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Topic: We lost the Male Pisces Thread. lol
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Ami Anne
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 26, 2010 08:35 AM
 
I wrote you an e mail. I hope it is OK to say the things ,here, cuz I can get a simpler sense of it on the thread,sometimes.
I will NEVER say anything personal and it you don't want me to write anything on here--tell me and I will erase it all.
I think there are a few factors at play. One is YOU. Does he remind you of a past relationship(father, mother etc) where you kept trying to get them to see you/love you but they turned a deaf ear/did not get it. You struggled and struggled to get them to see but they wouldn't.
That is one big thing.
We, all, have this in relationships.We are attracted to the unfinished pattens cuz our conciousness WANTS to finish them like a song that wants to end on a certain note. You wait for that note cuz it concludes the music in just the right way. Our bodies/minds ??? try to come to conclusions on things that were broken in our lives. That is the first step in figuring it out. IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt
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posted September 26, 2010 12:55 PM
'We are attracted to the unfinished pattens cuz our conciousness WANTS to finish them like a song that wants to end on a certain note.'This is so true Ami  But it only happens with people I care about (maybe they are close family/friend or someone I was in love with) I don't care too much about how it ends with someone with who I'm no longer in love with- as long as they know I still respect them. IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted September 26, 2010 02:17 PM
Well Racole and Lioness, have fun with those flakey Pisces Men, cause I give up! I don't have the patience for flakiness, so I'm moving on... And remember ladies, don't waste your time on someone who isn't worthy of your affections, there are plenty of "fish" in the sea! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted September 26, 2010 06:18 PM
One is YOU. Does he remind you of a past relationship(father, mother etc) where you kept trying to get them to see you/love you but they turned a deaf ear/did not get it.Ami.. No this is not the case.. I dont see him as like this... Today we totally ignored each other.. I didnt even look his way, and he didnt look my way.. Im ok with this....
I just prefer he choose one way or the other... Regardless of what it is... Why keep going back and fourth? Just better to completely stay away.. I just cant escape from him... no matter what I do... If I ignore him, he comes to me.. If Im receptive he backs off... I dont see the point.. Either totally back off, or totally come to be, half way just doesnt work...
This is why Im so frustrated with him... If he came to me and said I hate you I never want to see or talk to you again, I would be ok with it, bc I know where I stand... There's no confusion... No misunderstandings.. it is what it is..
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Ami Anne
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posted September 26, 2010 06:48 PM
Yes, I see what you are saying, Lioness. If I were you, I would find out what my deepest heart wants to do and do that..That is what *I* am doing. If you follow your heart, you are true to yourself .
After all I have been through, I want simple things in a relationship.
Number One, I want two people sharing REAL emotions.
That HAS to be or I have no interest. If it winds around corners, I can deal with that but I cannot deal with "fake" You, really, must decide what you want, what you are willing to take for what you want, what you will put on the line for what you want and what you cannot do. If you can get clear on those, you may have more clarity.
Just for the record, I am a work in progress with all this . I don't want to make myself like I am some sort of an expert  ------------------
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Lioness
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posted September 26, 2010 06:59 PM
Well thats what I want either one way or the other.. He needs to pick one and stick with it... Now every time he's goin to try to test me or play a game, Im going to snap on him... He will either back off totally or try to clear it up... Honestly I think he will back off totally after I snap so many times.. He will get it.. Either tell me what your saying, or dont tell me anything at all... .. I shouldnt have to "guess" what he wants or is talking about... Its just causes to many misunderstandings.. example: He unexpectedly showed up at my house, asking for water????? (he first called from the corner store) WTF.... but when he got here he talked about him having a headache and wanting to go home and be alone.. Ok well Ok I hope you feel better... Go and get some rest.. So (confusion) why are u at my house asking for water, and telling me you want to go home bc you have a headache and want to be alone... Why even stop by?? Why not buy water at the store and go home? He lives like 10mins from me...
Why not say Lioness I was around and I wanted to see you, or how your doing? Why make up excuses? Then y make down, once your here.. I was respective to him, so WHAT now he has a headache and wants to go home.. OK.. Im not going to go chasing you and stop u from leaving... Bye huggs.... see ya!!! IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted September 26, 2010 07:09 PM
He sounds manipulative, like he knows that you like him, so he tries to get your attention. And how old is this guy, Lioness? He sounds like a teenager to me. I mean I'd rather be ignored and move on to something better, than deal with some teenage type that can't be direct with a feline lady... And Ami, you're so right, if you don't know what you want, than you'll stick to whatever comes your way. I've finally realized that its better to be alone than to deal with people who don't apreciate you. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted September 26, 2010 07:10 PM
Well Racole and Lioness, have fun with those flakey Pisces Men, cause I give up! I don't have the patience for flakiness, so I'm moving on...And remember ladies, don't waste your time on someone who isn't worthy of your affections, there are plenty of "fish" in the sea! =============================================================
Vertiver... OO your lucky I wish I could get away... Call it destiny.. but niether of us can totally get away.. Even if we ignore each other.. He's still there.. IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted September 26, 2010 09:27 PM
Well he lives right by you, maybe that is the problem  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted September 26, 2010 09:41 PM
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I don't care too much about how it ends with someone with who I'm no longer in love with- as long as they know I still respect them.
When you have the deep feelings, it is often an old pattern wanting to heal.
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racole12
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posted September 26, 2010 11:12 PM
Sorry for the late response... LOL. (it's that damn Sun conj Neptune I have) lol. Someone asked me if my NN was in Pisces... nope, my SN is in Pisces @ 23 degrees and my MC is in Pisces as well @ 7 conj to Mr. Pisces Sun and Aphrodite. But, anyway I don't attract to my NN. The closest I come to planets being on my NN is that I have a couple people with some of their Draconic planets conj my NN. Mr. Pisces has this Drac Venus and some other asteroids there. Anywooo... Mr. Pisces is going through transformation. He has emailed me or called everyday. He called me yesterday saying he was getting kind of scared of how strong our connection is but since he made a commitment to be in communication with me even in the face of no agreement (especially when he isn't agreeing with himself) that he knew that was the perfect time to communicate with me. He sent me a short Email this morning (he was going on tour for 2 weeks- he is a Air Force Musician) saying how grateful he was for me, how glad I'm a part of his life and how he wished he would of fight for me 10 yrs ago when I decided to move across the country- asking me to stay. But, that's the past and here we are again. We have some truly awesome aspects so I'm not surprised we haven't forgot about each other over the years. So... we'll see! lol IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted September 27, 2010 01:49 AM
He sounds manipulative, like he knows that you like him, so he tries to get your attention. And how old is this guy, Lioness? He sounds like a teenager to me. I mean I'd rather be ignored and move on to something better, than deal with some teenage type that can't be direct with a feline lady...
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YESSSSS!!!! this is the problem! He cant deal with me directly... He's testing me to "see" if I like him... He's playing games...
Which Im not going to fall for, nor give into his game plays... Ive "maybe" made it clear, that he he has something to say, he just needs to say it.... ==================== What's really weird.. He IS a very DIRECT and BLUNT person.. Man this guys words can knock anyone to the floor.. His words can be very powerful.. He tells people what he thinks right off the bat.. Trust me I have seen him "go off" and he wins every time..
He would tell a girl I DONT like you.. go away, and not even think twice about it.. EXCEPT for me.. HE just freeze's IDK.. HE cant say anything Straight out, unless I **** him off, then he will tell me. I dont want to argue about what you think...
He at one point did come to be out of the blue, and said some really sweet things, and just knocked me off my feet.. He did tell me how I had him feel, but not how he feels about me.... Then he didnt give me time to respond, he said he had to go, and hung up.. It was never spoken of again. sigh.. so if he wants anything he needs to say it.... Im not going to give into his game play, and answer his test questions... blahhhh...
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racole12
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posted October 05, 2010 04:44 PM
Update on my Pisces... He is keeping his word and has been in contact everyday and he is starting to actually make concrete plans with me (something he totally hates to do). So, I guess Male Pisces will go thru transformation when they are ready? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 05, 2010 04:47 PM
AWESOME, Racole  ------------------
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oneruledbymars
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 05, 2010 06:07 PM
I have a PIsces Mercury, Venus, SN and DC...and a Moon Conjunct Neptune..Sun Trine Neptune...I just adore Pisces men. Always have always will, obviously I get them..lol
They can be a bit elusive I must say, but so can I.
My Aries Mars and Venus...and Virgo Asc help me out alot though.I dont think its that they are so wishy washy as it is that they have a hard time expressing how they feel and laying everything out on the line first...usually they have been forced to put up boundaries to cope with all water spilling everywhere there entire life...and unless they are aware of the those boundaries then they cannot begain to break them down alone until they see your 'halo" Is almost like if you really want them you have got to pursue them and lay your emotions out...I have a remedy for there elusiveness though. Dont pursue them unless you feel in your gut he is 'the one" because they can sense it everytime...but if you think he is the one you will lay it all out on the line at all cost and if he thinks your the one...then he will certainly swim with you, trust is something they find hard to come by so when they do trust you...they trust you hook line and sinker, just becareful not to take advantage of them...treat them gently and kindly..stroke there little egos everytime the swim back and act like you dont care when the swim away...really you dont if you trust they will always come back.
Just dont acknowledge that he is following you and dont make direct eye contract, freaks them out everytime! LOL (just teasin) Love this thread though..you ladies need a talk show...Lioness needs to be heard, you had me on the floor rolling Lioness....I can hear it "oh no he didnt"...*hands on hip* IP: Logged |
mir
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posted October 05, 2010 06:56 PM
My pisces update;- since thursday in a mental hospital
- the world doesn't want to understand him, too expensive
- we're fighting against the blind around us
- every day to the clinic
- we played ping-pong this evening (he won) And.. most of all; we're strong together - these days are THE days! to make a move4life start - as our NN/Moon he/me in Scorp is right conjunct T Mars@!!!! (almost) more pisces updates to share?
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted October 05, 2010 07:30 PM
Dear Mir,
What are you saying--HE went in to a mental hospital?
Why?
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Ami Anne
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posted October 05, 2010 07:32 PM
Dear ORBM
Brilliant description of Pisces. WHY would I think less from you, Boyfriend 
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mir
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posted October 05, 2010 07:58 PM
Maybe later Ami, it's sleeping time here..
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Lioness
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posted October 05, 2010 08:02 PM
Lioness needs to be heard, you had me on the floor rolling Lioness....I can hear it "oh no he didnt"...*hands on hip*
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LMAO..... YES... he only hears what he wants to hears... I guess I have reached my breaking point... Which I think he likes (throwing hand up in the air)..If he's got something to say, he needs to say it... PERIOD.... The other day I was on the phone, and he walked near me, and then stopped and looked at me.. With his eyes, was saying I want to talk... I looked back at him and kept talking...
I know he wanted to tell me something... but he didnt say it, so he didnt get the chance.. Its easy Pisces HEY Lioness I have to tell you something!!! Guess What!! nope he wont, he will just stare at me...
So be it then... I kept talking on the phone.. He rolled his eyes and walked away.. raspberries pisces....raspberries... Call it mars opps mars.. or Uranus or what ever... Im not playing his way any more.. Spit it out, or move on...
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oneruledbymars
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posted October 05, 2010 09:31 PM
He does Lioness,
I have two friends like that, that I just recently had to cut out of my life two very close friends.
So Im not so sure that it is his Pisces Sun Sign as it is the fact that he is a coward as a man.
Any man who cannot express his feelings openly is a shell of a man. It takes confidence to express your emotions.
So Im with you...stick a fork in him he is done.LOL...I so wish I would have been there to see that look you gave him when he wouldnt say anything and you were on the phone....Me thinks you and I could raise some hell together! lol IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
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posted October 05, 2010 09:36 PM
Ami Anne I have fallen in love with you in one day....will you be my Soulmate?... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 05, 2010 09:44 PM
ORMM.. LOL
Yeap lets raise that hell! I forgot to mention I said "WHAT!" with my eyes... when he didnt speak up, I turned away. so I didnt see his expression, but then I looked back bc he was still standing there looking at me and he rolled his eyes and walked away... YEAH go swimming... Dont let the tidal wave bring you back to shore! Im soooo done.... (yeah right) lol..... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 05, 2010 10:38 PM
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Ami Anne I have fallen in love with you in one day....will you be my Soulmate?...
Dear ORBM
I read this and my stomach ached. It has been aching all day cuz I have so many emotions. I came on LL and decided I was gonna be real. I thought everyone would hate me.
I thought I was no good, worthless, a throw away person.
I was so touched when I read this. I am crying,now.
I never thought I could be "me" and people would like me.
I thought I had to be bigger and better and more ,more .
I didn't realize you could be unsure, real about your fears,insecurities, even your loves.
I never realized it was OK to love. I thought that was stupid and naive ,too.
Thank you for what you wrote.
I bet you didn't realize it would touch me like that but it did.
It touched me way down deep.
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oneruledbymars
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posted October 05, 2010 11:43 PM
Awww..My ego didnt...but my soul did... *hugz* to you...and remember this and it goes for life too.
If people in your world cant accept you when your broken.
If they cant see your faults and love you anyway then you dont need them in your world.
You are you...simple enough and you are good enough.
They are syphoning your Energy through an attachment to your Chakric system if they make you feel lower based emotions, cut them out of your life if they dont heed your warnings to stop. It may sound far out to you and it may not, but it stands that its true. You have to protect your Energy from people like that.
I have a firm belief that the people that I share the most intimate Energy connections with must see my greatness as I see theres. Thats the only way I will ever be the person I want to be.
The moment they have begin to tear you down is the moment they have lost respect and compassion for you, simple as that. And that is not your problem that is theres. Because most of the time it is because they no longer have compassion and respect for themselves...DONT LET THEM PROJECT...as long as you are centered in your heart and you are coming from love....(and you know when you are and when you are not by how you feel)...then the Laws of the Universe will work in your favor by bringing postive Energy in to replace the bad that you kicked out..The Universe is simply waiting for you to say enough is enough, its like standing up to bully on a play ground...enough is enough.
Now this doesnt mean that your intimate associates spare the truth when it hurts....Saturn must play his part ...but so must Jupiter. It simply means that when they give you the truth that hurts its on a silver platter and not a trash can lid...and I dont know about you but like my meals served on a silver platter. xoxo IP: Logged |
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