem II. tutor, and it was somewhat of that 'fairy-tale' my mother was pressuring me, too. Besides that...haha. (To pursue!)

I would say all together the relationship had lasted about 5-6 months. He ended up serial cheating with another student and I could tell because she and I were in the same class, and the way she looked at me...blahbbblah...Truly, I was graduating the following December and had to intern across the state, so I was over it and looking for a way out, anyways.

Basically, I found out from several sources, as well as some of my birth chart patterns that matched his and vise-versa!
We had been connected previously, In every single life we have ever encountered (Which gets me thinking- do we reconnect with every single soul we come close too? No matter on what level?--if we reincarnate?--which we do, I have no doubt!)
We had been married to each other in our last life, we connected early in this life to realize that we did not need each other. Needless to say, the path he is on in this life is not a good one, he is very tied up in bad activity (if you get my drift) and basically, cannot remain faithful. Anyway, he would introduce me as his, "other half" to his friends, family, and acquaintances, you don't normally do that with someone you've been seeing for just a few months.

The point I would like to make is that I cannot validate whether or not you and your ex had that connection, but it could have been a marriage, best friends, etc. I was also told the same soul would continue to come up in future lives, and was not only married to me in my past life, but we had been soldiers together in a war and died together-- in that case we were both males (historically speaking/assuming.)
The whole thing is kind of weird, because I am not sure on the timing of everything, it bothers me that we cannot identify with the past and past relationships. I Will say that something does come over you, where you kind of just feel it. However, the relationship I am in now, I am actually 'not sure' If I've known him before or not.

The last thought I wanted to leave you with, aside my preposterous 'riff-raff' is that, if you truly believe you are supposed to be with a person, you do whatever you can to get to that point. I have heard of people 'passing up' their soulmate, but I feel like when that kind of situation arises, that person really is NOT that other person's soulmate. I hope that makes sense and isn't too confusing. I can honestly say my mother possibly could have, but then again my mother does not know what it is to truly be loved, liked, appreciated, etc. She married someone that was just like her father with how he dealt with her and handled finances. My mother's parents divorced when she was two, and had a battling and difficult child due to the divorce.

posted August 28, 2013 09:06 AM            

youcrazyyyy what an amazing story! I had never heard a story like that before so thanks so much for sharing

Mind if I ask where/who you went to to get these answers about what you both were in past lives? I was just told by one psychic that we dated in many other previous lives and almost made it but that we were always meant to have an intense friendship instead. That doesn't seem to make sense for me, because it doesn't feel like we're only meant to be friends at all, and that psychic didn't correctly describe the details of our relationship at all either, even though according to people I asked as well as his ebay reviews he was right about a lot of the details he gave them.

I think the reason why I feel this way is because we were soulmate signs in chinese astrology, and combine that with our synastry and composite and you have a special connection. Shelly Wu, who wrote the most about soulmate signs, said these people had many other past lives together and gave examples of amazing relationships that fell under those signs. I have since been researching this and found it to be true..the most lifechanging relationships seemed to fall under soulmate signs. Most of the people i looked at's MOST important relationship, was with a person that was their chinese zodiac soulmate sign. By the way, now that you mention it we did both have venus conjunct mars square pluto natally, but in opposite signs.

The second psychic said that we're not soulmates and said nothing about past lives.

So anyway, I'd appreciate links to those psychics girl! hook me up

andstuff thank you very much for your comment, too. yeah it was definitely attraction at first sight, and he was running out the door to talk to me on the first day of class. yes we were always cuddled up, seemed like we always had to be holding hands too. he would wrap his arms around me and clasp his fingers atop my shoulder and then rest his chin on my other shoulder. and we both agreed that kissing was a lot more intense than with other people.

posted August 28, 2013 09:35 AM            

I have a family/friend psychic that did share this information with me, she actually would charge my mom and I about 100$ an hour, rather than 4$ a minute.
At some point I was using CA Psychics-- it is very hard to get accurate information so quickly, (ie: 4$/min.) The other thing is that I did use CA psychics several times and the psychic would simply try to tell me 'Oh no, no, I don't see that,' --when I knew in my feelings/heart it would, and yet it did. And truly, it did end up happening, like relocating for an internship, or something that can really change your destiny, and maybe there is a reason why they lie? Maybe they lie to make one feel less worse? But whats the point, exactly? IT is or IT isn't. Period!

If you've meditated and you know your energy is flowing, you can usually find the answer within yourself, too. The problem is, I am a pisces and I tend to psych myself out and end up thinking things happened or didn't happen, when they had, etc. I don't want to say paranoia, but loyalty and trust issues came into play which were oppressed feelings that surfaced from past relationships, which clearly my soul remembers.... me,myself, cannot. :\

I can most. def 'recommend' a few on CA psychics, but I can't promise you'd get the same results, you know?

Above all, IF YOU yourself, feel that you have more of a connection, I think that you would know, or you two, rather. I would also see if maybe you two were connected as mother/daughter or something? Its weird because my brother and I actually have the same birth chart, just mirrored- literally... but I can't explain that, because I'm sure there's plenty of siblings that don't have that same commonality between their birth charts, you know.

Who did you go to for consultations?? Are they credible?

posted August 28, 2013 09:55 AM            

Thread---> http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/003807.html

He was the one who told me about us being meant to have an intense friendship instead. And the cowrie shells lady just said we were not soul mates. It's not like I think we were soulmates, anyway. I dont think he's "the one" I just think we might've had past life connections. She wasn't really very clear....

Yeah i hear ya on those CA psychics. It would be time consuming and too much of a waste of money for me to do that. I don't want to know answers THAT badly :P
Haha duskraven guy cost me $5 and the cowrie shells lady cost me $25

posted August 28, 2013 12:32 PM            

"His Dr VALENTINE conjunct your Dr Jupiter, meaning had he started to develop love for you in the past lifetime, your own luck would have changed.....

Draconic Mars and Draconic Mercuries are conjucnt, showing that past lifetime had excellent individual rapport.

But Dr JUNO of yours conjuncts his Dr Ascendant and Dr KAALI. He may have had a suppressed urge to marry you in this lifetime. Hence the second chance in the present. "

posted August 28, 2013 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
^ i tried both of these readers at different moments, their predictions were different and turned out to be inaccurate

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Damn. Did they describe the past or current situation accurately at all?

posted August 28, 2013 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Damn. Did they describe the past or current situation accurately at all?

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posted August 28, 2013 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
they didnt really talk about my present, neither of them there are cool ladies on bitwine who did though

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blah....

that annoys me so much i cant even..

well, what cowrie shells lady said about how my ex feels about me was spot on, and her predictions make total sense. she couldve made up something random but when she said things will happen makes total sense. damn im never going to a psychic again. it seems they connect with certain people, but not with others.

posted August 28, 2013 03:13 PM            

here's the thread where u did the reading http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/005545.html

posted August 28, 2013 03:26 PM            

taken a look at the girl's reading, 8 cups + 9 cups rx also seems relevant

posted August 28, 2013 03:32 PM            

Hmm....lol yes so all these cups mean something, eh? To me her cards just seemed really relevant to the reading/my specific question.

posted August 28, 2013 03:53 PM            

besides it has occurred to me that 1+8=9

a certain element was left behind, just like the man in 8 cups is seen walking away. 9 cups reversed are joy/plenty spilled, if overturned they are no longer full. so there is a longing for when they were full. just thinking aloud about additional interp. he might be reiterating a lot, walking away from cups that were still full then realising existing cups are empty & so on. a nostalgia perhaps. a longing that can no longer be satiated.

posted August 28, 2013 04:12 PM            

What the psychic might have meant about an intense friendship is simply, you must learn boundaries with this guy? RAS maybe this is some form of Karma? Maybe you cheated with him on your significant other?

posted August 28, 2013 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by LiesLilithsaidtouranus:

What the psychic might have meant about an intense friendship is simply, you must learn boundaries with this guy? RAS maybe this is some form of Karma? Maybe you cheated with him on your significant other?

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that's super insightful. i do feel that he at least came into my life to show me that the best love develops from friendship. i hadnt ever interpreted it that way before, and it actually makes a lot of sense for our situation. perhaps what the psychic picked up on is that in every single life we were meant to take it really slow as just an intense friendship first, but we rushed it, just like we did in this life. BOUNDARIES. Yes, that makes so much sense! thank you! lol ur brilliant