posted March 03, 2010 01:27 PM            

is it some kind of unconditional, platonic love?
Nurturing family love?
Romantic?
Mainly sexual?

We can have relationships for many different reason.

posted March 03, 2010 02:23 PM            

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted March 03, 2010 03:05 PM            

Comica,

I had a 16 minute Ascendant-Ascendant opposition and 6 minute Ascendant-Ascendant contraparallel with my exgf whose Venus trine my Ascendant with 3 minutes of arc (Her Venus sextile Ascendant linked to my Ascendant), and it was a very strong connection

Her very strong attachment to her mother who has issues with men (because my exgf's father screwed her over) was a big problem. Our relationship ended because of it. She couldn't stand up to her mother and defend our relationship. Fear got in the way of love. She just didn't love me enough to fight for me.

Another was that she didn't want to have children nor was into helping people. She lacked a fondness for children. I really felt that she didn't have much nurturing instinct.

I feel that the woman that I am meant to be with will be somebody who is fond of children and will assist me in my neurodiversity advocacy. I believe that she will be working with special education needs children.

Last year in November,
When I drew my Archangel Cards the first time
they were the first cards that I used too.

I randomly picked out 3 cards after shuffling from the deck to symbolize main themes of my life.

First card:
Indigo and Crystal Children
Archangel Metatron
You have a bond with children. In particular, you can help children who are sensitive.

Second card:
Leadership
Archangel Gabriel
It is time for you to assume your leadership power and position and lovingly guide others.

Third card:
Hello from Heaven
Archangel Azrael
Your loved ones in Heaven are doing fine. Let go of worries, and feel their loving blessings.

Then later on that day. I consulted with those cards, asking what was the purpose of my relationship with her,why did she break up

I shuffled the cards.

I ended up randomly picking out the same cards but in reverse order!

I figured that it was about her not sharing my path and going our separate ways.

The Indigo,Crystal Children card fits with helping sensitive children with developmental neurological/learning differences

The Leadership card fits with me forming the nonprofit neurodiversity organization and becoming executive director of it

Hello from Heaven might be just figurative....like she's fine. I shouldn't worry about her and I should let go.

well

this morning I had a very intimate dream about her. I haven't had a dream about her in a long time. So I am going WTF???

I checked the transits right after I woke up to see if transiting Moon was aspecting one of our synastry aspects

Transiting Moon in 24'51 Libra
trining my Mars in 25'54 Aquarius
opposing her Mars in 25'28 Aries

also

Transiting Sun in 13'07 Pisces
oppose/conjunct my Ascendant/Descendant in 13'27 Virgo/Pisces
conjunct/oppose her Ascendant/Descendant in 13'43 Pisces/Virgo
oppose my Ascendant in

Transiting Jupiter in 10'31 Pisces
square my Midheaven/Imum Coeli in 11'14 Gemini/Sagittarius
square her Jupiter in 10'54 Sagittarius R

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted March 03, 2010 04:28 PM            

quote:

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I do think the Vertex is a soul mate object. It means fate and I have it with someone who I think is the love of my life

I have a DW of Vertex/ASC in synastry.

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I have that with someone who's somewhat of an ex of mine and we have a complicated stupid relationship and right now it's nothing. We don't want to be involved in each others lives but frankly, because of our social situation, it's impossible to not be. Our relationship I guess is fated, but it's not love. Vertex ties don't mean that it's going to last forever.

We also have MC/IC conjunction (ties into the Vertex/ASC dw anyway because the MC plays a role in where your vertex is).

posted March 03, 2010 09:22 PM            

Agree or not?"

posted March 03, 2010 09:23 PM            

an aspect to the Vertex is also an aspect to the AntiVertex

They are an axis like Ascendant/Descendant,Midheaven/Imum Coeli, East Point/West Point, and lunar nodes,heliocentric nodes, lunar apogee/perigree

Vertex is known as an unconscious descendant
and the AntiVertex as an auxilliary ascendant like the East Point.

Maritha Pottenger is a regular user of the AntiVertex and East Point. I have her booklet on those points.

a conjunction to the AntiVertex is an opposition to the Vertex and vice versa

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted March 03, 2010 09:41 PM            

it's still an opposition to the vertex.

just like a conjunction to the ascendant is an opposition to the descendant

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted March 03, 2010 10:04 PM            

I'd love to oblige but i'm trying to rectify my chart at the moment to ascertain my correct AC so i don't wanna put up a misleading chart (i've posted enough of those!!!).

posted March 04, 2010 01:39 AM            

It's wonderful if it's true

"To add my thoughts here:
its the composite conjunction of sun-moon."

Agree.

Add another one: composite venus-valentine-amor
conjunction

posted March 04, 2010 07:51 AM            

I don't know.

it's all relative like all the astrological systems on the planet.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"