posted October 14, 2013 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
My question was: Am I in love with him?

(I used the time the thought first crossed my mind and it was easy because it was actually when I was replying to someone.)

I know the early ASC says it's too early to pose the question, but humour me... what do you see?

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Too early & not a valid chart.
If you still want to look it shows that mars (you) & venus (him) are squaring. Not a good sign, right?
I really don't know anything about this though.
Or would you take the 5th as his significator?

posted October 14, 2013 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
Too early & not a valid chart.
If you still want to look it shows that mars (you) & venus (him) are squaring. Not a good sign, right?
I really don't know anything about this though.
Or would you take the 5th as his significator?

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No no, his significator is definitely the ruler of the 7th

I think it depends on what would constitute as bad in my situation... A square probably means I'm conflicted about my feelings for him (true), and the opposition going on with Neptune probably means I'm not seeing things clearly and everything is being blown out of proportion (also true). I'm trining with the Moon, though. Does that mean that I can see my emotions objectively? Or that they are agressive/disruptive/strong?

posted October 14, 2013 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by NoRainNoRainbows:

doesn't any ascendant less that 3% mean it is too early to answer he question, so the chart is invalid??

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posted October 14, 2013 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by NoRainNoRainbows:
but better cast another chart then no? more 'practical' practice u know

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posted October 14, 2013 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I would think more in lust - Moon trine Mars is the first Moon aspect (I know you're an Aries ASC in this chart though, js)

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posted October 14, 2013 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm undecided on that... I feel like if you asked and the ASC was too early, then it's improper to ask immediately after again (or soon, anyway). But I understand why a chart needs to be valid to actually read it too, degrees and everything.

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i meant anyone participating in tht thread

or FA if it is another question. A lot of times we are casting charts with thoughts from the 'mind' ...but i noticed when it's that 'feeling' not though, the chart does start shedding light....

posted October 14, 2013 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
The other question I posed about him was also invalid - early ASC, too early to tell ¬¬

But since I asked if I was in love with him, I think it's still valid to read the chart for my emotions, no?

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posted October 15, 2013 09:18 PM            

Also, reading SkyScript - Angular houses represent days, and Succeedant ones weeks. My Moon is in a Succeedant house but my ASC ruler is in an angular one which is days. - Confused.

Still researching on what house would be used for changes in one's life.

posted October 17, 2013 06:10 AM            

Yes i looked at Uranus to, as it's the planet of change.

Your Venus Trines Uranus which is in the 12th house...the changes definitely seem hidden or at least 'internal' ...the change could happen inside you maybe suddenly you have an epiphany or something and really the next minute will mark 'this is the first day of the rest of your life'

posted October 17, 2013 07:45 AM            

he is the Sun in the 8th house, the north node is exactly on the cusp of the 8th/9th house. Jupiter squares the sun, so i'm guess 'down on his luck' kind of incident.

on the other hand, pluto squaring my moon and uranus, both conjunct in the second house...am guessing something also his closer friends wondering about people who've passed in and out of his life....

posted October 17, 2013 11:15 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Which house are we looking at for the quesited's ruler?

I think the 8th should be used, since, beside standing for death, it can also stand for rebirth and change... no?

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posted October 18, 2013 08:35 AM            

I don't know if we can know or see something like that in a horary chart, since it's something in the past and has no energy influencing events in the moment. But I'll give this a try!

You're Saturn, he's the Sun. There's no aspect between you, so there's not been a relationship between you.

Oh wow. He's in Libra, in 8H... He's trining Neptune and squaring Jupiter, but after that I think he won't aspect anything else before leaving Libra. If he's truly gone, I think he's at peace. Libra is the sign that looks for harmony and peace, right? And he's there.

You're in Scorpio, so you withheld something from his knowledge, your own or both. I'm guessing you liked him but never acted on it?

Neptune in 1H - you're not aware of all the facts.

Mercury is conjuncting you (Saturn), so you'll receive news about him through this person.

posted October 18, 2013 08:47 AM            

I'm going to use 8H, like I suggested earlier.

You're Venus, the big change is Jupiter.

You're not having any fun or change, huh? Seems like you're a bit stuck... But you're dignified by term, so that's a positive sign. I wouldn't say you want a romantic relationship, but someone to share and spend your time with, especially with Sagittarius ruling you.

The change is in 3H in Cancer, so it'll come from some communication form, short trip or people who are/live close to you. Jupiter is exalted, so it'll be a more than pleasant change.