posted January 12, 2012 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
YoursTrulyAlways, the composite is "okay"
You at least have most of the planets clustered together on one side of the chart so that's good. That means there is direction and a sense of unity there. However, it doesn't show a very loving chart. There is no love stellium because the sun and venus are not conjunct, the sun and mercury are not conjunct, and the mercury and venus are barely conjunct. Neptune thrown in there is nice, and the sun reining jupiter is nice, plus mars thrown in there means fun times and a tendency to wake each other up. But the relationship is not ery romantic with venus only trining saturn, and the intimacy is not too good either with the moon barely making any aspects.

However, it is a harmonious relationship, and a good friendship. Sun trine jupiter shows that. And neptune in there, too. I guess maybe if you have really good synastry it could be romantic because jupiter and neptune are romantic often, especially neptune, but the fact that the venus and moon are so unaspected worries me about the future of the relationship. Mars theown in there would be what makes a sexual attraction possible. It depends on the synastry, honestly. I'm just saying it's only an "okay" chart. This isnt going to be the love of your life you cant possibly live without.

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Huh?

posted January 12, 2012 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

Huh?

Btw, its a 40% orb chart. There are moon aspects and plenty of others.

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Is this the composite with your wife?

posted January 12, 2012 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Hey lilithpluto, post up the chart!!

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Eh... but no point post up since I dun feel anything for either of them and I err...

posted January 12, 2012 12:04 PM            

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Is this the composite with your wife?

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Of course it is!

Why would I be posting a composite with any other woman? Aren't composites only for those in a serious relationship?

posted January 12, 2012 12:49 PM            

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posted January 12, 2012 01:18 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ok if it is a quick question yeah

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posted January 12, 2012 01:35 PM            

Chart ruler taurus/venus falling in the 7th house of partnership/relationships. If that's not somewhat important, then I don't know what is.

Of course, venus is also conjunct neptune, which yes - it can cause illusions and confusions in the partnership/marriage. But what about the better side of neptune (in which relates more to their relationship)? They are able to become "one" in a sense, through their relationship. Perhaps it is one of those cases where hard aspects of neptune becomes a good thing - that it is an idealized union that is a highly spiritual bond.

But I guess we would have to examine how neptune plays out in their individual charts.

Also - they have a lot of saturn aspects in the composite. I've heard many things (all usually bad) about saturn. But apparently saturn is what held these two people together.

posted January 12, 2012 01:42 PM            

Neptune is very spiritual connection and soulmate connection and very idealistic and beautiful....it doesn't have to be about not seeing clearly and delusions. I have always been able to see clearly people's strengths and defects and still have feelings for them and I think this is bc my strongest planet is neptune and my sun sign and mercury are virgo so I see the defects but choose to love unconditionally and in synastry and composite I like neptune aspects and find them to facilitate unconditional love not an aspect that facilitates delusions etc....

posted January 12, 2012 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
H yourstrulyalways i have to go but taking a quick look ur more than fine....the other composite did not show all those aspects...why did u make it that way?

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posted January 12, 2012 02:10 PM            

Note my natal Neptune is in the 9th House and her natal Neptune is in the 5th House. My Neptune relates to God and Christianity.

Her Neptune relates to her second profession as a supporting movie actress (yes, she has an actual film repetoire, and some of the movies are Spike Lee's), and her main profession as a fashion model and fashion designer. It highlights the creative talent aspect.

In my case, Venus and Neptune go together.

She wouldn't have marrried me if I were not a Christian. I would just be some other blah blah guy. When I met her, she had FIVE active marriage proposals and five actual wedding engagement diamond rings to show for it. One was from a man with over $50 million dollars of *net worth*.

This is what I found about Neptune the 5th House:

Neptune in the 5th house often has strong acting ability, and this combination also indicates creative talent. The individual is usually highly romantic, and they can be enchanting and seductive as the siren. There is a longing and willingness to abandon the self and be swept away by love, and those with this placement are in love with love. However, the person has to be careful not to place romantic love on unrealistic pedestals or chase unavailable partner's, and they often fall in love with the image of someone rather than the real person.

With Neptune in the 5th house the person may have to examine the glamorous and illusory nature of lovers, romance, children, and creativity. This can manifest in the longing to have a child to feel totally fulfilled. Neptune in this sphere may also suffer disappointment and disillusionment when lovers or even children fail to live up to their dreams. Various people with this combination get themselves involved in unobtainable love affairs, and they can be extremely easy to seduce. Yet, it is said that through sacrifice and suffering the artist emerges.

It is also possible that these individuals have a child, who is artistically gifted. On the negative side it is also possible a child slides into drugs and alcohol, or they are sickly and weak. The youngster can be intuitive and sensitive, and they might be impressionable and gentle. Occasionally Neptune in the 5th house may lose a child, and this brings its own particular kind of suffering. Sacrifice may be made on the part of children, and if difficultly aspected they may feel martyred and turn to the child for salvation.

Where Neptune is placed we feel we want to do something good and pure. Many people with this position have adopted children, and sometimes it’s through the difficulty of having their own child. The need to make some kind of sacrifice is signified here, and these folks can also work with children. There are no boundaries where Neptune is placed, and so it is easy for them to enter into the imaginative and make-believe world of a child.

posted January 12, 2012 02:20 PM            

I love that minor triangle of Venus-Pluto-Neptune in your composite. Very nice.

YTA,

your composite is absolutely fine, from several perspectives. And you know your synastry.

Just adding one more nuance to it:
the ruler of the DESC, Pluto, conjunct the ruler of the MC, Uranus, both being placed in 5th house.
A relationship with a purpose of becoming official and visible to the world, and an important area has to do with romance, erotic and children.
Pluto in the 5th is intensely erotic, just as BML there. And Uranus in 5th - did you come together very quick? Was it love at first sight?

BTW, even though some may not agree with me, astrology is a part of reality.
If the chart does not seem to reflect the reality, then either people are not seeing clearly what is really happening (which is more than unlikely in your case; time has already proved you right), or, and that is more often the case, the astrologers miss something important.