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samsaoule
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posted June 26, 2011 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a “problem” with Sun conjunct Venus men or in general, with men having a strong Venus in their birth chart, because...I often fall for them.

I mistake their desire to charm and seduce ANYONE for conscious love manoeuvre. I think they are often not aware of being seductive and intimate (even touchy) with people and I misread the signs for true personal love. What do you think of them and if you are a venusian man, are you aware of your effect on other people? xD

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posted June 26, 2011 04:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please share your experience and advice

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posted June 26, 2011 05:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 26, 2011 05:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
i have this if you'll allow 10 degrees apart or a lil wider. also sun and venus in taurus 7th. so i'm not really sure if it's the conjunction i feel or the planets in taurus or the planets in 7th.

"They tend to rely on the power of attraction to bring people to them, rather than aggressively pursuing love interests. There is some vanity involved here—they are most attracted to people who express interest in them, or who respond well to their charms! These are not the types of people who overtly pursue people who appear to be indifferent to them?something that Sun-Mars people might do. They are not competitive people in the aggressive sense of the word, and they are not people who love a good chase. Instead, they work their charms and draw people to them. Remember that their ability to attract others (Venus) is very much tied up with their ego (Sun)."

it's not so good for the guy IMO. we'd be easy targets for aggressive pretty women. plus if they know some astro and read that we're like sitting ducks! for shure they'd know. it's tied to ego.


LMAO.

So, what should be done (or not) to seduce men with this configuration? Just let them come to us and be strong enough not to fall for them before they fall for us? Lol

I think venusian people know how to take their pleasure/fun where it is in a quite easy and (maybe) superficial way, but it can be quite hard to deal with them if we are intense, deep individuals, because some of us take feelings (maybe too) seriously.

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posted June 26, 2011 05:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've never met a man with his Sun conj Venus.. Interesting!

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posted June 26, 2011 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I've never met a man with his Sun conj Venus.. Interesting!

I think you would recognize them. There is a special underground need for being liked in any relationship and a special voice underneath their talks and acts that say: “Love me for I love you”.

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posted June 26, 2011 06:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by samsaoule:
LMAO.

So, what should be done (or not) to seduce men with this configuration? Just let them come to us and be strong enough not to fall for them before they fall for us? Lol

I think venusian people know how to take their pleasure/fun where it is in a quite easy and (maybe) superficial way, but it can be quite hard to deal with them if we are intense, deep individuals, because some of us take feelings (maybe too) seriously.


hmm k lemme think bout that scenario well if you don't fall for me i'm not falling for you either hehehe! if your gonna wait for me to make a move i could wait a longer time or go somewhere else. maybe mixed signals work or some forwardness without being aggressive. like act shy but you're really moving forward. i panic really when when women are too forward. like holy crap i get to touch that? lol! oh and make them believe they are seducing/ attracting you. it's tied to ego/ sun remember. i guess that's one of the how women make men feel kinda things.

i dunno bout superficial. that could be libra type of venusian. i have a lot of scorpio planets right opposite the venusian ones. pluto conj scorp asc, mar conj saturn in scorpio 1st house.

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posted June 26, 2011 06:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
hmm k lemme think bout that scenario well if you don't fall for me i'm not falling for you either hehehe! if your gonna wait for me to make a move i could wait a longer time or go somewhere else. maybe mixed signals work or some forwardness without being aggressive. like act shy but you're really moving forward. i panic really when when women are too forward. like holy crap i get to touch that? lol! oh and make them believe they are seducing/ attracting you. it's tied to ego/ sun remember. i guess that's one of the how women make men feel kinda things.

i dunno bout superficial. that could be libra type of venusian. i have a lot of scorpio planets right opposite the venusian ones. pluto conj scorp asc, mar conj saturn in scorpio 1st house.


Ok, then one should look shy to you with long intense stares at you. I got it!

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posted June 26, 2011 06:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the only person who i'm aware of his Venus cj. Sun is my partner... so i cannot really judge if it was because of this, but personally he made an impact on me no one else did, when we met. he IS, totally unintentionally, a charmer.

the interesting thing though, is that i also have Venus cj. Sun, and our composite too.

WE, as a couple, seem to draw people. really strange because we are 2 insecure people, we are not rich, we are not doing anything that charismatic or draw attention, but everyone instantly loves us. we really wonder sometimes, "why do they think we are so interesting!?! why do they want to hang out with us??"

i really feel it's because of the Venus/Sun conjunctions in our charts...

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posted June 26, 2011 06:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lechien:
the only person who i'm aware of his Venus cj. Sun is my partner... so i cannot really judge if it was because of this, but personally he made an impact on me no one else did, when we met. he IS, totally unintentionally, a charmer.

the interesting thing though, is that i also have Venus cj. Sun, and our composite too.

WE, as a couple, seem to draw people. really strange because we are 2 insecure people, we are not rich, we are not doing anything that charismatic or draw attention, but everyone instantly loves us. we really wonder sometimes, "why do they think we are so interesting!?! why do they want to hang out with us??"

i really feel it's because of the Venus/Sun conjunctions in our charts...


Yes, and I understand why it is traditionally considered as a lucky planet interaspect, because sun conjunct venus people are so intimately merged with their Venus, their ability to show love and fun in a charming way...No wonder why so many people fall for them. I am so jealous...

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posted June 26, 2011 06:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted June 26, 2011 06:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
hmm k lemme think bout that scenario well if you don't fall for me i'm not falling for you either hehehe! if your gonna wait for me to make a move i could wait a longer time or go somewhere else. maybe mixed signals work or some forwardness without being aggressive. like act shy but you're really moving forward. i panic really when when women are too forward. like holy crap i get to touch that? lol! oh and make them believe they are seducing/ attracting you. it's tied to ego/ sun remember. i guess that's one of the how women make men feel kinda things.

i dunno bout superficial. that could be libra type of venusian. i have a lot of scorpio planets right opposite the venusian ones. pluto conj scorp asc, mar conj saturn in scorpio 1st house.


@Sand, how Mars scorpio would influence other aspects of your charts such as your sun-venus in Taurus? I mean Mars in Scorpio is traditionally intense and I thought it would give natives some kind of sexual agressivity (even coercivity). How does it fit with the rest of your chart?

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posted June 26, 2011 07:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by samsaoule:
@Sand, how Mars scorpio would influence other aspects of your charts such as your sun-venus in Taurus? I mean Mars in Scorpio is traditionally intense and I thought it would give natives some kind of sexual agressivity (even coercivity). How does it fit with the rest of your chart?

i think mine's more "controlled" coz it's retro and saturn conjuncts it a bit. someone mentioned it's like having a switch and i agree. but mars is sex, venus is love. it's possession and obsession. i think they go well together if a little bit intense lol! they're my 2 strongest planets from what i gather. i don't think i'm aggressive or even rough but my drive is high and i do get obsessed.

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posted June 26, 2011 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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i think mine's more "controlled" coz it's retro and saturn conjuncts it a bit. someone mentioned it's like having a switch and i agree. but mars is sex, venus is love. it's possession and obsession. i think they go well together if a little bit intense lol! they're my 2 strongest planets from what i gather. i don't think i'm aggressive or even rough but my drive is high and i do get obsessed.

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posted June 26, 2011 08:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 26, 2011 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great question. That is Darling Mert and my Sweetie Rod.
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posted June 26, 2011 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LMOA! omg! my boyfriend has this..8 degrees. And yeah he is charming, when he wants to be...agressive? hell no! I am more assertive than he is and alot of times that drives me nuts! and that comment about someone who is mars con sun..and how they are different. Holy hell my ex hubby had that, real tight too I think a 1 degree and yeah he is very agressive and yeah very competitive. It was one of the hard things I have had to deal with between the two of them! oh so glad I read this post!

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posted June 26, 2011 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
why thankies, u r sweet!

happy hunting!



Thanks, you too sweet heart!

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Originally posted by seeleah:
LMOA! omg! my boyfriend has this..8 degrees. And yeah he is charming, when he wants to be...agressive? hell no! I am more assertive than he is and alot of times that drives me nuts! and that comment about someone who is mars con sun..and how they are different. Holy hell my ex hubby had that, real tight too I think a 1 degree and yeah he is very agressive and yeah very competitive. It was one of the hard things I have had to deal with between the two of them! oh so glad I read this post!

Lol. So what do you prefer? Men with Sun conjunct Mars or men with Sun conjunct Venus?

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posted June 26, 2011 04:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aya_and_baby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would think they are very charming indeed

But I have to say, I don't think I've ever met - or at least been in some sort of a relationship with - one it's just the first thing that came up in my mind when Sun conjunct Venus was mentioned is that they would be charming, first of all, but also gentle and caring, is my impression.

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My SO has cap sun 29d conjunct venus (retro) & mercury in aquarius 6d orb- pluto trines them. He is indeed charming and it irritates me to no end how these women AGGRESSIVELY pursue him. I never knew females acted like that....lol. He doesn't even realize that he is charming the panties off these women (at least that's what he says)but I think he enjoys the attention. The things they say are sooo off the wall..lol.

I didn't chase him...he chased me. That's how he got me...lol. I let him make most of the moves...even to do this day. Even though I have a wide orb- if it even counts - Sun Mars conjunction- I don't feel like the aggressive one.

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posted June 26, 2011 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StelliumH6     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces friend has Sun conjunct Venus 7*. He has more admirers than any male I know. His male friends look up to him like he is a God. He does not purposely call attention upon himself either. He is smooth and very respected. People want him around. He has told me, You do not have to tell people you are good. They will tell you. He is self-confident, but not cocky.

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I might add that he is such a "girl" when it comes to aesthetics in his home. walking into his home you would swear a woman decorated it but it was all him. he's very in tune to the feminine spirit.

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posted June 27, 2011 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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"Natal Sun conjunct Venus
(Robert Pelletier)

The Sun conjunct Venus represents a strongly developed love nature. Although it may not be apparent to a casual observer, you are extremely eager for people to like you. In fact, you make subtle adjustments in your urge for recognition so that they will be warmly disposed toward you. But you may not always compromise, simply because you don't want to give an impression of being weak in character. In more intimate contacts with persons you know well, you are not afraid they will misjudge you this way, so you behave more naturally.

You especially want people to recognize you as a substantial individual who offerrs
many important values to those who are willing to share them. You are open to
communication with others and will listen enthusiastically in conversation with them.
You enjoy people and are generally cheerful and sociable in large or small
gatherings. On the chance of meeting someone who can be useful at another time,
you take care to circulate freely and 'touch base' with everyone. You know how to
make lasting impressions by dramatizing yourself, for you don't want to be
overlooked merely because you didn't take the time to make your presence known.

Your greatest problem is that you assume people will think well of you even if you do nothing to deserve it. You can become pompously presumptuous that your presence alone is enough to merit everyone's attention. You are a romanticist at heart and can be swayed by a display of affection. Appreciative of the finer things in life, you get a sense of fulfillment when you indulge in them, in addition to the comfort and pleasure they give you."

sounds about right?

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posted June 27, 2011 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the bad side:

“You can become self-indulgent and conceited, believing money and looks will take you farther than is reasonable, but when you see that “Pretty is as Pretty does,” will try to develop inner qualities to complement the glamorous image you project. ”

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