posted July 29, 2011 08:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Thanks guys!

Lioness - That's a crazy story.. That's a whole decade.
It makes sense for Pluto though. Because they can truly amputate the other person. Was Gemini guy upset with you?

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Yeah I guess he was upset when I didnt "wait" for him and moved in with another guy and then got married.. But he didnt stop me, or come to me with his heart.. So then I got married.. Because I wasnt going to wait for him... Plus I was really anger and hurt..
LOL..
funny he called me yesterday right after I posted this... hahahha..
We still talk, we are friends...
He came to my house a few weeks ago.. He ended up spending the night.. BUT.. I say BUTTTT.... we did not have sex... IDK but we just cant... Too much hurt bewteen us?? IDK.... so we just slept (actual sleep) together.. YES really... lol I promise

posted July 29, 2011 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Fascinating thread
I was the Pluto.I don't know who left.It was a mess

This is my question.What if you have OTHER Pluto aspects like Moon/Pluto and Venus/Pluto also.
Can anyone say?

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The Gem (that I spoke about above)
We had
venus/pluto (me venus)
sun/pluto (him sun)

posted November 20, 2012 07:26 AM            

i shut him out. he lied. he broke my heart. he dun deserve to b in my life. He can nvr come back. i fall in love for good. i fall out of love for good.

posted November 20, 2012 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I have a question for people who have experienced a harsh (conjunction, opposition or square) aspect between Mars and Pluto in synastry.
I'm more interested in those people who have had an actual/official relationship with the other... not just casual dating or flirting or whatever else. But you can answer either way...

Question is: Did the Pluto person at some point distance themselves from you, cutting all ties with you?

And.. if yes...
Did you manage to turn things around and convince them to come back or not? (Did you even want them back?)

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I know at least one person I had this with.
I am the Pluto. He is the Mars.
He always started fight, mind games, when things were fine. After about 6 months like that, I got tired of it, deleted chats/emails/phone # and blocked him. He tried adding/contacting me again, I ignored it. Because he is always like that, always games, never serious, never consistent. as if he wants to be hurt, he likes conflicts ,not discussions. strange, I thought he said he is already hurt by some women in the past? of course then he could've just made it all up LOL
Also his Chiron conjunct my Mars. That sure makes it a whole lot more awful than Mars/Pluto alone.

posted November 20, 2012 03:38 PM            

for whatever its worth:
My Mars/Pluto (natal conjunction = Scorpio III
his mars Aqua IV & Libra Pluto II

Because there's that conjunction vs square dynamic ---- it would seem apt to say as the Pluto~ I am pushing away/to get away....and he's just plain carried away (addicted to the relationship/in denial that I'm gone).

I'm pretty certain /most/ of my longer relationships had squares to my Pluto/Mars/Saturn - since most of my lengthier experiences were with Aquarians, Sagittarius, and Capricorns that had Aquarius placements squaring off~

Have had 2-3 experiences of some relevance with Mars in Taurus guys - where my Pluto was in opposition ----- I can only say, I wasn't running anywhere/couldn't get away if I'd tried.

But, admittedly, I've got something of a Taurus sweet tooth... silly, gullible goat. /fml

posted November 20, 2012 04:13 PM            

My ex-husband and I had Mars (me) quincrux Pluto (him) in synastry. I also have Mars quincrux Pluto natally.

Basically, we were having a lot of slight issues that he felt overwhelmed by and was distancing himself from me instead of talking about it and actively work towards improvement (which was what I wanted to do as the Mars person). Things got complicated when one of his female co-workers started contacting me and harassing me out of the blue, as I didn't know her, I never met her, and I also had no idea how the heck she got my contact info (she took my number from my ex's cell phone when he was in a meeting) or knew about my marriage. It turn out, she wanted my ex and since he never talked about his personal life nor mentioned about his wife (me), that the co-worker thought he and I were going through divorce so she can get with him.

That ended up not being true. My ex didn't want her nor did he flirt with her. He was always polite to everyone, and that included her as his co-worker. My ex rejected her and straighten out the issue, she got vindictive and showed selective email and text exchanges between me and her to their work HR dept make it look like she was the victim and claimed that she and my ex were involved and now his "crazy wife" is out to get revenge. She even filed a restraining order against me LOL when I had no idea what she looked like and never met her!

The whole thing was really a big ole mess and strangely that brought me and him closer. Unfortunately, the damage was done and it crossed my mind that if my ex really wanted our marriage to work, he would have tried to make things work but it didn't seem like he tried nor even wanted to put in much effort so I ended up doing a lot of things that I'm not proud of to destroy the marriage for good.

Basically, that episode with the psycho co-worker just opened up a bad Pandora's box. It got to the point of me setting out (as the Mars person) to destroy my ex on every level possible. I was quite successful and I did murder his constitution, his ego, his emotions, and his intellect. I sent him packing and told him to "go home to your father!"

While we were separated, I tried to patch things up with him. I tried to talk with him and apologize for taking part in doing what I did. He kept the silent treatment with me and didn't talk with me. I wanted us to be friends again after the divorce, but he always gave me the silent treatment.

posted November 20, 2012 07:40 PM            

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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
it would seem apt to say as the Pluto~ I am pushing away/to get away....and he's just plain carried away (addicted to the relationship/in denial that I'm gone).

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Same thing happened. when things were good, he kept stirring things up. when I got tired of it, he tried get me back. when I completely dropped him and started making new friends and seeing other people, he kept trying to add me online or show up wherever I was lol I ignored him all the time. If it's done, it's done.

posted November 22, 2012 06:56 PM            

their pMars @ 16 Libra
my n/pPluto @ 16 Libra

This person have a natal Venus conj Pluto. There is also a third person involved.

We share other aspects like Moon/Venus & Moon/Jupiter. However, we became fast friends, really close really fast. Then overnight it seems I was dropped. Suddenly I sensed a discomfort in my presence. Eg, when I entered a circle they would leave it. Or, refusing to answer questions, share jokes. Generally avoiding me. Of course there games are also played.

I suspect most of the distancing is coming from the outside. Eg, they'd look for an escape if we're caught in a one-one-one exchange but will linger if one other person is around - not making eye contact with me of course.

In the initial stages of this phase I sought them out, chased 'em, touch 'em, talk to 'em. I've stopped. Now if I go too long without saying or doing anything, I would get a "Hi, Nine" in passing.

posted April 06, 2013 03:14 PM            

Sun Trine Sun Orb 2.47
Mercury Trine Sun Orb 1.28
Venus Square Saturn Orb 0.30
Mars Sextile Uranus Orb 0.09
Mars Square Pluto Orb 1.34
Jupiter Trine Sun Orb 0.18
Jupiter Trine Jupiter Orb 2.55
Saturn Sextile Saturn Orb 0.02
Uranus Square Venus Orb 1.08
Neptune Trine Saturn Orb 3.03
Pluto Sextile Saturn Orb 0.43
My BD 11/17/1982
His BD 7/14/1978

I feel like this relationship is very intense and a strong need to push him away. I don't think he feels the same though. I am a Scorpio so I usually like intense and he is a Cancer. He does lots of disappearing then comes back to talk to me. It hasn't really gone to far because we are both unavailable. I also feel that my feelings are strong but he has no feelings for more then a classic Cancerian booty call. He came on strong at first but pushed away and keeps me at a safe distance. While I was the one keeping him at a safe distance at first. We have both mentioned feeling a karmic connection at some point. We are defiantly not looking to be together in a relationship, but somehow we just stay talking to each other. Also I have had dreams about us being together that were so vivid and real feeling. Only after waking and looking around I realized they were only dreams and I am alone. Definite sense of longing that I have never had before with anyone else. I think we both feel that the sexual attraction is extremely strong but we are not each others type in anyway.

posted April 06, 2013 05:14 PM            

His mars squares my Pluto, my mars trines his

posted April 06, 2013 08:50 PM            

I've got the same; DW Mars/Pluto (trine + square!) to make that awesome quindecile in the Composite. Orbs the closest of all 0'15/0'22! I'm the Pluto in the trine btw!

Hm.. the colder one?

Euh.. let me think about that

unless you know

edit; srry, it's less impressing than I thought, orbs 0'13/0'35 (the square wins)

posted April 06, 2013 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I have a question for people who have experienced a harsh (conjunction, opposition or square) aspect between Mars and Pluto in synastry.
I'm more interested in those people who have had an actual/official relationship with the other... not just casual dating or flirting or whatever else. But you can answer either way...

Question is: Did the Pluto person at some point distance themselves from you, cutting all ties with you?

And.. if yes...
Did you manage to turn things around and convince them to come back or not? (Did you even want them back?)

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I think that's more of a general Pluto thing than Mars-Pluto specifically. And yeah, there's been some of that. Him putting distance alot, cutting all ties along with me sometimes going "Why won't you leave me alone? Leave me alone" and all that crap.

posted May 05, 2013 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Mystic Melody:
So, how are things working out? Did any of your kill each other yet? Leave each other? Figure out how to get along and live mostly happily every after??

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