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Topic: The Detached Lover: Moon-Uranus Person
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 26, 2018 12:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Thanks for bumping this, my lover has this aspect and is very fitting. Great article.He has venus in scorpio with moon square uranus, he wants to be possessed freely.
How does this sit with your chart hyp? Especially with your all your Leo needing that attention when he detaches? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5004 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 26, 2018 12:56 PM
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5004 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 26, 2018 12:57 PM
Are people with this aspect capable of having long distance relationships? Whether it be the soft or hard aspects?IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 26, 2018 02:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: How does this sit with your chart hyp? Especially with your all your Leo needing that attention when he detaches?
hahahahaha Ummmmmm LOL Well........ Its pushing my comfort zone that is for sure. Good catch love hahahaha We are opposites in that sense but since my chart ruler Jupiter conjuncts Uranus I understand and need space too even though my Venus conjunct Mars in Leo wants a lot of attention. So it plays out strangely for me, if I find someone that gives me a lot of attention eventually my Jupiter conjunct Uranus will not like it, if I find someone that is uranian and somewhat distant, I admire it and feel drawn to it but it also frustrates me but they will keep my interest bc deep down, the core of who I am and my essence is described very well by Jupiter conjunct Uranus. Lets add that I have venus conjunct mars in Leo in the 8th so I like some mystery and need suspense in love (8th house stuff) so on one hand I want a lot of attention but on the other hand I looove mystery and suspense LOL so you see how I am a weird contradicting one. So if I get a lot of attention the suspense and mystery is gone and then I will lose interest. What a mess LOL. Mind you not only does he have moon square uranus which is his strongest moon aspect but Uranus rules his DC. IP: Logged |
Lerena Knowflake Posts: 1376 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted June 26, 2018 02:31 PM
My boyfriend has Moon conjunct Uranus. I have no idea how the aspect manifests for him, because he doesn't ever need to be alone. We are in an open relationship, but the decision to be in one was a recent agreement and our relationship is long-distance, which is what led to the conversation to begin with. In person, we would not need an open relationship.If I was dating any other person with Moon conjunct Uranus, I'm confident they would need room to breathe and my boyfriend's chart just somehow compensates for how the aspect normally plays out. I know I'm a time-consuming investment for anyone dating me, but I still value my alone time. quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: Are people with this aspect capable of having long distance relationships? Whether it be the soft or hard aspects?
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 26, 2018 02:49 PM
I feel the unpredictability of Uranus does keep you on your toes and makes you value more what you have bc you don't know when it will be taken from you, it helps you live life more to the fullest and appreciate each moment.IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 26, 2018 10:38 PM
I feel Uranus is responsible for the quote:"If you love something set it free and if it comes back to you it is yours, if it doesn't it was never meant to be." Hell maybe a moon-uranus person came up with that quote. Its a quote about having faith in the power of love instead of letting fear and anxiety control you and dominate your behavior. Faith after all is the absence of fear. Actually I will say this quote has a mix of pisces/neptune and Uranus/aquarius. Moon in Pisces aspect Uranus Moon in Aquarius aspect Neptune IP: Logged |
FireVirgo Knowflake Posts: 173 From: Registered: Mar 2018
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posted June 26, 2018 10:58 PM
Interesting thread. Wish I had known about this aspect earlier. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 28, 2018 02:37 PM
Lol hyp! You nailed exactly how I feel too! I need the attention and adoration however too much and I start to get a little bored. BUT at the same time I need to feel safe too. But I’m starting to wonder if that’s something I just need to find within. Although a certain amount of stability within the instability of dealing with uranian relationships would be nice lol. It’s trying to find that perfect balance of not controlling and letting things just be and flow but still having some sort of anchor...again from within perhaps ?! My asc conjunct Uranus loves being kept on its toes but all this also scares the s h i t out of me hahaha.
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 28, 2018 03:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: Lol hyp! You nailed exactly how I feel too! I need the attention and adoration however too much and I start to get a little bored. BUT at the same time I need to feel safe too. But I’m starting to wonder if that’s something I just need to find within. Although a certain amount of stability within the instability of dealing with uranian relationships would be nice lol. It’s trying to find that perfect balance of not controlling and letting things just be and flow but still having some sort of anchor...again from within perhaps ?! My asc conjunct Uranus loves being kept on its toes but all this also scares the s h i t out of me hahaha.
You and I are sooo on the same page right now LOL, I so understand were you are coming from! A balance between faith and fear, as a little bit of fear is normal and healthy but too much faith and space can lead to drifting off. You have to water the plant if you don't want it to die, but you don't want to suffocate the plant either or over water it, it needs space to breath and be wild and free but you cant abandon it and you need to nourish it from time to time so it grows strong and doesn't die. I get Uranian types want very low maintenance plants LOL but all plants need some maintenance or they will die. Some suspense and distance makes the heart grow fonder but too much suspense and distance is too much lol, like you said we need some degree of security, its human nature and understandable even if you are Uranian. Honoring that to some extent is important.
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 28, 2018 03:42 PM
LOLLLL!!! Where’the heck is the solution to this balancing act ?!?!?! 😫 when you find it let me know 😂 IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 28, 2018 03:44 PM
And what makes this incredibly challenging is that he is a strong plutonian type with a lot of Scorpio, just like me hahahaha - so it makes it even harder to juggle. I want you to consume me. But I also want to long for you lol.Wtf right! IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 28, 2018 04:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: And what makes this incredibly challenging is that he is a strong plutonian type with a lot of Scorpio, just like me hahahaha - so it makes it even harder to juggle. I want you to consume me. But I also want to long for you lol.Wtf right!
hahahahahahah So true, same with my guy with a scorpio stellium. Its like a double dose of complicated hahahhahahaha Well with his Sun conjunct Venus in scorpio exact, plus pluto and mercury in scorpio and then moon in aries square Uranus is like "I want you to consume me but leave me alone" LOL. Something like that... Consume me and set me free, consume me and set me free, consume me and set free, repeat, repeat. Longing is a beautiful thing LOL  IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 29, 2018 08:56 PM
Girl it’s like you and I are leading parallel lives!!! Hahaha
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 29, 2018 09:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: Girl it’s like you and I are leading parallel lives!!! Hahaha
I mean yes but it turns out this guy lied about his bday, he had good reason, I kind of set it up so that could happen. He is a Capricorn with AC in Scorpio conjunct Pluto Opposite Mars, Venus in Aquarius and Moon in Sagittarius. He has moon semisextile Uranus. I think I bought he was a scorpio bc of his mars opposite pluto and his pluto conjunct AC in scorpio LOL But from the start I remember thinking he felt like a combo of scorpio with capricorn and I blamed it all on the quintiles in his chart I thought he had involving saturn. We do have a highly plutonic davison and composite though like you and your guy.. We have Venus in the 11th opposite Pluto in the 5th with MOON in the 8th squaring that opposition forming a tsquare with moon at the Apex so we have moon square pluto and moon square venus in Davison. In composite venus conjunct pluto and moon square pluto and venus conjunct sun. I feel I will be transformed by this relationship, I feel deeply attached and this sense he will be in my life for a long time, I hope so. I feel he will be a catalyst for changes I need to make in my life and his entrance in my life when tr uranus is entering my 5th is no coincidence. Changes need to happen. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 30, 2018 05:29 PM
Hmm my bf of three years is Aries moon square Uranus exact. He’s independent but he’s also still quite romantic (Taurus Venus). He is also an aqua ascendant. I am a Leo ascendant so I like aqua types. I could never date someone who’s clingy and I couldn’t see him with anyone’s who’s clingy and needy either. I actually think I’m more independent than him. I have Aries Venus conjunct Mars in 9th. The only moon aspect I have is sun conjunct moon and moon trine Pluto. So no moon Uranus for me. You know those couples who dress up as a theme for Halloween? He’s actually suggested a theme costume and I’m like no, I will not dress the same as my bf, I want to be my own identity lol. So, yes, he is independent but not so much where he runs away if I say I want to be more serious or whatnot. He is still quite romantic and we have somewhat talked marriage. I like that we have each other but we also have our own identities. At parties we still talk to each other but I’d say overall we talk to other people separately probably more than we talk to each other. I wonder if there’s a certain type who would get along best with a moon-uranus? IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 30, 2018 11:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I mean yes but it turns out his guy lied about his bday, he had good reason, I kind of set it up so that could happen.He is a Capricorn with AC in Scorpio conjunct Pluto Opposite Mars, Venus in Aquarius and Moon in Sagittarius. He has moon semisextile Uranus. I think I bought he was a scorpio bc of his mars opposite pluto and his pluto conjunct AC in scorpio LOL But from the start I remember thinking he felt like a combo of scorpio with capricorn and I blamed it all on the quintiles in his chart I thought he had involving saturn. We do have a highly plutonic davison and composite though like you and your guy.. We have Venus in the 11th opposite Pluto in the 5th with MOON in the 8th squaring that opposition forming a tsquare with moon at the Apex so we have moon square pluto and moon square venus in Davison. In composite venus conjunct pluto and moon square pluto and venus conjunct sun. I feel I will be transformed by this relationship, I feel deeply attached and this sense he will be in my life for a long time, I hope so. I feel he will be a catalyst for changes I need to make in my life and his entrance in my life when tr uranus is entering my 5th is no coincidence. Changes need to happen.
Ohhhhhh that’s heavy Pluto. I don’t think I’ve ever experienced Venus/Pluto in the composite. That must feel intensely romantic and intense! I’ll be having tr Uranus heading towards my descendant. Not sure if I’d prefer it in my 5th lol but gurl that sounds like a lotttt of dating or maybe pregnancy! 🤰😍
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 30, 2018 11:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I wonder if there’s a certain type who would get along best with a moon-uranus?
This is exactly what I’m wondering. Anyone know?? IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 04, 2018 05:31 PM
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 05, 2018 11:26 AM
I imagine moon/aquarius folks would get along with sun in aquarius or venus in aquarius.My mom has moon parallel uranus and my dad has moon sextile uranus and they both have venus in aquarius. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2610 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 05, 2018 01:26 PM
Hyp, what about what they NEED to help all that unsettled uranian energy. Saturn in the other to ground them? IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 05, 2018 01:42 PM
Perhaps Saturn forming a trine or sextile to their moon but I would think a hard aspect from saturn will be irritating like too restricting for the Uranian person perhaps. But I think what I mentioned earlier would be a better approach like with my parents that they have moons that both have an uranian touch and both have venus in aquarius so is like they speak a similar language and have similar needs overall. With my current guy with Moon in Saggi semisextile Uranus and venus in aquarius my Jupiter conjunct Uranus in the 12th (chart ruler) conjuncts his MOON. I feel this gives me an intuitive understanding of his unique nature and makes me more accepting of it. He also mirrors for me my own nature and we have similar needs. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 05, 2018 01:52 PM
hahahaha Moon conjunct Uranus (SYNASTRY)I Love You, Now Go Away: Moon and Uranus in Synastry: "One with a synastry aspect between the Moon and Uranus would constitute a rather Uranian relationship. As in I love you. Now please go away for a while so I can miss you. There is nothing inherently weird (now there’s a Uranus word) with either partner needing some Virginia Woolf room of one’s own. Unfortunately, it doesn’t always occur that both people are on the same page about the whens and for how longs of that perceived need for space. That’s when suffering occurs. If you’re in deep with someone who’s hooked into your Moon by way of Uranus (cue the raised eyebrows and giggles) you need a good sense of perspective, and a giant heap of I’m cool to take care of myself. Otherwise known as emotional maturity." http://sasstrology.com/2017/04/i-love-you-now-go-away-moon-and-uranus-in-synastry.html ^^What we were talking about earlier, the need to long for each other. So I guess perhaps someone with moon aspect uranus natally would enjoy moon conjunct uranus in synastry. BUT YES SOME SATURN and PLUTO in synastry and or composite will come a long way in these two continuing to come back to each other to reconnect and keep that flame alive. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 05, 2018 02:09 PM
For about 10 years my parents had a long distance marriage were he would come home once a month and then back to the dominican republic to attend to his business there he had to take over bc grandpa got Alzheimer's. It blew my mind how well they dealt with this arrangement and they love each other deeply and have a strong bond. Its the uranian nature ingrained in both. I guess missing each other worked out well for them and strengthen their bond. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 13541 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 05, 2018 02:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: This aspect reminds me of this quote:"The Sea was in Love with the Sand." The sea is wild, mysterious, intense and free, its unpredictable and cannot be controlled but it always willingly returns to kiss the sand.  Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww I love it 
I posted this on facebook and my dad was the only person that liked it. He rarely likes anything and he has saturn conjunct moon so for him to go out of his way and like it, it must have resonated with his moon sexile uranus and venus in aquarius. However my dad is a cap with moon conjunct saturn, he is not unpredictable IMO but he finds people that wave their freak flag interesting, he has made comments in the past about this, I am the same, I like unique people. If anything my mom is the sea and he is the sand, he is at awe with the sea, she is dependable though (also a cap). Perhaps their saturn influence is why they were able to make it work in spite of their uranian nature.
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