posted October 28, 2010 01:07 PM         

I seduce. Both men and women. Psychologically. And I don't really know why. I'm a very probing person, so I cross boundaries and demand to know absolutely everything about a person. I think somehow, though, this sharing of your "true" self triggers something sexual in us though, because most of my friends, regardless of sex or sexual orientation, have admitted loving me, or wanting me once.

It's happening right now, which is why I'm writing this. I've just met a girl who I'm going to be making a Film with. I can feel her being charmed. From what I know, she's straight, and so am I. SO WHY!!! I don't consciously mean to, but I think subconsciously I'm sure of exactly what I'm doing. She has Venus in Scorpio, conjunct my ASC. A similar thing happened to a girl I know with Moon in Scorpio (I'm a Scorpio Riser). Is this abnormal? I think it must be. I feel so disappointed in myself. I feel manipulative, and a disgrace.

posted October 28, 2010 03:29 PM         

Especially being single I wear the low cut shirts and if there's someone I'm going to be around who I'm attracted to I'll take more notice in how I look. Also how I act to them. I'll be sure to send them a flirting glance and smile...be more girly.

Kind of funny because I was talking with a co worker about this and she laughed and told me that my idea of flirting was a minimal effort lol. She said I'd need to try harder to get the point across that I'm interested.

posted October 28, 2010 04:13 PM         

Sag Sun, ASC and Mars with Aqua Moon speaking here

posted October 28, 2010 04:27 PM         

Sorry Meta, I promise I won`t continue derailing your thread.

posted October 28, 2010 04:40 PM         

Re sexual attraction - It's got nothing to do with gender. It's about the soul.

I'd thought you'd figured that out by now?

posted October 28, 2010 05:22 PM         

Are you feeling guilty that you are "getting" a person under false pretenses.

Please explain what you mean by "seduce".Give examples and details if you can.

posted October 28, 2010 06:49 PM         

--- If so, why?---

Because it's my way of connecting and getting close to someone in the initial stages. I feel like I want and need to know more about them, and people seem to open up easily when seduced lol
I like knowing a lot about people.. Out of curiosity and a willingness to help if needed. I don't use what I know in any way.. But I seem to gather so much info.
It's like I bat my eyelashes.. Figuratively speaking - and there goes the story of their life pouring down.

Maybe it's also a Neptune thing. Neptune is conjunct my Mars and trine Venus.

I feel kind of detached in the process. I only feel curiosity for this new person.

--- How do you go about doing this? ---

There is no set rule at all. It's something I do on an instinctual feeling level. It's not something I plan or pre-think. It really depends on the person I'm seducing because I go along with their waves. I listen a LOT.. I feel out the situation. I get a good idea as to what they want and what they'd like.

posted October 28, 2010 07:05 PM         

I'm not overtly setting out to entice anyone. I'm not promiscuous- in fact I am so completely picky that you have to be a superhuman for me to even entertain the thought (Venus opp Neptune/Saturn). But I have a psychological need to know everything about someone- friend, foe, lover, whatever. I just LIKE knowing. SO I ask personal questions. I like taboo topics. People open up, they give me pieces of themselves. And somehow, along the way, this translates into sexual feelings. I can feel it happening. Flirtation happens- he or she will start doing little things differently. They'll get jealous if i talk to someone else, or confess i find someone else attractive. They become territorial. I can only rationalize it's because the connection- which 95% of the time is deeper for them than it is for me (probably because i treat everyone this way)- grants me power over the other person. And this Power, whether it truly exists or not, is then misconstrued for romantic feelings.

I don't know if any of this makes sense. I'm just trying to explain it the way that it's been happening to me. I feel disgusting because I think I should almost be up front about myself from the start. A little notice that reads, "Hi, I'm Meta_4. I want to talk to you about all your personal business, but I'm not interested in you."

posted October 28, 2010 07:12 PM         

No. I never really reveal anything about myself. If they ask i'm very vague, and move them back into the spotlight. I only give anything if i feel a connection, and am 500% certain that they will respond to me with the same curiosity and sensitivity I show them.

Starkiss,

It must be a Scorpio thing.

Betty Boop,

From your post I've noted that we're quite different. There is a connection to the Taurus-Scorpio axis, i think (yes, I have Mars in Taurus). How you've said that you just naturally want to get to know someone, and that they normally take some place in your life rings true here.

posted October 28, 2010 08:15 PM         

I guess thats how Venus Cancer/Leo Mars combines..