posted June 12, 2018 04:47 PM            

Can you ask if he actually wanted to and was planning to cut contact with me like he said last night
apple, hammer and train

yes he was going to

why he was ignoring me and still acting mad this morning?

ladder, fairy, dog, children, spider and clarifying card lock

He's being immature....plain and simple. He's mad that you acted 1st and blocked him and so now he doesn't have control or the satisfaction of doing it and throwing it up in your face.

We picked winners, didn't we? LOL

posted June 12, 2018 04:55 PM            

I'm headed home here in a few minutes, have an hour drive. But I'll pull when I get home!

So, will T ask to see me tomorrow night as is our normal "date" night?

Or will he call me tonight and tell me he's done? Ugh I wish I didn't care so much especially knowing he's going to keep trying with Heather. That makes me sad.

Ok I have to ask this because normally I would walk away from this much drama and I'm not sure why I'm not willing to now, is he a soul mate/twin flame?

posted June 12, 2018 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
and I appreciate your time and readings as well!

I'm headed home here in a few minutes, have an hour drive. But I'll pull when I get home!

So, will T ask to see me tomorrow night as is our normal "date" night?

Or will he call me tonight and tell me he's done? Ugh I wish I didn't care so much especially knowing he's going to keep trying with Heather. That makes me sad.

Ok I have to ask this because normally I would walk away from this much drama and I'm not sure why I'm not willing to now, is he a soul mate/twin flame?

What would he do if he thought I was 100% done?

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1; hermit, emperor, 7 of wands
No definitely he won’t ask or initiate it himself
But I asked if you will still see him tmr and got a yes lol
So it seems YOU will be the one to ask or initiate it and he will end up agreeing
3 of pents, page of wands, page of pents, strength and 6 of cups
I also got the wheel of fortune so it might be unexpected like maybe he will say no initially and then you will or maybe he will say yes but then something else will come up that prevents it.

2; is T a soulmate/twin flame

Yes he definitely is, I got the soulmate card! 6 of cups haha
It sounds from what you’ve been telling me like a karmic, last life soulmate. This is exactly what I had with M.
The relationship is very intense, up and down and back and forth and brings out very chaotic feelings in both parties and it meant to teach you a lesson and spur your growth 👍 it’s hard to cut ties until you learn the lesson and break the cycle.

3; what would T do if he thought you were done?
2 of swords, Magican, 8 of swords, 2 of pents R, 3 of cups R and 6 of cups R

posted June 12, 2018 06:08 PM            

Feet, cage and mask
Not right now he won't.

And did M cheat with the ex?

Cross, children and baby
Funny enough the baby card is innocence so no he didn't have sex with her while he was with you

Oh and was M even attracted to me at all?
100% yes! Woman, rabbit, falling
It's so funny I got these cards! Woman is definitely you, rabbits.....first off is a very positive card but I got the phrase going at it like rabbits too. And falling is lack of control....he most definitely is attracted to you

posted June 12, 2018 06:49 PM            

As to tomorrow night, I'm not going to ask him. If he doesn't contact me, he won't hear from me! That will be a first so let's see what he thinks of that.

And yes! I feel you are 100% on this and him focusing on only the bad.I just think he's so used to disappointment, even if he is the cause sometimes, that I can see that being his way of coping.

posted June 12, 2018 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I just wish I could trust him! I'm glad him and H never slept together... that makes me feel better.

As to tomorrow night, I'm not going to ask him. If he doesn't contact me, he won't hear from me! That will be a first so let's see what he thinks of that.

And yes! I feel you are 100% on this and him focusing on only the bad.I just think he's so used to disappointment, even if he is the cause sometimes, that I can see that being his way of coping.

If I don't contact him, will he eventually reach out to me? I'm waiting to see if he calls me to end things....

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posted June 12, 2018 08:23 PM            

I wonder what his thoughts of me are right now since I have been silent which isn't like me.

Did M ever love me or have real feelings when we were dating? If not, skip this next question lol

Tree, hands and devil.
Boy that devil card is showing a lot...he's feeling guilty! But yes he was in love with you

2; did M love me more than his ex? 

posted June 13, 2018 09:02 AM            

So I asked him if it was over since that is the impression he's given.

posted June 13, 2018 12:09 PM            

What kind of job should you be doing in order to be happy and not want to quit?

candles, comet, fairy, curtain, feet and clarifying card tree.

Ok so to me it's looking like you need to be in a job that you are active in and not sitting at a desk as I feel you would bored with that. Something where you are helping people because you have a very helping nature about you. I do feel it's in a health field BUT it's also spiritual as well if that makes sense. I get the field of natural medicine/homeopathic that just like jumped to mind when I wrote that last sentence. Not sure why I keep picturing a gym though as well....hmmm.

Will you find a job this summer?
scissors, arrow and clown

posted June 13, 2018 12:18 PM            

Wow so I didn’t expect such nice cards!
He definitely has empathy towards you in this situation, he knows you’re hurt and he understands that. He understands where you’re coming from and how you must be feeling, but he does have a lot of pride and he probably isn’t one to just come out and say sorry or admit his mistakes if he doesn’t have to.
I see that he is reminiscing and thinking about all the times you’ve spent together (6 of cups) and how much fun he has with you (3 of cups). He knows he needs to make a big decision/choice (lovers) that is going to change things in a dramatic way (death). Nice thing is I got the 8 of pents which shows dedicated effort, this card is the opposite of walking away. He’s been thinking about your msgs/texts (8 of wands) and I feel he wants a new beginning and to move forward with you (fool/chariot) because I do see that he has love for you with the love oracle I pulled. And he is hurting right now too believe it or not (grove) or he knows you love him and are hurting and he understands and feels bad.
None of these cards to me are showing an ending or walking away, so I really think he’s not done with you just like my other readings indicated too 👍

2; what are his current thoughts towards H;
Empathy, doubt, freedom
Self-worth
Sun, fool, 5 of wands, knight of wands, 2 of pents, hermit, 7 of wands, 4 of swords, 6 of wands, world and heart chakra
Wow so he is actually pretty annoyed or dendisve towards her right now, we have two anger or conflict cards (5 of wands/7 of wands) and he also is retreating from her and wants to be alone and not talk or bother with her currently (4 of swords/hermit) these are very much the “leave me alone I need space or to reflect and withdraw from you right now”, this is again showing with the freedom oracle card.
Interesting that he does have empathy for her in this situation also, and he feels it’s affecting her self esteem or she is being insecure (self-worth oracle).
And he again is feeling prideful just like with you, not wanting to admit his mistakes or apologize even though he has empathy for you both (6 of wands) so I feel T is just a very confident guy and has a strong ego and sense of pride who doesn’t admit mistakes or defeat easily lol but he is very understanding and empathic despite this.
He is also swinging between thoughts about her (2 of pents) being angry and annoying with her and still having a soft spot for her (heart chakra/sun).
Looks like he wants a new beginnings or is just being foolish and reckless towards her too (the fool) and being impulsive and immature is what this card can represent too.
But if I had to say who his is having the stronger thoughts and feelings for its definitely you.
Right now, it looks like he is going to try work on things with you, as he is sort of irritated with her.

3; are things over between you and T
Hell no lol
Wheel of fortune, page of cups, high prietess and the fool , 2 of wands, 8 of pents, emperor
Definitely not!
That 8 of pents is showing putting in the effort, work.
Page of cups is also about making amends and forgiving and reconciliation and love etc.
Wheel of fortune is showing happy unexpected changes or turn of events so you’re going to be surprised when he sends you this message (page of cups) of love and wanting to make it work with you. The fool is showing a new start.

posted June 13, 2018 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
1;What are T’s current thoughts towards you right now;
Empathy, doubt, pride
Love, grove, understanding
Fool, 6 of cups, king of wands, 3 of cups, chariot
8 of wands, 8 of pents, death and lovers

Wow so I didn’t expect such nice cards!
He definitely has empathy towards you in this situation, he knows you’re hurt and he understands that. He understands where you’re coming from and how you must be feeling, but he does have a lot of pride and he probably isn’t one to just come out and say sorry or admit his mistakes if he doesn’t have to.
I see that he is reminiscing and thinking about all the times you’ve spent together (6 of cups) and how much fun he has with you (3 of cups). He knows he needs to make a big decision/choice (lovers) that is going to change things in a dramatic way (death). Nice thing is I got the 8 of pents which shows dedicated effort, this card is the opposite of walking away. He’s been thinking about your msgs/texts (8 of wands) and I feel he wants a new beginning and to move forward with you (fool/chariot) because I do see that he has love for you with the love oracle I pulled. And he is hurting right now too believe it or not (grove) or he knows you love him and are hurting and he understands and feels bad.
None of these cards to me are showing an ending or walking away, so I really think he’s not done with you just like my other readings indicated too 👍

2; what are his current thoughts towards H;
Empathy, doubt, freedom
Self-worth
Sun, fool, 5 of wands, knight of wands, 2 of pents, hermit, 7 of wands, 4 of swords, 6 of wands, world and heart chakra
Wow so he is actually pretty annoyed or dendisve towards her right now, we have two anger or conflict cards (5 of wands/7 of wands) and he also is retreating from her and wants to be alone and not talk or bother with her currently (4 of swords/hermit) these are very much the “leave me alone I need space or to reflect and withdraw from you right now”, this is again showing with the freedom oracle card.
Interesting that he does have empathy for her in this situation also, and he feels it’s affecting her self esteem or she is being insecure (self-worth oracle).
And he again is feeling prideful just like with you, not wanting to admit his mistakes or apologize even though he has empathy for you both (6 of wands) so I feel T is just a very confident guy and has a strong ego and sense of pride who doesn’t admit mistakes or defeat easily lol but he is very understanding and empathic despite this.
He is also swinging between thoughts about her (2 of pents) being angry and annoying with her and still having a soft spot for her (heart chakra/sun).
Looks like he wants a new beginnings or is just being foolish and reckless towards her too (the fool) and being impulsive and immature is what this card can represent too.
But if I had to say who his is having the stronger thoughts and feelings for its definitely you.
Right now, it looks like he is going to try work on things with you, as he is sort of irritated with her.

3; are things over between you and T
Hell no lol
Wheel of fortune, page of cups, high prietess and the fool , 2 of wands, 8 of pents, emperor
Definitely not!
That 8 of pents is showing putting in the effort, work.
Page of cups is also about making amends and forgiving and reconciliation and love etc.
Wheel of fortune is showing happy unexpected changes or turn of events so you’re going to be surprised when he sends you this message (page of cups) of love and wanting to make it work with you. The fool is showing a new start.

4; is he going to focus on making your relationship more solid and give up on H;
7 of swords, devil, 5 of pents, page of swords, 2 of cups, strength, chariot, world
Hmm it’s tough to say. I feel he may still hide some things (7 of swords) and keep in contact with her potentially (page of swords) but I do see him eventually focusing on your guys and making the relationship solid and moving forward with you (2 of cups/strength/chariot/world) this are all really solid and nice positive cards. So I just think you’re gonna have to be a bit patient at first.

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posted June 13, 2018 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Yes! Makes total sense, I need to be very active and busy running around having lots to do or I get very restless and bored haha maybe my mars in 6th house?
And I am very helpful yes and I would love to implement spirituality into my work, hopefully I can figure out what type of job allows me to do that.

I’m been applying to some places but haven’t gotten anything yet so that’s reassuring! 👍

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