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Topic: Does venus and mars in virgo make someone sexually retarded?
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belgz
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posted January 18, 2010 10:36 AM
 
What is wrong with people that have these placements? dont you guys have a great sex life? Is it some kind of service to you?Please tell...
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swirl-kitt
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posted January 18, 2010 11:33 AM
lol  I have mars in virgo and no sex is not just about service, not that boring !! I enjoy sex too much sometimes.. Plus, I'm lazy I expect my partner to do most of the work but I like doing more 'service' related stuff , as a mars in virgo would... and I spend so much time preparing, even if it's just a sex date, my outfit and looks have to be just perfect in my head, if I don't , something will be missing it causes some problems though when I start looking at it like 'ok I did all this for- what exactly ??' mars in virgo, they even get obsessed with whoever their 'just sex' date is IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted January 18, 2010 12:01 PM
Mars in Virgo gets a bad rap in a man. My ex bf had that and he was nothing like described. He was a total perv, would do anything to please, and was the farthest away from a prude then anyone I've ever known.
Aww, geez, I really miss him.IP: Logged |
MsCandeh
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posted January 18, 2010 12:31 PM
My first serious BF had this .. and yes it was VERY VERY GOODVenus conjunct Mars in Virgo But he did have a Scorpio stellium (unaspected by the Venus/Mars conj) In fact .. that's pretty much all it was about. He was not a prude at all. He is now a doctor (how Virgoan!) IP: Logged |
letram
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posted January 18, 2010 12:36 PM
"He was a total perv, would do anything to please, and was the farthest away from a prude then anyone I've ever known."this is so true. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 18, 2010 01:21 PM
haha those naughty virginsIP: Logged |
amowls*
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posted January 18, 2010 01:23 PM
One of my exes has Mars in Virgo. Definitely into sex, but doesn't prioritize it.IP: Logged |
katatonic
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posted January 18, 2010 01:34 PM
virgo is earthy. for some people that is boring. i have venus there and one description i found somewhere talked about how virgo can regard sex as a function necessary for normal bodily health...therefore prudery is the LAST thing involved, though seeing it as hygiene might "sanitize" their approach that was never my problem. in RELATIONSHIP yes, service can be a motivating factor. in bed, well that's not such a bad thing either is it? though don't forget that virgo, like pisces, is often a saviour/victim choice and can come down on either side... IP: Logged |
enchantress299
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posted January 18, 2010 02:15 PM
Let's see... You probably can't ask me because I have a Leo Mars. I do have a Virgo Venus and sex is not a problem for me, I just don't take it as lightly as I might if I had both Venus and Mars in Leo. I do not feel that I am sexually retarded and I have not gotten any complaints. Kthx. Obviously you are probably having a problem with a specific person Belgz, so what are you running into as a problem for those with the Virgo placements? I'm not clear on it. Is it the perfectionism? The service part might be true with someone with Mars in Virgo, but I would think that would just make them more eager to please... IP: Logged |
Anicia
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posted January 18, 2010 02:55 PM
I have this. I think it basically comes down to the other person. Sometimes there's a huge magnetism, but most of the time I'd just rather not. For the most part I don't take sex lightly. I have to feel comfortable with the person or else it is a chore.IP: Logged |
Ursa
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posted January 18, 2010 03:32 PM
My brother has venus in virgo and he was (until he hit 36 or so) a kinked out wh*re. He did everything, everywhere and anywhere with almost anyone (gender,orientation-irrelevant). Oh, the things I walked in on when I visited.
He's a good boy now, sorta.The venus comes out in his work, the arts, very exacting standards. The only time I have seen the clinical/cold virgo attributes has been with asc in virgo. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted January 18, 2010 05:18 PM
My Mum has a Venus-Mars-conjunction in Virgo, but I rather not think about it too deeply.  IP: Logged |
AquariusMoon
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posted January 18, 2010 07:42 PM
What a silly thread title, *rolls eyes* What makes you assume there is something wrong?
Virgo is one of the most sensual signs of the zodiac. In the sack they are pleasers and love to make their partner happy. My ex partner had this and he was very sensual, and seductive. He made a happy woman.IP: Logged |
zanarkand112
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posted January 18, 2010 11:12 PM
Um, I have a stellium right on the cusp of leo/virgo with Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars. My approach and beliefs on sex are very different than most. I am very conservative compared to most people... And I expect a very pure form of love, and due to some bad experiences put people through a whole checklist as soon as they say something to me looking for signs about who they really are, although they would never know it. I'm so friendly and caring that they generally think they have it all in the bag within a short amount of time, but I move VERY slowly. Plus, I'm very shy so that makes it worse.(I blush very easily if I am flirted with -- it sucks! -- and compliments while appreciated can sometimes make me feel pressured too) Even if I am interested I might stall or withdraw to make sure I don't feed fuel to the fire if that person isn't right for me. I don't just want a date, I want the "right" person for me and for them to feel the same way. As far as sex is concerned, the affection is much more important than sex itself. Hope this helps you gain some insight into your situation for whatever reason.  IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted January 19, 2010 12:01 AM
My ex has Virgo Mars trine my Moon in Capricorn. I didn't find him retarded at all. Maybe a bit shy to start off with. Current guy is a Leo (Sun & Jupiter) with a stellium in Virgo, including Venus, also trine my Moon. We haven't had sex yet - but he doesn't seem frigid or "retarded". He's a very warm person lol
But YES he's also shy. I don't mind the shyness. I think it's cute. lol I bet PDF will love this thread. One of his favorite placements IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted January 19, 2010 02:45 AM
Hahahahaha me and PDF do talk about it and he was definitely right about alot of things!Well where do i start. This is the guy i started dating. Hes 32 and has been married for 6 years so i kind of had some high expectations i guess but once we got in the bedroom he was a different person. Were talking about someone whos a martial arts teacher and does kick boxing but in the bedroom was a softy!! Frigid is the word! Not only is he shy and feminine hes never experienced much. I know this is personal but to be 32 and never experienced sex toys and any other position other than missionary is very worrisome. He doesnt know dirty talk he likes to have sex in the shower where its clean. Typical Virgo! I love that being a virgo rising but CMON is he for real? Its way too much. Im very dissapointed and would consider ending whatever it is we have unless he changes quick fast before i become emotionally attached to something that just wont work out long term. When i mentioned toys etc he got scared. I understand hes a cancerian but so am i. Hes not shy when it comes to his job and beating up people.
Here is his chart....
Pluto has just entered his 8th house and will trine his venus.
In his natal chart eros is conjunct his sun. He is far from erotic or passionate. 
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belgz
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posted January 19, 2010 02:01 PM
hes also far from being a perve!------------------
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vapor-lash
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posted January 19, 2010 03:09 PM
Belgz - He doesn't have much fire. Fire is very sexually raw. Other elements are more cautious or awkward about it. I know he has Mercury in Leo.. but Mercury is not directly connected to anything romantic or sexual. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted January 19, 2010 03:13 PM
OH, well the guy that I was talking about with the Virgo Mars, had a saggie Moon and Venus. Guess thats the difference!IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted January 19, 2010 04:02 PM
I realized I just made a huge omission on that.Scorpio is definitely not included in what I said LOL Co-ruled by Mars, it's a honorary fire sign jk IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 19, 2010 04:13 PM
Geez, so much earth and water!My aries stellium would be so deflated. I don't think you can say Virgo is retarded though. lol IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted January 19, 2010 06:14 PM
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Hes not shy when it comes to his job and beating up people.
You've got a way with words, Belgz. But I want to know - how does he do missionary in the shower? It could be his wife liked his version of sex, so there was no need for him to experiment or do anything differently. Will he do it for you? That's the thing. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 19, 2010 06:20 PM
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But I want to know - how does he do missionary in the shower?
maybe it's a shower over a bath? IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted January 19, 2010 09:00 PM
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But I want to know - how does he do missionary in the shower?
lol Maybe he designed his house from scratch. Can you imagine a Virgo-Designed shower.. It would look like something out of Inspector Gadget  It would have all sorts of interesting appliances lol.. Press 1 - to release impermeable bed..lol IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 19, 2010 09:10 PM
hahaha this is funny LOLIP: Logged |
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