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Topic: If you give a Scorpio a letter?
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littlecloud
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posted May 16, 2011 08:17 AM
  
I agree with crabbypatty. If he sent your furniture overseas he is not planning on coming back. I'm assuming he sent them by ship?? A container for that is usually about $5,000, more or less. He's got a cappy venus? Well yea he's not spending 5 grand on giving it a try. He's spending the money to live there, forever. No I do not think he will kill you, at least not physically, but you will be dead. Spiritually and mentally. You will feel dead inside, more than now. He's not going to physically kill you because he like this. My guess is he doesn't apologize for hitting you. Therefore he feels you deserve it. You feel like you deserve it for getting into that situation to begin with, for not standing up to him. The fact that you have written about this on here means two things,
1) despite his control you have figured out a way to find a small taste of freedom, which means that you have that chance of getting away from him. Take it.
2) You are already reaching out for help. Everyone here is supporting you, we are all with you 100% If I could I'd fly to brooklyn just to get you out myself. See this situation for what it is. Don't worry about things, they can be replaced. Leave him at the airport if you must, after he boards the plane. But just leave him please. I believe your Scorpio neighbor will help you. Go to him and tell him you need his help. Don't worry about your religion, Allah wouldn't want you to stay with your husband either. He wants us to love one another and treat each other with equality. Your husband cannot and will not do that. Leave him. IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
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From: where the fun is
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 16, 2011 08:30 AM
Take it personally and all who are doing the same thing with the topic starter.If you have a husband - does not care if it is going well or not - and still you are talking about this i'd gladly slap your face(and also who are in the same situ.) on the time i saw you. Because of you girls, my nurturing nature is getting closed and living my life with one night stands or cheating my newly begun relationships. then i become the bad guy... Also statistically girls or women are more cheater than mans. Also i will gladly slap the scorpio man due to responding the attraction even knowing that you are not single. REMEMBER THAT SENTENCE..
"IF YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEBODY FOR HIM, ALSO IT CAN GO FOR YOU, HE CAN ALSO BREAK UP WİTH YOU FOR SOMEBODY ELSE..." DONT FORGET THESE SENTENCES.. IP: Logged |
Venus
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posted May 16, 2011 08:44 AM
esheep123, get out of it now, walk away and never look back if not for your own good then for your little ones.dont go to Jordan.. DONT! put your faith in God and leave that sob!
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esheep123
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posted May 16, 2011 08:49 AM
MertSerimer, you are correct. One should not leave their husband for another person. And one should not cheat or be with someone else, then leave their spouse.Agreed. But see, I did not do that. At all. Thanks for your time. IP: Logged |
RMChex
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From: England
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 16, 2011 09:10 AM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
Take it personally and all who are doing the same thing with the topic starter.If you have a husband - does not care if it is going well or not - and still you are talking about this i'd gladly slap your face(and also who are in the same situ.) on the time i saw you. Because of you girls, my nurturing nature is getting closed and living my life with one night stands or cheating my newly begun relationships. then i become the bad guy... Also statistically girls or women are more cheater than mans. Also i will gladly slap the scorpio man due to responding the attraction even knowing that you are not single. REMEMBER THAT SENTENCE..
"IF YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEBODY FOR HIM, ALSO IT CAN GO FOR YOU, HE CAN ALSO BREAK UP WİTH YOU FOR SOMEBODY ELSE..." DONT FORGET THESE SENTENCES..
MertSerimer, Did you mean to sound so hurtful and judgemental towards esheep123? Do you genuinely consider it is your right to slap anyone concerned in this situation? Healthy discussion is encouraged on here, as it was by Linda Goodman herself - but to my mind, all your post does, is put down a person who is obviously struggling emotionally at the moment and has, in fact, done nothing wrong at all. She has never even acted on her feelings! (Not that it would be our place to criticise her if she had!) The LindaLand rules of conduct ( http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum25/HTML/002442.html ) state this: "You agree, through your use of this service, that you will not use this bulletin board to post any material which is knowingly false and/or defamatory, inaccurate, racist, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, obscene, profane, sexually exlicit, pornographic, threatening, personally insulting of any member" and although I am not a moderator, I would consider your above post to be abusive, threating and personally insulting. I am appalled. ------------------
Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
wal2
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posted May 16, 2011 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
Take it personally and all who are doing the same thing with the topic starter...
As an adult you should know better than to blame others for your problems. You are the one who has chosen to close up your nurturing nature. "IF YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEBODY FOR HIM, ALSO IT CAN GO FOR YOU, HE CAN ALSO BREAK UP WİTH YOU FOR SOMEBODY ELSE..." What's the point here? You are focusing on superficial justice when the real fact of the matter is the relationship needs to be dissolved no matter who initiates it. If he left her it would be a blessing just as much as it would be for her to leave him. If you truly empathize with the abusive husband in this situation, perhaps you're just as emotionally negligent and horrible as him, and that's YOUR choice. Leave your bitterness over your own failed relationships out of your judgment of others who did nothing to you. Your negativity is toxic in this thread. IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
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posted May 16, 2011 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by wal2:
As an adult you should know better than to blame others for your problems. You are the one who has chosen to close up your nurturing nature."IF YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEBODY FOR HIM, ALSO IT CAN GO FOR YOU, HE CAN ALSO BREAK UP WİTH YOU FOR SOMEBODY ELSE..." What's the point here? You are focusing on superficial justice when the real fact of the matter is the relationship needs to be dissolved no matter who initiates it. If he left her it would be a blessing just as much as it would be for her to leave him. If you truly empathize with the abusive husband in this situation, perhaps you're just as emotionally negligent and horrible as him, and that's YOUR choice. Leave your bitterness over your own failed relationships out of your judgment of others who did nothing to you. Your negativity is toxic in this thread.
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Rm
MertSerimer,Did you mean to sound so hurtful and judgemental towards esheep123? Do you genuinely consider it is your right to slap anyone concerned in this situation? Healthy discussion is encouraged on here, as it was by Linda Goodman herself - but to my mind, all your post does, is put down a person who is obviously struggling emotionally at the moment and has, in fact, done nothing wrong at all. She has never even acted on her feelings! (Not that it would be our place to criticise her if she had!) The LindaLand rules of conduct ( http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum25/HTML/002442.html ) state this: "You agree, through your use of this service, that you will not use this bulletin board to post any material which is knowingly false and/or defamatory, inaccurate, racist, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, obscene, profane, sexually exlicit, pornographic, threatening, personally insulting of any member" and although I am not a moderator, I would consider your above post to be abusive, threating and personally insulting. I am appalled.
@wal12
Where is the adult part in these situation? What i said is completely true. So sharing my past does not CHANGE THE FACT that you are wrong. Dont lead aside what i said. @RM @wal12
Dont twist what i said. esheep123 understood what i said and agreed with me(the post below me). I think you are mad at me because you are prone to cheating as well. Just leave your husbands before cheating. It is at least better and more moral than cheating. People generally SLAPS due to unmoral acts and yes indeed it is. "Slap" is said to show how wrong you are thinking or doing... "Threat"? HUh? just look at dictionary what it means. Punishment and threat are different things  . Now dont say "who are you to punish me? I am noone. This is the point about punishment.... Also put yourself on your husband in this situation. EMPATHY is nearly solution OF ALL PROBLEMS.
What would you feel when you learned that your lover had a conversation like this in a forum? esheep123
By the way since this is astrology part of forum. Are you having Uranus square or opposition N.Venus or N.Uranus transits?
Or Venus in 12th house? Or you have have moon or venus in 12th house natally? IP: Logged |
RMChex
Knowflake Posts: 452
From: England
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 16, 2011 01:38 PM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
@RM
I think you are mad at me because you are prone to cheating as well. Just leave your husbands before cheating.
I am a Scorpio... I don't get mad. ------------------
Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
Maka
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posted May 16, 2011 01:48 PM
I believe your Scorpio neighbor deeply cares for you and is worried about you well being and thats why he continues to check up on your and your kids, but given the situation with his wife I don't believe there is much he can do.From the way you described her and her actions towards you in a previous thread, I feel she already knows what's "up" between you two..thus why she has displayed such atrocious and vindictive actions towards you in the apartment complex. She probably has him on a short leash and the minute he tries to actually "reach out" to help you..I believe she'll strangle him with it..if you know what I mean. I agree with the previous posters that you and your kids need to go to safe place, away from your husband. The two hugest red flags was that he didn't even bother to tell you about tickets, or plan the round trip with you. He left you and the kids in the dark about his plans.. ..And two he moved all the furniture there. He's planning to stay there in the long run all the while desperately trying to convince you this is for the best without even listening to you, or children's input. Please, don't let this scumbug drag you and your children into a terrible situation. There is still time and if he does try to come after you, I would seriously call the police. IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
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From: where the fun is
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 16, 2011 01:50 PM
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Originally posted by RMChex:
I am a Scorpio... I don't get mad.
Her neighbor is Scorpio too. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted May 16, 2011 02:09 PM
MertSerimer- I am betting her husband was abusive before she developed any feeling for her neighbor. More importantly a real man would just walk away and leave the relationship once he saw it wasn't working. I also believe it is unethical to marry someone for anything other than love. When this is done the relationship is tainted from the beginning. This is why I am not so fond of arranged marriages. I don't care who you (general you) are and what your reason is, hitting another person, laying your hands on them is absolutely disgusting. (In a case of a relationship, man or woman) It clearly shows lack of communication and love and therefore the couple should not be together. Furthermore I think it is difficult for anyone to empathize with a person that continuously abuses other people. esheep- Leave. Now. Yesterday. Just do it. IP: Logged |
RMChex
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From: England
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 16, 2011 02:11 PM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
Her neighbor is Scorpio too.
Maybe I'm secretly her neighbour...? ------------------
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crabbypatty
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posted May 16, 2011 02:20 PM
esheep,If you go to Jordan, it might be like a SHEEP going to the slaughter. You've already said he hits you. You've already said he knows you want a divorce. He can't be pleased with you. He seems a bit conniving, given all the other tidbits you've brought up. Men have been know to kill their wives. Look at Scott Peterson. HOW do you know he is not planning on killing you once you are all in Jordan? How? "Oh, Chief Inspector, it's a terrible thing. I left the apartment to buy milk for the children, and I came back, and the door to the terrace was open, but my wife was not there, only the bucket and the mop. And then, I leaned over and there she was - splat - on the ground. She must have slipped and fallen over the edge. Oh, my boys, my boys, who will raise my boys?" "My dear Mr. [insert last name], we are all horrified that this tragedy could befall your beautiful family. May Allah give you strength to get over this horrible death. I am sure your wife was a lovely woman." Fast forward two weeks... there has been no police investigation of the circumstances of the tragedy. Nobody suspects your husband, and nobody cares enough to dig deeper, because nobody in the neighborhood even knew you. Your parents are not there to make noise. Your boys cry every night, because they have been left in the hands of a father none of them love. Call me dramatic. IP: Logged |
wal2
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posted May 16, 2011 02:20 PM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
@wal12
You are not trying to help anyone with these posts, just cut others down and pass your ignorant judgment upon them. If I were a moderator you would be gone. I wish you luck in life overcoming the repressed anger, belligerence, and immaturity you've shown to me that you harbor inside. That's really all I can say to you. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted May 16, 2011 03:01 PM
yes esheep let's have a look at your natal before you make this change.I don't know why but I have bad feeling about leaving yourself vulnerable and in a foreign country with children.
We definately don't want you to get stuck. As for putting your parents out
it would probably be a huge relief for them. Mert, be nice IP: Logged |
esheep123
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posted May 16, 2011 03:31 PM
I have talked with my mom. SHe's not exactly thrilled. SHe's actually a lot like my husband was when I grew up. They actually have the same birthday a year apart. He's older. But it's out there now that I want to go home.As far as Scorpio's wife, Maka, or anyone, why would she keep Scorpio on a short leash, and I don't understand what she could do with it. I don't think she would be on to us, He is a Scorpio after all... And why is he being so obnoxiously loud lately? He has no qualms about yelling LOUDLY, and being noisey. WHat could be going through his mind at this point? IP: Logged |
RMChex
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posted May 16, 2011 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by esheep123:
I have talked with my mom. SHe's not exactly thrilled. SHe's actually a lot like my husband was when I grew up. They actually have the same birthday a year apart. He's older. But it's out there now that I want to go home.As far as Scorpio's wife, Maka, or anyone, why would she keep Scorpio on a short leash, and I don't understand what she could do with it. I don't think she would be on to us, He is a Scorpio after all... And why is he being so obnoxiously loud lately? He has no qualms about yelling LOUDLY, and being noisey. WHat could be going through his mind at this point?
Woo hoo for talking to your mum... have you decided you're not going to Jordan? Who's being loud and noisy? Scorp? In what way? ------------------
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maira
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posted May 16, 2011 03:39 PM
I'm thrilled that you brought up the topic with your mother!! I don't know how much she knows about your situation, so maybe she is just sad that you are contemplating separation from your husband... What did you father say? Do they live close by, so you could keep seeing Scorpio neighbor as a friend at least? I think your friend may be under a lot of pressure at this point and that that's the reason for his behavior. IP: Logged |
mochai
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posted May 16, 2011 03:39 PM
Well do things the right way too. Maybe scorpio's not the one but the role he plays is right. I think it'll be better at your mother's than it will be in Jordan. I'm sorry you went through that. Going to be praying for you that everything works out and you get a good paying job etc.  I don't know what your religion is, but ask god and the angels for help. You have everyone's support here, except for maybe mert.  IP: Logged |
esheep123
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posted May 16, 2011 03:44 PM
My mother is asking me to talk to dad. I will tonight I guess. after work.I didn't mention that my mothers house is a full house. My brothers are married and they live there too with their wives. It's a pretty full house, and we would be somewhat of a burden. My parents I mentioned before, have watched me make bad choices in the past, so I do realize that they will not interfere, but be there regardless. My mom knows everything. From the lack of respect to the non existent sex life we have. IP: Logged |
RMChex
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posted May 16, 2011 03:48 PM
That's great that your mum knows what all is going on, and I think you're right to talk to your Dad tonight. Good luck sweetie.------------------
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wal2
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posted May 16, 2011 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by esheep123:
My mother is asking me to talk to dad. I will tonight I guess. after work...
Trust me, it should not a burden to your parents to protect their daughter. I'm so happy you talked to your parents. I am wishing the best for you and I feel like this is what is meant to happen. IP: Logged |
maira
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posted May 16, 2011 04:25 PM
esheep, you have the right to live there as much as your brothers. I don't think that they are considered "a burden" and that your parents won't feel this way about you either, especially since it's clear that it's a temporary situation. They are your parents and they love you. I remembered that you mentioned that they are air heavy, I have the same problem with my mom. She loves me with all her heart and soul, she just doesn't know how to show it. And I know that she'll always be there for me. Good luck and many blessings! IP: Logged |
esheep123
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posted May 16, 2011 04:56 PM
 If anyone has some Astrological guidance on this whole thing... Such a mess. IP: Logged |
esheep123
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posted May 16, 2011 05:08 PM
He's out there now, planting seeds with my kids. They asked him if they could plant seeds with him. He's doing it with them. What do I do?SIGH BY THE WAY. IP: Logged |
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