posted July 05, 2018 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:

I posted this on facebook and my dad was the only person that liked it. He rarely likes anything and he has saturn conjunct moon so for him to go out of his way and like it, it must have resonated with his moon sexile uranus and venus in aquarius. However my dad is a cap with moon conjunct saturn, he is not unpredictable IMO but he finds people that wave their freak flag interesting, he has made comments in the past about this, I am the same, I like unique people. If anything my mom is the sea and he is the sand, he is at awe with the sea, she is dependable though (also a cap). Perhaps their saturn influence is why they were able to make it work in spite of their uranian nature.

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Aww I love it too! And how sweet he liked it finding it stroke an accord for him!<3

posted July 05, 2018 04:32 PM            

As I always say to my close friends "You don't have to understand me or my point of view. You don't have to understand my feelings as feelings are hard to describe somtimes. But thats not hat I seek for in you, I jus wan't acceptance and support and empathy thats all".

The thing that makes me very much stable is that also Saturn is Oppo my Moon n Mars. And well what I can see, Saturn has the upperhand! Because My moon is 20 degrees Gemini. And Saturn is 20 degrees Sagg.
Uranus is off by 6 degrees at 26 degrees Sagg. So the winner is, Saturn lol!

Also one other thing, its important to look at the houses (as usual). Someone mentioned earlier, how moon-saturn can be aliken a person that acts like a cat. And That is true for me, I really like one on intense interactions with family and friends. But I also love looove my alone time in my own room and space, or running in the forest or sitting by a lake. I really need to detach from people to sort out my feels and thoughts.

I Reload my batteries via deatchement from people. I wanna be close to people, I wanna "belong". But at the same time, I wanna be outside looking in! Its the typical Aquarius/Uranus Paradox!

But more so, this is what I do with family. Because Uranus is in my 4th, moon in 10th. So this part of me, is usually seen by my siblings and parents and guest staying at our home etc. I have lots of earth in my chart and Virgo asc and other stuff to support all this "introversion" though, but I guess Moon-Uranus is a suspect aswell as any in thise matters?

posted July 05, 2018 04:37 PM            

But about stability and Saturn-moon, as said I think saturn has the upper hand on my moon, meaning, I'm not unstable, erratic etc. And I hate, I haate uncertanty! I have to know, are you in or out!?

posted July 05, 2018 04:41 PM            

Your mooon conjuncts my Northnode exact and your Saturn conjuncts my Southnode exact and my Moon in pisces at 21d squares your Moon opposite Saturn on my nodes.

posted July 05, 2018 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
I know its lots of "me me me" when i write in thise forums but anyways (feels a bit a shamed haha)

But about stability and Saturn-moon, as said I think saturn has the upper hand on my moon, meaning, I'm not unstable, erratic etc. And I hate, I haate uncertanty! I have to know, are you in or out!?

I have sadly by bad experience come to see behaviour displayed by an Uranian crush of mine. The more you wan't straightness and certainty of him, the more detached he gets, even though he is vey saturnian and leo :/

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mmmm I think with my chart ruler Jupiter conjunct Uranus in the 12th quindecile my Northnode in Gemini I am here to learn to feel comfortable with uncertainty and to learn to have faith and let go. To let go and let god, to let go and the let the universe do its thing. Universe do your thing!

posted July 29, 2018 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Thank you hyp I’ve read this but I still don’t know what to do when they go into their own detached world and I feel like I’m out in the cold! Do I try and talk to him? Because I’ve tried before and he’s so emotionally not there or avoids confronting me.

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This is the libra with the scorpio stellium?

My ex has sun conjunct uranus in scorpio and he did that shutting down thing at the end and that is one of the reasons I ended it, I couldn't handle it but if I would have just given him space and been patient and waited instead of hopping on a plain and moving to another country we might have lasted a lot longer. Is like I did a series of things around mishandling the issues we were having that made him lose trust in me. He must have felt completely abandoned when I left and moved away. The way I reacted to our issues just made him shut down more and more but that is the part were he screwed up, he should have expressed to me he was hurt and how he felt and he should have fought for me when I ended it instead of shutting down even more.

Now with my current lover who has venus in aquarius and moon semisextile uranus when we hang out I enjoy him very much but the rest of the time he works like crazy 70-80 hours a week and he is not great with texting but he doesn't shut down, he hasn't shut down with me yet, is more like he has never been great at texting from the start, he keeps responses minimal and overall avoids texting. What works for me with him is showing vulnerability to some extent and communicating how I feel and need to be put simply, he seems to respond to that.

With your guy you can text him, "you feel so distant lately, this really hurts."

Depending on what he responds or if he responds I would decide what to say next.

Do you guys live together?

posted January 12, 2019 06:53 PM            

I've got a loose Uranus/Moon opposition (out of sign) in my chart, both conjunct my MC/IC angles, and square to Ceres on another angle). The descriptions here really gave insight and actually helped calm some of my own fears of my emotional self. Thank you!

posted January 13, 2019 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
I'm capable of being committed in a relationship but after one big burn I am having doubts. Maybe later on in life I'll want to be with one person for the rest of my life. But just that thought itself, to commit ourselves to be with one and only person is daunting. Not because I think I'll cheat because surely I'll end up falling in love. However, we're evolving and changing creatures, that to confine ourselves to such a responsibility, could be one of the most binding situations in life. Just knowing myself, that I need a lot of space to be alone, the concept of being with ONE person is just plain scary. I have a lot of earth and water in my chart and I think this fear comes from being grounded. I don't start things or talk about things I am unsure of.
Yesterday I had a very pessimistic thought. I thought to myself that in life nothing is everlasting. Love, to me, is like holding a pigeon in your hand that wants to fly away.

Taurus/12th, Scorpio/6th, Cancer
I realize I'm kind of off topic, but maybe this shows you don't have to have a Moon-Uranus aspect to feel this way.

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posted August 29, 2019 06:51 AM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
I have uranus exact square moon and I'm nowhere near "detached" in my relationships. I live and breathe love. Having said that, I also need emotional excitement, I love to take risks and shock people from time to time.

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Out of curiosity, what’s your Moon, Venus & Mars Signs? How are your Venus & Mars aspected? What sign is on your 5th & 7th House Cusp? Do you have any planets in them? What sign and house are their rulers in?

posted August 29, 2019 06:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Mine is worse.
Neither have any friend nor ever had any single romantic relationship.
May be I will stay Single forever.

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Out of curiosity, how are your Venus & Mars aspected? What sign is on your 5th & 7th House Cusp? Do you have any planets in them? What sign and house are their rulers in?

posted August 29, 2019 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Out of curiosity, how are your Venus & Mars aspected? What sign is on your 5th & 7th House Cusp? Do you have any planets in them? What sign and house are their rulers in?

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posted April 07, 2020 09:36 PM            

Lemme tellllll you I have a HARD time with anyone that isn't already comfortable with a fair amount of individual freedom. I probably won't live with a spouse ever unless, maybe, they also had a Uranus/Moon aspect going on

posted April 08, 2020 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by implosions:
Phew, this is really on point. I have the opposition (somewhat loosely) but Uranus conjuncts the MC and Moon conjuncts the IC.

Lemme tellllll you I have a HARD time with anyone that isn't already comfortable with a fair amount of individual freedom. I probably won't live with a spouse ever unless, maybe, they also had a Uranus/Moon aspect going on

That being said, I adore people with strong Uranus energy. It's so exciting!

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posted April 08, 2020 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
same. my SO and i both have the square. we get along swimmingly even though his big 3 is earth and mine is fire. i think our mirroring aspects is a big part of it. no one, absolutely no one has understood me more. my detachment has always caused problems in the past. i swore off relationships for a long time because of it.

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