posted January 17, 2013 02:56 AM
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Originally posted by juniperb:
"your" means me. I took your complaint serious and tried to answer. If my reply was not your cup of tea, I`m sorry and I will move on
Beautiful. I agree. I've just learned a whole lot about you here in your "trying" to "answer." And I AM going to take your WORDS quite SERIOUSLY, right now.
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btw. you edited your post to imply a different content & to fix emoticon .
W O W !! What a very DISHONEST thing to say, to "imply" that I write to try to "trick" and "trap" you! YOU are wrong!
I fixed the emoticon because I used the wrong ":word:" --- I typed :hippie: instead of :hip"... for
I had NO IDEA you were there "at the very same exact moment" when I posted the 'grandmother' thing... you "captured" my words BEFORE I finished fixing the emoticon, then reread it while fix window was open, and added the feeling old
(parentheses)... That had to have been in the same two minutes it took to "adjust" right there. . . . . . . . .
When I post a thing, I like to be able to have a few grace-minutes to "preview" how it all looks, and to fix the obvious first, then the not so obvious errors in the following five. I believe an author should be given those moments to adjust unclear or awkward wording as much as they can.
You must have wordprocessor available on your computer, with spell and grammar checks... I DO NOT. In addition, it's very HARD to type in these little boxes and get the whole jist of what I was trying to say. I can't "see" all of what I've written until it POSTS!!!
I've noticed some writers (posters) in other sections of LL will post a loose OUTLINE of sentences-- main idea of what they want to say. It allows others to be considerate and wait up for them. Makes people aware that they are there and are interested in adding their thoughts to the topic mix. Usually, over the next 20mins, people have come back to "fill" out their paragraphs better. Some people don't 'finish' their work until the next day even.
I'm amazed at how "fast" you are ready to "condemn" me for not REMEMBERING the emoticon codes "perfectly"... Tells me a lot.
Some topics are very LOADED, and it takes time to make sure it's right. You, personally, must be very lucky to have a wordprocessor attached to your internet computer--- I DON'T! I MUST rely on a few minutes of "gracetime" from fellow-posters to straighten my copy. Plus, there's an "art" to laying out emoticons.. they're like applying jewelry... DON'T want too much or too little.
Things don't post in "Perfect" time here... conversations don't post in 'correct' order. I've been on threads in other sections that SUDDENLY moved so fast that a "new" post could appear on a previous PAGE and never get attention until much later...if at all, sometimes. I'm sure that person can feel pretty ignored.
And I usually avoid QUOTING everything someone says in the post above me. If there doesn't seem to be anyone else there that could be ready to interject their material before I had my say, I will be respectful and avoid it.
I feel that quoting every single word that everyone writes can be construed as "provocative" behavior. As you have said... you DO get to know people-- some are transparent, and others after a while. And sadly you have demonstrated to me that you cannot be "trusted," juniperb...
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That`s why I use the quote button . No harm no foul but for future references, I do read posts carefully before I reply 
"Trust" between you and me IS broken ... and Harm HAS happened.
Let's go on. I'm through with it!