posted June 27, 2018 08:26 AM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
But why lie if it's that innocent? Makes him look guilty in my opinion. This man is making me question if I want to keep messing with him with all this hiding crap!

And M is Melissa and T is Teon.

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Okay! Mel makes sense for Melissa, I feel that’s what he called or calls her or is a common nickname for her. I heard Mel first and then some other Mel sounding name I interpreted as melody etc. lol cool!
Teon is a hard one! It’s uncommon so harder to pick up but weird that you say that now because I remember a long time ago when I first started reading for you and T I kept hearing what I thought was Leon 😂 makes sense now

posted June 27, 2018 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Okay! Mel makes sense for Melissa, I feel that’s what he called or calls her or is a common nickname for her. I heard Mel first and then some other Mel sounding name I interpreted as melody etc. lol cool!
Teon is a hard one! It’s uncommon so harder to pick up but weird that you say that now because I remember a long time ago when I first started reading for you and T I kept hearing what I thought was Leon 😂 makes sense now

And yes it is a bit shady, but he seems like a secretive guy who just doesn’t like revealing himself so it makes him look bad

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posted June 27, 2018 09:05 AM            

Can I ask a couple questions?

You don't ever have to ask if you can ask any questions, you know I will ALWAYS answer them for you. I'm trying to get on more but it's been difficult in the crazy evenings and weekends but I will always get to them!

How will M respond/what will happen if I phone him/msg him?

bird, house, fairy, curtain, umbrella and clarifying card toad.

so I really thought when pulling that he would answer/respond but then I got the curtain and umbrella. Umbrella is about avoiding so while he will be happy to hear from you, he won't admit to that right off the bat but I do feel eventually he will. It looks like for that to happen though, he has to feel more secure BUT with the curtain mirroring it, it wouldn't be an admission he wants to give....almost like when he's drinking or high or something for him to admit it to you. So, the first message/call I feel he would avoid based on these cards BUT that won't last forever, just a short period of time.

And does he still care/have feelings for me?

wave, cage and tree

Yes he does but he's going to keep hiding them because that makes him in control is how he feels. He feels if he tells you he still has feelings for you, that will make him powerless and he wants to appear strong and in control.

posted June 28, 2018 11:29 PM            

So for for your first question; why does T lie/hide things from you

I got Letting Go, High priestess of Air
Indecision, Envy
8 of pents, 9 of swords, the world
Devil and third eye chakra

So right off the bat, believe it or not he has a very obsessive/compulsive personality. He has a very hard time letting go, he gets obsessive or stuck in bad or toxic situations/behaviours/thoughts/ideas etc. He is very mental, like he overthinks/overanlayzes everything and it’s very destructive for him. It’s karmatic for
him to, it’s something he needs to heal in this life. He is trapped in a cycle. He is a perfectionist too, he may feel like he wants to fix or save everything, like beating a dead horse because he can’t just let go and let things be or stil feels like it can be worked on and he just thinks about it so much it’s a real struggle for him, and causes a lot of confusion and indecision. Temptation/sexuality is a strong reason why he lies or hides things too, as well as Envy. He desires and craves the things he wants and feels like he can get it too, he is very disciplined when it comes to this, like feeling he can get away with the lies or secrets.

2: how does your boss feel about the work you’ve done so far:
8 of pents/7 of pents/temperence
Solar plexus/heart chakra
Forgiveness

Wow so pretty postive cards! 8 of pents flew out, so this is the main focus card. And it’s a great sign, it means your boss thinks you are very hardworking, skilled and have a great eye for detail and you can be a perfectionist. They also see that you are patient and you aren’t afraid to invest and put the work in, again a very positive card. Solar plexus means they are happy/pleased about the work you’ve done, same with the heart chakra.

I don’t think you have anything to worry about 👍

posted June 29, 2018 08:29 AM            

Also, he told me last night he is going to take care of things with his kids...he will be spending 4th of July with them and spent Memorial Day with them as well. I basically told him I'm not going to be alone on all the holidays, that I will find someone else to spend time with since this is getting to be stupid. The kids STILL don't know about me.

What did he mean when he said he would take care of things?
Will he ever act on those temptations and cheat on me?

1: How is M feeling about me now after our last convo?
angel, dog, mirror, man, dragon and clarifying card fountain

wow! We have seen the dog card A LOT when it comes to the 2 of you and feelings. I haven't seen the love card much when I ask how he feels about you but this card is almost always there so you know what that means already. But we also have the angel card: he was happy to hear from you. But what I'm wowing about is the 2 cards we have about change. He wants YOU to change because he thinks that is the only way to renew things with you(fountain). He's not seeing that he needs to change, but that you need to(ridiculous, we both know this). He feels like he's thought a lot about it when he's done his "self reflection" and doesn't see an issue with his actions, but yours.

2: What did he mean by “it has to be this way” why does he think that?

falling, bread, fairy, curtain, scissors, hands
he feels like he isn't in control anymore and so because of that, he's trying to make a break from you. He feels like he depends on you too much and he doesn't like that feeling. I have a feeling, he will say something like this to you soon but I almost feel he's going to say he's just got too much going on, he's overwhelmed....something to that effect. He won't tell you the real reason which is in hand with what is up top....he feels you need to change so he can be back in control. The word petty keeps popping into my head....

3: What does the future hold between us, do you really think is it over or is he going to contact me in the future etc. ?

Is it over? turtle, spoon, rabbit
he's wants to really make you think it is but no it's not. cards are saying patience is key
Will he contact you? apple, clouds and bottle
no he's not going to. he knows you will reach out to him again....that's one way he will start to get control back in his mind.

What does the future hold for the 2 of you?

elephant, fountain, volcano, clown, children and clarifying card butterfly

posted June 29, 2018 10:30 AM            

Lovers, king of pents, sun, 10 of cups, empress
4 of wands, base chakra, 9 of wands

Hmm so the cards are literally just showing family (10 of cups) and kids (sun) lol 4 of wands is also about the home, and empress always comes up as Heather the baby mama. Base chakra and king of pents are very practical earthy cards, king of pents is the stable provider, so “take care of things” I feel meant financially or just making sure everyone has what they need on the physical/practical level (base chakra). As opposed to an emotional issue which would be cups etc. I feel he is just a very hands on and pragmatic guy, fixing things around the house, changing diapers, making sure gas is in the car that kind of stuff. He meant taking care of things in that way.

2: would T ever act on his desires and cheat on you?
Ugh, I was hearing yes before I even pulled but just wanted to make sure...
I got emperor (him), 7 of swords UGH, queen of wands, the fool and tower
And risk from the oracles

posted June 29, 2018 10:31 AM            

curtain, mice and package
yes you will. based on these cards, you will feel like it will never happen and eventually give up and then it will happen

2: and if so, who/what is this person like?
( so I know what I should be looking for lol and can hopefully avoid any more bad eggs)

angel, mirror, pyramid, candles, swan and feet

first and foremost, he will be stable! He will be completely different than what you've been used to, we have 2 cards on change here which shows me he will be the opposite of what you have dealt with. He's definitely going to be someone you're comfortable with and spiritual as well. He knows what he wants and does what he needs to do to make it happen as well. I feel when you first meet him, you are going to think he's a smooth talker....and he is BUT he's sincere because he's very secure with who he is.

3: If I get married, will we stay together or will I get divorced?

Will you get married? spoon, curtain, ladder yes you will get married

will you get divorced? baby, hands and children
looks like a lot of maturity in your marriage and helping each other so I'm not seeing divorce

posted June 29, 2018 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
What did T mean when he said he would take care of things:

Lovers, king of pents, sun, 10 of cups, empress
4 of wands, base chakra, 9 of wands

Hmm so the cards are literally just showing family (10 of cups) and kids (sun) lol 4 of wands is also about the home, and empress always comes up as Heather the baby mama. Base chakra and king of pents are very practical earthy cards, king of pents is the stable provider, so “take care of things” I feel meant financially or just making sure everyone has what they need on the physical/practical level (base chakra). As opposed to an emotional issue which would be cups etc. I feel he is just a very hands on and pragmatic guy, fixing things around the house, changing diapers, making sure gas is in the car that kind of stuff. He meant taking care of things in that way.

2: would T ever act on his desires and cheat on you?
Ugh, I was hearing yes before I even pulled but just wanted to make sure...
I got emperor (him), 7 of swords UGH, queen of wands, the fool and tower
And risk from the oracles

So the cards are being very clear. Yes he would cheat on you, only because he is immature (the fool) and is too impulsive. He doesn’t think of the consequence of his actions, he just lives in the moment and follows his instincts. Risk from the oracles is pretty much the same energy of the fool. He would take that risk because he is too native and carefree, the fool isn’t a very commitment or loyal card... it’s a very live and let live, hippy, party hard who cares about the consequences I just wanna have fun and be free kinda thing lol
And of course 7 of swords you know is about deception, secrets, betrayal and hiding things being sneaky...
I’m sorry 😭 but I need to be honest and tell you what I got, we all deserve the truth and if you know then you’ll be able to have the clarity to make an informed decision about what you want to do...

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I'm confused on the taking care of things since we were talking about spending holidays apart and me basically not ok with it. That is when he said he'd take care of things and they wouldn't keep being like this.