posted June 08, 2018 11:23 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
3 of cups, 9 of swords,4 of cups, the fool and world

So I think he wants a new beginning (fool) and to just have good times again (3 of cups), he’s feeling a bit down and having anxiety or just overthinking things right now (4 of cups/9 of swords) but it’s not over and things look to be ok, not great but ok.
I see you guys moving last whatever the last fight was about

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That makes PERFECT sense! We are planning a few weekends where it's just us doing fun things. Now if we can stop the stupid arguing.

posted June 08, 2018 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
That makes PERFECT sense! We are planning a few weekends where it's just us doing fun things. Now if we can stop the stupid arguing.

Will he tell his kids about me soon?

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I got interesting cards hmm

Queen of cups, knight of swords, 10 of pents
8 of pents twice and 7 of pents.

So I feel like the queen of cups is the mother, and he is worried about starting conflict with her (knigh of swords) and the family (10 of pents) he is working on it though (8 of pents) but just waiting right now (7 of pents).
I feel like he will, just not anytime soon like maybe in a few months etc.

posted June 08, 2018 11:52 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
I got interesting cards hmm

Queen of cups, knight of swords, 10 of pents
8 of pents twice and 7 of pents.

So I feel like the queen of cups is the mother, and he is worried about starting conflict with her (knigh of swords) and the family (10 of pents) he is working on it though (8 of pents) but just waiting right now (7 of pents).
I feel like he will, just not anytime soon like maybe in a few months etc.

I got a lot of anxiety as I was pulling the cards lol so he definitely has a lot of worry and anxiety regarding telling them for whatever reason. It’s not that he doesn’t want to he is just worried I feel.

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posted June 08, 2018 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Couple of months will be too late....I've been pretty patient as I've tried to understand but there is only so much I can wait. Not telling his kids about me says a lot to me especially if he's waiting that long. I know you see nothing going on between him and baby mama but it really makes me wonder why he's so worried about her and what she thinks.

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posted June 08, 2018 01:19 PM            

clouds, cross and chair

Looks like a no today. He's mad and is going to make you suffer is how he sees it.

posted June 11, 2018 01:08 PM            

2; why did T buy baby mama a dress;
Okay interesting cards...
Invisible, wishing and lust for the oracles
So this tells me he was maybe feeling “invisible to her” and wanted her to notice or appreciate him etc. Because he was wishing or wanting her in sexual way (lust) and probably thought that buying her a dress that maybe she also really wanted (wishing) and he knew that she did, so he thought that would do the trick. To impress her or whatever.

With the tarot we got Magican, ace of wands, 7 of swords, 5 of cups

So this is interesting, ace of wands came up twice so it was definitely sexually motivated, he was feeling passionate. But the 7 of swords means he had hidden motives, or did it in the down low (which makes sense because of you lol). Also with the 5 of wands and 5 of cups this makes me think they had a fight or some sort of conflict and he feel regretful later. So he may have done it to make it up to her also.
Knight of swords was on the bottom of the deck so yeah I feel like some harsh words were exchanged that he felt bad about....

3; what is going on between T and his baby mama, what is their dynamic right now

Message, love, summon from the oracles
Wow so this makes sense with the messages you seen lol someone was sending a message of love or feelings and trying to manifest and make something happen (summon) with that.

I got 2 of pents, 9 of cups, the sun, knight of swords, empress, death and crown chakra from the tarot

posted June 11, 2018 01:48 PM            

2; Why did M and C break up?
bottle, bread, devil, hammer, anchor and clarifying card peacock. Looks like someone did something they shouldn't have and there were some big feelings of guilt. It looks like they tried to work past it and rise above it but at the end of the day, it was just too hard and the one who got hurt was just tired and had nothing else to offer. Too many restrictions. And based on all of the cards and the guilt, I feel it was cheating.

posted June 11, 2018 01:51 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Yes, that would make sense I’m very sorry!
Michael was obsessed with his ex for a long time when we got together, refused to cut contact with her and would stalk her fb and lie about talking to her etc. He wanted her back but she started dating his best friend.
So I definitely know what it’s like to be a “rebound” or dealing with someone with baggage and how frustrating and hurtful it is to feel like the second choice or under appreciated etc.
BUT, if you can put your pride to the side and give your relationship and connection time to get stronger and his feelings for you to grow, this might change. She’s not a real threat or this isn’t an actual issue like he’s not cheating etc., as like the cards showed and even he himself said she doesn’t want him, so try keep that perspective in mind when you decide what you’re going to do. They were together a long time and it’s only natural that he still has feelings for her, but that’s not to say he doesn’t like you or that your connection can’t grow stronger and make him totally forget about her eventually.
Just something to keep in mind when you make your decision, I know it’s eaiser said than done, but trust your heart ❤️ If you feel it’s worth it and you love him, it’s worth a shot if you can find the compassion and understanding to have patience and not take it personally even though I know how tough it is.

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I understand the feeling part. What I am ****** at is, I'm the one paying when we go out because I know he's trying to get his money straight after being out of work for a couple of months. I am the one who has told him to concentrate on that and he can pay after that's done. But, he's going out and buying her a dress and paying her bills! He pays child support....so why is he doing all the extra? Why not offer me the money to go get my nails done or something. That is what my issue is and that he wants to keep me a secret from her and his kids. Now I know why! He is hoping for a chance with her and I'm just a rebound.....nothing more or less.

posted June 11, 2018 02:12 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I understand the feeling part. What I am ****** at is, I'm the one paying when we go out because I know he's trying to get his money straight after being out of work for a couple of months. I am the one who has told him to concentrate on that and he can pay after that's done. But, he's going out and buying her a dress and paying her bills! He pays child support....so why is he doing all the extra? Why not offer me the money to go get my nails done or something. That is what my issue is and that he wants to keep me a secret from her and his kids. Now I know why! He is hoping for a chance with her and I'm just a rebound.....nothing more or less.

And I'm just not sure he will ever move past her...

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posted June 11, 2018 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Wow ok screw him!!!!
If he is making you pay while he’s out spending money on her that’s beyond rude. That’s unacceptable! I would sooooo upset, it’s making me upset just thinking he would do that to you. You deserve so much better, please tell this guy he is showing too many red flags at this point and that you’re done!
What a jackass 😤

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posted June 11, 2018 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
He isn't making me pay in any way. I offered so he could get caught back up. We don't go out too much because of that...it's more coming from him that we don't need to go out then me. So in his defense....BUT if he's paying her bills and buying her a dress then he can pay to take me out. That is my issue! It's like when she asks, he does it. Is it because they have kids together or because he still loves her? That is what I want to know and when or IF it will ever stop.

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posted June 11, 2018 02:29 PM            

bread is lessons, rising above....those types of messages
Peacock-success, vanity
bottle- tired, exhausted, empty since the bottle is empty.
hammer - force, hard....etc

posted June 11, 2018 02:40 PM            

8 of wands, 2 of cups, high priestess and 4 of pents
Clarified by love and strength

So it’s definitely because he loves her, very deeply too (love/strength) and again this is showed by the 2 of cups...
She may not have a lot of money (4 of pentacles) .

Will T lose feelings for her or ever get over her;

Yes he will...
Chariot (moving forward/away) 3 of pents, empress, 9 of pents, 3 of cups, lovers
So this is showing they will be once more friendly and he will feel independent of her, not so attached and they will become more like friends (3 of cups) and he will find someone else (lovers).

posted June 11, 2018 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Why is he spending money;

8 of wands, 2 of cups, high priestess and 4 of pents
Clarified by love and strength

So it’s definitely because he loves her, very deeply too (love/strength) and again this is showed by the 2 of cups...
She may not have a lot of money (4 of pentacles) .

Will T lose feelings for her or ever get over her;

Yes he will...
Chariot (moving forward/away) 3 of pents, empress, 9 of pents, 3 of cups, lovers
So this is showing they will be once more friendly and he will feel independent of her, not so attached and they will become more like friends (3 of cups) and he will find someone else (lovers).

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posted June 11, 2018 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:

Here's my thing, we have been exclusive now for 3.5 months. Doesn't seem like a long time BUT his kids don't even know he's got a girlfriend yet I've met his mom and sister and his oldest daughter(not with H, the ex). He hasn't told any of the younger kids or ex he's even seeing anyone and if she asks where he's at on the weekends(he's with me) he lies and says he's with a cousin or something. Patience isn't a virtue of mine but I feel like he should have told the kids he has a girlfriend by now. So, is he completely serious about me or using me? Right now with the stuff he's doing for her, I feel used and rightly so! I am going to sound heartless but I don't care if she has a lot of money or not.....if you are in a relationship, you DON'T buy things for your ex.

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How does T truly feel towards you;
Knight of wands, chariot, queen of wands, moon R and queen of cups R, 7 of swords, and 7 of wands
Clarified by deceit, and fire goddess